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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Reuben700: 5:31pm On Jan 13
The rich also cry but why angry
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Tekrify(m): 5:33pm On Jan 13
This ur GIF ehnn.. grin grin grin
NwaNimo1:
His punishment should be to reincarnate immediately in Borno state.

Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by privaldo: 5:33pm On Jan 13
Greenishland:
I want to appeal to every Nigerian who is depressed and suicidal not to waste themselves.

You can help us to wage war against Fulani herdsmen or Bandits and die in the process at least it's more honourable to die fighting for others than to just waste your life and perhaps wake up in hell.

You ought not to talk every time, sometimes learn to use your EQ and be human.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by zedegit: 5:33pm On Jan 13
NextD18:
"The noise got too loud, but now the noise can stop"

That statement was deep coming from him. To even think he battled depression for 7 years while carrying out his daily activities makes me believe depression got no particular symptom to get people's attention to you.

You can look and appear like the happiest person alive in the public, social media or gathering, whereas you are mentally struggling and battling a lot.

You can battle it for 10 years without even knowing you are battling depression because you'll have to nurture your system on how to cope and endure overthinking, unrest and no peace of mind. All these will be endured without speaking to anyone because you've gotten use to it and feel it's normal until it hits you to the point you can't endure anymore which normally leads to suicidal thoughts.

Please learn to speak up when you start loosing your sanity and peace of mind.

I am currently battling depression and dying in silence.

How can a full grown man have #9 as his account balance. It's so unfortunate.

I have been trying to find an app to get #50 000 loan all to no avail.

It's getting to the brim
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Raysleek: 5:33pm On Jan 13
Ikpunekenwa:

Just shut the fu<k up, you are just saying nonsense. undecided undecided embarassed lipsrsealed
I don talk my own. Let your keypad shut my keypad up

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Magmata: 5:34pm On Jan 13
He who fights and run away lives to fight another day.

It's hard to see anyone without a form of burden, the only difference is how individual handles it.

The day you stop making others your standard is the day you're born, until then, you're living on probation.

I was lucky to know that what we experience in life is of our own making - whatever a man sows, the same he shall reap.

Birth and death happen in life, not vice versa. Understand this and live a well guided life.

I've been a victim of depression, but the simple understanding that death is nothing but shedding of gross body, prevents me from giving too much room for suicidal thoughts.

Death ends nothing, it's not what you believe.

May we be guided.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Dchampion65: 5:36pm On Jan 13
OscarJaden:
I've also being battling depression too for a week now but anytime I come out on nairaland to talk about it

Nobody will ever give me a listening ear,some will even mock me and call me a scammer...

#it is well


What exactly is causing your depression. What are you passing through that no one has ever passed through before.

Milo is not a drink for champion but perseverance, ruggedness, daily training and faith for greater tommorrow.

The world, this generation and incoming generation are waiting to hear/read on how you overcome your challenge with standing ovation.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by byinks(f): 5:38pm On Jan 13
TOPCRUISE:
One of the ways of battling depression is involving in ngo activities, welfare activities, actively and physically involved in help activities and missions and ministerial activities, emigrating in areas of needs and people who also share your pain.
I pray that help and healing will quickly reach those who are depressed this new year in Jesus Name.

Not true many of these people you mention above also commit suicide.
Many psychiatrists who treat the depressed also end up in psychiatric wards too.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Elsueno: 5:40pm On Jan 13
I remembered when I made an investment blunder with loaned Cash. The funny thing is. I had already used the money in D first place and ready to pay back. Na so opportunity to make quick cash came, instead of paying my loan, I decided to take the risk. Omoh I lost the whole money grin grin grin . Even that did not make me think of suicide, na to run before the owner of D money finish me.

I Japa leave town, collected another loan from my uncle, use half to pay my debt and then the other half to invest again grin grin


Good old days cheesy


R.I.P man, may God forgive you. Amen

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Blackdisciple(m): 5:41pm On Jan 13
Damnnn niggarr
He took his own life God. Suicide wasn't the best option dude
rip bro
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by DollarBuddy: 5:42pm On Jan 13
Depression is deadly.... flee from it.

For me, anytime I feel depressed, I pick my Bible, listen to gospel songs e.g Frank Edwards; "You're Beautiful" or Nathaniel Bassey's "Call on Me." It works magic and takes me back to joyous mode in Christ.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by bewla(m): 5:42pm On Jan 13
Kriss216:
embarassed
LIFE IS LIKE A PARTY, WHEN YOU STOP HAVING FUN, LEAVE.
No I disagree
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by dejavubobo1(m): 5:44pm On Jan 13
Doctee:
He no go find peace him wahala just begin no matter the hardship don't even have the thought of your own life, may Allah ease our affairs
peace custodian. why ll u make such acertion
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by DisLifeSha: 5:44pm On Jan 13
Who can I speak to And if I speak, will help come

NextD18:
"The noise got too loud, but now the noise can stop"

That statement was deep coming from him. To even think he battled depression for 7 years while carrying out his daily activities makes me believe depression got no particular symptom to get people's attention to you.

You can look and appear like the happiest person alive in the public, social media or gathering, whereas you are mentally struggling and battling a lot.

You can battle it for 10 years without even knowing you are battling depression because you'll have to nurture your system on how to cope and endure overthinking, unrest and no peace of mind. All these will be endured without speaking to anyone because you've gotten use to it and feel it's normal until it hits you to the point you can't endure anymore which normally leads to suicidal thoughts.

Please learn to speak up when you start loosing your sanity and peace of mind.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Gmajor(m): 5:48pm On Jan 13
Kriss216:
embarassed

LIFE IS LIKE A PARTY, WHEN YOU STOP HAVING FUN, LEAVE.
I wish it were that simple
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Stockquality: 5:49pm On Jan 13
I don't care. No one does. Only sickos take their life. Why obj or bubu neva take him own life na
Trip440:

your a punk. you don't know how serious this is. if life don't make mean anything to you then your not human.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by DisLifeSha: 5:49pm On Jan 13
Have you not heard that a lot of doctors around the world are depressed

KnightsTemplar:
Depression is real, so sad. May you rest in peace. It is not necessary about life's difficulties, this is a mental state, that that would have required medical attention.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kaybex007(m): 5:50pm On Jan 13
May his soul rest in peace. the hardship the youth of nowadays are going through coupled with social media lies make people do the unthinkable. But as for me BABA GOD, till the end of my days in life, I mean my old age, let me continue to enjoy, have fun in the party life has invited me to. Amin. if you wish yourself same, you can say amen/amin to this prayer.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by abbey621(m): 5:50pm On Jan 13
Cowards often can't see beyond their predicaments, they are so self absorbed that they can't possibly phantom a greater cause or the bigger picture. It's a narcissist complex, why me? Why not me? Who did I offend? Why are things like this? How come?

Depression is real but do you know what is even more real, psychology! You see someone depressed because they have no shoes, show them someone without legs. You see someone depressed because of barreness, show them someone with wayward children hooked on drugs, violence etc. See someone depressed because of poverty, show them someone with all the money in the world but dying of stage 4 cancer or Aids.

Life is all about perspective, this young man acknowledged his mom but that was not enough to stop him, he alluded to part of the fault coming from his dad but he chose to be exactly like his dad and inflict pain on his loving mom. Forget religious angle, forget societal angle, this young man just couldn't see beyond his predicament, to him the rest of the world can go screw itself. For people like this, even the best medical and mental help won't be enough....You can't save someone that has no desire to be saved, like he said, HE SIMPLY DID NOT LOVE HIMSELF......R.I.P
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by SweetCunt97(f): 5:50pm On Jan 13
Alexgman1:
Am also going through severe depression since 2017 but when its too much 4 me i take a long walk and play with kids around. Its so dangerous that nothing in life will make sense to you again when it comes
What's d root source of the depression?
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by FunnyDude: 5:53pm On Jan 13
AFONJACOW:
Afonja people and suicide has something big in common

Nnamdi stop this childish attitude
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Donspicey: 5:53pm On Jan 13
Godpikin4real:
Blood of Jesus. This handsome guy just wasted his life just like dat?
Truly, depression is real. Let's always try 2 reach out 2 friends and loved ones. Who knows, u might be touch a depressed soul.
RIP.
U can't cure depression by killing itself.

Even when you force your self to reach out to friends and family will they help you out


Instead they tell you that all is well while deep inside you are dying slowly.....

One man dat died late last year in my environ..wen he was sick nobody frm d family showed concern bt during his burial 2bigcows were murdered.....

The truth is dat most people dont really care about wat u re passing tru but once u re gone they show up to tell you suicide is not the solution.....


But wen u needed help none was there to give a lasting solution.....

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Rilwayne001: 5:54pm On Jan 13
Elsueno:
I remembered when I made an investment blunder with loaned Cash. The funny thing is. I had already used the money in D first place and ready to pay back. Na so opportunity to make quick cash came, instead of paying my loan, I decided to take the risk. Omoh I lost the whole money grin grin grin . Even that did not make me think of suicide, na to run before the owner of D money finish me.

I Japa leave town, collected another loan from my uncle, use half to pay my debt and then the other half to invest again grin grin


Good old days cheesy


R.I.P man, may God forgive you. Amen

You guys never get it.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 13
Only God knows what they are feeding this new generation of Nigerians, they're just different.

The og Nigerian has been through hell , depression, poverty, broken relationships etc but came out on top.

Na wa oh.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Tobechuckwu(m): 5:57pm On Jan 13
dyera:
This post reminds me of rudeboy's song 'audio money'.

Slow down slow down
Why you wan kill yourself?
Why you wan pa yourself?
Living fake life vida loca
Calm down calm down
Why you wan kill yourself?
Why you wan pa yourself?
Living fake life vida loca

If the man had listened to this song in the last moment of his life, he would not have killed himself.
Songs like this can't help at all.
Depression is more than physical, mental nd emotional state,but it's more of spiritual state.
God is d only one that can help at the stage of suicide,nd Gospel songs can also help bcuz one can easily have access to God nd holy spirit through such songs.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by doubleportion: 5:57pm On Jan 13
There are two important things amount many others that Holy spirit gives which you can't find anywhere:

1, Peace that passeth all understanding

2. Joy unspeakable
Two of them are products of eternal life (what makes God to be God)
There are miserable people everywhere because of lack of this two eternal blessings. Because, if only in this world we have hope we are the most miserable of all men.
There are many people that are suffering from the desease of depression but are still pretending, please embrace the life of God.
I remember I once told someone that was putting me under pressure that "if I cannot be happy with you, I will do it without you, because have found the source of joy.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by SweetCunt97(f): 5:59pm On Jan 13
zedegit:


I am currently battling depression and dying in silence.

How can a full grown man have #9 as his account balance. It's so unfortunate.

I have been trying to find an app to get #50 000 loan all to no avail.

It's getting to the brim
Getting a loan dey push people to simply end it all when they can't pay o. These apps will send damning messages to your contact. Look around u, render services and you will be rewarded

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by zoedew: 5:59pm On Jan 13
Jesus loves the whole world.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by 27Pushing30: 6:00pm On Jan 13
This is all MEDIA BULL CRAP.

if he left a note then why bother us?
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Donspicey: 6:00pm On Jan 13
DisLifeSha:
Have you not heard that a lot of doctors around the world are depressed


Thank you for dis......

Causes of depression is beyond beign wealthy or poor....


Its beyond hw popular or less famous you are.....


But in dis part of the world once some one complains of been down many would tink dat he or she is financially handicapped.......


Once you re not happy with ur self mehn depression hv set in......


The ish is not fr shallow mind though.......

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by NLReposter: 6:01pm On Jan 13
RIP brother


This is touching

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