Romance › Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by potent5(m): 9:54pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
Giwoni: My Love Experience
Good day NLanders
I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).
It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.
Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.
Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.
In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.
I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.
She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.
In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...
This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.
This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.
Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.
Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.
In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.
Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.
thanks Your mumu Don do. You beta sever all ties with this parasite of a gal before she ruins you for life. |
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Politics › Re: Nigerian Troops Kill Over 100 Boko Haram Terrorists In Buni Gari by potent5(m): 8:51am On Apr 20, 2020 |
Where is the proof.? |
Celebrities › Re: Hilarious! Epic Throwback Picture Of Yemi Alade. PHOTOS by potent5(m): 8:49am On Apr 20, 2020 |
When she was still looking for her Johnny.  |
Politics › Re: Happening Now In Ohafia As Army Surrounds Us In Preparation For Operation by potent5(m): 8:42am On Apr 20, 2020 |
Ekpeitit: You can't even spell army, I hope they finish you.Yeye people. See your life? When it's your turn, please cry, just receive it in good faith. |
Phones › Re: How To See Whatsapp Deleted Messages by potent5(m): 8:26am On Apr 20, 2020 |
sonofanarchy: as far the person no delete my future,I have nothing to be scared of But, how would you know if you don't know what was deleted.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Newsfather Mbaka Makes Shocking Revelation About Former President Goodluck Jonat by potent5(m): 7:21am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Wayo Padre. Shameless priest. |
Politics › Re: Top Presidency Aides Denied Access To Aso Villa After Violating NCDC Guidelines by potent5(m): 4:37am On Apr 19, 2020 |
seunmohmoh: Stop booking space and go to bed. Mtcheew Is it your space? Stop using my mention to book space, abi you no de sleep? |
Politics › Re: Top Presidency Aides Denied Access To Aso Villa After Violating NCDC Guidelines by potent5(m): 4:31am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Kyari's death could have been avoided if only he was disciplined about WHO guidelines on Covid-19, yet people in government are still acting irresponsibly. |
Romance › Re: Is It Good To Borrow Money To Marry A Wife? by potent5(m): 4:13am On Apr 18, 2020 |
Borrow money to marry ke. What nonsense! |
Romance › Re: 13 Bedroom Habits That Will Eventually Ruin The Relationship by potent5(m): 4:02am On Apr 18, 2020 |
Ladies, have you heard? She who has an ear let her hear. |
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Politics › Re: Abba kyari: See Top Choice For The Next Chief Of Staff by potent5(m): 3:16am On Apr 18, 2020 |
KINGBEN1: There exist the vacancy for the chief of Staff.
I have the following people as strong guess for this position in no particular order of preference:
1. Gen. Mongonu rtd.
General Mohammed Babagana Monguno is a retired Nigerian military general and current National Security Adviser. He was the Chief of Defence Intelligence from July 2009 to September 2011; and the Commander of the Brigade of Guards from 2007 to 2009.
2. Boss Mustapha
Boss Gidahyelda Mustapha is a Nigerian lawyer, businessman, management consultant, politician, and current Secretary to the Government of the Federation. He was previously Managing Director, Nigerian Inland Waterways Authority until his appointment as SGF by President Muhammad Buhari on 30 October 2017
3. Rauf Aregbeshola
Ogbeni Rauf Adesoji Aregbesola is the current Minister of the Federal Ministry of Interior of Nigeria. Before that he was the fourth civilian governor of Osun State. He is a native of Ilesa, Osun.
4. Mamman Daura
Mamman Daura is a Nigerian journalist and businessman who is a prominent member of the Kaduna Mafia. He was appointed editor of the New Nigerian newspaper a few months after completing his graduate degree. He is an uncle and long time close associate of Muhammadu Buhari.
5. Adnan Duara Cousin to the President.
Plz what do you think... Let's see your list None of these persons will be chosen. |
Politics › Re: Atiku's Son Test Positive To Coronavirus Again After Been Placed On Medication by potent5(m): 8:50am On Apr 17, 2020 |
Theriously scary |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Confronts Buratai With Mortar Gun Attacks In Borno Camp by potent5(m): 8:34am On Apr 17, 2020 |
You killed some and captured some alive for what? So you can free them later as repentant insurgents? God punish all of you. |
Politics › Re: Katsina, Highest Recipient Of Cash Disbursements by potent5(m): 7:21am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Imagine the disparity between Katsina and some other states in the south. Katsina alone is more than the entire southeastern states combined.
What am I even saying? It more than the entire southeast and south-south combined. |
Politics › Re: Katsina, Highest Recipient Of Cash Disbursements by potent5(m): 7:18am On Apr 16, 2020 |
dazangel11: With a total of 133,227 beneficiaries, Katsina State is the highest recipient of the Federal Government’s Conditional Cash Transfer programme.
Lagos, Delta and Borno states had zero beneficiaries, according to an infographic published by the International Centre for Investigative Reporting on states captured in the CCT scheme and their respective number of beneficiaries as of April 9, 2020.
Data from the infographic showed that Katsina had the highest number ofLagos, Delta and Borno states had zero beneficiaries, according to an infographic published by the International Centre for Investigative Reporting on states captured in the CCT scheme and their respective number of beneficiaries as of April 9, 2020.
Data from the infographic showed that Katsina had the highest number of beneficiaries, followed by Zamfara and Jigawa.
The infographic, which was created on April 11, 2020, stated its source as the National Cash Transfer Office and revealed that 1,126,211 households were currently benefiting from the CCT programme.
Zamfara, Jigawa, Kano, Plateau, Kebbi, Kogi, and Benue states had 130,764; 99,044; 84,148; 78,430; 76,026; 62,129; and 58,943 beneficiaries respectively.
Nasarawa, Kaduna, Kwara, Gombe, Akwa Ibom, Yobe, and Bauchi states had 48,687; 35,384; 32,218; 26,532; 24,929; 24,814; and 23,305 beneficiaries respectively. The number of beneficiaries in the Federal Capital Territory, Niger, Taraba, Adamawa, Osun, Oyo, and Cross River states were 20,129; 19,898; 17,803; 16,988; 15,572; 13,811; and 11,998 respectively.
For Edo, Bayelsa, Rivers, Abia, Anambra, and Imo states, the number of beneficiaries were 11,368; 9,805; 9,596; 9,347; 8,105; and 7,220 respectively. https://punchng.com/ What did you expect? |
Politics › Re: Shocking Sign Post At Professor Wole Soyinka Farm - Photo by potent5(m): 7:16am On Apr 16, 2020 |
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Celebrities › Re: 5g Is The Apocalypse: Cowardly Blacks Call Out Trump Yet Not Obama by potent5(m): 2:21am On Apr 16, 2020 |
This post is a good comic relief I tell ya.  |
Romance › Re: Is This True About Male And Female (in Regards To Sex) by potent5(m): 2:15am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Op, I agree with you in toto.  |
Romance › Re: How Much Will It Cost To Conduct A DNA Test? I Can't Believe What I Saw by potent5(m): 12:17pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
ProfDview1: So ordinary DNA can't be done in Nigeria?
Haaaaa, Nigeria is cursed... We need cleansing Go for Dr Iguedo goco cleanser. Thank me later..  |
Business › Re: Don't Wait For Opportunity , Create It by potent5(m): 12:15pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
You mean like creating corona virus and the vaccine and then make billions in dollars?  |
Health › Re: Breaking: Sex Scandals Hit Covid-19 Centres, As Quarantined People Engage In Sex by potent5(m): 12:10pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
What? |
Health › Re: Can Pepper, Lime, Ginger Cure Coronavirus? (Fact Check) by potent5(m): 6:48am On Apr 15, 2020 |
Op, that picture does not contain ụda. And what is red pepper doing there? |
Politics › Re: "Buhari Can't Hide His Nepotism" - Reno Omokri Highlights 12 Points (pics) by potent5(m): 5:31pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
gidgiddy: Some of you are just starting to see now what Ojukwu saw more than 50 years ago.............
That 'one Nigeria' is a fraud Are you sure they are seeing it. This is merely a symptom of hunger. Wait till they have something to eat and they will start bowing to their slave masters again.  |
Politics › Re: Imf- Nigeria Will Fall Into Recession For 30 Years by potent5(m): 5:03pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
What! Why do these people only prophesy doom for Nigeria and other 3rd world countries? What about US that has been stripped of super status; They won't forecast it. |
Politics › Re: More Pictures As Lagos State Government Delivers Emmergency Food Relief Packages by potent5(m): 7:35am On Apr 14, 2020 |
I dey my dommot dd wait to collect ma own. |
Crime › Re: Children Killed As Air Force ‘Accidentally Bombs’ Borno Village by potent5(m): 7:33am On Apr 14, 2020 |
JimohMomoh: Not just typing Okay, go back and modify your post Done. |
Crime › Re: Children Killed As Air Force ‘Accidentally Bombs’ Borno Village by potent5(m): 11:52pm On Apr 13, 2020*. Modified: 7:31am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Luckydubby7: . The cable.ng This incident should not be swept under the carpet as was done in the past. Someone should be held accountable and liable otherwise it will repeat itself. Human lives are sacred. What nonsense. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: IMF Grants Debt Relief To 25 Countries by potent5(m): 11:43pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Naija is missing. Where is Madam Okonjo Iweala? We need her Deft touches.
Anyways, this gooment lacks the necessary Fiscal policy credibility to merit any form of debt relief, especially when the gooment borrows for political reasons and not economic/developmental reasons and without verifiable and transparent plans for repayment. |
Crime › Re: Children Killed As Air Force ‘Accidentally Bombs’ Borno Village by potent5(m): 11:42pm On Apr 13, 2020*. Modified: 7:26am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Luckydubby7: At least 17 people were said to have been killed when a fighter jet belonging to the Nigerian Air Force fired a bomb on Sakotoku village in Damboa local government area of Borno state.
Residents told TheCable that those killed included women, and children who were said to be playing under mango trees.
The air force, military sources said, was informed that Boko Haram insurgents were gathering around the village on Thursday afternoon.
The supposed target, according to a source, was an area in Korongilum, a neighbouring village 12 kilometres away where suspected Boko Haram insurgents had gathered earlier.
“We don’t know if they didn’t communicate well with the land troops as the air force jet fired that bomb on the village,” one of the sources said.
“Seventeen people were killed, mostly women and their children playing under mango trees. Many were also injured and have been taken to the 25 army brigade in Damboa, and those with critical injuries were taken to Maiduguri.”
Some of the villagers whose houses were destroyed have found their way to Damboa.
In February, residents of Garkida, Adamawa state and Korongilum, Borno state, had alleged that NAF fighter jets refused to open fire on suspected Boko Haram insurgents when they attacked their communities.
Ibikunle Daramola, NAF spokesperson, had then told TheCable they could not engage the insurgents because the situation in Garkida was chaotic, and that they took the measure so they would not hit civilians.
In 2017, 126 civilians were killed in Rann, Borno state, in an accidental air strike by the military.
When TheCable contacted about the incident in Sakotoku, Daramola said: “It’s a matter of operation” and the defence headquarters would be in a better position to speak on the matter.”
Both Onyema Nwachukwu and John Enenche, defence headquarters spokespersons, were not reachable for comment as they neither responded to calls nor replied text messages. Another sign of incompetence. The time to do the right thing is now. All the service chiefs have to leave. Serving Nigeria is not their birth rights. Modified. |
Politics › Re: Jigawa: Woman Touching N20,000 Cash For First Time, Burst Into Tears by potent5(m): 3:26pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
The caption says "touching". It does not say having or owning 20k.  |