Kenfil:

Even if am d ugliest girl in the room, I no go fit touch u with a 1000 feet pole .

I can't actually be in a room with the ugliest girl and in this case YOU!

to reach me you will need more than a 1000 feet pole, because I am afar off you in miles you cannot measure.

Acidosis:
Reality: Approximately 80% of rapes are committed by someone the victim knows – a friend or acquaintance.

It always start with friendship So to avoid stories that touch, it's best to set the record straight; some ladies today have become victims because a guy somewhere perceived their actions as "green light".

Boss, leave them and there so called male friends.

People who have seen things are talking, inexperienced fellas are also countering.

I will say it again, you only know yourself but cannot estimate how the other person is seeing you and interpreting your actions.

You give him an innocent hug everyday, sister, he may think you are leading him on.

Fix your issues and get a same sex friend.

Intrepid01:


Lol...I cant relate with this well well,,,the kind of guys that will say...."I swear I wont put it in, just let the two of them be looking at each other"....Lol......

Most cases (not all tho!), the reason why a guy and a lady will be best friends without emotions or sexual exploit is if one or both are totally unattracted to each other. Meanwhile I can tell you for a fact that...attraction grows with time, that unattractive lady today will just gradually start appearing attractive little by little due to proximity and familiarity.

There is nothing wrong in ladies keeping male friends, but a lady cant have a male guy has her best friend and think nothing will happen. It might take a while but something will eventually happen.....this no be theory o..na from experience.

Oga, leave that guy with his his so called "education".

He thinks the heart and emotion operates on logic and reason.

Some think, everything In life is black and white. Intelligence is not by posting list of 10's.

This thing is confirmed, a guy and a girl as friends, time is just the only factor that will affection grow.

Experience will trounce logic everyday.

imustsaymymindo:


Nawa o. Why you should not avoid hurting someone? You should hurt people on purpose because he or she is a friend? I dont understand your point here. Friends are actually the ones that should avoid hurting each other. That does not mean a friend cannot correct you when you are wrong or tell you the truth when it hurts and if that's what you mean, then fine.

What i am pointing out is...

Some are not real and avoid all sort of confrontation and try to be extremely good..

There is no way you wil not have an altercation with a friend, no one is oerfect except the person is trying too hard to be

Next2Bezee:


In some relationships, either parties won't be able to tolerate their partner deviating their attention between them and his numerous female friends. It becomes even more harmful to the relationship after marriage. What wife will be ok with her husband keeping lots of female besties and spending time with them outside his house?

This is what i am trying to point out too.

Imagine the wife saying, because i trust him and there are boundries, so he can keep all the female besties that he want.

I think that is a very risky mindset, except the marriage is off no importance in the first instance.

Next2Bezee:


I didn't even check for your post before responding, you've got it all covered already.

You covered it like i would have.

Great to see that thoughts can align sometimes

ozy4christ:
i dont agree with u my dear,all my friends are guys,i dont have a girl as a friend because of what i passd through.no man is a wood yea so its left 4 d lady 2 kw her boundary when staying wit her malefriends.

You are very smart, but how many are like you?

some even know nothing about boundries, they feel it is black and white. Those ones always get burnt!

But i still feel you have to work on yourself too, guys will naturally want to protect and pamper you and not hurt you. This will give a false impression to you that all is well when it is not.

This will lead to a situation where even in your wrong, they wil not correct or lash you. This comfort will not make you strong person. One day, those guys will leave.

Forget the hurt and get a female friend, it will show you more about yourself!

vchykp:

if you make friend with some that has never hurt you, then you have not started ur friendship

I really get time today, no sleep!

You are right, when people tend to avoid hurting and wronging you, then you should know that they are consciously walking on egg shell around you, that is THEY ARE PRETENDING!

MissRaine69:

I am secure in myself and I don't have self esteem issues.

I do not think your self-security and self esteem is a factor here.

The factor here is, can you withstand your man spending time with same female friends (as he calls them) repeatedly.

You may be strong at first, but you will get suspecious and jealous (depending if the relationship is really important to you though).

I know you will not find it funny!

cuvox:


I have lots of female friends.
great ones, help them alot and never for once even think of getting anything in return. going by your words, are you saying it's impossible to have female friends without hitting on them or what?
if that's what you mean then you need to have a rethink.

in reality, I know most guys only feign friendship to get close to a lady and smash her but stop making it look like all male-female friendship is just for fùckíng. some of us only have female friends cause they are the one we can genuinely pour out our hearts to.. genuine friendship bro.

Everyone talks from one side, youe emotions are in check... what about the other person? can you read their mind?

I have not ruled out the possibility, i am speaking on the end product. There is a way a so called female friend will Invest time and resource into you, you breath will start to stop.

in reality, I know most guys only feign friendship to get close to a lady and smash her but stop making it look like all male-female friendship is just for fùckíng. some of us only have female friends cause they are the one we can genuinely pour out our hearts to.. genuine friendship bro.

You stated it already, the FRIENDSHIP thing can lead somewhere. It is not about the sex matter though, but if you are in a relationship, you have no business with the opposite sex in terms of friendship.

If you are single, sail on, but know it might lead somewhere depending on how invested one of your becomes!

Ebayray:
My best friend's a male, we've been friends since childhood. Nigga is older than me, has his own fiancée too and we've never been interested in each other.
I have lots and lots of male friends. It depends on how you place yourself in such friendship. If you are the type of girl that's always seductively dressed or always telling him your problem, then one party will fall for the other, but if you're just mutual friends, no Strings attached, I don't see why I wouldn't be friends with guys.



My opinion tho

The issue now is.. No one knows where strings will get attached.

Depending on how close you were to him ... His fiancée may have seen you as a threat or quarelled about you (just a scenario)

It starts at mutuals and fondness tends to ruin it all.

A woman will always melt into a man, especially one who is always present and in that case, it is MR. FRIEND!

Next2Bezee:


Good for you.

If you still feel the same way when you fall in love with a guy whose friends are almost all female & he seem to spend a lot of time with each of them everyday then even more Tuale for u.

You response is what i will term CHECKMATE!

She would not even allow that.

tosyne2much:
Can't you see the absurdity of our people's mentality?


Can you now see that education sometimes doesn't keep people enlightened?

And i guess you are the smartest, the one whose education really made enlightened.

If you have a counter claim, why not display your illumination so others can see the light.

What exactly is someone in relationship seeking for in another person of the opposite sex in the name of friendship.

You may be contained but stop masturbating and leaking hypocrisy everywhere.

What does education has to do with matters of the heart and affection?

Can you control or tell your body the specific amount of testosterone or oestrogen and oxytocin it should produce as the case may be?.

adajoe555:
I have only 2 female friends and the rest are male. I know how they behave and there is a limit to everything. Some guys use such opportunities to start something funny . me just being careful sha


Boo boo have said I should limit my friendship with guys. So I'm trying my best

You relationship is a disaster waiting to happen.

All it takes is one male friend who is really interested and up to his game.

Then you will know that your BOO BOO know and why he said you should limit your friendship with guys.

Will you be comfortable if he has a harem and call them all friends?

Do not smell what you will not eat

Kenfil:


Just listen to urself... I prefer male friends and had lots of them before I got married.. All with zero attachments. Most of u will lose good women because u have been wired to think backwards smh

You are very funny, you are actually the one not thinking.

If we go back to ask you so called male friends, 90percent regret not sleeping with you. Just try it.

The fact that they respected you enough or mis-timed there strategy towards you does not rule out the truth.

And you are not special, you must have been too unattractive or worthless for them to bother.

A guy is telling you something about majority of guys, you are here countering with female oriented arguments and what you like.

You are married right?

I guess you still keep male friends, continue.

You will swallow bone soon

fineboynl:
i believe you are one of those shallow girls that only think of butt,Boob's and dick. no Wonder girls when broad minds are running away from people like you. and looking for male friends.

Guy free that girl.

If a girl is making a guy her friend, she only knows her heart, she does not know what goes on in the guys heart.

Every smile not a smile, it could be a smirk.

She made a point, attack the point and not her.

I just checked, you are the OP.

I can conclude now that you copied the post, next time, put the source link.

Greene66:


The sad part is that when it happen, we won't be there to say "I told you"

We will not be there.

Lalasticlala, please move this thread

Greene66:


They wont listen

When you want them to be smart they go all DUMBO on you.

They will be the first to shout blue murder whereas they are accessory and culpable in their own RAPE.

I am not defending rapist it that is how it starts, HE IS MY FRIEND!

He spends on you and you think all he wants is THAN YOU?

I LAUGH.

Evaberry:
My best friend is a boy.

I have more male friends than female

but truth is most guys just use friendship as a cover to start chyking u.

but the beat friendship I have/had have been with guys

guys are more thoughtful and caring than girls

they can sacrifice and go far for friends

a girl will just end up stealing your boyfriend, borrowing your make up shoes and bag and gossiping behind your back

A guy will just end up stealing your from your boyfriend.

All the sacrifice he makes is for one ultimate goal.

If you are not offering anything in return, you are setting yourself up for harm.

I still stand by my view.

A guy and a girl cannot be friends.

It is either they have a past romantic history, living in present romance or building the ground work for future romance.

Let us stop deceiving ourselves, the only relationship they can have and I will be half assured is if they are business partners.

All the girls I have dated, they all called me friends and I LOVE YOU entered into the equation from nowhere. Next, we were frolicking under the sheets, so called friend.

This is a secret, the easiest way for a guy to get a girl is to play the friendship card, along the line just change the game by adding romance, checkmate, she is yours.

If you as a girl cannot get female friends, then there is something wrong about you as a person and your attitude.

Guy also have problems and fights but the only time a guy calls a girl friend is when his game to see her pant is not in the advance stage.

Girls beware, you so-called male friends if given the chance will sleep with you without even thinking twice. Except you are transgender or have leprosy.

It is not ethical, someone will get confused along the way.

This is also a precursor to rape in some cases. The day they will gang rape you, your eyes go clear.

This is a guy's secret, we all want to sleep with that beautiful so-called friends of ours.

So girls, keep deceiving yourself.

If your best friend is a boy and he is not hitting on you then:

-You may not be as attractive as you think.

-You have a bad personality and we know guys are tolerant and pussy no dey bite.

-You are being preyed on the till you are vulnerable, he is watching till he can launch. When I don't know, a man can wait if he is certain to conquer.

- You are transgender or blocked.

Your only trusted male friends are:
Husband
Father
Brothers
Sons

READ THIS: How TRUST is the new SCAM: Stop this blatant lies about TRUST!

Godmother:


I'll try this out.

But do you know why I'm experiencing this problem? Could my site security have been compromised?

It is not your site but the advertiser you are using.

They are making users to make forced installation from unverified sites.

remove all third party and advertisers fidelity in the site.
I can help you look around if you want though.

Which advertising network are you using?

Remove all the adverts on the site, especially the third party adverts.

Tell me if it still persist.

Aaribaba:
Yes precious

I will send you a mail

I feel like beating you, like are you for real?

Which school did you attend? They must be graduating dumbos

Are you sure, your testes have not been replaced with cheese balls?

Are you taking oestrogen shots?

Because, I don't understand what you are still doing with a girl that can throw such massive insult at you.

Leave and never ever look back!

Let's make money with UNIBEN post ume.

Are you hardworking and trustworthy?

See Comedy

What most of you have failed to realize is this...

They started early and OP is her first.

The girl thinks she has been in a cage and now it is time to rest her wing to fly and explore.

Sorry OP, but you will be a casualty because that girl is oversea and I give you my two balls, she is already mingled with the wrong crowd or another guy is wearing your crown.

She needs space and now she is uncertain if you are the person when she can get even better.

It is not your fault, but you don't measure up again and she needs to get heartbroken and burnt. She needs to date others, she wants to explore.

I will advice that you pull out gradually, don't even mention leaving, just invest your effort in your job or career.

When she gets burnt enough, the only issue is will you take her back?

I feel for you but I had to be sincere.

Crap.

I am yet to see a girl feel guilty after sex with a big spender or rich guy.

The problem is that, you feel you are giving too much into the relationship in form of sex and you are not benefiting anything else except sperms.

The other reason is religion and this is bullshit, so we are still left with the problem above.

Solution, leave him and find the guy who can pay your pussy worth.

lajuto:


OK. I will check out namecheap. Architecture is my field. But there's not enough searches related to Architecture. I've thought about going with two of them but I'm worried about SEO and creating a brand for the blog. And then there's the blog name to factor in.






How do I do SEO for the blog if it's multifaceted

Targeting all Nigerian information already made your blog less faceted and less focused.

This is because, you will be talking about Nigerian history and evenvhow to travel to Nigeria, that is two niches already.

Put each niche as a category and build from there.

1. Since you are confused about the niche, make it a Nigerian information blog and add architecture and real estate as categories, with time you will know which should come foremost.

This will save you from procrastination.

2. WordPress is the platform you should use.

3. Qservers, I use them presently and I have never had an issue, I actually left a popular Nigerians webhost with an unexpired hosting account.

I was always having database error and downtime, with Qservers I don't have that problem anymore.

Wish you success, if you need more help, reach out to me.

I seem to understand what this guy is going through.

You are very ambitious and I love it, but it seems you are studying a course you don't really fancy.

I will advice, use your own money to start something and stop asking your father, push yourself through school and use the school environment to test the viability of your business and ideas.

Let me tell you a secret, if I could do it again, I would have put off going to the University for learning a trade at least two years.

But you are in, don't drop out, use that place as a spring board for your business.

You owe me.

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