| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Greatidonis: 5:30pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Bro even your friend knows his wife is likely getting help, since 2018 and you guys expect her to just sit?
Becareful how you go about it, she may set up and even your life will not be safe after she discovered that you are the one who told him.
I guess those telling you to tell him don't know this. 1 Like |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by adexpa(m): 5:30pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
daddytime:
Tell your friend that rumours are going rife about his wife's indiscretion and you'd advice him to keep his ears to the ground or possibly find a neutral friend or family member his wife knows not to come around and play a spy for a full time job.
The spy could make use of the woman who owns a shop in the neighbourhood's spot as a watch tower. He could simply connive with the shop owner and act as her relative to be able to garner enough evidences from close range.
He could take it a notch higher if he wants and has a spare key to the house which the spy can use to gain access into the house and plant a camera whenever he is sure the house is empty.
This kind matter, to solve and handle am no dey hard.
Na so my guy plant camera inside him car wey him wife use dey fck and carry guys up and down.
This one na woman wey the guy dey carry travel UK, US and everywhere oh...
On a more honest note, most of these stuff boils down to karma in one way or the other whether you agree with me or not because I don to see life to understand to an extent that nothing, absolutely nothing happens by accident.
We plant some seeds in life which we overtime forget had been sown and even when we neglect to water these seeds, nature does its job to help us pour water in the form of rain on them to help them germinate to a bountiful harvest.
When we dey tell people say make dem learn from some of us wey don make mostakes in life by living right and earning right dem say we be mugus or say we no plan our life well.
If you are reading this and you think cutting corners in any guise including yahoo yahoo is your sure bet to a good life, you had better have a rethink and change your ways. It might take take time but trust me, your penance cometh in any of these ways including a jail time and losing all you thought you had garnered before life knocks you back to ground zero for a fresh start.
It has happened to me, the friend I mentioned above and so many others I worked with when we though we were living lavida loca scamming people of their hard earned monies and cashing out.
In my case, even before I lost all the millions and investments I thought I had crookedly garnered because I thought I was so smart, karma had sentna jezebel my way for a wife who was drawn like bees to honey because of the cash flowing. You can only imagine what happened when I eventually fell to ground zero.
Today, I see life from a very different prism and thank God for the experience and also the wisdom to realize my folly and make a swift change.
I live to use my experience to sensitize and educate the youths to the many vices currently going rife amongst them.
The excuse of our politicians being the bigger thieves isn't fashionable any longer and you know what? They all have their karmas but from the outside, you no go know.
This life wey we dey live dey very big and deep but very easy to navigate through when you understand the rudiments/principles including the fact that there is more to it than the craze for easy/quick wealth by any means possible. If your ways get right with God/nature, you won't even be able to place how you survive and get by on adaily. Your needs will definitely be met without much ado so long as you aren't greedy for what you rightly can't afford.
I greet una You said a lot bro, nothing garnered dubiously last......invectus Obi n hush came to mind. Thank you for educating others from your experience May God bless your genuine hustle now 1 Like |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Slynation(m): 5:31pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
McEphiks:
Those are not presentable proof bro. She can deny such allegations since there's no evidence. All I'm saying is you should get a proof she can't deny. Shey you didn't read where the guy bought condoms from a near by shop abi, unless condoms is now multi-purpose.....When you face a cheating woman with the truth, she will hardly deny it |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Mekudi: 5:34pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
I have been looking for comments from ladies  Birds of the same feather |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by MarketDispatch: 5:34pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Deathisfree:
Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.
I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.
Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice. You need to change your Moniker first of all...if deathisfree. why are you afraid of telling your friend your observation? |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by imagrg(m): 5:35pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
I had a similar experience and reported the case to my friend. But you know what? The woman lied that I was the one trying to sleep with her and my friend believed it.
My advice is: let the sleeping dog lie. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Munzy14(m): 5:36pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Deathisfree:
Before I saw him smooched The ass ,I saw the guy few weeks ago leaving the house very early in the morning ,I was heading to work,I purposely gave him a ride
I’m not sure he knows me ,he was looking so rough NA that guy go plot the death of your friend the moment he returns. As for the wife, she is long gone in cloud9 with multiple orgasm... If ur friend becomes an obstacle, she will eliminate it as well. But, ur friend sef, y can't he be contented..For someone who has built a home of his own, and still moved to abroad like a bachelor hustling tight...nawa o. U can't keep a sexually active wife here for that long, nature must fill up the void. Anyway, he expected u to see to her needs with those words take care of her as if say she is ur wife. You wouldn't be surprise if he is enjoying his orgasm over there as well. Most of this guys when they move out NA flexing o, getting a call girl over there is as easier than here...Some African single ladies who run towards there, are majorly doing runs helping ministry of African guys over there. Lastly, mind ur business and focus ur wife..love and cherish her. Ur friend and his wife are birds of same feather. Don't go and buy case that isn't urs...A cheating wife has the heart of an assassin. Block her happiness/orgasm and get eliminated. If I am you...I will drink water and mind my business. 
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| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by thelish(f): 5:36pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
kelvinrhs:
Your friend that left since 2018 is definitely practicing celibacy over there too
Because body is firewood
Turn a blind eye because it's not even sure if your friend is ever going to come back for her
Or he's just waiting for her mistake so he can dwell on that
Wise |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by fortune1968: 5:40pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
BareFacedLies:
If you were a good friend you would have been the one servicing the lady instead of leaving the job for a complete stranger to do  bad guy ! |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by drlateef: 5:41pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Give your friend the hint and don’t suggest that she is cheating. Let him do the rest research by himself. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by GboyegaD(m): 5:43pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
justosee:
This is exactly what a real friend will do. He should search for evidence himself.
It is good for a husband and wife to always stay together. divorcing her before going abroad will save you from unnecessary worries. So because of abroad traveling, he should divorce his wife? This thinking gets me worried as men with such thoughts/mindset has no business with marriage in the first place. 1 Like |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by ABIODUN105(m): 5:43pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Op please tell your friend to come into the country without anybody consent and see his wife infedility himself. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by thelish(f): 5:44pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
KidDarkness:
Tell your friend but back it up with enough evidence What my neighbor did some time past that backfire, is what you are advising this guy to do so ooo. Cos eventually, the man forgave the wife, n confessed to her the source of his knowledge about it.. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by authority2006(m): 5:44pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
McEphiks:
You are still suspecting her and don't have a valid and solid proof yet.
Try get a proof , and tell your friend. With the bond you both share I think your friend will listen to understand rather than listen to reply. Proof like what if I may ask? May be like taking the pictures of both of them when they are on top of each other. Oh, that could be even tagged photoshop. I think video recording of both of them on top each other is what the Op needed. Mtceeew! Deathisfree:
Before I saw him smooched The ass ,I saw the guy few weeks ago leaving the house very early in the morning ,I was heading to work,I purposely gave him a ride
I’m not sure he knows me ,he was looking so rough Tell him your own facts, what you have witnessed so far and let your friend decides if he needs more facts or not. At least, you owe him that, for the sake of your friendship [s] McEphiks:
Those are not presentable proof bro. She can deny such allegations since there's no evidence. All I'm saying is you should get a proof she can't deny. [/s] |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by ComeAndobo: 5:45pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
justosee:
This advice can only come from a simp. don't listen to this useless advice.
Who in his right senses will confront a friend cheating wife? True true na very very useless advice. God epp us. I hope the guy has not taken this advice. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Tomilola360: 5:46pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Minding your own business saves you a whole lot of trouble. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by thelish(f): 5:46pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Deathisfree:
Who’s advice should I listen to ?
Some says do and some don’t. I’m confused It will surely backfire.. The man knows the wife has been cheating. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by ComeAndobo: 5:47pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Womanizer:
Let's be honest here.
Is it fair for your friend to leave his wife all alone in Nigeria for almost 3 years?  They have been rejecting her at the VISA office. I heard a story of someone purposely sabotaging the VISA process, I hope that's not what this woman is doing. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by GboyegaD(m): 5:48pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Deathisfree:
I’m telling you. So pathetic human being. My friend is really struggling so hard in the state ,he send 50k every months for her warfare and even open a big shop for her. To start with, your friend is in the US illegally and here you are trying to make him seem a Messiah. All I will tell you is to thread with caution. Do not meddle into people's relationship, let alone marriage. You were not there when they started, so mind your business. He is going to tell everyone you told him she is cheating as the justification for leaving her, just to make himself sound like a saint. The earlier you remind yourself it isn't your business, the better for you. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by ComeAndobo: 5:48pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
aroundtheearth:
Stay out of it. I'm sure your friend is no saint either because he himself probably has someone in the U.S by now. Na small remain make I report your comment na rubbish you talk my guy. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Earnerbitcoin: 5:49pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Hoesss everywhere |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
GboyegaD:
So because of abroad traveling, he should divorce his wife? This thinking gets me worried as men with such thoughts/mindset has no business with marriage in the first place. We live in a strange world now. marriage is no longer as sacred as it use to be. No one in his right senses will travel abroad without his wife. better to divorce her and start afresh abroad, if you can't afford to take her with you. unless you can cope with a cheating wife. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by ComeAndobo: 5:49pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Deathisfree:
Alright.i will try and get back to you guys Oga don't let him know yet ooooo |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Ola17: 5:50pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
@deathisfree
If you must tell your friend, make sure you do it anonymously. I repeat, tell him anonymously o. Because your friend will always tell the wife that it was you who ratted her out. She could claim that you wooed or tried to rape her and you will end up the loser.
A woman that can cheat so brazenly can go to any lengths to protect her game.
Be guided. 1 Like |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by daddytime(m): 5:51pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
adexpa:
You said a lot bro, nothing garnered dubiously last......invectus Obi n hush came to mind.
Thank you for educating others from your experience
May God bless your genuine hustle now Thanks mate....God bless. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by simigold: 5:51pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
You don't need any video or photo proof before you inform a friend who has given you an assignment to watch over his wife including this you have stated.
There are eight types of evidences amongst them is direct evidence which is evidence that is based on personal knowledge or observation.
Putting this story on Nairaland alone with diverse views is an evidence itself.
Your friend can still sign up and read your write up and comments himself.
The comments of people that the wife will turn everything on you is a backup on its own. Be wise. 1 Like |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by harmony75: 5:51pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
that's so disrespectful � married man or woman she lacks self control. if these men can come over to the house to harm her and the kids, knowing well there's no man in the house � |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Nobody: 5:52pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
ComeAndobo:
True true na very very useless advice. God epp us. I hope the guy has not taken this advice. he is not that stupid |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by daddytime(m): 5:53pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
ThundrCork:
Bro I feel you 100%. Only few will understand what you have written here. My brother...only a few indeed. I just wish more than a few would understand. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by Geenosko: 5:53pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Deathisfree:
Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.
I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.
When my house got to roofing, this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega, we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school.
I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me.
December 2018, my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving, I drove him to the airport, he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunately, the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around.
To shorten the long story. I work in a company, I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday, my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now, I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of their house.
A woman sells provisions in our street, she told me about the guy few weeks ago, she said he always comes buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop, he came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was.
Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux, I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside
With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street.
I am so heartbroken, my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness. Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice. Collect solid evidence and email it to your friend anonymously. Thank me later |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by GboyegaD(m): 5:54pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
daddytime:
Tell your friend that rumours are going rife about his wife's indiscretion and you'd advice him to keep his ears to the ground or possibly find a neutral friend or family member his wife knows not to come around and play a spy for a full time job.
The spy could make use of the woman who owns a shop in the neighbourhood's spot as a watch tower. He could simply connive with the shop owner and act as her relative to be able to garner enough evidences from close range.
He could take it a notch higher if he wants and has a spare key to the house which the spy can use to gain access into the house and plant a camera whenever he is sure the house is empty.
This kind matter, to solve and handle am no dey hard.
Na so my guy plant camera inside him car wey him wife use dey fck and carry guys up and down.
This one na woman wey the guy dey carry travel UK, US and everywhere oh...
On a more honest note, most of these stuff boils down to karma in one way or the other whether you agree with me or not because I don to see life to understand to an extent that nothing, absolutely nothing happens by accident.
We plant some seeds in life which we overtime forget had been sown and even when we neglect to water these seeds, nature does its job to help us pour water in the form of rain on them to help them germinate to a bountiful harvest.
When we dey tell people say make dem learn from some of us wey don make mostakes in life by living right and earning right dem say we be mugus or say we no plan our life well.
If you are reading this and you think cutting corners in any guise including yahoo yahoo is your sure bet to a good life, you had better have a rethink and change your ways. It might take take time but trust me, your penance cometh in any of these ways including a jail time and losing all you thought you had garnered before life knocks you back to ground zero for a fresh start.
It has happened to me, the friend I mentioned above and so many others I worked with when we though we were living lavida loca scamming people of their hard earned monies and cashing out.
In my case, even before I lost all the millions and investments I thought I had crookedly garnered because I thought I was so smart, karma had sentna jezebel my way for a wife who was drawn like bees to honey because of the cash flowing. You can only imagine what happened when I eventually fell to ground zero.
Today, I see life from a very different prism and thank God for the experience and also the wisdom to realize my folly and make a swift change.
I live to use my experience to sensitize and educate the youths to the many vices currently going rife amongst them.
The excuse of our politicians being the bigger thieves isn't fashionable any longer and you know what? They all have their karmas but from the outside, you no go know.
This life wey we dey live dey very big and deep but very easy to navigate through when you understand the rudiments/principles including the fact that there is more to it than the craze for easy/quick wealth by any means possible. If your ways get right with God/nature, you won't even be able to place how you survive and get by on adaily. Your needs will definitely be met without much ado so long as you aren't greedy for what you rightly can't afford.
I greet una Joblessness is truly a big ish in Nigeria if not, somebody should leave his life to come monitor another. |
| Re: My Friend’s Wife Is Cheating by frozen70(f): 5:55pm On Feb 21, 2021 |
Deathisfree:
Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.
I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.
When my house got to roofing, this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega, we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school.
I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me.
December 2018, my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving, I drove him to the airport, he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunately, the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around.
To shorten the long story. I work in a company, I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday, my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now, I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of their house.
A woman sells provisions in our street, she told me about the guy few weeks ago, she said he always comes buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop, he came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was.
Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux, I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside
With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street.
I am so heartbroken, my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness. Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice. Despite she is being starved due to the absence of her husband, she should have done it codedly if at all she has to do so Your friend too is equally guilty because men are worst with such attitude Just leave her, she will be the one to report herself |
