delishpot:


Hahahahha why e pain me like this? Sexual assault na sexual assault so a man can be raped by men too. Tgis ignorance I parade as wisdom will not work for me in real life. Like I said, wait until they knock at my door and rape me then we will know how easily my wife will forget it

That is your prayer above for yourself. Go and borrow senses before talking.

ubola:
You are myopic in your reasoning. You live to fight another day. A lady in my neighborhood was hacked to death for refusing to let go her iPhone in a robbery situation. She died and the phone was still taken, now how do you justify this.

it is termed EFUREFU of the highest order

olaboy3332:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/13001093_4515036_pngcb33d255ebcc9947273ee47be5ff4fb4 Nice nairaland clone. everybody can moderate on the site

she was just joking

There are things better not said than said and lead to unforseen calamity. The fact that something is right doesn't mean that it's absolutely right and would always be right at every point in time. The Bible says, " All things are lawful but not all things are expedient or beneficial"..

It's wiser and more smarter to play to the gallery when faced with danger that could consume you than openly show your aversion to the present danger....the woman behaved badly in her answer to the husband. She lack emotional maturity. What would you get by saying what you know will hurt the ego of your husband. She should have said she would rather die than allow another man to have sex with her even though when she's actually faced with such danger, then she could decide to give him or take the other option. However, the husband is possessive to a fault...he's selfish...

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

He should show her your comment?
This senseless comment?
I shudder.

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Scanning. . . finally finds a sensible comment. Such mentality will obviously & gladly use her body to negotiate anything in time of needs. Life is valuable & everyone including clergymen will do anything to negotiate for it. But painting a rape case as a giveaway especially when the example is so personalised shows a high sense of disrespect & less value for her body. Many ladies don't like watching scenes of rape let alone assuming to be the person involved. It is simply her value system!

Me weh never even marry sef be like I matured pass this one.. See wetin e dey yarn for public forum... No be by age some people are not matured enough for marriage

Nawa for you o. So it is not better for her to be raped and not die? Haba.

Bluffly:


That is your prayer above for yourself. Go and borrow senses before talking.

Lol, so your mouth can be sharp and active when you talking about others but as soon as dem ask you to imagine say e happe to you... You want to dive from 3rd mainland bridge the fear of yansh trashers is the beginning of wisdom. Pkele, you go dey alright last last

CheedyJ:

I know you’re just being silly or rather playing to d gallery .. no be only Hero na Trophy..

The babe is known for silly comments on this space, always playing to the gallery

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Do not let that bother you. It's evolutionary for women to be submissive in such an ugly scenario — during the course of evolution, women who did the opposite died out of existence and will continue to die out leaving the submissive once to evolves more; this is why, there are more submissive women that men naturally.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

So you would have preferred your wife dead instead of being raped by another man?

IMASTEX:

Scanning. . . finally finds a sensible comment. Such mentality will obviously & gladly use her body to negotiate anything in time of needs. Life is valuable & everyone including clergymen will do anything to negotiate for it. But painting a rape case as a giveaway especially when the example is so personalised shows a high sense of disrespect & less value for her body. Many ladies don't like watching scenes of rape let alone assuming to be the person involved. It is simply her value system!

Just STFU...you and the OP have the IQ of a chicken...very parochial and delusional mentality

There is absolutely no cause for alarm. we women know ourselves better. such is life

delishpot:


Lol, so your mouth can be sharp and active when you talking about others but as soon as dem ask you to imagine say e happe to you... You want to dive from 3rd mainland bridge the fear of yansh trashers is the beginning of wisdom. Pkele, you go dey alright last last

Please get lost

Take a chill pill biko..
You are overreacting

Bluffly:

Please get lost

Tooh...... Say more

i dnt know how you ppl reason atimes. personally, i wud prefer them raping than killing her. i wud only choose death if i was asked to mate my daughter. but God forbid such encounter!

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Can’t believe I read this ☹️☹️��

You’re over reacting man ��

adeadeyera:
Put yourself in her position.
Some female robbers storm your home and demand that you sleep with them or get killed.
Your answer to this poser will determine whether you're sensible or just plain dumb.
So, because she's married to you, she should die senselessly abi?

If female robbers come to my house, I will rape them.

In death, there is no coming back. .
In Rape, You will come back better

MOLOTOVcockTAIL:

Chill Bros. Assuming it's reversed and you were in such life and death situation and you have seen this criminals kill someone who resisted, will you resist too? I bet your answer is NO.
Stop being petty abeg. Go find better thing use your time do before your wife see you finish.

You have said it all!!
Respect

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Youre very wicked...

So youd rather see her die than raped ?

Shes very sensible with her statement.

If youre a woman, will u choose death rather then getting raped ?

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Lol. So you'd choose death over hw many minute pleasure. It's nt like they are going to take d whole day, what if dey are d 40sec kind of men.
when it comes to unwanted pregnancy or watever, postinors, post pills are available.
std's can be treated right! , nd it's nt lyk she wont go 4 medical examination afta d ordeal.. Nawa 4 u oo.

NiRfreak:

Her comment was the stupidest, followed by yours.

Stupidity reigns in your brain, dingbat

IMASTEX:

Scanning. . . finally finds a sensible comment. Such mentality will obviously & gladly use her body to negotiate anything in time of needs. Life is valuable & everyone including clergymen will do anything to negotiate for it. But painting a rape case as a giveaway especially when the example is so personalised shows a high sense of disrespect & less value for her body. Many ladies don't like watching scenes of rape let alone assuming to be the person involved. It is simply her value system!

God bless you. Infact you just did justice to my comment.

She clearly has no regards for the husband by making that statement and yes like you said, she's such that will gladly use her body to negotiate anything when caught between the devil and the blue sea.

Thanks bro.

joshepade:

You reasoned well! God bless

Amen.

God bless you too.

What Shock ,So U want Ur wife Dead right ...Once she is Dead tell me the truth U will remain without touching any woman again in your life till Death ,Rubbish talk ,Na she invited The Armed Robbers ,There is nothing to talk here please ,The wife have not said anything bad .Death is once .So she needs to stay alive .

Diplomatic skills are important.
Not everything can be said carelessly. Even if fundamentally correct.

RisenPhoenix1:
Since you now know what she'll do and don't like it, you'll just have to make sure robbers don't get to her, don't you? If after defending with all your power they do go through you and get to her, it shouldn't worry you then because you'll be dead. Just make sure it happens over your dead body. That is a non negotiable duty that a husband has to his wife.

NwaAmaikpe couldn't have said it better.

NiRfreak:

Just STFU...you and the OP have the IQ of a chicken...very parochial and delusional mentality

No word for you, just keep eating to become of age.