Wealthinwealth1:
mr man , u should be more concerned with the fact that u copulated on another man's baby, if you are a yoruba man, u kno what it means, jst go for deliverance and dont add to your problem by aborting the innocent baby, it wasn't the baby's fault . jekomolomo wa jaye e. Babies comes with lots of blessings, if you dont want to b a part of the blessings, take the child to motherless babies abeg. NEVER GET INVOLVE IN ABORTION, NEVER!!!

deliverance ke, when he wasn't aware that the lady is pregnant. point of correction, it is not all babies that comes with blessing.

It may be possible because not all girls circle is 28days.

take for instance like those who have a lots of eggs on the body maybe between 21_23days circle and ovulation starts 3days before mestruation and 3 days after menstruation if I might guess right

But my advice for you is to pet her, tell her that you will support her during the period for her to reveal the real owner but if she still insist, that's mean you need to make an agreement wether with police or an elderly person that you will bear all the cost during the pregnancy and after the birth you are going for DNA but if it turn negative that's means she will refund all your expenses on her and if it's you then congratulations to you my brother, u done become a Father niyen.

extol1:

abortion is only a crime in Nigeria on a paper but practically it is not. just like saying gay is a crime in Nigeria

May we never have a cause to be a scapegoat...

JeffDWalter:


That is wrong Sir.

After her discharge/period, she has only 14 days of "safe period" but to be on a safe, I give people 10 days because of the differences in individuals.

A full circle is 28 days: 14 days of free womb plus 7 days of ovulation and 7days plus or minus of discharges gives you 28 days.

So if she finished her menstruation on the 2and, we assume that, on or before 16th of December, she had a mature egg/ova ready for fertilization from the Fallopian tube to the ovary. If you slept with her six days later, being 24th or so, according to you, then you would be responsible for fertilization of the egg.

As a fellow rightly pointed out, gestation begins immediately after her period.

So calculate from second of December to 24th of February and you have exactly 12 weeks.

You are the father until DNA proves otherwise. Not all Lab Technicians can actual calculate ovulation periods.

Some women too do not even know it.

You just muddled everything up. The first day of a 28 days cycle period is the first day a woman sees blood and that particular cycle ends a day to whenever she sees another blood discharge.
Having established that, if blood flow stops after the 5th day, then your ovulation is likely to occur on the 14th day which is actually 9 days after the stoppage of blood flow on the 5th day. Your theory about having a blanket free 14 days is wrong as a sperm can stay active for about 48 hours , so if you have sex on the 12th day of your cycle, which is 2 days before ovulation till the 17th day which is 3 days after ovulation, then that's when you can get pregnant.

Jakasibo:
I had sex with this Girl on the 24th night of December 2020 and on 30th of same December she told me she was pregnant, she confirmed to me that she last saw her period from November 28th to Dec. 2nd, i was so surprised that early January i took her to the hospital for a proper test which came out positive after that she told me she's not keeping the baby. She took some drugs and told me the pregnancy has gone.

It was last week she called me again that she hasn't still seen her period yet so i told to go for test, two days ago she did test and confirm she was still pregnant so i have to take her for scan yesterday myself, when the scan result came out it was showing 12weeks and five days which when calculated is more than the day of intercourse (24th dec).

Please Experienced person and doctors in the house please i need help coz I'm very confused now.

Even the man the scan told me the baby is not mine.

Below is the scan result

Can it still be aborted successfully?

simple question. Did you cum inside her when you guys made out?

Umaruxoxo:
daddy oyoyo

Daddy oh you're home... I no go correct you again.

Let

Shellsploit:
Ask her who slept with her before u met her.
Shes trying to manipulate you into owing the pregnancy.


Lalasticlala sef...

Stop giving people wrong advice . He is the father of the child also tell him to zip up next time if he isn't ready to father any child .
Don't bring children to the world only to suffer them .

Jakasibo:
I had sex with this Girl on the 24th night of December 2020 and on 30th of same December she told me she was pregnant, she confirmed to me that she last saw her period from November 28th to Dec. 2nd, i was so surprised that early January i took her to the hospital for a proper test which came out positive after that she told me she's not keeping the baby. She took some drugs and told me the pregnancy has gone.

It was last week she called me again that she hasn't still seen her period yet so i told to go for test, two days ago she did test and confirm she was still pregnant so i have to take her for scan yesterday myself, when the scan result came out it was showing 12weeks and five days which when calculated is more than the day of intercourse (24th dec).

Please Experienced person and doctors in the house please i need help coz I'm very confused now.

Even the man the scan told me the baby is not mine.

Below is the scan result

Can it still be aborted successfully?

Its not yours.
And please, avoid fornication

litaninja:
Lol. You didnt sleep during that time? You didn't go have a shower on your own? Neither of you left the other's sight during that period?
Baba, do a DNA test, no dey lamba yourself.

Kids everywhere.

Again, I have done DNA for all my kids, not because of distrust but for other purpose. All my kids are MINE!

When we preach about being born again and keeping away from all sins including fornication, you'll think we are just blowing hot air. It is for your own good and peace of mind.

Romanoff:
If her period ended on December 2nd, there's no way she can get a positive pregnancy test when you both had sex on 24th December.

If she's on a 28 day cycle, her ovulation/ fertile period should have been around 10th to 14th depending on the length of her cycle. 10 days after the 14th is 24th December. If you had sex then, there's no way she could have gotten a positive pregnancy test by 30th December.

How do y'all even have sex without protection in this day and age that almost everyone is having sex with anything and anyone?

Una no dey fear for Una life o.

The gestational age corresponds with her last period but she prolly slept with someone else before you around her fertile period. The time you slept with her is around the 26th day of her cycle and there's no way that baby could be yours.

Everything here be like Further Maths
I no understand anything.

God forbids fornication, una no go hear.
He forbids murder, yet your sin partner tried to abort the baby with your full knowledge even though it didn't work at first.
Now you both jointly want to terminate the baby for the second time, and worse still you're seeking approval and public validation to do what is wrong.
Instead of making your ways right before God. You're planing on making him angry the more.

mosdi
do the needful
or have you?

Ejaisky:
The gestation age start counting from the first day of last period not the day of intercourse.

That's not true... It starts from day of ovulation.

JosephXavier:
So after all these calculations you still come here to ask us if it's your pregnancy?

You just came to ignite guys against ladies in my own judgement

How come a grown up man will be acting like a simp

Shut up full if u can't advise him

Morray:
simple question. Did you cum inside her when you guys made out?

lol..who no go cum

Exodora:
Let
Stop giving people wrong advice . He is the father of the child also tell him to zip up next time if he isn't ready to father any child .
Don't bring children to the world only to suffer them .

dude never stated he can't take care of the child

Pls o how good is Kiss condom product

cyndylove64:
Am a lady.ask her who owns that pregnancy very well.there is no way for u to have sex on 24th and get a pregnancy test positive on 30th.even the scan shows you are not the owner of the pregnancy.she was already pregnant before you slept with her.

I think you're wrong in your calculation. That baby is probably his. By 30 December when she didn't see her period, it's counted as four weeks or one month from her last period. End of January gives another four weeks and end of February is another four weeks.

To those who are arguing that she must have passed her fertile period, ovulation , many times, comes later, not earlier.

salt1:

I think you're wrong in your calculation. That baby is probably his. By 30 December when she didn't see her period, it's counted as four weeks or one month from her last period. End of January gives another four weeks and end of February is another four weeks.

To those who are arguing that she must have passed her fertile period, ovulation , many times, comes later, not earlier.

how can u have sex on 24th and 6 days later u get a positive pregnancy test result?and ovulation is 10th day after the said period.

How presumptuous.

1759King:

Kids everywhere.

Again, I have done DNA for all my kids, not because of distrust but for other purpose. All my kids are MINE!

Anyway, it looks like the op is in real love with the girl, and you know that love conquereth all things. A man in love is surely a blind man. Op has no intention of hurting this girl that why he is already contemplating of accepting the pregnancy.

salt1:

I think you're wrong in your calculation. That baby is probably his. By 30 December when she didn't see her period, it's counted as four weeks or one month from her last period. End of January gives another four weeks and end of February is another four weeks.

To those who are arguing that she must have passed her fertile period, ovulation , many times, comes later, not earlier.

her period was said to end on the 2nd then definitely her ovulation day is 12th or 13th of that same december.it also means she is likely to either be in her safe period or menstruating when op slept with her.if she is not pregnant then ooo.or op is lying.

Doradorwa:
May we never have a cause to be a scapegoat...

Amin

cyndylove64:
how can u have sex on 24th and 6 days later u get a positive pregnancy test result?and ovulation is 10th day after the said period.

Because ovulation doesn't definitely occur on a set day. It can occur at anytime in the woman's cycle. This is why the calendar method of family planning has a high failure rate. The woman's reproductive calendar can be disturbed and disorganized by anything that affects her emotionally. Generally, ovulation occurs later, hardly earlier ,in the cycle.

Unless you slept with her around 13, 14, 15, or even 16 th day of Dec but if it is this 24, that pregnancy isn't yours, tell her to confess the owner.

DenreleDave:


Shut up full if u can't advise him

It's fool and not full

BOBO DON ENTER ONE CHANCE BECAUSE OF ROTTEN PIGEON HOLE!IN THIS KIN WEATHER! STOP FORNICATION! Give your life to Jesus Christ, marry when ready!

She de insist to abort d pregnancy.. She even took some drug without telling u.... Nd yet, u refuse to get d message she's trying to pass to u, eehn.!

I SWEAR TO GOD...NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE A USELESS AND WORTHLESS PIECE OF SHIIIT.

Jakasibo:

I never asked for abortion, she's the one insisting on it and besides she took drugs before without my knowledge.
Secondly is the misery in it, coz i don't want a situation where I'll be training another man's child. And I don't if the baby will still be ok since already took abortion drugs before

With the drugs already taken,there's a high risk of developmental defects,a D&C should be performed..

salt1:


Because ovulation doesn't definitely occur on a set day. It can occur at anytime in the woman's cycle. This is why the calendar method of family planning has a high failure rate. The woman's reproductive calendar can be disturbed and disorganized by anything that affects her emotionally. Generally, ovulation occurs later, hardly earlier ,in the cycle.

I doubt the girl was Disturbed emotionally.am not saying the pregnancy is wrong or they should abort.he can always do dna test.but I stick to the fact that the lady was already pregnant before the said day of sex.unless he slept with her from 13-18th but if is 24th then he's not the owner