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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Drsnives(m): 12:22pm On Mar 03, 2021
Kweeke ooo
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by savageyoungboy(m): 12:22pm On Mar 03, 2021
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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Wondermumsy(f): 12:22pm On Mar 03, 2021
Please do not abort it.God will guide you on what to do

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by JoeOdion(m): 12:22pm On Mar 03, 2021
Please avoid that.

Meanwhile please follow my signature.
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Daniiel: 12:22pm On Mar 03, 2021
tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

If you have around 700k down let the pikin be oi

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Teaser4(m): 12:23pm On Mar 03, 2021
BlackPantherxXx:
sad

Don't abort. There are consequences.
what consequences? You don watch too many naija movies...
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by onoms4luv(m): 12:23pm On Mar 03, 2021
Why will you pluck a fruit when you know,you aren't eating it.


Oga leave the baby before me and you get problem o
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by LordReed(m): 12:23pm On Mar 03, 2021
Remove it. Both of you are not ready to take care of the child, why birth a baby that will just come to suffer lack of attention and care.

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by pozehnani(f): 12:24pm On Mar 03, 2021
All those talks about not being ready to shoulder responsibilities now is medicine after death because that is the first thing you should have thought of before sleeping around. Mtchew!

Whether or not it's yours, so long as you have entered there, take full responsibility. That's your cross for letting your manhood control you. Next time you'll practise self control.

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Emmbanny(m): 12:24pm On Mar 03, 2021
Please keep the pregnancy. God will see through.
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by sojfarm: 12:25pm On Mar 03, 2021
You have to take it easy.

Do not abort!!!

Take responsibilities with your sense intact. Ask her questions so as to be sure that you are the

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Saao(m): 12:25pm On Mar 03, 2021
tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?
the bolded is very very important but the deed has been done so let her give birth. Don't take blood into your hand expecially your own blood. Again be sure that she's indeed pregnant by taking her to independent lab for pregnant test. Children are gift from God if she's indeed pregnant, be a man and allow her to give back to your baby.
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by RunzMAN: 12:25pm On Mar 03, 2021
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Udodiri01: 12:25pm On Mar 03, 2021
Ttt
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by bodee(m): 12:25pm On Mar 03, 2021
I will advise you to abort. But ensure you engage in safe abortion. Abortion within the first trimester is safe and relatively painless.

There are two reasons for my stance:
1. You're not prepared!
2. The lady with the pregnancy has already taken drugs which could cause defection for the unborn child.

Also, don't mind the religiously minded individuals here. A foetus is a foetus which is still not detached from the woman. Hence, it's not a human. It's only a human in embryo.

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by VadBet(m): 12:26pm On Mar 03, 2021
tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

Invite her to your house first then go to the pharmacy and buy a pregnancy slip. It's N50 or N100 and have her pee on it to confirm first if she is indeed pregnant.

If she is not you are cool.

If she is I will say you should abort the baby especially since you are not ready for the responsibility.

There are lots of things that come with having a baby out of wedlock and unless you are ready to marry her there is no need to bring a child in this world simply because of a night's fling.

Abort the baby and next time be more careful with your dick.

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by ebuka440: 12:26pm On Mar 03, 2021
Guy there is a serious trust issues with women these days. It may be you or another person but try to find out last time that you guys had sex. Again, undergo a scan to certify when she saw her last menstrual cycle. Don't trust any Lady except for the one that you know very well period.

Good luck!

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 03, 2021
Lol,,, the sole decision belongs to a lady. She knows what's good for her - birthing or terminating the pregnancy.


What's postinor by the way? I am a learner grin

Re: Do I remove This Baby? by STENON(f): 12:27pm On Mar 03, 2021
tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?
You can never be financially ready for a baby . Just continue your hustle, ensure she has a job to support you and plan for a family. Don’t kill the baby please

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by danielblessing(m): 12:27pm On Mar 03, 2021
@op want to remove a future president..

My advice is that you should not remove it.

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by malcom1X: 12:27pm On Mar 03, 2021
Baba run am, we dey your back. Keep the baby.

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Righteousness2(m): 12:27pm On Mar 03, 2021

Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Goldenheart(m): 12:27pm On Mar 03, 2021
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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by culf: 12:28pm On Mar 03, 2021
tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?


That child could be your lifeline tomorrow, don't remove it please. God will always make a way, yours is just to trust him.

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Karleb(m): 12:28pm On Mar 03, 2021
Go on with the abortion.

Don't let religious people guilt trip you into keeping a baby you don't want. You are the father and its your decision and that of the mother to take.

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Udodiri01: 12:28pm On Mar 03, 2021
Tttfvvvvvvvv
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by etrouble: 12:29pm On Mar 03, 2021
tommie1:


It was not one week. It was a few weeks later. Over a month.

Mumu she want to dump bastard with you.
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by AsawanaDgreat: 12:31pm On Mar 03, 2021
I see DNA in the future
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Vikinatty(f): 12:32pm On Mar 03, 2021
Don't remove the baby, children are gift from God. God will provide wat u will use to take care of them.

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Re: Do I remove This Baby? by DenreleDave(m): 12:34pm On Mar 03, 2021
bodee:
I will advise you to abort. But ensure you engage in safe abortion. Abortion within the first trimester is safe and relatively painless.

There are two reasons for my stance:
1. You're not prepared!
2. The lady with the pregnancy has already taken drugs which could cause defection for the unborn child.

Also, don't mind the religiously minded individuals here. A foetus is a foetus which is still not detached from the woman. Hence, it's not a human. It's only a human in embryo.

The 2nd day she took the ppstinor can't cause any defection.... Since it was after sex she took it.
Re: Do I remove This Baby? by alphaconde(m): 12:34pm On Mar 03, 2021
that's how my gf got pregnant in 2018 January.

we married in april

child born in oct

very cute boy

since the birth of that child I have experienced immeasurable blessing.

we have a second child now

from a struggling employee of 6 digits to a business owner with turn over in 8 digits

once I knew I was expecting a child my mentality for hustling changed.

it may work for u it may not.

just my story

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