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naenaesosa:
Guys lets discuss this. Are yahoo boys simps or naturally red pilled?

Yahoo boys start off with a red pilled philosophy by not focusing on women, and just spending time on their laptops 24/7 trying to make money. They practically spend all their days indoors on a computer. Then the money starts to roll in; step 1: Buy new car and move to lekki or magodo; step 2: Gucci bag and clothes; step 3: Find an average babe and just start buying phone, bone straight, car and giving her allowance.

A yahoo boy i know casually said "Men i have to reduce my monthly expense oh my rent na 4m/per annum, fuel na 50k/month, i dey give my chef 120k/month, outing and enjoyment na 500k/month, then i go give my babe allowance of 400k/month". My mouth fell to the ground. I remember when he started, he was red pilled to the core, he knew women only like money. He worked day and night on his laptop, and immediately he started making it he started buying phone for girls, paying for plastic surgery, popping 500k champagne and pouring it on woman's head.

I am conflicted. On one hand he acts alpha and has a strong frame and controls women and brings them into his environment; on the other hand he spends on women, gives lekki high class oloshos $3000 etc.

P.S: I am not a yahoo apologist.

JasperVII:
They're not redpilled in any way. I see all those things they post as them trying to seem serious and focused on what they're doing. Almost everybody does it these days, posting motivational quotes and stuff. Once the money starts coming... They show their true colours. That's when you'll realise that most of them don't even know what to do with the money apart from clubbing and the rest.

343tipster:
A girl I used to disturb before TRP, I met her at cash point p. O. S collected her number, but she doesn't have Android to browse so I start doing the calling, the next day she Bill me money to eat saying she doesn't have anything I was like wow, so soon... We've never even started saying love you love you too I told her I don't have, me sef dey hungry, she now called me in the evening to come see her, but in my mind i still dey suspect something dey happen cos I don't know why she wants to see me all of a sudden.. I just gather courage went there

After we greet each she just asked for my phone that she wanted to login to her Facebook I was like wow again!! So na the reason why you call me today (in my mind) I just gave her the phone, but somehow she forget to log out before someone called her and she started rushing back home....

My brother, my brothers!!!!!! I no fit lie una watin I find for this girl Facebook eh... In there i even discovered how to use agbo to last long on bed
Listen to diffrent type of voice notes

The girl is just too good, mehn if you see guys wey dey rush am ehn

Last last

Hear a voice note that makes me laugh out loudest at the end

She tells the man if you can't do more than 3rounds she's not coming in anger voices... And the guyman tell her to bring the agbo along with her that she will surprise her this time...

I saw conversation with her pos boss sef she dey even bleep that one

Fear women

Martinez39s:
Even before I read the emboldened text, I was already laughing... even on your behalf. I remember a guy who deferred his admission for more than a year in other pay his girlfriend's tuition fee. After the girl had advanced and graduated, she broke up with him and said to his face "what kind of man defers his admission to hustle for another girl? Is that not a fooliśh man?" The guy said he couldn't believe his ears and he was flabbergasted at that moment.

LIVINGICON:
During a young man's toiling days, he appears almost invisible more like a ghost to the female folks. He might even be scorned and laughed at by these same people. But as soon as they see the man making headway and when he finally BREAKS THROUGH, the same female folks pop out from nowhere ever ready to milk the same man dry.

BE WISE, GUIDE YOUR RESOURCES JEALOUSLY.

naenaesosa:
You are correct but you cant deny that them focusing on bettering themselves financially (albeit negatively) is a major cornerstone of the red pill philosophy which is leave women, focus on self development and the women will come back.

I have seen a street yahoo boy that couldnt even speak proper english smashing ajebutter girls from pristine homes that we used to carry on our head.

Hustle2flex:
This is exactly my experience where I am currently working now.most of my co-workers are ladies.Almost everyday,they will be indirectly asking you to do one favour(mostly monetary) or the other.But even during this Christmas season,no single one of them even looked my way, let alone bringing any gift.Not that I send(what can they really give me).But it makes realized the entitlement mentality of many Nigerian ladies both those you are dating or not dating.
It made to understand that women are wired to receive and keep receiving, consuming resources and hardly appreciative.The moment you stopped doing her any favors,you automatically becomes her enemies.She will not remember what you did before (that's why they don't understand what loyalty and sacrifice means unlike we men).
Also they hardly take or assume their responsibilities but they are very quick to remind you of your role as a man in catering for their unending need.

What do you as a red Piller;you stand your ground and maintain frame.Don't give in to their manipulations (especially broke shaming and emotional blackmailing).when they notice that you don't even give a damn about what they think,they will begin to abort mission

NB:that was how I handled them at my work place.they don't even bother me anymore.

4ckz:
There's this that was bothering me after going through this thread.
I started applying it immediately, especially in the aspect of giving to ladies, I have a lot of female friends, which means that from time to time I get to lose money foolishly.

One who works or is close to ladies should be aware of the "buy me this or that" from time to time, doesn't matter if you are fuking her or not, doesn't matter if she is above you financially, they're always asking for favors.
I was the classic nice guy, conditioned myself into giving in to those pilfery and not expecting anything, although I always got that "you're such a nice guy, you will treat your woman right" complement.

However, lately I have been on guard over this foolishness, it was hard to start, I do fall back occasionally, but I have gotten a lot better, and I have noticed a lot of changes in attitude towards me.

One of my colleagues, the first lady that made me feel welcome when I was still a work newbie (I call her my work mother), got into a little squable with me over 500. We were out together and she needed 500 to complete her money to get something, I gave her. When we finished that day, I went to collect my money, she was stunned and told me, she will easily leave that for me if the tables were turned that I should drop my resent attitude.
I wanted to defend myself, then I thought thoroughly and asked her "when have you ever given me?". It was then it dawned on me that even though this lady was a senior colleague, obviously better financially placed, I haven't received anything from her.
Her answer shocked me further; she answered the question, talking a lot of gibberish but ended with the classic reply "after all you are a man".

We got into a little friendly argument and she maintained this stance "fight it or not, a Man's role is to provide".

I got to ponder on that statement for many days, I actually believe in gender roles and even if you observed animals, they still had gender roles too.

However, recently I got to talk with my old man, and I carefully raised the topic with him to see his view. He also reaffirmed to me "a Man's role is to provide".
However, he made me understand that women had roles too. In the olden days, the father had the role of providing, while the woman had that of house keeping and the likes of it.

Today, women are rapidly dropping their roles and see it as slavery and today's woke woman doesn't go through those parts, however men are still being subjected to their's.

I have come to this conclusion: Money is earned and it's meant to be. Any money you remove from you should be satisfying a need atleast 90% of the time.
For people like me that would still like to get married, here's an advice, if she (your wife) drops her convectional role of house keeping and is actively working (like is mostly obtainable today), you too drop your role and make family provision a "collective thing".

I have seen this play out steady in some marriages I observe, the wife works, the man works yet the man takes care of family provision, while house keeping is done by a hired maid, wtf is your woman's role in the family, to eat and get obese?

Remember this, Money is earned, and if you must spend let it meet your needs.


Peace!

SPLENDID25:
A Friend Who Is A Still A Student Just Sold everything He Got From Rice Farming and Paid A Ladies Bride Price. because She Compelled Him To, or Risk Loosing her. Now, school Has Resumed, and He Is Looking Up To His Dad, who Is Old,retired, and Been Very Ill For Like 3years Now For Money To Resume. To Say The Worst, her Highest Edu qualification Is Just ssce(manipulating an Undergraduate, who Doesn't Have An Android phone To Aid His Studies).... Now I Shared This, not Because I Am Seeking For Any Sort Of Advice for Him, BUT BECAUSE,"I DON'T WANT TO BE LAUGHING ALONE".

MJBOLT:

your friend just elevated his problems from pro to pro max

SPLENDID25:
A Friend Who Is A Still A Student Just Sold everything He Got From Rice Farming and Paid A Ladies Bride Price. because She Compelled Him To, or Risk Loosing her. Now, school Has Resumed, and He Is Looking Up To His Dad, who Is Old,retired, and Been Very Ill For Like 3years Now For Money To Resume. To Say The Worst, her Highest Edu qualification Is Just ssce(manipulating an Undergraduate, who Doesn't Have An Android phone To Aid His Studies).... Now I Shared This, not Because I Am Seeking For Any Sort Of Advice for Him, BUT BECAUSE,"I DON'T WANT TO BE LAUGHING ALONE".

emmaodet:
You are completely right bro. 100%

I dated a lady or will i say we dated? she is working (custom)
For over 8 - 10 years, i dedicated my time, strenght, attention and money into the relationship. At a point, she started misbehaving and insulting me.
it was at that point something changed in me, as if a veil was lifted. I realised have invested sooooo much in the friendship without any tangible thing in return except occasional naked pictures and masturbating videos from her. I spent a lot, gave gifts, i do buy things on jumia and konga to deliver to her house for she and her kid (a single mum presently).
Recharge cards nko? many abi na to load her dstv from my app. The list is endless or should we talk about writing love poems for her or the plans to take her on a vaction to ghana. My brodassssssssssssssssssss, hmmmmmmmm God no go shame us
What a story, the typical life of a simp.
After the yangas, cold shoulders and insults became too much, i came to my senses and ask myself one day that what am i really benefiting from this uselesssssssss friendship? money i no see(na me even dey lose despite she working and earning 120k then), gift i no see even during my birthdays, sex sef i no see unless audio/video sex for screen.......... Tufiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
I lock up finally, she hold her side, i hold my side for good 3 months before she came to her senses and realized she has lost it, that am no more in her grips.
Tried severally to bring back the relationship but it was too late to cry when the head is cut off. At a point she became frustrated and blurted out that am stingy like an ijebu man when i stopped giving gifts and money again and insist she should give me gift too.
Why will a stingy working lady call a man that has given so much stingy? have proven my worth, she is the one who hasn't.

SPLENDID25:
A Friend Who Is A Still A Student Just Sold everything He Got From Rice Farming and Paid A Ladies Bride Price. because She Compelled Him To, or Risk Loosing her. Now, school Has Resumed, and He Is Looking Up To His Dad, who Is Old,retired, and Been Very Ill For Like 3years Now For Money To Resume. To Say The Worst, her Highest Edu qualification Is Just ssce(manipulating an Undergraduate, who Doesn't Have An Android phone To Aid His Studies).... Now I Shared This, not Because I Am Seeking For Any Sort Of Advice for Him, BUT BECAUSE,"I DON'T WANT TO BE LAUGHING ALONE".

Skepticus:
No man who really thinks deep about women, retains high opinions of them. He either despises them or stop taking them seriously - Otto Weininger

MJBOLT:

yahjac:
it was like I was reading my own story with a diffrent subtitle.....haha
no be only me don suffer

MJBOLT:

4ckz:
There's this that was bothering me after going through this thread.
I started applying it immediately, especially in the aspect of giving to ladies, I have a lot of female friends, which means that from time to time I get to lose money foolishly.

One who works or is close to ladies should be aware of the "buy me this or that" from time to time, doesn't matter if you are fuking her or not, doesn't matter if she is above you financially, they're always asking for favors.
I was the classic nice guy, conditioned myself into giving in to those pilfery and not expecting anything, although I always got that "you're such a nice guy, you will treat your woman right" complement.

However, lately I have been on guard over this foolishness, it was hard to start, I do fall back occasionally, but I have gotten a lot better, and I have noticed a lot of changes in attitude towards me.

One of my colleagues, the first lady that made me feel welcome when I was still a work newbie (I call her my work mother), got into a little squable with me over 500. We were out together and she needed 500 to complete her money to get something, I gave her. When we finished that day, I went to collect my money, she was stunned and told me, she will easily leave that for me if the tables were turned that I should drop my resent attitude.
I wanted to defend myself, then I thought thoroughly and asked her "when have you ever given me?". It was then it dawned on me that even though this lady was a senior colleague, obviously better financially placed, I haven't received anything from her.
Her answer shocked me further; she answered the question, talking a lot of gibberish but ended with the classic reply "after all you are a man".

We got into a little friendly argument and she maintained this stance "fight it or not, a Man's role is to provide".

I got to ponder on that statement for many days, I actually believe in gender roles and even if you observed animals, they still had gender roles too.

However, recently I got to talk with my old man, and I carefully raised the topic with him to see his view. He also reaffirmed to me "a Man's role is to provide".
However, he made me understand that women had roles too. In the olden days, the father had the role of providing, while the woman had that of house keeping and the likes of it.

Today, women are rapidly dropping their roles and see it as slavery and today's woke woman doesn't go through those parts, however men are still being subjected to their's.

I have come to this conclusion: Money is earned and it's meant to be. Any money you remove from you should be satisfying a need atleast 90% of the time.
For people like me that would still like to get married, here's an advice, if she (your wife) drops her convectional role of house keeping and is actively working (like is mostly obtainable today), you too drop your role and make family provision a "collective thing".

I have seen this play out steady in some marriages I observe, the wife works, the man works yet the man takes care of family provision, while house keeping is done by a hired maid, wtf is your woman's role in the family, to eat and get obese?

Remember this, Money is earned, and if you must spend let it meet your needs.


Peace!

Nezzjnr:
Wait is this for real or doctored??

SPLENDID25:
A Friend Who Is A Still A Student Just Sold everything He Got From Rice Farming and Paid A Ladies Bride Price. because She Compelled Him To, or Risk Loosing her. Now, school Has Resumed, and He Is Looking Up To His Dad, who Is Old,retired, and Been Very Ill For Like 3years Now For Money To Resume. To Say The Worst, her Highest Edu qualification Is Just ssce(manipulating an Undergraduate, who Doesn't Have An Android phone To Aid His Studies).... Now I Shared This, not Because I Am Seeking For Any Sort Of Advice for Him, BUT BECAUSE,"I DON'T WANT TO BE LAUGHING ALONE".

naenaesosa:
Guys lets discuss this. Are yahoo boys simps or naturally red pilled?

Yahoo boys start off with a red pilled philosophy by not focusing on women, and just spending time on their laptops 24/7 trying to make money. They practically spend all their days indoors on a computer. Then the money starts to roll in; step 1: Buy new car and move to lekki or magodo; step 2: Gucci bag and clothes; step 3: Find an average babe and just start buying phone, bone straight, car and giving her allowance.

A yahoo boy i know casually said "Men i have to reduce my monthly expense oh my rent na 4m/per annum, fuel na 50k/month, i dey give my chef 120k/month, outing and enjoyment na 500k/month, then i go give my babe allowance of 400k/month". My mouth fell to the ground. I remember when he started, he was red pilled to the core, he knew women only like money. He worked day and night on his laptop, and immediately he started making it he started buying phone for girls, paying for plastic surgery, popping 500k champagne and pouring it on woman's head.

I am conflicted. On one hand he acts alpha and has a strong frame and controls women and brings them into his environment; on the other hand he spends on women, gives lekki high class oloshos $3000 etc.

P.S: I am not a yahoo apologist.

CamusMidas:
True told I can even repair her phone for her, but to buy is out of it.

E dey look like engagement ring for my eyes, if you know what I mean.

Sai her previous guys dey guy for her, told her maybe it would be thoughtful if she consider dating other guys because I can't in good conscience buy a phone for her. One come dey tell me sai she see how important she is in my life.

naenaesosa:
Guys lets discuss this. Are yahoo boys simps or naturally red pilled?

Yahoo boys start off with a red pilled philosophy by not focusing on women, and just spending time on their laptops 24/7 trying to make money. They practically spend all their days indoors on a computer. Then the money starts to roll in; step 1: Buy new car and move to lekki or magodo; step 2: Gucci bag and clothes; step 3: Find an average babe and just start buying phone, bone straight, car and giving her allowance.

A yahoo boy i know casually said "Men i have to reduce my monthly expense oh my rent na 4m/per annum, fuel na 50k/month, i dey give my chef 120k/month, outing and enjoyment na 500k/month, then i go give my babe allowance of 400k/month". My mouth fell to the ground. I remember when he started, he was red pilled to the core, he knew women only like money. He worked day and night on his laptop, and immediately he started making it he started buying phone for girls, paying for plastic surgery, popping 500k champagne and pouring it on woman's head.

I am conflicted. On one hand he acts alpha and has a strong frame and controls women and brings them into his environment; on the other hand he spends on women, gives lekki high class oloshos $3000 etc.

P.S: I am not a yahoo apologist.

emmaodet:
You are completely right bro. 100%

I dated a lady or will i say we dated? she is working (custom)
For over 8 - 10 years, i dedicated my time, strenght, attention and money into the relationship. At a point, she started misbehaving and insulting me.
it was at that point something changed in me, as if a veil was lifted. I realised have invested sooooo much in the friendship without any tangible thing in return except occasional naked pictures and masturbating videos from her. I spent a lot, gave gifts, i do buy things on jumia and konga to deliver to her house for she and her kid (a single mum presently).
Recharge cards nko? many abi na to load her dstv from my app. The list is endless or should we talk about writing love poems for her or the plans to take her on a vaction to ghana. My brodassssssssssssssssssss, hmmmmmmmm God no go shame us
What a story, the typical life of a simp.
After the yangas, cold shoulders and insults became too much, i came to my senses and ask myself one day that what am i really benefiting from this uselesssssssss friendship? money i no see(na me even dey lose despite she working and earning 120k then), gift i no see even during my birthdays, sex sef i no see unless audio/video sex for screen.......... Tufiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
I lock up finally, she hold her side, i hold my side for good 3 months before she came to her senses and realized she has lost it, that am no more in her grips.
Tried severally to bring back the relationship but it was too late to cry when the head is cut off. At a point she became frustrated and blurted out that am stingy like an ijebu man when i stopped giving gifts and money again and insist she should give me gift too.
Why will a stingy working lady call a man that has given so much stingy? have proven my worth, she is the one who hasn't.

luminouz:
This is no laughing matter bro

How can you call him a friend and still let him make such a mistake? You were supposed to aid,guide and instruct him on the tenets of the redpill. That's why we are men, not backstabbers like the female gender. We understand loyalty and sacrifice.

Unless, you had talked to him and he refused(no mention of that up there). Now,he is going on a journey of penury and unending marital woes. How in hell does any man fall for that lane line of 'do this or lose me'? That shiit is the oldest con in the book.

naenaesosa:
Guys lets discuss this. Are yahoo boys simps or naturally red pilled?

Yahoo boys start off with a red pilled philosophy by not focusing on women, and just spending time on their laptops 24/7 trying to make money. They practically spend all their days indoors on a computer. Then the money starts to roll in; step 1: Buy new car and move to lekki or magodo; step 2: Gucci bag and clothes; step 3: Find an average babe and just start buying phone, bone straight, car and giving her allowance.

A yahoo boy i know casually said "Men i have to reduce my monthly expense oh my rent na 4m/per annum, fuel na 50k/month, i dey give my chef 120k/month, outing and enjoyment na 500k/month, then i go give my babe allowance of 400k/month". My mouth fell to the ground. I remember when he started, he was red pilled to the core, he knew women only like money. He worked day and night on his laptop, and immediately he started making it he started buying phone for girls, paying for plastic surgery, popping 500k champagne and pouring it on woman's head.

I am conflicted. On one hand he acts alpha and has a strong frame and controls women and brings them into his environment; on the other hand he spends on women, gives lekki high class oloshos $3000 etc.

P.S: I am not a yahoo apologist.

luminouz:
If you buy that phone, na me go first curse you for here.

Your last line is a classic manipulation trick. It is the "come hither mudafucker" slinger. For weak men,it makes you wanna strive to prove how important she is to you. For strong men,it's just a recipe for some good old comedy laughter.

If she is that important in her own life, she would hustle and buy the phone herself. But she is not.

SPLENDID25:
hmm, the thing is, whenever i tell him he's making a mistake, he always says "i shouldn't worry, that one day, i will take my money and be running after women to 'please' collect".lol ...thats what most of his other friends tell him about me(i am certain they are the energy behind this mistake).lmao

CamusMidas:
Bro e tire me oh, I ask her that when the thought of needing a phone came to her mind; why was I the first person that came to her mind? Shouldn't you be your first respondent before seeking for help.

Finally told her that buying phone for a girlfriend is what I don't do.

She vex go and refused to have breakfast, haven't communicated since yesterday.