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crackhaus:
Except you want to resort to spiritual control na.

And even with these charms, I believe you can only use them to eat your husband's money or cause him to hate his mother and siblings.

The day you cheat on him, get pregnant for your side-bobo and then tell him you want to bring the child into the marriage for him to raise (even if it's only for infancy), that charm will clear from his eyes sharply.

You don't know the shit happening in this country bro! Never say anything is impossible...

crackhaus:
Only in a woman's very wild imagination can such be possible with Nigerian men...

In India, could be quite possible considering they run a matriarchal family system, which I'm sure Nigerian women would have loved to be a part of.
But with Nigerians? A very interesting fantasy.

"When in Rome, best to act like Romans".

When the system favours a particular gender, expect the members to take full advantage of it.
It's what it is...

If I ever find myself married to a Nigerian man, I'll be sure to keep things in place, then I'll shock him with a reality of that fantasy.

Goldbw122:
well there are ways that you can enjoy sex even if e small so that one nor be issue. Check for sex with small dick on porn site it will help.

Lol.. motivational speaker...

Size matter....it's only in lesbianism that size doesn't matter, infact your girlfriend might dump you for another girl with a bigger finger..

crackhaus:
Is MrSamsung a "her"?

Well you did a lot more than she/he by answering the question instead of being patronizing...

Do I even need to break down your answer?
I'm sure you already know how terribly unrealistic it is.

By 'her' I mean the other lady you were asking.
And yes! It is totally possible... Maybe in India and my beloved country Nigeria.
After all it is said.. " Nothing is impossible only if you Believe'!.

kingxsamz:
While sane human beings are looking forward to future inventions which will make life better and scientists are working tirelessly to improve the human life span, this low IQ individual is hoping to go into the clouds and live in an ancient kingdom were they wear robes, play harps, ride horses and eat grapes. To him that's paradise. Please those who wants to go to heaven should do fast and go abeg.

I thought everyone had the right to express their selves as long as they don't insult or abuse any other person.
Why is righteousness post getting you pissed off?
Is it a crime if someone craves for heavenly mansions and grapes in heaven?
If that makes him happy, why not let him be?
You expect everyone to think the way you think? Haba! Cut him some slack! And stop taking his post personal.

crackhaus:
If you so wish, you could go on typing and gesticulating from now till tomorrow because you need to appear neutral and without bias.
However, it still won't change one fact and a universal truth that when it comes to cheating, a husband having a love-child versus a wife having a love-child are two very different things that can't be adjudged in the same way.

I asked the other gentleman some questions which I feel you would have done well to answer since you felt the need to jump in on the comment, instead you went off on a tangent going on about the upcoming generation, progeny, the society, bla bla bla... Like who gives a fvck mayn? LoL

You're even insinuating that my comment is corrupting the younger generation yada yada yada...
Do you think typing comments on NL is going to stop anyone from cheating or having biases that are backed up by the reality of this world?

Infidelity in marriages that's been happening since the dawn of time and perpetuated by both men and women equally, is something that won't stop... neither will appealing to the emotions of people urging them to be less hypocritical suddenly erase the fact that a husband can get another woman pregnant, inform his wife and still continue with the marriage if the wife so pleases because he does NOT need to impose the child on her or have her take care of it.

However, if it was the wife with a pregnancy from another man and she informs her husband, how then REALISTICALLY do you expect the marriage to continue?

— Should her husband accept another man's child, raise it, spend his money on it, and roleplay daddy?
— Or should she handover the child to her side-bobo instead and continue with her marriage without the interference of the child?

You can stew on the answers to the above questions.

If you understood my thought process well enough, you would know that I have never been one to sugarcoat anything to please the gender that loves to hear lies disguised as sweet nothings just because it makes them feel good – same reason they are easily the most deceived by people who know how to game even when they assume they're in control of a situation.

So yea, of course women are cheaters and men are cheaters as well – I have never denied it or tried to change the world's perception, I don't even care to.
And yes, you should definitely fear women just as men should be feared too — There's no innocent gender as far as I'm concerned.
And then, perhaps men are really scum afterall but are women angels in comparison? Fvck NO!

My stance has always remained the same when it comes to marriage and infidelity, husbands and wives should cheat if they want to cheat... Just try not to get caught or bring the child of your infidelity to the house.

And furthermore, between a husband and a wife, who is more capable of having a child outside the marriage without letting it interfere with the union? A husband can 100%.
No woman is going to successfully do that as long as her husband is aware of her infidelity, NONE.

It's fine if you see it as hypocrisy, you can also hate it or love it. None of your emotional response to the above stated fact is going to change anything about the reality of things.

Cheers...

Lemme help her answer it..
After delivery, the wife would nurse the Child to a toddler age, then hand it over to the side man to take care of, the bills goes to the side man and he eventually gets to keep the child while the mother can visit often..
I'm sure, the husband would not mind the inconveniences... after all, there are things we do for love and marriage.

GenAbacha:
It rains everywhere but it was this on this same nairaland that someone said his fiancée began disgusting him after she was raped, a crime which was not her fault.

Let alone someone intentionally breaking trusts and covenants.

Let me ask you a question; if your young wife confesses to you that she’s months pregnant with her side piece’s baby, what would be your reaction?

He would forgive her and move on with the marriage because it rains everywhere... Ignore the guy....he's not wise.

I no get Tory to yarn...

Restitution is compulsory.
It is an evidence to the people who knew you in your old life that you're a changed person.
Restitution brings peace between you and your offenders.

Restitution is a proof of genuine repentance..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright.....

Penis never enter this girl well...na him make she still dey get mouth....
by the time penis branch all the inner corner of her Kpekus...

Na she go dey crave for more

Lol...I always laugh at guys who say penni's never enter this one well.... Life ain't revolving around a penni's nigga.... If penni's can change a queer girl...why can't it keep your straight girlfriends from cheating on you motherfuckers??

TotoGame:
I'm against anything chelsea. .. just hoping messi will move to PSG



I hate blue modafuckers

Me too..

Silentgroper:
The initial question was actually tilted towards ur sexual preference. If u knw wat i mean.

Lol. Answering in view of the present day condition... I'd say no.... Buh I might as well give myself a shocker.

Silentgroper:
What is a De. Lol.

would u have refused potipher's wife if u were joseph?

That was a mistake.
As for portipher's wife... I don't think I would be brave and smart enough to turn her down..

Silentgroper:
Good. U must be a strong one. If i were in ur shoes, i 4 don dey blame God xay y he allow me come earth. Some shiit i've been nd going through has had me questioning God like y d fvck did u send me down here.


Would u like to come again as wat u are in another life. Pardon my inquisitiveness.

I would love to come as Joseph, Paul or Elijah...but certainly not as a Nigerian.


I would love to come as De

Silentgroper:
I knw.. doesnt it get to u negatively?

Well.... I don't think so....

Silentgroper:
Enjoy.

ur signature though.

Yea...I set that as a reminder for myself

Silentgroper:
U're getting ur groove back. If it is wat i think it is.

Something like that

AutoChick4U:
Great.dm

I have....

AutoChick4U:
Broendy. I'm a lady

Wow... Can we come together and predict? I have a 20 odd game.. o would love you to throw some insights on....

AutoChick4U:
Thank you for d correction. I'm considering giving them 0-0 today though Viborg their opponent sabi score so it may not end goalless.

Copenhagen dey try but they messed people up last week.

Are you a lady? Or a male with an f... I'm just curious...
Copenhagen messed me up...if I need goals...I always count on brondgy..ABI na wetin Dem dey call am....

AutoChick4U:
Silkeborg has the best in Sweden o, they won't score you and you can't score them... 0-0 back to back to back. Crazy team

Sikeborg isn't a swedish team..it's in Denmark. And yes.. they're good.. better than that Copenhagen shit!

Wow! It was worth the read.

Moral lesson!
Jakpa if you can, coz naija no get hope again

Silentgroper:
*i came from*
what generation would dat be?

hi. Its been a while

The 1990's generation....
Yea...I'm just on low-key here for now

[quote author= post=104423791]Our opinion @[/b] : [b]Sex is not love,
Sex, inherently, has nothing to do with love, but we like to think they’re the same because it makes the sex and the love more fulfilling.
But there will come a point where the facade will fade and you’ll be left with one of two statements: “ Do I want something more,” or “It was just a fvck?”

Love, inherently, has nothing to do with sex.
This should be obvious but it sadly isn’t.
Think about it.
You love your parents, your pet and (hopefully) yourself, but you cannot sleep with any of those things!
Again, think about this!

We Rise. [/quote]You made sense!
Lots of sense... But the generation I come from would never acknowledge this...
Sadly....

Pecoleee345:
Is she exhibiting those characters I mentioned
Not all of them are like that oo.

Well congrats... You have ended his relationship with your advise..hope you're happy now?

Lol...it's even better sef... Coz I don't support fornication...

Btw.... If you're a lady here dating a guy from a single home.... You better go and break up with him for your own good... Na Op talk am...no be me

GeneralPula:
How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him?
Except in movies, I've never seen this happening in reality.

If you put a yam outside and a passing goat chop it, will it be realistic for you to go after the goat, knowing well enough goat didn't come into your apartment to chop the yam..?

These girls don't only fvck lecturers to pass... They'll fvck a doctor so as not to be paying for health services... They'll fvck a landlord so as not for them not to pay rent... They'll fvck a uber man so as not to be paying for transports...

Same girls, whenever they want to report to you.. They'll be like;'
Lecturer is demanding for sex or she'll fail
landlord is demanding for sex cuz she's owing rent
Uber man is demanding for sex cuz she wanted to transport somewhere and she has no cash

These girls, stories and forming victims are like 5&6..

You can't blame a man for accepting sex advances from any lady, just as you can't blame any lady for collecting free money from any man..

Y'all are bunch of hypocrites.... So what Happened to the morality of this teachers?
What happened to saying no so that these desperate girls could seek other legitimate measures to deal with their academics?

What about the lecturers who collect bribes from niqqas who approach them with cash? You dey here dey yarn opata

Kellzzyy:
Oga shut up.
The guy is saying the reality. You come here dey shalaye. Mumu

Shut up too...
What he is saying is not true too?
ABI na you dey Shelaye sef

mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her


anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

What's her zodiac sign? I'm guessing Libra.....

Me.... Reading this post and trying to imagine if I'll possibly feel bad...

Lwkmd
I'll rather bother about my ex girlfriend than this
How I wish the straight and bisexual ladies in this forum would realise that.. pussy with brain can rule the world... Even after all the Mgtow and redpill bullshit...they still crave for pussy and the undilluted pleasure from it.

Chai! Pussy sweet ooo

N.B : This Op's post is proudly sponsored by pussy..

Bola146:
God will punish all those people making Nigerians to suffer. When she went out to look for better job outside

God should also not forget to punish those stupid Nigerian scammers making Nigerians suffer. When they're out there hustling to make ends meet.