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Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by davidadenrele: 6:16pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Hello, This year 2021 and you are still acting naive and gullible hahaha!! you had a wife and kids whom you have to cater for and be responsible to their needs a woman that was so careless and had no life plans come to you to distrupt your own life plans sorry.....If you accept this it's called stupidity don't fall cheap for an illegitimate child,your ex sworn to heavens that you ain't the owner of the pregnancy now she's saying you own it please be wise!! She is playing games with your life and family life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by 2oby: 6:16pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
charles009: Bros leave the boy where he is. Give him the best support he can get. If the man he is wt is not treating him differently, pls leave him wer he is. Bringing him to ur home might cos trouble 4 d boy n u. While serving(NYSC), i had a girlfriend(junior corper) who told me she has a boyfriend b4 we started our own relationship. I didnt mind since i had mine too. But along d line we fell deeply in-love n i begged her to let us get serious since we both loved ourselves. She will cry n tell me no. 2 months after leaving service, i was called that she was pregnant. I asked her y didnt she tell me but she told me it wasnt mine but the main guy's own(unknown to me she was married to the main guy), how can that b true? d main guy was in d east while me n her wer sleeping together everyday in Ekiti for almost 6 months. During this pregnancy period(she still didnt tell me she was married), she will ask me to travel down to c her but i always refused but i kept wondering if i am not d father of her preg y ask me to come? She kept calling me all tru her labor( i kept my close to her cos i dont want her to block me). After d labour, she told me she lost d baby. I blived her n i still kept close( only chat on FB cos we r not in same state). Today, she has 3 children but her first child is around 7 year( i finished serving 2013) but she kept his face away from FB. I have resolved not to cos any trouble 4 d boy(if he is mine), herself or myself. If d boy is mine, it is best he stays wt her than wt my wife, i will always support them in all ways i can. Staying wt me might really affect him cos my wife is aggressive even to her own child. I pray God gives us wisdom to manage our past bad deeds. Sorry 4 d grammatical error. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
friendl: And alimony from the husband. Two sources of income are always better than one...all the millionaires say so. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by emmadejust(m): 6:18pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Life no balance atalll |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Homebaked: 6:20pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Ol boy, let sleeping dog lie. This is for everyone's health and thank God you didn't marry your ex. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by uchennamani(m): 6:22pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
inspirator1:Hahahaha |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by stormborn28(m): 6:22pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
CalliDora1:as usual... Always blaming men but they never take responsibility... Like Ubunja will say, a woman holds the key to sex while a man is the holder of commitment 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Klass99(f): 6:22pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
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Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Wandering deeks... DNA wahala... Suffering children. Enjoy! 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by hardon1(m): 6:26pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Mr man I don't believe this your Nigerian film |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by baralatie(m): 6:26pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
so in summary this woman will either end up destroying herself or the husband or whoever this bomb hits. Baba God deliver we men from wicked people with wicked intentions o! 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by toprealman: 6:27pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
charles009:Don't be in a hurry. Look for one of your decent uncles, have a one on one with him. Prepare to take the child for a DNA regardless. Arrange your story very well.....no addition. Get the details right because the best thing is for you to break the news to your wife before your rattled ex get to do a dirty job for you. Either ways.....you gat to brace up for the worse,shii happens! |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Princeofasia: 6:28pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Commotfornigeri: 6:28pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
nigeriansamurai: Wrong move. Most women treat other people's kids as maids. He better leave that boy with his momma. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by MadamExcellency: 6:28pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
donb06: I am talking about Nigeria. You pay for the welfare. David, Wizkid etc know better than you. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Babaken(m): 6:29pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
My brother I believe you, am in the same mess too |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Bigfish121(m): 6:29pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Everytime my ex this and that.omo if my wife is not a virgin I don think I will marry her ooo.just imagine what is happening here. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Altimatic27: 6:30pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
charles009: I don't reply much on here but I feel I should help you bro please for the long term stability of your family just take care of the child from afar 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Commotfornigeri: 6:31pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
2oby: I hope in God's name you no follow dey yab women over the DNA issue. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nobody: 6:32pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
charles009:Married man shouldn't have a heart of simp '. You have your family now, focus on them and forget that your Nigerian politician called your Ex. Tell her not to or never come close to you or anything that has to do with your name. Some ladies are just annoying. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by MadamExcellency: 6:32pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Klass99: In Nigeria, you don't abandon your legitimate offspring. Is Davido and Wizkid not living in Nigeria with their baby mamas living big off their fathers? Go to welfare and see how things work in Nigeria. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Erastuslove: 6:32pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Bros, women are dangerous snake species, you go and do the DNA test and be very sure before you can talk to ur wife about it... On the other hand keep the child away from Poison if you know what I mean ����� |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by robosky02(m): 6:32pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Imagine what somebody told me DNA E be like say.... I be Bill Gate pikin DNA Just confirmed it
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Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
cococandy:exactly |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by koning: 6:33pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
charles009: Uncannily familiar. I was in same such situation 13 years ago. It's amicably resolved now. Was not easy though. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Tobechuckwu(m): 6:36pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
charles009:Please don't tell Ur wife now since she's expecting a baby bcuz she by mistake have a miscarriage along the process,Ur marriage is as good as gone. Do d DNA test nd keep it as a secret or tell ur mature pastor nd ur parents , nd explain to them d reason u want to keep it from Ur wife for now. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Prettychild(f): 6:37pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Nato008:Yes he should ask for her forgiveness. Forgive him for his randiness. If he had zipped up, these stories would not come at all. May God help us all 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by showafrica(m): 6:39pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Kapilta: I tell you, if this guy no dey careful, she go carry the bad spirit give am. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by just2endowed: 6:39pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
woleabayo: but he hasnt married his current wife before the child was born, i think the current wife will understand. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by benratigan3(m): 6:40pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5:comment of the day. |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Get back your child, but it might cost u DNA evidence, DNT let another Carter 4 ur child while alive 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Said Her Son Is Mine - Please Advise by Nato008(m): 6:42pm On Jan 14, 2021 |
Prettychild:when u people comment like this....u make us ask this weird question" do u people read without comprehending or read to comment off point "... did u not read where he said the were in a relationship eh, did u read the OP saying he bleeped outside marriage...please read it again b4 u comment and rant biko |
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