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queensmith:
I heard this exact quote this morning, exact! 'I dont normally do this' yea right!

so what's your point? you dont know me, the best you can do is advice base on the information I have given you.why are you trying to doubt my personality? why cant you trust people first by their words until they prove otherwise?

TroyJay:
Very good mindset! Just continue on your principled lane, and dont come across as Desperate! Desperation is a big big turn off!

Thanks guy.I think we are on the same page.

Flashaldrin:
Op, you want to woo a girl you dont know on fb just because a picture of her bust you saw looks beautiful, just that??
Guys! Guys!! Smdh!

whats wrong with that? dont be hypocritical my friend, whats wrong with getting to know more about her? Once she doesn't possess the virtue you can quit but not before trying.

queensmith:
you havent met if you found her on fb? u were simply trolling for women and now need further assistance with stalking her. . . . .

i will NOT be a part of it! :p

I dont stalk women, in fact I dont add people on fb I dont know.But I could not resist this babe, physically shes my type and if she doesn't respond to my msg I wont bother her again. Thats me, I am highy principle when it comes to that.I dont think I have done anything wrong so far.

TroyJay:
Woo her normally. Pls endeavor you dont commit yourself too deep before you two have the time to actually meet up. When you do meet up, and you dont like what you see, bounce. It will be easier to bounce if there is no prior entanglement a.k.a commitment. If you like what you see, you can continue dating her online or wherever. Dont let her facial beauty becloud your ability to think and take decisions rationally. All ze best!

Thanks .I just hope she respond to my message so I can Know more about her.

I dont know her but we have a mutual friend, I saw on her pics on my news feed so I added as friend.She accepted the friend request.I really want to know more about her because on the surface she is very beautiful.I have sent her a msg but she hasn't reply, what do I do? should I give up?

@op
you are so ignorant of God's ways and yet you open your month to blasphemed against the living God? Except you repent I pity the day you were born. It is written " what sorrow awaits those that argue with their creator, Shall the clay ask him who fashions it, 'What are you making?' or your work, 'He has no hands?' " . Your post is full of ignorance and yet instead  to keep your mouth shut over things you don't know you open your filthy mouth to speak against  God who is to be feared and honored among his works?
have you not read " the heavens belong to God and the earth has he given to children of men, " If men chooses to do evil and kill themselves do you blame the holy God for that? Hasn't God given to man the freewill to do what he pleases and has reserve a day for judgement? If God has reserve a day to Judge both living and dead, who are you to compel him to act before his appointed time? Oh op and all the atheist in the house  have you all not read " Precious in the eyes of the lord is the death of his saint ".
Listen to me, their is a place better than this your evil world. If you are a christian and you love the world more than you love God then your faith is to be questioned. It is written " If our hope in Christ is in this world we are all men most miserable" . Op nobody is shield from death but the state you die is what matters. Are you going to die a sinner or a saint of the living God? So its not a matter whether you live or die, God is not afraid of the evil of death, he wants and seeks all men to repent before they die less they go to hell and be lost forever. God has not forsaken his children, he never wills ,  so keep your mouth shut for you don't know him and even devil your father can't speak about God the way you just did. So repent before its too late.

To Christians in Nigeria
It doesn't matter if you are a child of God if you neglect the word of God  then you are not shield from evil. It is written that " man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that proceed out of the  mouth of God " . Christians should daily declare the word of God over their lives for protection, It is a shield to those that trust in Him. God's word is a shield you cant just trust God to protect you without his words. Scriptures like psalm 125, 121, 127 should be declare daily over our family and children to shield them against the wickedness of Satan and man. God bless you all people.

that verse did not say a good man's death day, its says a man deaths which includes every man. So the date of a man's death( whether he is good or bad) is better than the day of his birth. Let the discourse continue

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so you just read the bible without thinking through to get answers? what is meditation to you? this is a strong statement that needs to ponder on. So I want us all to think about the statement and share our thought. Hope you understand?

In Ecclesiastes 7:1 " , the day of death is better than the day of birth" . please I need great thinkers to give reasons why the great book of wisdom declare this words.

Its well documented in the bible that God always delivers his people through his prophets.In Nigeria today who can we say is a prophet that God can use to deliver Christians from the devilish bomb attacks by Boko haram? I strongly believe its not God's will for people to perish in such unspeakable manner and if we truly have a prophet God could have reveal such evil plot to prophets. my question , do we really have a prophet that seeks the face of God concerning the nation?

what a big lie, you guys are so dumb. Can't you hear a black dude voice in the background, the music and the video are different. The white choir are obviously singing a different song.

@op thanks for accepting my offer.

@op can I host you in Abuja? it will be my pleasure to take around the best places in Abuja.

as an electrical engineer, if are boobs are without side band and perfectly modulated then I will encode my message and transmit it to her hoping she decode it without errors.

so how would you compliment and toast a girl as an electrical engineer, accountant, mechanical engineer,banker, lawyer etc

I've noticed that most women are not very patient in waiting for a guy to asked them out, once they show you the green light and you do not respond early enough they are gone.why is this so? most men are very patient, they can hang around for a very long time before they quit, why cant ladies do the same, must a guy asked you out the moment you show him interest? can't they keep on calling till the guy is convinced?

Amya:
Phewww! Finally it's ended! Wouldn't you be grateful that atleast you know what's on her mind. Much better than when you were completely clueless.

my dear,in fact i am so happy, i felt like a free man now, it was as if family pressure bound me to her before i traveled.I think I am a very lucky guy because it would have been detrimental if she hasn't come out with this truth.I am just curious of her reason, anyway is time to move on, the future is very bright no time to waste.

I have been in a distant relationship, I have been calling calling her but never sent her any money.But I just sent her a very small amount of money through western union and three days after her attitude changed.Just get a msg from her "I'm sorry , I tried loving but the situation kept pulling me back" and that she cant be my wife and also requested to send my money back.I called her back immediately trying to find out what the situation was but she declined.I am free now that I know the truth, why does it take her so long ? I asked if she was seeing someone she said no.I'm moving on but she could have helped me by telling me the situation.I still wonder what made her sent this message. Any idea pls? she maintained she's not in any relationship.

what happened to the auditor you have a crush on, in your office? couldn't he be the man you've been waiting for.

Anyway you still have time.

just at the point when I am trying to be good to her that was when she left me.

some women are just evil, why should she just changed after I sent her money for the first time after two years.I cant understand, thought she was broke and could need the money since she had no job.

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bros its true, In my mind right now I think she's gone even if she cant admit it.I have to take it slowly and possibly start another if the opportunity shows up

SAFO:
What was her reason for not calling?

she said she was tired.

mobf:
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Just hope she's not trying to pull a stunt on you bruv

that will only give room for more doubt and distrust which is not good for the relationship.For now let me take are by her words.

thank you guys. I just called her, she is still mine but i made her understand not to try it next time. thanks for your comment.

Agybabe:
Why didn't u call her for that three days?

Some guys make mistakes of jumping into conclusions and lamenting over unnecessary things.

If γ̥☺υ̲̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊. date is behaving strange, the next thing for u to do is not to start lamenting, what u need to do is to try to win her heart back. And be a man! Make her realise u are the best!

this is a good advice.I'm sure it will work , I just have to let go my ego.

SAFO:
Just call her and stop playing childish games. You're trying to be non chalant like you don't care but you do. So wise up and call her.

Man up son.

This coming from a guy like me, then I am wrong from the way I react.

Thanks

slimyem:
cograts bro,u can now keep hurting.

I like ur comment so far they are insightful. Do u really think I should her?

BCuZiMBlaCk:
I feel pity for you Priest, Anyhow sha, i wish you the best

why pity me? I dont understand what you mean

slimyem:
bro.stop panicking and watch how it goes.gi ve her one day or betterstill call her back much later tonigh when you are sure she should be home or whereever.

Thanks.But I don't think I am going to call her whenever she is ready she can call me.

slimyem:
you didnt hear from her in three days means you didnt call her in three days.
have you considered she might be angry with you not having called?
why conclude she's cheating on you that fast?
has she ever acted like this?
is anthing called trust existing in this relationship?
bro,answer these questions first before you even start to talk about her cheating on you,

I trust her but sometimes its not easy trusting someone from afar.You dont know what they are up to that's why its good for her to tell me the exact reason instead of leaving me in the dark.
She has not acted like that before she tell me she's in church or market or a named place not somewhere.

Amya:
@op, don't be paranoid, there could be a million and one reason why she told you to call her back. You may lose her not because she's cheating on you with someone else, but because you are paranoid and may overeact.

Cool it and take a deep breath.

but why hasn't she called me for the past few days?.Now you see why I am disturbed.At least she could have told me where she is market, church etc.

in fact the thing tire me oh!