₦airaland Forum

Dragonking: ^^^^Typical examples of brainwashed black
slaves..it is because of you thats why this country
is in a mess..
America invested in science, Nigeria invested in
Religion. Ebola came, Nigerians (black slaves) are
praying for American science...useless people.

You are the one speaking like a slave. Americans have more bible believing Christians than Nigeria what can you say about that ? If you watch cnn lately , a Caucasian American man who survive Ebola in the seventies was interviewed and he admit that it was God that healed him and his recovery were miraculous , what can you say about that ? My friend you really need help , stop directing your frustration on Nigerian Christians because they have more bible believing Christians in USA .

Listen and understand and the fear of death will be far from you!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vnKlZz8_VSQ

sonOfLucifer: It seems there are diseases the blood of the dead Jewish man can't heal. Faith has its limits and Ebola has clearly surpassed it.

He has taken away our infirmities , by his stripe we were healed. he defeated satan on the cross , the devil should be ashame becasue even in death a christian still triumph. Glory to God!

munarule: Hello wonderful people, pls I seriously need your advise. I married this man last 4yrs and God bless us with a son who is 3yrs old. Before the wedding,he was doing everything to win my heart and was also claiming to be born again by calling me every night to pray for me. Am a kind of romantic person so i allowed him to hv sex with me to know his skills on bed. I was sure that he can satisfy me on bed before I accepted his proposal cos hv vow never to allow another man hv sex with me once am married. The problem started since the day he paid my bride price,he want me to be treating him like king while he treat me like slave(though he's 11yrs older than me). He doesn't appreciate me anymore and the most annoying part of it is that he's now claiming single on fb,proposing marriage to different ladies. I no longer see him as friend and confidant,he now make love to me twice or thrice a month. am just 28 and I need to enjoy marriage. Am dying silently pls tell me what to do and pls dnt tell me to go and report him to our pastor cos hv done that several times. God bless you

There is something you are not telling us. I think this man once loved you, there is no smoke without a fire. You need to chnage something about yourself rather than looking for an escape route.It also looks like your husband might also be tired of you and divorcing him might just be doing him a favor.You are loosing a man that once loved you, are you doing things that he likes? Have think of new ways to make him happy and desire you more??

@op I have done it before but will never do it again I met this pretty babe, we became friends and in less than 2 weeks I asked her out. I didn't know she was in a 2yrs old very serious relationship but she told me when I ask her. However to my surprise one thing led to another and she dumped her bf of two yrs to be with me.Though I enjoyed her while it lasted but I was surprise when she broke the relationship for supposedly richer man, in fact she got engage two weeks after the breakup and display are ring on fb. Lol

TrishaP: Good morning and Happy sunday to Nlers, My close friend but not my bestfriend sha wants to come stay in my bf's house for a while b4 going back to school. Pls is it advisable to allow her stay, i've бǝ̩̩̩̥ǝ̩̩̩̥η thinking about it. One mind tells me No and the other tells me yes. Dunno what to say yet.

are you suppose to be in your bf house? Are you married to him? see kettle calling pot black. Both you and your friend should respect yourself .smh

Pinkytracy: who says you can't turn an ugly woman into a beauty Qween??

which of these two are you lacking?

The Nigerian government can request the use of current experimental drug and vaccine for the deadly Ebola virus from the FDA, such drug are made available to foreign countries under "compassionate use" if requested since they have not yet been approve for humans. Lets call on the Nigerian government to the needful so as to save our people from the deadly virus. The below link will help.

http://time.com/3070925/were-getting-closer-to-vaccines-and-drugs-for-ebola/

angela98: Priest2u abeg thank you as you dey help me draw this guys for ear...please tell them

Thanks , I will try my best

dmcdad: Hehehehehehehe. Badt guy.

Don't mind him plz think of marriage if you have the means that's a very dangerous road to thread .

ITbomb: Sorry bro, here na still 1k for a full night ($8 ), the time you spend with her gisting is free provided you keep the table full of drinks, suya, sharwama etc.
And
You pay after service

Well but you still stand d risk of contracting STD by sleeping with different women and u miss the opportunity of love making because u can only se*x a pro

I repeat except you are born a eunuch you are doing yourself a disfavor by not having a wife.

I laugh when I see guys on NL downplay the necessity of having a wife especially in the area of intimate fulfillment most says you can always get from pro*/gf/escort.In the USA the average cost for an escort/pro is $100/hr, remember you are not paying for sex you are just paying for their time for which you can do whatever you like with them ranging from sex/gist/hangout etc. Please do the maths and you wont need a magician to tell you how important it is to have a wife except you are eunuch. I wish we all walk in wisdom.

chai can't believe that issue like this can cause someone to give attitude and cause problem in marriage? Those of us that are disorganize and arrange our cloths whenever we are in the mood, what are we going to do?

This is the reason why I don't blame men who desire to marry a virgin as wife, who want a sex addict and someone whose life revolve around sex as wife? This lady is too wild and is an example why men will always prepare to marry a virgin . Its better if she had learn all this in her marriage with her man not before marriage. I can't imagine having a wild woman like this as wife except if I am the one that made her so. Jeeze

2sExy1:

Guys, why don't you this babe alone. Look, people like this will NEVER listen to what you have to say,no matter the energy expended...

ONLY life can teach them. leave her to her own devices.

mr 2sexy with that pics on ur profile no NL babe go gree for you o eba and vegetable soup on bare floor lol

chai Nigerians are proud sha, who cares about who you are offline? Pride goes before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall. No one is innocent here everyone just bragging , na wa o

Dygeasy: If you like collect degree from Oxford, Harvard and Yale together. Collecu Nobel Prize sef, if you no fine I no go near you. It's no brain surgery.

Chei this is exactly how they think so you mean you will prefer a very beautiful girl with SSCE to an average looking girl with masters degree and financially independent? Na wa o

@All A lot of young women goes through pressure when considering whom to marry especially at their prime. They need lots of counsel to amke the right choice, please be careful how we attack this young women here for our words can either save or destroy a life .

audreybrian: Get a life.

oh my dear I'm so sorry for all this insult they raining on you here, I think u have a good conscience and please do not pay attention to very post here. My advice , follow your instinct . From your post that guy is not in love with you but obsessed, I see the trait of obsession.Also people like that will take you as their property ones you get married to them. Please marry a man that loves you and is not obsessed with you. All the best , cheers

Waspy: 1) Don't generalise.

2) Beauty is like sweet aroma, it attracts everyone (young or old, male or female)

3) Beauty can always attract men, just as bright colours catches one's attention, but brain, i repeat brain and essentially, character endear all men permanently

it's like u dont get me, what if she has all the other quality but not the conspicuous beauty ? why aren't men looking beyond the beauty ? why can't they have genuine interest in a lady except she so beautiful

I have so many friends who you can be consider as eligible bachelor, very educated and got their education from the best school in the world yet I find it strange that they are all looking for very beauty girls with perfect shape before they can even consider her for dating not even marriage.From my conversation and experience with this guys it seems a woman's education, financial status , intellect doesn't really matter much as long as she's not very beautiful and sexy Is that the way most men of this days think? I can no longer help my friends anymore because any woman I introduce to them is always not pretty enough Should physical beauty be the top priority for an highly educated dude seeking a wife

remember007: Truth be told,all I know is that I can't manage either,I don't wana be sexually starved or unsatisfied neither will I like to look outside or admire another man so I don't pray for any

So many pro* on NL , I thought a woman thing is elastic that contract and expand according to the size of d dick ? And it return to normal size after the act . I'm learning something new today o

IrishKez: I saw a thread yesterday about guys that does not have girl friends. Cos I don't have a boy friend yet, I thought it proper to open a similar thread for us(girls without boy friends)
I want to take it a little farther from the guys own by asking that you state your reason(S) for not having one.
Let me go first:
1)I was brought up in a strong religious circle and as such anything that will pave way for sins are vehemently frowned at in my denomination.

2)Am not ready for marriage yet, cos we're thought and I believe too that one can start such exposures when he/she is ready for marriage

3)I fear that no guy will be willing to be a friend in the right sense of it without crying out "Am Friendzoned!". Am yet to see that guy who will accept platonic friendship.


That will be all for now. If I remember other reasons I will update the list.
Now my kind, where are we?

Keep it up op and make sure u date a guy that have the same believe with you when you are ready and you must not date for long(maximum 1 year) before marriage.Above all do not let your virgin status fill you with pride, be humble and acknowledge God's grace that have kept you this far. I will be getting married soon, during my search for a wife I met a very intelligent and beautiful lady , she has never had bf and was virgin and I was too then. It would have been a perfect match right? However she brag a lot about the fact that she has never had a bf ( not a problem) but her personality wasn't that great , more so she doesn't know how to relate with man and often hide her feelings because she doesn't want to look vulnerable.I wasn't feeling her at all though she has everything I want on paper My advice for you, build on other areas of your life and don't ever consider yourself better than women who have fallen to premarital sexual sins. If you are humble you will be lifted up and your effort will not be in vain. My two kobo

Sophyrocks: Why didnt they discuss this issue before getting hitched? Different strokes for different folks. Some men do not mind.

sorry I had to call your attention Hope you are following the thread, I have not seen any man that don't care o. I've asked most of my friends both married and unmarried they all want their wives to drop the maiden name.my sister are u married? If you are , did your husband care? If you are still searching make sure u ask your intending husband o, but I advice you if you really love him don't even ask him just be ready to drop ur maiden name. shallom

Most men will say "did her mother keep her maiden name ? " .I've never come across a naija man that don't care.

Sophyrocks: Why didnt they discuss this issue before getting hitched? Different strokes for different folks. Some men do not mind.

One thing I can tell it's that most naija men mind , in fact all mind .some may not just take issue with it. The question is why is this a difficult thing to do by modern day women ? There are legal laws that handle change of names .

VisaOfficer: My H1B knowledge is extremely limiited. Please ask my non-immigrant visa colleagues at https://www.nairaland.com/1792662/u.s-non-immigrant-visas-listening .

Thanks I've asked him.

priest2u: Hi Visaofficer,
I have an approved H1B petition beginning October 1 2014, currently in the USA working with OPT. I intend to apply for H1B stamping along with fiance( would have become my wife at the time I appear for the interview). Please what document do I need ? Can we appear together for the interview? Please guide on what document I need for H1b stamping along with H4 for my wife.

Thanks

Hi Visaofficer,
I have an approved H1B petition beginning October 1 2014, currently in the USA working with OPT. I intend to apply for H1B stamping along with fiance( would have become my wife at the time I appear for the interview). Please what document do I need ? Can we appear together for the interview? Please guide on what document I need for H1b stamping along with H4 for my wife.


Thanks

alphacapa: I'm sorry please explain to me how my first post refers to racism dummy?

op welcome to nairaland, I'm looking at meeting naija friends here too. I live in California too ( San francisco area ). we are very few around here

Sweetestlady: well spoken!! But wat if she doesn't want distance learning n she wants to witness University life since she hasn't been there like the guy has experienced??

Then she's not ready for marriage and not in love with the guy. A lady that loves a man and ready for marriage will do anything to be with him. What experience can be compared with being with the one you are genuinely in love with She will be the one to suggest it, having a distant marriage is not fun at all and any couple in love with avoid it as much as possible. So your question is not realistic because most women in love will cherish the idea of living with their husband after marriage above anything else.