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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Ezi1993(f): 7:49pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
NeoWanZaeed:Good evening,,, please link !e to an online job na..so I can add it up to my business. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by luvme0702: 7:50pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
To think that this is only the 13th day of the year with all these horrible news |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ebhaleleme51490: 7:53pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
:What's d root source of the depression? Mine is due to drug addiction. (medical drugs 4 asthma) |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by CoolJul: 7:54pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Kayberg: You are welcome. You are correct about this. You know why it is so? cos we all have our peculiar challenges. We are all fighters but some become WINNERS because they they didn't QUIT. As for the QUITTERS, they are the LOSERS. May God never make us to see what will make us to conceive the thought of suicide. KNOW JESUS, KNOW PEACE! 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by alexola20(m): 7:55pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
I have been battling depression for almost decades. I guess the depression started when my self-centered, selfish and greedy mother left me at my father's house of commotion when I was about 6/7 years when I was in primary 1 or 2,of course with my late brothers ,one of them claimed he was not from our dad as mum claimed and the second and immediate brother was an SS carrier.Since mum left us the children age 10,9 and 6. Man,that was my beginning of my life struggle and I never get it right. The hatelred and suffering we endured in my father's house was not from here. My dad didn't like my elder brother, probably because he knew he was not his.So 3 years later we eloped to go find our mum.So we left home on that monday in 1987. We were brought back to my father's house after a week But my late brother then around 14 years declared he didn't want to live with my dad anymore and he said he was not going to school again as well as he was not really doing well in school as kid because there was no guardian or mentor couples with too much suffering. So my dad let him go and live with my mum but wouldn't let me go because to be honest I too resemble my papa. Rest in perfect peace dad.Eventhough we were not close but I miss you everyday. It was when my brothers left and remained only me in my dad's house of commotion caused by wicked mothers and wives. Now all my brother have died,and I can't stop pointing fingers to our mum. To be honest my mother has been on my matter for a very long time after squandered all my hustle money. Anyway,I really don't see any reason to continue living but the love I have for my kids won't let me do the extreme.And also I don't want my enemies to win this battle. My first suicide attempt was when I was 13/14 years old. Sometimes it's better not be born at all than to be going thru unending depression. NextD18: |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kayberg: 7:57pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
CoolJul: Amen. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by RichDadTwo: 7:59pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
squash47: Suicide is never the answer. I remember my 100lv days vividly; just lost my father and also Depressed, Anxious & Broke. I basically failed half of my 100lv courses. Had really bad self esteem after that. On top of that, the girl I liked didn't even send me at all! I seriously wanted to end my life because I felt I was a failure. Fast forward few years. I'm a Millionaire living a low-key private life. Made over ₦3M From crypto currency trading this lockdown! Sometimes I look back on my life; I'm still shocked. From being dead broke in 100lv to being a millionaire. It's just a phase. Keep going! 4 Likes |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by izubext007: 7:59pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
this is why I don't associate with every body. some people are out there to make u feel less of ur self. God knows the people who made him feel less of him self over this years. guys avoid any guy that will always outsmart you when ever it's come to women affair it's kill slowly. 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by CoolJul: 8:03pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Kayberg:I will keep in touch. Wishing u the best!!! 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by habsydiamond(m): 8:07pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Lashist:OK my Oga.... I will |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Katlyst(m): 8:13pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Cure for depression. 1-Accept that life has its ups and downs. Season for everything. 2-Accept that tough times never last. Only tough people do. 3-Accept that you're still useful to someone in the society. 4-Accept that family & friends will disappoint you a times. 5-Accept that you don't need to compare yourself with others. 6-Accept that social media will harm you more. Stay off Facebook etc. 7-Accept that you have gone too far and hope is on the way. 8-Accept that you need a change of environment and routines. 9-Accept that you need to stay on your lane and follow your pace. 10-Accept that you do what makes you happy and not public opinion. 11-Accept that life is a journey/marathon and not a sprint race. 12-Accept that you need to disconnect yourself from depression influencers. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by dewuyiebun: 8:14pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Kriss216:that word is strong |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by bouqola: 8:14pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
NwaNimo1: You ehn, you just made me laugh loud. Borno kwaaa |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Tbvxl: 8:17pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Nay....why kill yourself man? I've been depressed for past 18 years of my life and I have never thought of taking my life myself . Rip bro |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mindpresh: 8:23pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
arantess: |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Katlyst(m): 8:34pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Katlyst:......... |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by eby001(m): 8:41pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Icetech:When you guys keep shouting church, your pastor is never and will never replace a psychologist. Even it is my own fold that want to drive me into one. I had to leave for my sanity. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by seniormallam(m): 8:41pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
For those saying talk to someone, I got back my sanity when I stopped talking to my friends, i lost my job, they will be talking about millions and cannot give me 10k, they are only using me to complete drinking table and that's all, I will tell them I don't even have #500 but they will tell me not to worry , they will order fish and yoghurt for me, the next thing they will settle bill of 15k and never gave me 1kobo, I gave them space when I heard them saying "who go give who curse dey follow money" they didn't know I was coming, I distance myself from them since I'm now tagged a bad luck, I started thinking straight when I don't have them by my side any longer, I accept reality and moved on, I'm not there yet but I thank God for today, though in everything, suicide never for one day flash my thought. 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by inumidun2010(m): 8:43pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Kriss216: OGA, You are going no where.. YOU MUST SHOCK THOSE PEOPLE.... WHEN YOU STOP HAVING FUN.. Tell the DJ to switch SONGS.. If e no GREE.. throw am PURE WATER... GOD PUNISH DEVIL... 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Well I'm not surprised these set of young men like doing everything the easy way out. Drugs to fvck good, jazz to make money, some can't even make a girl love them without applying jazz, some others consult jazz immediately they meet someone they like, enhanced sexual organs both male and female, surgically enhanced body instead of working out, they're mostly dumb almost all of them ( not talking academics), even their so called hard men are weak in reality ( no level one on one) baming now na backyard that's why u see them shouting and even exposing themselves online... What real men got with blood, sweat and tears plus fasting sef . So its natural for them to find easy routes in everything. See his weak face even while trying to mask his looks with the beards.. No RIP for u. You couldn't find ur balance here and u expect to find it in the afterlife? 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mrkings84(m): 8:49pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Megaflex: Am not, that's just the simple fact.... Although some truth is hard to absorb. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mastermaestro(m): 8:53pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Elsueno: I like your drive. I have a slogan which is, 'there is a way!' Never ever feel trapped or helpless, never! The moment you accept that you are trapped or helpless, you lose control of your mind. Wahala starts! Thank GOD for His mercies and inner strength. 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
mojid22000: When I say people, I dont mean regular people like him. People like men of God, counselors and Psycologists. It's just unfortunate he had to let the world know at death. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by NiklauseFred(m): 8:58pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
NextD18: Depression is no joke. Have had my own share and when I couldn't help it,I tried committing suicide twice(2016/2020) but just happy that I'm alive now. Sometimes life will seem sooo meaningless and worthless. Never blame anyone that commits suicide out of depression. It can get really messy at times. Just happy that the last one I tried didn't work. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by byinks(f): 9:01pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
[code][/code] Hassanmaye: Which part scared you 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by NiklauseFred(m): 9:05pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
ottalo: I pray you heal man |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kayberg: 9:06pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Josyakin: 9:07pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
delishpot:best comment ever� 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Sequence10: 9:19pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Depression is real.. I'm having a mental stress and I know what am going through everyday.. Since March last year that's when it started till now I'm still having sleeping disorder everyday.. Sometimes I do have suicide thought 07045087546 here's my WhatsApp number in case you wanted to reach out to me for advice... After going to many hospital still same thing.. Hospital have exhausted me financially.. Now I'm always thinking about finance + the mental stress now imagine both what am passing through.. The worst part of it is that my family members and friends never understand what am going through.. Any time I complain my mom will start shouting at me that I always like complaining and it hurts me so bad�... Rip for the guy that lost his life...I understand because I'm witnessing it.. Cognitive deficits that's what I'm suffering from... Don't underestimate anyone for complaining.. Try and help them out because it has not been easy with them that's why they're complaining it to you... What they need is advice and consoling thanks |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Depression is really a bad thing. Everyone is fighting his/hers. I'm gonna win over mine, too. It's a matter of time. May God rest his soul |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by omiolota1960(m): 9:43pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
r.i.p young man.i was depressed during december time to extent of commiting suicide but i thank God that i overcome it now.pls contact me 4 ur house painting work contact me on 09065194548.thanks.oluwafemi 4rm lagos |
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