Brandonx:
Why would any sane man marry a single mother?
Single Mothers are second hand products which have little or no value at all.
I have a sister who's divorced some foolish men still running after her probably because of her money but she's there doing yanga If only she knew I see her as an expired product.

Brandonx:
Why would any sane man marry a single mother?
Single Mothers are second hand products which have little or no value at all.
I have a sister who's divorced some foolish men still running after her probably because of her money but she's there doing yanga If only she knew I see her as an expired product.

iskalamong:
I can't.
Some of my reasons include (randomly ordered):
1. Bonding (pair-bonding) may be difficult.
2. Most guys won't settle for a single mother and she knows this. Hence, it's likely her attitude is pretentious to trick me into marrying her.
3. Her baby daddy can come into our lifes as he wills due to his child(ren). He is part of our lives whether we like it or not. So the earlier we accept that, the better!
4. Additional expenses/effort training another man's child(ren).
5. The marriage won't be fresh as it should since we'll be starting the marriage with her child(ren) (less honeymoon excitement). I can't ask her to abandon her child(ren), that would be unfair/evil.
6. You may doubt this but, she most likely won't respect me as she should. You know why?
Because she'll feel I settled for less (marrying a single mum). Making her think I'm a low value man and/or a man that can't get high quality maidens. Sorry, it's just the way most ladies and women are wired.
7. High tendency to cheat. This may be due to reason 6 above. She may cheat on me with guys who used her and dumped her. She may perceive them to be real men (alpha males). It could also be due to a likely promiscuous behaviour which may be the reason she's a single mum.
8. Sexual reasons. Child birth has effect on firmness of a woman's-breasts and the tightness of her vaginal-walls. Although, one could argue that this may be unavoidable with aging/time, I'll at least prefer to enjoy them fresh (both the upper and lower front feminity) even if for a short time period. Physical/sexual attraction is necessary especially for new young couples in my opinion,
The list goes on and on.

Conclusion:
Everyone is different and so are our priorities and preferences. You may see these reasons as shallow or flimsy excuses, but it is better to know yourself, your strengths, weaknesses, preferences, priorities and deal-breakers. This way, you'll make better decisions and prevent mistakes and regrets. Afterall, it's better not to marry a single mum than to marry her and make her live miserable, or worse divorce her with more children than she had when you married her leaving her damaged (if she already isn't).

Disclaimer
It should be noted that I have nothing against single mums and this post shouldn't be taken as a bias, prejudice or discrimination against single mums.
Many single mums are wonderful. Some are single mums by forces beyond their control and several other unfortunate circumstances.
This post is simply my opinion and should be regarded as such.
Thanks!

Iskalamong!

phr33man:
Well, marrying a single mother of one not more isn't bad. It depends on how it happened (try get to the root if the matter). Secondly, is she a changed person if she's lived wayward in the past. These two are the most important to me. There are some single ladies without kids that cannot no longer bear fruit of the would due to 4-5 abortions.

Na the character matter o. We don't live the face, neither the body but the soul of who we intend spending the rest of our lives with.

My opinion

Nazgul:

Would you rather prefer a girl who's had multiple abortions?

iskalamong:
I can't.
Some of my reasons include (randomly ordered):
1. Bonding (pair-bonding) may be difficult.
2. Most guys won't settle for a single mother and she knows this. Hence, it's likely her attitude is pretentious to trick me into marrying her.
3. Her baby daddy can come into our lifes as he wills due to his child(ren). He is part of our lives whether we like it or not. So the earlier we accept that, the better!
4. Additional expenses/effort training another man's child(ren).
5. The marriage won't be fresh as it should since we'll be starting the marriage with her child(ren) (less honeymoon excitement). I can't ask her to abandon her child(ren), that would be unfair/evil.
6. You may doubt this but, she most likely won't respect me as she should. You know why?
Because she'll feel I settled for less (marrying a single mum). Making her think I'm a low value man and/or a man that can't get high quality maidens. Sorry, it's just the way most ladies and women are wired.
7. High tendency to cheat. This may be due to reason 6 above. She may cheat on me with guys who used her and dumped her. She may perceive them to be real men (alpha males). It could also be due to a likely promiscuous behaviour which may be the reason she's a single mum.
8. Sexual reasons. Child birth has effect on firmness of a woman's-breasts and the tightness of her vaginal-walls. Although, one could argue that this may be unavoidable with aging/time, I'll at least prefer to enjoy them fresh (both the upper and lower front feminity) even if for a short time period. Physical/sexual attraction is necessary especially for new young couples in my opinion,
The list goes on and on.

Conclusion:
Everyone is different and so are our priorities and preferences. You may see these reasons as shallow or flimsy excuses, but it is better to know yourself, your strengths, weaknesses, preferences, priorities and deal-breakers. This way, you'll make better decisions and prevent mistakes and regrets. Afterall, it's better not to marry a single mum than to marry her and make her live miserable, or worse divorce her with more children than she had when you married her leaving her damaged (if she already isn't).

Disclaimer
It should be noted that I have nothing against single mums and this post shouldn't be taken as a bias, prejudice or discrimination against single mums.
Many single mums are wonderful. Some are single mums by forces beyond their control and several other unfortunate circumstances.
This post is simply my opinion and should be regarded as such.
Thanks!

Iskalamong!

extol1:
all the comments above me will make the op to change his mind if he intent to date or marry any before. someone should please motivate the op na

extol1:

you get bad mouth. expired product for human beings

Lol. To be expired is to be out of fashion or taste. Humans, too, can be expired

orisunmibare01:
You never see better girl nii.

I've met a couple of girls who I'll marry even if they had birthed a child.
It's just about knowing how it happened, the kind of person she is. As for taking care of the child, if money dey then why not.

Kriss216:
The fastest way to Hell is to get married to a non virgin Nigerian girl.