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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Xkale1234(m): 11:33pm On Mar 02, 2021

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

ehhhh did you go to school at all, mumu girl

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Julidrumz: 11:37pm On Mar 02, 2021

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat
money and go?

Did I over react?

what hunger. Low mentality nd poverty don cus for naija no b small thing

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by kizyalex10(m): 11:37pm On Mar 02, 2021

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

sorry bro i pity ur life,dont knw why this part of the world sees relationship as job opportunity or totally a man's affair

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Slimsly100(f): 11:42pm On Mar 02, 2021

Fahdiga:
When a fish brain comments it is easy to know. so any man that approaches a girl will automatically inherit the girl's problems

Bday celebration sef suppose be problem

I Taya for people sef.
Must she do bday party

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Slimsly100(f): 11:45pm On Mar 02, 2021

SocialJustice:
Allow her to go meet the hotel builder. It will hurt but the pain will pass. Nigerian girls are too entitled and engage in transactional relationships/sex excessively. If you have the money and you're open minded enough, try girls from other countries - Ghana, Kenya, South Africa. Those girls are way prettier and properly raised. Poverty and greed has destroyed the average Nigerian girl. Either they want to live like a celebrity or they are looking for who will become the breadwinner of their entire family.

I agree with everything wey u yarn o but guy that "properly raised" part got me angry

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by MrMacinterchi1: 11:45pm On Mar 02, 2021

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

The future is Female babies.
lol

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by CivilscapeConst: 11:45pm On Mar 02, 2021

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

See mentality. Is she his wife? The only time she becomes his responsibility is when their is a ring on her finger. Doesn't she have parents? Women are becoming clowns this days. The only time he should spend on her is if he wants to.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by KingLion007(m): 11:46pm On Mar 02, 2021

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

So men are now investment from women abi..mind you d guy never marry am ooo...and he has been takin good care of her just for her to mk hair herself she start acting up.women shld learn to be independent with that you will cmand reapect from man

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Dpaulie(m): 11:48pm On Mar 02, 2021

I suspect both of u are yahoo-yahoo

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by KingLion007(m): 11:49pm On Mar 02, 2021

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

So when you approach a woman for a relationship it means takin care of her responsibility abi..change your mindset otherwise hmmmm...mk i no talk oooo

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by MrMacinterchi1: 11:51pm On Mar 02, 2021

This your girlfriend abi fiance is not considerate at all. Imagine!
Common to compromise on the hair and seek other means to make it and exclusively enjoy her birthday party you will host , with your money o, she can not do.

it's funny in a way because this is a good example of penny wise, pounds foolish lol.
It's her type of woman that believes that gdt husband's money is ours while her money is hers alone.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by meetcharles: 11:51pm On Mar 02, 2021

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Funny. Is d said girl a handicapped person that everything must be done for her?

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Ebenezer21(m): 11:51pm On Mar 02, 2021

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Mrlucky81(m): 11:59pm On Mar 02, 2021

[quote author=Henrymorre post=99535378]
So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

You have said it yourself *She is there to eat money and go

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Queenslander(f): 12:00am On Mar 03, 2021

Babara1994:

I thought all ladies don't see anything wrong in asking every man for money.

maybe hun,. Buh not all ladies though!!

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Shormiey(m): 12:04am On Mar 03, 2021

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Just girlfriend?.....you are not making sense, Olohun.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by steveekeoma(m): 12:05am On Mar 03, 2021

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

i hope you're Joking?

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by mp3ree: 12:06am On Mar 03, 2021

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

Stand your ground.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by knowhowk: 12:07am On Mar 03, 2021

Fahdiga:
When a fish brain comments it is easy to know. so any man that approaches a girl will automatically inherit the girl's problems

Oga Take am easy oooo .U already know Comment like that are given by fish Brain why Mentioning it again now ...

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Shormiey(m): 12:10am On Mar 03, 2021

blazepascal:
are you a feminist?

She can never be one..... undecided

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by JoseRaji(m): 12:11am On Mar 03, 2021

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Mtchewwww....

"Let me fabricate story that never happened, so that they will engage my lie-lie thread."

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 12:14am On Mar 03, 2021

MrNipplesLover:

Tell me about it, bro.

And why this question?

Na today u dey see

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Maximus85(m): 12:16am On Mar 03, 2021

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

That one will ruin you. You better run.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by ABANGWABOI(m): 12:21am On Mar 03, 2021

#ILMOVON

#Attitude
#Bliv

Lol ..
If this story is not fake, I assure you..
It would end in premium Larger Tears for you..

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by realman4me(m): 12:33am On Mar 03, 2021

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Honestly if ur story is true.tk these from me run away from that relationship.to her u b ATM she has someone she loves more than you.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by realman4me(m): 12:36am On Mar 03, 2021

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

i can so bet u that 1million men will run away from such attitude.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Kenneth10110(m): 12:37am On Mar 03, 2021

Henrymorre:
if the one I am providing is not enough, then I don't think there is much I can do, there are more ladies, finer and hotter that will love me and what ever I give her.

I hope you dey support your family this one you paying for hotel and drinks for a girl your not married too. You dey wash car another man dey drive am with you

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by realman4me(m): 12:39am On Mar 03, 2021

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

u try u hear.hunmmm she for b like mad person now.if she no see boyfriend she no go do her hair again.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:49am On Mar 03, 2021

UDOKABESTLUV:

Na today u dey see

Oh, I seeeeeeee.

I just checked ur Ziggy now. Smiles.

I was confused when u asked cos the thread has nothing to with .

Thanks.

Stay blessed, bro.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by NaijaCover(m): 12:54am On Mar 03, 2021

MrNipplesLover:

Oh, I seeeeeeee.

I just checked ur Ziggy now. Smiles.

I was confused when u asked cos the thread has nothing to with .

Thanks.

Is Me

Stay blessed, bro.

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by DedeNkem: 1:07am On Mar 03, 2021

Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

She's NOT a wife material! She's a gold-digger!
She's NOT your responsibility! If she wants to celebrate her birthday, it's not your responsibility to pay for the event!

Someone who doesn't have money hadly think of celebrating their birthday.

If she doesn't work, let her get a job! She's not your wife to make those demands! Even a good wife won't make such demands!

You need to run now while this gaint red flag in flashing in your face!

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by DedeNkem: 1:07am On Mar 03, 2021

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Another gold-digger.

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