dollytino4real:
where fear me ''the baby died" pls pray because the spiritual controls the physical

No, your mind controls the physical.

Please let her go... The little late baby was more of an angel. She saw something that is beyond man imagination. Please seek for a spiritual help. Marriage is not child's play.

My brother suspend every arrangement and pray until you have the liberty of spirit to continue,if not,things may start happening in your marriage that will get you more confused . Clear the air

In summary don't assume or trust in your understanding but seek for God's direction.

Most babies do this to some people they are not comfortable with.


Why blame sb else?


Na was o. Na juju thoughts just full people for mind.

kingofchess:
I Am Planning To Marry A Lady And This Happened. Pls Help

I am in my early 30 and I have been dating this lady for a year now and we are planning to settle down together and this happened.

There is this 11 months old baby in my compound who is very close to me and she just started walking. The very first time she saw my girl, she was soo scared and started crawling very fast towards her mum and crying. I quickly ran after her and carried her back to where my girl was sitting down, this time, the crying and running became very intense, I was shocked and I asked why the baby was so scared of her and she said she doesn't know.

Two days later, she came to my place and immediately this baby saw her she was scared and crying that was when I jokily asked her if she is a witch and she got angry and left my house. After she left, a lot of questions started running through my mind: like, is she a witch? Does she has a marine spirit? What did that little girl saw in her? In fact a lot of questions. She later called that same night and was like; baby, I am not possess ooh, I should not allow this little baby come between us ooh and that she loves me very much.

To cut the story short, less than two weeks later, the baby DIED. I was so scared if the baby actually saw something in her and she decided to shut the baby up ( I don't know, just an assumption).

Ever since then, I have been scared of my girl and I really don't know what to do. Please, I need your candid advice. Please guys, how can i make the moderators move this post to front page.

Gofuckyourself, you are needed here.

rapwizzy:
Please let her go... The little late baby was more of an angel. She saw something that is beyond man imagination. Please seek for a spiritual help. Marriage is not child's play.

Judging without any proof.

Whatever tho.

Bro run to a very fire branding church oh like MFM.
If she could say you shouldn’t allow the baby come between you guys, Omo she’s bigger than you oh...

kingofchess:
Very serious sir, that is the dilemma I am in right now

[quote author=mployer post=99169417]Fake story.

Babies are humans, they don't see spirits.

Only dogs do.[/quote

How you take know? are u a baby? Were u conscious of yourself when you were a baby? Ta comot for here

God no go let u join the list of men wey kpekus don kill
AMEN

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Babies often have two reactions towards me
1. They're afraid and don't want me to carry them. Because of my glasses
2. They allow me carry them but want to pull my glasses off my face

I think you should seek the face of the Lord before taking any major decision. She just might be innocent.

Reading through the first page comments, I marvel at you people's reasoning, babies usually have what we call stranger anxiety, they run away from any unfamiliar face, my son had always done that when ever I take him to my place of work even my neighbors do not come near him, infact nobody can carry him in our neighborhood, he just started warming up to people, last month and he is a year and nine months old, my second daughter when she was a baby didn't even let her father carry her, because he was not always at home because he always comes home late and she didn't know him that much, she started warming up to him when she was one year old she's five plus now, infact the day she called him daddy was the best day of his life, he still remember it like it's yesterday.
So op your fiancee is innocent, have you taken time to find out why the baby died, what if the tables are turned and she suspects you how would you feel, or is it only women that are possessed or practice witch craft.

Run as fast as you can from your so called girlfriend, she is heavily possessed or attached to very nasty spirits, little babies see another dimension we cannot see due to their innocence, once you marry her within 3 years u surely be dead or destroyed period, don’t say i didn’t warn you..

kingofchess:
Very serious sir, that is the dilemma I am in right now

dorin27:
Okay. Thanks for sharing your thought though. But let him speak for himself na. Do you mind?

Dorin??

mployer:
Fake story.
Babies are humans, they don't see spirits.
Only dogs do.

. children see

kingofchess:
Very serious sir, that is the dilemma I am in right now

codedly jepa oh before is become primer tears it happen to me oh mine was i became so poor and broke oh run oh bro like run for your life u never marry her is still in Relationship calculate yourself very well and start giving her excuses why you can't see her,then start complaining oh tell her you want money etc then jeje broke up stop having sex with her

Tosic007:
To things are involved. It's either she's highly spiritual or not but I tell u lil baby's are like that sometimes most with new face. If you own a dog u would understand more, as of leaving your fiancé over this lil ish Bro man mind the way you watch Nollywood movies o but if u doubt n want to clarify your conscience then go for autopsy or the other way round which is Ojuju calabar stuff.lol coz that's our tradition before the British came up with there scam religion. Why I used the ojuju calabar as instance is because one can be having ish with your lady n call her names like olosho or witch u go begin reason m nollywood way. In other words I don't think you're ready for marriage because this is jus the beginning or intro to the so called marriage, challenges yapa no be here. Lastly pray n talk to God bcoz he knows all,sees all n tell all#GodOverEverything

I thought u said d british religion is a scam.

hw come u believe in God

Nonsense you are here defending a witch, many young girls are deeply possessed with out even their knowledge of it, or attached to by nasty spirits, which is what the small girl saw..

Octobertwentysix:
Reading through the first page comments, I marvel at you people's reasoning, babies usually have what we call stranger anxiety, they run away from any unfamiliar face, my son had always done that when ever I take him to my place of work even my neighbors do not come near him, infact nobody can carry him in our neighborhood, he just started warming up to people, last month and he is a year and nine months old, my second daughter when she was a baby didn't even let her father carry her, because he was not always at home because he always comes home late and she didn't know him that much, she started warming up to him when she was one year old she's five plus now, infact the day she called him daddy was the best day of his life, he still remember it like it's yesterday.
So op your fiancee is innocent, have you taken time to find out why the baby died, what if the tables are turned and she suspects you how would you feel, or is it only women that are possessed or practice witch craft.

cchub:
This one choke me bros.
But, it might just be a mere coincidence.

Omo!!! I'm shocked too I don't even know what to say but just like you said, it may be a mere coincidence... Still scary tho

kingofchess:
Very serious sir, that is the dilemma I am in right now

I'd advice you to be careful. Because you don't have the facts but it appears you've already judge the lady which is bad.

Do you know at such young age babies cry alot and run from strange faces?


Are you aware babies at such age are prone to all kind of sicknesses?



Draw close to the mother for some days and buy her gifts, she'll open up after a while to you about the baby's condition


On the other hand, you may carry out background check on her


In the end, the accusation and suspicion has ruined thus relationship and it won't be like before...

IbnBattuta1960:

Where did you get that theory from? Babies will not allow you as a stranger carry them but not to the extent of running for safety.
OP, you know what to do.

Bros calm down. Most times Naija baby's sabi fall hand,that baby way dey run for safety if u bringout biscusits,sweet,money or breast the baby will jus navigate back. A baby will always behave like baby, that's why they're baby

The problem in NIGERIA is that we contribute our ideas in what we don't understand
Life is bigger than your experience and your knowledge.
The young man needs help but unfortunately he is looking for help in the wrong place. Nairaland is filled with ignorance people without real life experience and religiously deluded people. We are African and NIGERIANS in that matter.
We all have dangerous family dieties including your pastor's.

To the OP you have the experience and you are fully involved, don't let anyone talk you out of your fear deal with your fears by finding the truth by any means necessary.
We all are wearing mask on social media. We all have this kind of mis serious experience with us.

Talk to your mom or any elder in your family. Don't get religion involved yet, they will confuse you with enticing words of men wisdom

Romanoff:
Women done suffer for this naija sha, all because of marriage.

It is not about the gender na.

His fears are legit.

Supposing you have a boyfriend who visits one day, and a baby in the compound starts crying, and then dies within 2 weeks, would you not try to connect dots too.

There may be no connection between his girlfriend and the baby's death, but we can at least empathize with him.

So me wey my niece no let me carry am for 2yrs (1yr after she begin waka), but will run to complete strangers for comfort, wetin make I come talk? She don reach 16yrs now and we be good friends

Black man, who do una like dis?

Pickin wey no like new face, una term say the person get something, pickin die now, nah to elevate the innocent person to witch levels. Me, I wish the geh(note, I no call am your geh) peace and happiness with person wey go value am.

My condolences to the parents of the pickin wey don depart.

cchub:
This one choke me bros.
But, it might just be a mere coincidence.

Yet your holding into Bible like say she dey come for you as well....



Well thank God me too get few Bible's for here

OlawaleBammie:
One person recently said and i quote.

"no be all matter for field ref dey chuk mouth put"

Make I kukuna no schook mouth for dz one oh. Wahalla de like bycicle

Guy, u get issues..You dey enter cruise . Do what makes you happy.

kingofchess:
I Am Planning To Marry A Lady And This Happened. Pls Help

I am in my early 30 and I have been dating this lady for a year now and we are planning to settle down together and this happened.

There is this 11 months old baby in my compound who is very close to me and she just started walking. The very first time she saw my girl, she was soo scared and started crawling very fast towards her mum and crying. I quickly ran after her and carried her back to where my girl was sitting down, this time, the crying and running became very intense, I was shocked and I asked why the baby was so scared of her and she said she doesn't know.

Two days later, she came to my place and immediately this baby saw her she was scared and crying that was when I jokily asked her if she is a witch and she got angry and left my house. After she left, a lot of questions started running through my mind: like, is she a witch? Does she has a marine spirit? What did that little girl saw in her? In fact a lot of questions. She later called that same night and was like; baby, I am not possess ooh, I should not allow this little baby come between us ooh and that she loves me very much.

To cut the story short, less than two weeks later, the baby DIED. I was so scared if the baby actually saw something in her and she decided to shut the baby up ( I don't know, just an assumption).

Ever since then, I have been scared of my girl and I really don't know what to do. Please, I need your candid advice. Please guys, how can i make the moderators move this post to front page.

Don't marry this girl. I believe I am clear enough. If you follow pussy and breast and marry the lady, your life will be permanently ruined! You may even die in the process. She mudered the child who recognized that she is evil to prevent further embarrasing situations.

The day you marry this lady is the day you signed your death warrant.

A word is enough for the wise!

Charmingrascal:



Bro don't marry Mami water

That your fiancee is possessed run for your life.

There must have been some negativities or plenty positives in your life since you met her, check well and balance it.

Be wise, the Lord is saying something, listen!!

Some of these marine girls will make you rich as long as you make them happy.