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 Celebrities / Re: Marriage Is Not An Achievement – Mary Remmy Njoku by PressyKcee: 9:24am On Feb 05 |
There's nothing like the "right partner" when you love, protect, talk to each other with respect and be kind to each other .. you become the right partner for one another. Marry a kind person. 1 Like |
| Health / Re: Help! by PressyKcee: 11:51pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
Question 🤐 ipobarecriminals: |
| Romance / Re: What Do Men Benefit From Marriage by PressyKcee: 12:50am On Jul 03, 2023 |
Funny to think only a man provides and sacrifices in marriage. Weird! Tunde835: |
| Romance / Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by PressyKcee: 11:09pm On Jun 15, 2023 |
Ifeoluwa?? ThatrealestApex: |
| Romance / Re: What/who Are You Afraid To Lose In Life? by PressyKcee: 7:41pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Nobody. Life has taught me you can lose anyone at any time. I am always prepared for the worst as I hope for the best. But honestly, I don't wanna lose my fiance and my siblings. |
| Career / Re: Data Analysis by PressyKcee: 11:11am On Apr 22, 2023 |
Where are you base? Drop your digits MN07: |
| Career / Data Analysis by PressyKcee: 11:27pm On Apr 21, 2023 |
Good evening everyone. Please who knows a reliable place in Lagos I can enrol and learn Data Analysis at an affordable fee and get value for my money? And who has any materials or resources to enhance my learning speed. I'll like a physical class, while I use online resources as a backup. Thank you! |
| Family / Re: My Friend Is Currently Going Through A Divorce In UK &having A Hell Of A Time by PressyKcee: 7:06pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Is he guilty of any of the allegations? No reasonable individual wakes up one morning and divorces his or her partner... Something must have triggered it. The UK government too ain't daft. When an issue is reported, it must have been investigated and the said husband is most likely to have been found guilty of one of these. Will you advise your sister to stay in a marriage where she is being threatened, physically abused and raped? Before you present an issue to the UK police, they will investigate it and she must have provided evidence to that effect. Will you rather she stays there and die?? If the man is guilty of either of the allegations he was accused of, he deserves what if got. If he isn't guilty, karma will visit the woman. However, I don't think the UK government is daft and will not just penalize a person without investigations. There are always two sides to a story. The man wasn't a good husband and father and she woke up one morning and accuses him of things he did not do or has never intended. I don't side with any gender. When I see a woman who gets it wrong, I tell her to her face... The same goes for a man. Here, I can't judge... Because you're just a third party. You are neither the wife nor the husband. No one can tell what's going on in a relationship or marriage except the two parties involved. I know of the wife of my brother's friend that was deported from Canada because she was found to be violent and a threat to the husband's life. Saying that Western culture supports women even when they are guilty is a lie and fallacy. Though the Western government pay close attention to women because of the tendency of men to get easily violent because the believe they're strong being. And you won't blame culture for protecting the life of a lady from intending doom. Or do you want them to fold their arms and watch the lady get killed? Let's be honest with ourselves and be unbiased. I know most of you will not hesitate to headbutt anyone that harms your sister, using my brothers as a case study... They won't hesitate to give any man that gets violent at me an uppercut... That's how it is everywhere. Nobody is perfect. So get a partner that is teachable and ready to let go and work on their flaws to make the marriage and relationship work. Above all, communicate, communicate, communicate, communicate. 2 Likes |
| Romance / Phone call by PressyKcee: 2:02am On Apr 17, 2023 |
Oh okay |
| Romance / Loving yourself by PressyKcee: 12:28am On Apr 17, 2023 |
Love yourself |
| Family / Re: I Am Not Happy With My Wife Please Help by PressyKcee: 9:12pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Calm down please. You'll still suck. �� Fabulozz: |
| Romance / Re: Man Narrates How He Slept With Married women Even The Pregnant Ones (Video) by PressyKcee: 2:41am On Jan 11, 2023 |
How did you feel having sex with someone's wife? Not entirely your fault though. The woman wanted it and came for it, but nothing stopped you from saying no. It is weird how marriage vows mean nothing to married folks anymore. May God never allow us marry partners that will see our marital vows as mere words. SultanOfPuna: |
| Romance / Re: I Am In A State Of Dilemma- Should I Give My Boyfriend A Phone? by PressyKcee: 11:21pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Don't get him a phone. He will smash it when you guys have any argument. Better use your money for something more useful. You can repair the old one for him. But don't get him a new phone. Save yourself the stress. aisha2016: |
| Romance / Re: . by PressyKcee: 3:25am On Nov 27, 2022 |
| Romance / Re: . by PressyKcee: 3:12am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Hundredegrees: |
| Romance / Re: . by PressyKcee: 3:00am On Nov 27, 2022 |
That's not true. It's a toxic ideology and very far from the truth. Pray for God to give you a GOOD partner. Life is short. Be a good partner, get a good partner, make money together and enjoy life. GoooodHardDick: |
| Romance / Re: . by PressyKcee: 2:22am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Can you imagine. How do you hurt someone and expect them to be okay  You cheated on someone that has given you 3 years of her life and except her to be OKAY!!! Sometimes I wonder where people keep their conscience. Emotion ain't a switch you turn on and off at will. You don't beat and child and except the child not to cry. If the reverse was the case, he won't be saying this. SirJerrie: |
| Romance / Re: . by PressyKcee: 2:13am On Nov 27, 2022 |
It is funny how we hurt people and still expect them to be okay. She even had the heart to forgive you. I can't imagine forgiving my man if he does that. You cheated on a girl that has spent 3 years of her life with you and still expects her to act all cool and loved up? Oh, yeah, she must have forgiven, but the pain is still there. Emotions ain't a switch you turn on and off at will. And you don't hurt people and then tell them when to start hurting and stop hurting. No matter how smart you are, there is no way you can equally divide your love and attention between two people. The new girl caught your fancy and in the process, you must have neglected your girlfriend and focused your attention on her even without knowing that you're starving the girlfriend of your attention. Do you know how it feels when the one you love is giving their attention to someone else? Imagine you have a best friend, and boom he meets another guy the next day and starts neglecting you and putting the new guy before you, how will you feel? Talk more about someone you're in love with. Trust me, you think the new girl is cool and awesome because you both just started and haven't spent quality time together, fought battles, quarrelled, settled, and pulled through shit together... When you guys do, you'll realize she ain't as "perfect" as she seems. Imagine if you were the one that found out your current girlfriend had sex with another man and is still in contact with the man, how will you feel? My dad will always say, don't give people pills you can't swallow yourself. You hurt that girl, she is hurting. She is breaking. With the updates, she is just trying to heal to come alive again, the only thing you can do now is show some remorse, love and attention. You can get her a gift and apologize. You may think there are many fishes in the water, but trust me, I am a lady. I know what girls do out there. A quality woman is hard to find, the same as a quality man. If you have a partner that has seen all your flaws, and imperfections, is loyal and committed to you. Kill your pride and KEEP them. Apologize where necessary and make it work. The dating pool is a MESS right now. |
| Romance / Re: The Girl Im Dating Is Into Hookup by PressyKcee: 7:37pm On Nov 07, 2022 |
Never forgive a cheating partner. If they could do it once, what makes you think they won't do it again? Yeah, no one is perfect, but some flaws are intolerable. If she can't be faithful as a girlfriend, what makes you think she will as a wife? You deserve better. Call her, show her your evidence, and tell her this is the end of the relationship. She ain't ready for anything serious atm. She is still having fun... And that's not bad.. We only live once.. Grin** 3 Likes |
| Crime / Re: Man Beats His 2-Month-Old Baby In Imo, Breaks His Arm Leading To Amputation by PressyKcee: 7:28am On Oct 25, 2022 |
I was thinking I am the only one that feel this way. I have met really amazing men in my life. Sometimes when I hear news of things men do, I find it hard to believe including cheating. Same thought as yours-Maybe I am just lucky.sighs! doggedfighter: 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: I Am Tired Of Living, Is Time To Give Up!!!! by PressyKcee: 12:39am On Aug 04, 2022 |
[color=#990000][/color] I understand how you feel. But, ha g in there. It is going to be okay... Trust me... It will surely be okay. Because everything is okay in the end if it is not okay.. Then it is not the end. I'll suggest you learn a skill. While learning a skill, update your CV, and visit job sites like myjobmag.com, and hotjobsnigeria.com. Apply for as many as you can daily. It can only get better. |
| Romance / Re: Our Women Have Made Marriage Look Like A Scam To Me. by PressyKcee: 10:47am On May 26, 2022 |
When you have a rigorous lecturer in charge of a difficult school course. You will purchase textbooks and handouts for the course. You'll give it your all to pass the course. Because you care about that course and don't want to fail it. When you have finally completed the course. What happens to the textbook and other materials you received for that course? You'll probably dismiss them and move on to a more demanding course. This is how most partnerships work. The lady is primarily concerned about receiving a ring and planning a large wedding. So, during the wooing period. They make every effort to conceal their flaws. Also, show the man a lot of affection. They make every effort to conceal their flaws. Also, lavish the man with love and attention. However, once they reach their goal of "the wedding," they reveal their true selves. Love and marriage, on the other hand, are still quite wonderful things. Simply pray for a heart that loves you, understands you, and is prepared to walk down that road with you honestly, no matter what. Marriage isn't a waste of time. Love isn't a waste of time. These are amazing places to visit!! JONSYN7154: 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by PressyKcee: 8:24pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Ezendimmuo: You can let go if all you said is true She cheated the first time, and you forgave her. Never forgive a cheating partner. If they cheated once, they will cheat again and again. 3 Likes |
| Family / Re: Woman Who Slept With Male Best Friend Following Quarrel With Husband, Seeks Help by PressyKcee: 7:44pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Having self-discipline and self-control as simple as it seems is quintessential for the success of any relationship or marriage. I dislike this saying that "A woman and man can never be friends" who even propounded this theory? No relationship or marriage is perfect. There will always be fights and misunderstandings, but does that justify infidelity and unfaithfulness? The next person appears perfect because you haven't dated them yet. No matter the situation, we must learn to respect our relationships and marriages. To start with, I don't think this is a mistake. I see it as a preplanned act. You have already imagined it in your head, and you were just waiting for a reason to do it. Having a male friend as a married woman or as a lady in a relationship isn't bad, but please respect your relationship and keep them at arm's length. Let them know you're in a relationship/marriage and give them boundaries. If they won't adhere to the boundaries willingly, it is your responsibility to force it. You can talk to them, but avoid seeing them, even if you must see them, please do that in an open space, and make sure your partner is aware and the reason for such a meeting is worth it. Don't make yourself available for temptation and then blame the devil when it happens. My advice is, to let your husband know. I can't see how you can keep something so dirty for a lifetime else you have a dead conscience. Because I can't even stand my husband for a day after such a dirty act. Confess with him and tell him how sorry you are. He may or may not forgive you. the decision is his, and if he decides not to forgive you, he shouldn't be seen as a bad person. If you have the mind to, don't tell him and cut all ties with the said bestie, but I am still trying to phantom how you can keep that secret for the rest of your life. Whichever choice you settle for, may God be with you. |
| Romance / Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by PressyKcee: 7:21pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Everyone will keep telling you to let go of your relationship. No one is perfect, and if we keep leaving people because of their few flaws, we gonna always be alone. Cheating is a deal-breaker in a relationship, but how sure are you she is cheating on you? Sometimes, when we love our partners so much, we tend to develop some sort of insecurity towards them and if not well managed, it could generate into assumptions and imaginations that don't really exist. Someone told you your partner is cheating on you and you're judging based on the third party's report without even knowing the intention of this person. Not everyone is happy you're in a relationship, and no matter how bad you think your partner is, they always have secret admirers who are willing to go to any length to destroy your relationship. Have you caught your partner cheating red handed. That you heard a music playing in her house and a voice isn't enough reason to conclude that she's seeing someone else. You and your partner needs to grow up and communicate effectively. And other things needs to be considered before reaching a conclusion. How free is she with her phone when you guys are together? How open is she to you? Both you and your partner lacks good communication skills. Communicate effectively. Ask her what she has going on with the guy. Give her benefits of doubt while you monitor her effectively. You want to run away to someone else, what is the assurance that the next person will be better. You want to have a rebound, does that mean you're scared of being alone? Trust me, rebounds don't usually end well. You either end up hurt again, or end up hurting an innocent person who genuinely loves you. Everybody get comma, don't throw away ya relationship based on assumptions. If you are sure, I mean very sure that she's cheating on you- take a walk. In between, your woman needs to learn to communicate. If she truly loves and value the relationship, she should be explaining things to you and reassuring you of her love for you, and not being rude, else she has done that severally and is tired of doing that. Trust me, being accused of unfaithfulness, especially when you're loyal in a relationship can be very annoying and mentally draining. Just my opinion, you mustn't take it. It is your life, make your choices. |
| Literature / Re: Writers Needed by PressyKcee: 4:11am On Jul 03, 2020 |
boshina: I am interested |
| Literature / Re: Writers Needed by PressyKcee: 7:20pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
zippopo: I am interested. |
. Which area in Lagos u reside 
those were wild times 
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