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Na lie?

She needs assurance from you before she can surrender to you.

It's forbidden of a wife-to-be to make such "suspicious" statement. Frankly speaking bro, her mind is still with her ex.

There are actually things i do not discuss,if she's loving me less, I'll love her less and life goes on but what matters is the attention and care..... words can not always express totally what people have in mind

Another mumu is born

You have spoken well my elder.

InfernoNig:
My people will say

"A man who wants to live long must marry a woman that loves him more. Make the mistake of loving you wife more than she loves you, you will die 20years before your time".


My people have spoken.

Peace.

JaneYave:
It's just purely fear of the unknown.She is be cautious but she was a way too blunt, pardon her She will grow in love if she see you are for real,Las las, na her go love you pass

Truth....that fear of the unknown is her problem.

Humans change like the wind.

You love her more today, tomorrow you may not love her the same.

She loves you less today, tomorrow she may love you more.

We can't choose who we fall in love with, but we can choose who we want to keep loving.


Love is beyond romantic, it is backed by high principles. That's what every healthy relationship need to crave for.

InfernoNig:
My people will say

"A man who wants to live long must marry a woman that loves him more. Make the mistake of loving you wife more than she loves you, you will die 20years before your time".


My people have spoken.

Peace.

Wrong. Women don't love than men. There are some but it is extremely rare and it is why the Bible says they should respect us and we should love them.

I am married for 5 years but I know within me that I love her more. It is the way it is. What women show as love is respect for your person and the man sees it as love.

InfernoNig:
My people will say

"A man who wants to live long must marry a woman that loves him more. Make the mistake of loving you wife more than she loves you, you will die 20years before your time".


My people have spoken.

Peace.

Mr. FantaChapman, I will advise you to listen to this guy.

If I were you, I will tread with so much caution as from henceforth.

I don't see myself ever being with a woman who thinks she's doing me a favor by staying with me.

It is nothing but a recipe for disaster!!!

A word is enough for the truly wise.

Speaking from a place of knowledge, I'd advice you to be cautious and study her more before settling for marriage. When a lady feels this way to the point of speaking it, chances are that she doesn't really love you that much. You don't want to be married to a woman who doesn't love you deeply. One wise man said that it can cause high blood pressure in men. While lovelessness is the remote cause, infidelity, disrespect, emotional blankness or neglect, etc are the immediate causes for this high blood pressure. My advice, don't rush the marriage!

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

JaneYave:
It's just purely fear of the unknown.She is be cautious but she was a way too blunt, pardon her She will grow in love if she see you are for real,Las las, na her go love you pass

Are you kidding me, after being engaged to him, I doubt if she actually loves him.

So you don't know women say so many things for the sake of it, if u follow women words most times, u can't live long as a man.
They say so many things that are untrue, if u act based on DAT , u are a gonner.
I will advise u not to reason that as such, the fact is she loves u and u love her too, who loves one more than the other is irrelevant.

walozanga:
That's childish talk

totally childish

I pity you. That's all I have to say.

Marriage can make or mar a man. If you get it right, you live happily and if you get it wrong, it will affect your whole life, including your ability to be successful and think cognitively.

Please for the sake of your sanity, go for someone that values you and for whom you are. As I said before, I pity you.

That talk( you love me more than I do)is a red flag if something should go wrong tomorrow when you guys are married she will always refer to what she told u already.

You don't marry for love, marry for commitment.

lionphil:
She's very matured and she simply told you the plain truth... why do you hate hearing the truth. She never said she doesn't love you. She never said she doesn't want to marry you, why are you then troubling yourself and troubling us biko?

He is troubling us here because it is obvious he loves her more

���dont fret.People who usually make such statements from experience,always fall helplessly in love with time.

She's just been careful and protecting her heart from another ache,remember once bitten......

Just continue doing you and treating her right,you do be amazed.

Anoda dick is fucking her , that's d meaning .. if u like urself don't put too many commitment in d relationship in case she wants to bail- out ... B loving but b smart too ... Wish u d best.

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

Maybe Or Maybe Not.

okay

elantraceey:
Most ladies, I inclusive will prefer their men loving them more. It doesn't mean they don't love their men but having a feeling that they're loved more gives them a sense of security and trust.

elantraceey:
Most ladies, I inclusive will prefer their men loving them more. It doesn't mean they don't love their men but having a feeling that they're loved more gives them a sense of security and trust.

& Any Lady that values her man & relationship will never spill it out in such manner & that makes op case worrisome!

If you begin reason wetin women dey talk for mouth eh, you no go progress o. Just go ahead with your plans, give am bele, bfor pikin clock a year and half wire her again, then make we see

MOST times wen I text or say to my GF "I love u"
She'll mostly reply with "I love u far more than u love me"
.....nd trust me, with all the women I've Dated over time, I've grown enough to know "sincerity" when I see one.


OP
My advice to you is...
"Thread with caution"
...while u put that marriage plan on hold.

lionphil:
She's very matured and she simply told you the plain truth... why do you hate hearing the truth. She never said she doesn't love you. She never said she doesn't want to marry you, why are you then troubling yourself and troubling us biko?

The last girl I dated told me same thing and broke up with me, like I never saw it coming and we were too good

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

There was something we were discussing and I told her there are several things that she does that makes me doubt if she truly loves me. She then replied saying, she loved her ex more than he loved her, and so she decided to not love anyone more than she loves them. That as for me, I love her more than she loves me, that’s why I sometimes thinks she doesn’t love me.

I told her this is not something you tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

There is more to marriage than what you think

Rubbiish:
& Any Lady that values her man & relationship will never spill it out in such manner & that makes op case worrisome!

Yeah, I would never say that..... She was being very careless.

ChocolateWine:
Humans change like the wind.

You love her more today, tomorrow you may not love her the same.

She loves you less today, tomorrow she may love you more.

We can't choose who we fall in love with, but we can choose who we want to keep loving.


Love is beyond romantic, it is backed by high principles. That's what every healthy relationship need to crave for.

You forgot to add a citation.

....Professor Africa Magic, Dr. Telemundo, Dr Zeeworld, et al.

@op. She's just being unusually truthful for a woman. Men fall in foolish love, women efficiently calculate their potential mates' prospects. She has calculated your prospects and found you wanting compared to her ex. If her ex calls her, she'll go running.

Women think of a relationship with men the way a man thinks of a job offer. What is the salary? What is the potential for promotion? Future career prospects? How valuable is the training? How often and by what percentage are the employees given a raise? What other benefits (paid vacations, connections etc) are available? Only in potential husbands, instead of all these, women look for the man's present income, income potential, then other benefits like sexual expertise, good fatherhood etc; in that order. Always remember that when you want to pick a wife. To a man, marriage is a love affair, to a woman, it's a business transaction. She feels no love for either you or her ex. She only thinks he has better potential, but you're the one who invited her for interview.

It means that she does not trust you enough to give her all which I consider as being cautious, one who has been stung by a bee will run from the sound mmmmmm.

MrNipplesLover:
The discussion of love me more I love u more that has come up between u and ur woman, I bet u, my brother, you've put the relationship on a shaky table.


This discussion will always trigger up some issues in the nearest future, and this might affect ur relationship.


My point:

U and ur woman should have never brought up such discussion.


I pity ur relationship.


God epp you and ur woman.

There is nothing wrong with bringing it up!!!
The lady simply have reservations about the relationship, that is it! Op already sound like a weak dude, her statement is more than enough reason to terminate that relationship. Any lady that values her man & relationship won't say such!

Bros, her subconscious state is speaking to you now...be wise.