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Nice one auto josh

Goalnaldo:
I have been laughing since 2am that I opened this thread. Nairaland is a comic relief I swear. So many funny comments.
Some people think the ops problem is sex. It's not he said if it is he can visit oloshos. He needs a girl to start a relationship with. A girl who can love and show him affection.

Na there he go take die more at 22 he de find gal wey care for am

Suicide on its way before a year

No be for this naija where all gals are money goes

I pity the young man hahhaa gals wey we de bang anyhow till date n chase Dem away na dese one de find love for

Olawrites:
Na woman matter u carry for head like this..i dey run from em sef they're much on my neck.. Make u try hardened up bro no girl is worth it.

Trust me girls matter isn't all about money

A yahoo friend of mine bought iphone worth 250k,freezer and other stuff to 1million, yet bae dumped him for a poor dude.. Lol

That ur yahoo friend turn mugu for woman na na them be dis kind guy for op

They went into Yahoo to please woman hahhaa no business plan

SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help

Shut up bro ode na u be comparing ur life to other people life that how guys like you coming suicide

Mr Man follow this link

https://www.nairaland.com/5119542/dont-cry-lady-left-brothers

And read n reason like a man

Ohh you are 22yrs no wonder u just de start dating work am sure self you never see woman pant before

So hanging out with gals a lot.make you look like a weaking and a complete slowpoke in d eyes of those gals

You are not interested in sex oga u still be small pikin

Na ur type go de date coded ashewo Dem go finish ur papa money and the small one u get pant you no go see while It smart friend may be banging Dem

Don't every cry for any woman ok take the bull by the horn n bang any and move on

Again you are too young to worry about woman oo face ur study bro

Woman no send anybody wey no give her money ooo they r not the way you think they are

I for like know how Dem de do dis raket o I wan de take am de bang oloshos and japa only pls abeg

Its making us have issues most times. Of recent i saw a dialled log of her ex on her phone. She said she wanted to check on him. It weakened me alot.

Oga that nigga don de re dig the hole he left there before ooo again your own don finish

So you think you trust her she is banging that guy never you ever trust any gal especially when you have not married her even married people sometimes cheat

Hahaha oga your emotion is just being played with

Love love na lie notin like love oo you guys are just infactuated

Love is about caring bout other feeling and giving then why is she doing it to make you feel bad

Snail meat aka igbin

Oh lord too delicious like dog meat

okeniti:
Genes. Look at David Alaba for example (Nigerian father, Filipino mother). Could also be a case of living in Nigeria for most of his life also.

Yeah he stayed in Nigeria too much so the weather changes his light skin much and his Gene to more of black

But if you look at him well you will find he is truly half caste

Had it been he lived all his life in Europe he would have been light skin much

Makschinchin:
Did you just say that "The whites are not into religion anymore because they know it was all staged and setup" , you are wrong sir.. They still have a whole lot into it.. Do your research right

BTW, if you say their religion is now science and technology, how have those who left religion here in Nigeria moved the country forward scientifically and technologically?? If you can answer this question correctly you will know that it's a leadership problem and not a Religion thing.

See you are the type of person who look things in the surface do you know what America is built upon

Freemasonry made America what it is ok

All they believe is how the light will shine that is their true religion

The surface religion is decieving you a lot the more you look the less you see

The western world don't believe in any gar Damm religion they are done with it hahaha only a few people go to church there and even their churches are not into deliverance of evil.spirit n withcraft like what we have in Nigeria which is one of the wan these greedy fake pastors have used to scam members

The western world have gone beyond that spehere of life they don't believe in the religion they sold to you any more what you see the pope does is all surface religion go underground you will be shocked with the force below every it's all occult and the occult rule the world

As long as you live in a develop nation you are bound to reason like them unless if that person is a cursed brainwashed slowpoke like wat we nigerians do a lot

Look at their society and see if religion got them there it's pure logic tought and science that brought them there

wman:
250 mass shootings in one year?

And we're just in August


.

Wetin concern Call of Duty with mass shooting?

How dem take relate?

Too much of video games can make them turn violent if you don't know

Makschinchin:
You're digressing from the topic..

Anyway, from what you mentioned up there, where do you think we will be today if we continued with the traditions of our fore fathers before the whites came?? Certainly we would have been a billion miles behind

Well The whites even know that the religion they gave us is to use to conquer us and en slave our land and colonize us

Now the whites are not into religion anymore because they know it was all staged and setup

Now their new religion is technology and science and thy have used it to change the world

But over here we have no sense of reorientation we go to church six times a week and some Islam folks pray five times a day

In this 21st century imagine

Look at where the world is heading in tech and all Africa is entangled with is religious issues , the problem is the leaders of these religious institution they are not telling the masses the truth they are there for business abeg

Church na business big business

Many of them are stark illertrates who just go school for notin if na to chase dick Dem de sabi am like ABC

Makschinchin:
Give explicit reasons na, this one is just on the surface.. Of you say local belief system, do you mean the African Traditional Religion because that one self na religion

Pleas explain bera

African traditional religion will be more helpful to bring our senses back because let's assume you are appointing leaders to office and use juju to take an oath that if anyone steals public fund that person will be strikes by the gods of that person will run mad

I am telling you most Nigerian and African leaders won't dare to even be in politics oy those that have mind and good intentions will be and from there the nation n continent will grow

But these forign religion sworn people into office with Bible n qoran and they steal and loot noting happen to Dem the just still use d same books to justify their greed again

Takes by moonlight

Makschinchin:
Lemme call some folks to join us.. Please feel free to tag others:

albhagdadi, Okcornel, Jesusjnr, Capslocked, hahn, HopefuLlandlord, emeka1million, poweredcom, ogboato, (There are some I can't remember their monikers.. You can add them as well)

Let's hear from those who are for or against this issue, we need more light to be shed on it. We need an in-depth analysis here

NB: If I mentioned your name and you want me to take it down, please let me know

Wow this is the main topic I like

Religion is all lies especially the foreign ones Islam and Christianity

I prefer our local belief system than those myth used to sell us and brainwash us by the west

Religion is part of the problem I swear