Don’t worry leave the old woman alone let her die because your wife want her dead....

Stupid man

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Your mum brought you into this world. You do not need someone to tell you who or what she is.

You should also know who and what manner of woman you got married to.

If you're still curious then you just have to go to God in prayer/fasting and let Him alone clear your doubts. You do not need to let your wife or mother even know what you're doing.


As a man never pass money through your wife to your mum, siblings or friends. Give what you know your can let go of.

If you have not been observant of happenings in your house and environment now is the time you need to.

stanliwise:
your wife is not your mother and your mother is not your wife.
Both can’t really advice you on how to love the other.
A word is enough for the wise

You said it all...

The earlier a man understands he has three wives - your mum, your wife and your daughter/s the better.

The earlier you learn how to treat them individually/separately the better for you.

E Dey do me like make I slap you continuously till you get sense bro....in fact you are a weak man! You give your mother! Money through your wife? Bye bye

Well I am a lady and I will tell you this, from this write up, I can tell you 100% that your wife doesn't want you to be doing anything for your mother again or probably want you to reduce what you have been doing for her, that's why she want to make sure that everything goes through her incase it's too much, she will reduce it and send little and incase she sometimes feel the money is not necessary, she will keep it without sending
My advise to you is that if you want peace, when you do 100% of something for you mum, just tell your wife that it's 50% you did and that your other siblings contribute to the rest
ADIOS�

Omihanifa:


I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

That's why am saying he shouldn't just discard what the lady is saying. He should take his time to observe first before arriving at a conclusion.

It's possible that maybe she's been observing a particular trend whenever the man gives his mother money.

Oga leave matter, how can a woman he married few years ago suddenly discovered that her mother inlaw. Is fetish?

No be person wen chop. Bellefull dey remember parents?

For him to be taking care of his mother means he's financially okay, therefore there's nothing to investigate about the wife's claim, Op has a very bad wife simple...

Dump Her she is an Evil wife.
That is the way they start to Reduce your worth
Your mother that was not a witch when you were growing up has suddenly turned witch.
Rather that your wife is evil.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

never ever in your life agree to her terms, how she take wash u like dis seff. watin do ur hand wey u nor fit give ur own mama money by urself. infact why u go tell ur wife say u wan give ur mama money. the moment u start to give her the money to give to ur mother ur own don finish, ur mama so suffer ehhnnn 1 naira she nor go give her. infact ur wife na dey fertish and e don dey use am for ur body. wetin dey do u seff y u allow woman dey work u.

tell her to stay off ur family business.... ur mother is gold

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Fetish or not put your wife under control otherwise no more peace in ur house .
Have u forgotten all women are witch ,so tell her if your mother is fetish,she also is fetish cuz all women r the same for get born again ish

No advise for u bro cos I detest weak men

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Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
Why is it your Wife telling you about your Mum? don't you have a mind of your own?
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

chuxx84 Do u/can u hear urself better ? Ur wife don Bi witch U .Think deeply.If ur mama dat took care of u ,gave u money till u become a man didn’t kill u at infant/teen ,Nah now wen u manage to survive she go destroy u abi ? That woman u call a wife is a DEMON from the PIT of HELL.She’ll do everything to make u turn ur back at ur mother .Listen,i’ll Suffer 50 yrs if u dnt break urself FREE from dat mental SLAVERY and TORTURE u kal wife

Your mum is fetish, but according to you, of all your siblings you're the most successful. If you're thinking like this(because from what I understand now, you already believe the witch of a wife)what do you expect your siblings to do?
E no go ever better for that your wife.

Let me say this.

Your giving to your mother, is out of your heart and respect or love, never forget that.

I think you Wife should focus on how she can work i suppose rather than scrutinizing everything you do.

I know what some mothers are capable of, they are capable of extreme love for their children, this i know, so give them as much as you can.


Let me ask, do you scrutinize how she gives money to her parents or siblings.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

MAY GOD PUNISH U AND YOUR JEZEBEL WIFE! RUBBISH

hehe,

arinola2504:
Well I am a lady and I will tell you this, from this write up, I can tell you 100% that your wife doesn't want you to be doing anything for your mother again or probably want you to reduce what you have been doing for her, that's why she want to make sure that everything goes through her incase it's too much, she will reduce it and send little and incase she sometimes feel the money is not necessary, she will keep it without sending
My advise to you is that if you want peace, when you do 100% of something for you mum, just tell your wife that it's 50% you did and that your other siblings contribute to the rest
ADIOS�

babaijebue:


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OP, I think I understand your dilemma.
You're obviously torn between two loves: the love of a mother - to put smile on her face (it is the pride of every worthy son), and then the love of a wife... Hmmm, she obviously has a strong influence on you and your decision-making process.

Well, so you want a piece of advice? Here is it! Start with your wife:
You need to get her to reliably inform you on how she got to know Mama was fetishistic. Very likely response you will get is that your wife had consulted some "spiritual persons" who told her this... In which case she's also as guilty of fetishism as the one she did accuse.
Less likely response you will get may centre around the superstitious intuitions of most black women. In this case, you have to be firm and instruct her to perish the thought!

What I will advice you NEVER to do in this circumstance is to confront Mama! Young man, DON'T TRY IT!

Mama.wey no use you pound soap wen you no be anybody... Mama wey take care of you well for your wife to admire that glory in you all through the years, na now she wan com turn fetish?

Let me just drop this, women are never comfortable with a man who divides his attention between them...

I Rise!

MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

This man has said it all, OP listen to this man.

Tell your wife to go and apologize to your mother ASAP.

Else, that your wife will be your downfall! How can she open her mouth and tell you your mother is fetish, and you are here looking for advice?

Even if your mother is fetish let her continue the fetishness dey go, it's good for you! If it didn't destroy you till you marry her, that means it's for your own good.

I repeat! Tell her to apologise to your mother, if you fail to do this, your wife will do worst to you, because she will make you neglect and forget about your mother to the extent that you will incur a bigger and mightier curse on your head, and when the chips are down she will run away, only you will suffer the consequences.

Seriously, i checked the dictionary, what does his Wife mean by "Fetish".

She should explain what she meant, lol

Awoleesu:
OP, I think I understand your dilemma.
You're obviously torn between two loves: the love of a mother - to put smile on her face (it is the pride of every worthy son), and then the love of a wife... Hmmm, she obviously has a strong influence on you and your decision-making process.

Well, so you want a piece of advice? Here is it! Start with your wife:
You need to get her to reliably inform you on how she got to know Mama was fetishistic. Very likely response you will get is that your wife had consulted some "spiritual persons" who told her this... In which case she's also as guilty of fetishism as the one she did accuse.
Less likely response you will get may centre around the superstitious intuitions of most black women. In this case, you have to be firm and instruct her to perish the thought!

What I will advice you NEVER to do in this circumstance is to confront Mama! Young man, DON'T TRY IT!

Mama.wey no use you pound soap wen you no be anybody... Mama wey take care of you well for your wife to admire that glory in you all through the years, na now she wan com turn fetish?

Let me just drop this, women are never comfortable with a man who divides his attention between them...

I Rise!

Bro, I feel your pain. It is a situation of dilemma. BUT, don't drag it too far. There are seemeable two cases here: one, your wife has been told that a woman would take your attention away from her in the near future, as stupid as it might sound, she sees your mother as a closest woman toman to you, hence, a threat. Secondly, any woman that is not financially independent thinks her husband is wasting money if it is not coming directly to her or from her. She is poor and she was raised financially poor. This has configured her psyche to believe your money would disappear one day if you keep caring for your Mom.
Here is the thing, her idea about you giving her money and she sending it to you mom, you know money is power, she is trying to establish a kind of autonomous control over your Mom's spending power. So if she gives this time, when next your Mom requests, she could mention the last collection window.
About fetish, am a practicing Babalawo, this is the concept that mostly destroys mother-child relationship. Please and please, don't allow any invalid force like a woman like this come in between you and your mother. If she has never done anything to help you in life, even if she abandoned you in an ophanage home, she carried and delivered safely for uncomfortable nine month. Many have died because of this.
You will face alot of backlashes from your wife for not disobeying her, but in a long run, some women are just like visitors, they can never turn to your kind, a visitor will return to her destination when time come, your mother has nowhere and no natural reason to abandon you.
Think deeply.

Lol so funny, a pig in pants. I get what it means, just funny to look at, :

D

babaijebue:

YOU ARE A VERY STUPID MAN, HOW ON EARTH CAN SOMEONE LOOK ME IN THE FACE AND TELL ME THAT MY MUM IS FETISH OR WITCH

I actually do not think that you married a bad wife. I am certain that you are indeed a bad son. Imagine the insult!!! Giving your wife money to pass to your mother, what for? To sanctify it or what? YOU ARE A VERY STINGY person who is using his wife as an excuse to not give money to his mother and she doesn’t deserve it.

That woman better respect herself. I don't even think you as a husband Judge her for what she gives to her parents. If she loves you, she would also love your mother and cherish her, if she needs more money, she can work or ask for ideas.

All this women and their drama ehn.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Pls ignore what ever your wife has said . And why would allow that to bring confusion , are you believing your wife ? Let me give you an advice my dad friend who is a lawyer once said . Your parents will always be your parents . But for wife , one day she could walk up to you and tell you say she no do again . Your own parent will never do that . With my little saying . You should understand the message . Remove love for one side and think deep . Your mother is your mother . Your wife in years time , you guys won’t be together .

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Giving your money money that is taking care of her is one of the secret of prosperity.U mentioned u are more prosperous than your older or junior. U think it's just luck. U better dont let her drag u into poverty. Continue your good deed. Extend this to her mum also. All the best.

You're a mumu man.

MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level.

Mister, some mama dey do person unintentionally.

Like I know of a lady whose mother took her to have anal intercourse with her alfa for protection.

Till today, the girl no born.

The same grandmother took the bloody towel used to clean her new born granddaughter and hid it.... For what?


Its rare for mothers to intentionally afflict her child, but it happens and has happened and will continue to happen...
This doesn't mean one should believe all these wives that don't know the past.

Op, I wish to give you 100 rounds of slap to reset your brain.

Op, you have committed abomination
op, you have committed abomination
op, you have committed abomination

Like I said before, tell your wife to apologise to your mother ASAP, not only that she must carry all her family along to help beg your mother your mother for forgiveness.

Then you, OP must go on your knees with your pastor and ask forgiveness from your mother, beg her to forgive you for marrying such lady. And ask for her blessing.

Then you can deal with your wife any way you want it.

Failure to do it!
Op, I pity you
Op, I pity you
Op, I pity you
hmmmmmmm

Jondelng:


Mister, some mama dey do person unintentionally.

Like I know of a lady whose mother took her to have anal intercourse with her alfa for protection.

Till today, the girl no born.

The same grandmother took the bloody towel used to clean her new born granddaughter and hid it.... For what?


Its rare for mothers to intentionally afflict her child, but it happens and has happened and will continue to happen...
This doesn't mean one should believe all these wives that don't know the past.

Nollywood too much

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

May my son never be a wussy sissy like you, AMEN!


Some parents have suffered sha