OlawaleBammie:


He should have collected kamu, if it was a contemporary teachings pur pastors would say since the FIL manipulatively gave him the first daughter thereby he should hold onto her as that is what God wanted for him
See scamming


So are you telling me that Abram, Job, David, Solomon( Baba agbalagba...tuale o Baba ) didn't know that God created only Eve for Adam abi?? Why u no tell dem say na fish dey dey inside geisha

EJanni:
I'm not the cause of your frustration so, you might as well face the other side. If you don't know how to talk objectively without insulting people then the joke is on you.

Little thing you lots will call women all sorts of names forgetting that men also father children outside marriage.
Please shift one side.

abbey621:


Explain Abraham and his wives or David who took concumbines.....Make una continue dey decieve una sef

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

Juliearth:




That she cheated on him twice doesn't make her a cheat. Nobody is above mistakes. Don't people make mistakes? Don't people change? Are you a saint? I cannot be in support of cheating spouses, but cut her some slack...

IhateInjustice:


Abraham married only Sarah, he only re-married after Sarah died. He slept with Hagai cos Sarah told him to.

Job married only one wife

IhateInjustice:


Please quote where Abraham married more than one wife , stop adding what is not in the bible.

He slept with Hagai because Sarah told him to and chase her away when she told him to too.

He married another woman(keturah) after Sarah died Gen 25:1

Ayrastarr:


I'm money depressed.

Can you help?

notok:

You can divorce based on grounds of adultery , if op's kids aren't his then she's definitely cheating

OlawaleBammie:
Reason why we men should do away with this whiye culture inculcated into religiosity.

As a man if u have the means, marry wives as much as possible, bible do not forbid it, dont let the white cajole u.

Even Jacob in the bible married two sisters so what are we sayin here??

Asirigbakute!!!

addexx:


Please stop. Just stop! Stop hiding under the cloak of forgiveness and allow people carry out unspeakable atrocities. Most times permanently damaging. You don't truly understand forgiveness. The scripture you mentioned ordered stoning to death for any one caught in adultry at some point. Many men have trained children in the past only for the real father with his family showing up in the future claiming the kids and they are left with nothing. You don't understand how wrecking that can be. Forgiveness doesn't absolve one of the consequences of his actions, it only clears the resentment towards them. It's easier to type forgiveness when you're not on the hot seat. Maybe someone should pour acid on your face (God forbid) and ask forgiveness with a smile. Take your dangerous sermon elsewhere.

Eaglesence:


Bros, i don tire to type but make i just talk this one. I am from a polygamous family and the experience has been dark. Dont give that advice again. Divorce is even better. Good night.

OlawaleBammie:


Na wetin a be wan here be this, real life experience standing against polygamy which in most of the tyms are valid.
But referencing to bible to disuade people from polygamous is what i dont underatand and see as scam

EJanni:
Let the sleeping dog lie, you said no. Please don't kill yourself with high BP.

Eaglesence:


Jesus said He will rather you forgive your cheating spouse. And, unless he/she happens to die, you cannot remarry.

yanabasee1:
What is important isn't your marriage at this moment, but knowing what you have and what you don't have ..


You can still father any bastard child that will come out from the results...But your wife will be so humbled around you if you decide to keep the marriage as she wouldn't want to have you bring back her cheating stories before her....


Or simply kill him before he expose her one day. And have fun being single again mumu claiming red pill

I wish you the very best in the outcome of all of this....


You're a man to me and not a simp.....


I give you my respect....The boldness and the courage!

EJanni:
Let the sleeping dog lie, you said no. Please don't kill yourself with high BP.