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just called my gf after three days of not hearing from her, when she picked the phone what came out from her mouth was " call me back I'm somewhere" before I could asked where she dropped the phone.That was strange, I am begining to believe that I have lost her to someone close to her because I am far away.My heart is hurt cause I luv her!where could she possibly be that she can't tell me and wont speak on phone? these are the question going through my mind right now.And she will never agree that she's cheating.

I am in my late twenties and have never beer just decided to try it today in friends birthday.

I just drank beer for the first time and I am feeling very dizzy ,is it normal?

@pendo89
its time for us to be friends. wow such wisdom!

@OP are you sure you want a man that loves God?

He has an abnormal intimate appetite, his desires is difficult for his wife to meet, he has asked his wife for permission to get
a second wife because he does not want to patronize LovePeddler.if you're the wife would you agree or asked him to seek medical attention?
His intimate urge is strange for he is always in the mood. Oya Nl let's know your views.

From 1Corinthians13

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails,

my own emphasis is " It keeps record of no wrong, " . Imagine if we practice this, the world will be a better place.

Hotie Tima:
i can see y u named your self priest2u

well young girls like too but not all that's for sure

but don't about my age

you look beautiful in you new profile pics, did you put the pics for me? I like it for you're well endowed.

Hotie Tima:
y are u asking me for

Just curious. depends on your age because most girls in their late 20's wouldn't mind toasting a guy they like.By the way what do you mean by toast? if a girl likes you and then approached you and asked for your name is that toasting? most girls toast guys but in a different way compare to that of guys.

@op
how old are you?

I have met two different girls in different country and without asking them they admit they've only slept with two guys.I'm pretty sure the first
one lied but the second one I'm not sure.Is it coincidence or that is the usual number given by girls who are willing to share such information.I'm just curious,
anybody with similar experience?

Thanks all for the advice. its seems it very ok not to give her the car.If she wants one let her rent one.

My gf is behaving funny , she said she has woman sickness ( i guess thats mentruation) . Could that be the reason why
she's acting irrational?

Please can anyone tell me where they issue IDP in Nigeria?

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Ok hope that is satfisying[/color]

yes. very satisfying. thanks

toyemz:
@poster
sometimes you need to be firm and not silly
this is one occasion
how well do you know this girl that you think its okay to lend her your car for a whole weekend
you say you are Nigerian,but she is not right
so don't become the classified mugu
my advice, if you needs a car desperately get her one of those hired cars,pay for it and let her go her jolly way
its better to be safe that sorry
applicable in this case

Glad that this is coming from a girl.I never look at it in these direction. Infact I will offer to rent her a car. Thanks so so much for the advice.At least its better to offer something than nothing at all. Thanks

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Don't give what you will mind getting back. [/color]

well, she can go with the car if she want !

claremont:
@OP: Do NOT give her your car, let her walk or enter "molue"!

Dont you think it will look as if I value the car more than her? I will feel very bad if I turn down her request.

190smh:
Shes selling that CAR OFF and flying back to her country to meet her man

especially if shes a Nigerian girl - that's what they'll do

I dont think so. Thanks for the advice anyway.By the way she's not Nigerian. I'm Nigerian

there is this beautiful girl I just started dating, however she told me about 4 days ago that she's feeling guilty because
she has a bf back in her home country and that she's engage.I dont encourage cheating and I dont want to be the one
that will make any babe leave her guy.The last time she told me this story about her guy, as an honest guy I felt very guilty
for the romance session we've had, the next day I tried to apologize because of my guilt but behold she said she was just joking.At
that point we continue our relationship until 4 days ago when she came very serious with the bf issue again.This time she said she want to be commited to her
fiancee and that she can no longer hold the guilt. Infact I am really confuse because I dont really understand what to believe anymore.Ok now, I have let her be
but I sense she still has this strong attraction for me and can't really seem to control herself when I'm around her. Anyway she asked me to borrow her my car
for the weekend. I want to give her the car , is it a good idea to borrow her my car for the entire weekend, will that make me cheap to her? please mature advice

I don break my laptop o!

I was having this discussion with my friends: your are sick and visit the hospital for medical examination, they need to examined your manhood, do you prefer a male doctor or female doctor to do that? I told my friends that I preferred a male doctor they started laughing at me that I'm man-lover.I am kind of not sure which is better male or female doctor.They all favored the female doctor, they said its far better for a female doctor to examine your thing than a male. what do you think NL?

I'm in love with a girl from one of the middle east countries, this babe is so cool, very pretty, humble, sincere, infact are personality is great except that
I never knew the girl that will love me as I do is not going to be Naija or christian.If I have found a girl like this while I was in Naija I will be married by now.
Aside are religion she is the perfect kind of woman I want. But I'm scared I may not marry her because of cultural differences.

when Jesus in a family happy happy home(2X)
when Satan in a family trouble everywhere(2X)

Guys what do you think about this policy? we should have female friends but dont commit to any form of emotional relationship till we are sure we are getting married withing the next six month? is he going to work to our advantage or disadvantage?

there is this babe I like so well but I am beginning to think that it may be lust not love because I can't talk with her without touching her.Is it love or lust?

I think we men are responsible for the scarcity of good girls in our days. I think we should change the criteria for falling in love, most women are so concern about how they look in the outside and forget to develop their character and inner beauty.What if all the guys refuse to fall in love based on how a girl looks but how she behave to others? How good will it be if a guy can say I'm in love with this girl because of how she treated someone or somebody and not how beautiful she is? when that happen ladies with bad character will have no bf not to talk of husband. Women always conform themselves to what men are looking for, if men start looking for good character, then the pursuit of good character will increase among ladies. Well this is my thought, I look forward to the days when we men select our wives based on what good they have done for others and not how they look outwardly. I rest my case.

I think being a virgin is more of a spiritual thing that physical.You can only be a virgin when you're pure in spirit, mind and body.Though I have not penetrated a girl before I dont consider my self a virgin because I have romance some girls but refuse to peneterate just because I'm not ready yet for that commitment.Personally I maintain a state of virginity when I'm in close fellowship with God, when I'm out of touch with God  I lust after girls and to me that's not virginity.

Cuddlemii:
First of all, I must give it to Naija babes anytime any day

1) What we possess is what most white women pay so much in acquiring (cash and pain) via surgery. We don't waste money on surgery cos we have it in abundance. Some peoples own sef na curse, to be continued is written on them.

2) We are home makers and not slave makers- We cook, clean and cater to our men, we don't order our men to do the chores or wash our undies.

3) We can't seize our men's international passport and report them to the police because we were raised right to pamper our men and not taketh by force

4) Our naija men want us, adore us, need us and get seduced by us. What is wrong with their oyinbo men that they have to wait for naija men before they can date or marry. If they can't attract their kind, they are not woman enough then.

5) Naija babes don't need to buy affection cos we have the weapons already to a man's heart. Why do the white women spend so much for affection?

6) If you like marry white, asia, pakistan. Naija men always come back to have a Naija wife here.

7) Naija babes can marry a man from any country without being a slave, selling their birth rite or washing undies for the whites.

Unfortunately we posses a lot as a Naija woman.

There is no place like home jor, Charity begins at home!!!

Come home and marry your women, we would not make you do groceries on your own, we wont starve u with only vegetarian diet and yogurt, we would not ask you to do the dishes, we would not ask you to take out the bin, we would not ask you to walk and bath scooby, the dog. We are bloody endowed, know our culture and u would still be the head and not the maid!

you changed my mind , no more white chick(needed for fun though) naija all the way for marriage.

Thanks all for your comment, After reading your comment I guess I should have kept mute instead of saying exactly what was in my mind.The harm is done, no need to apologiize but I wont try it again but have lost a good friend

Cuddlemii:
@op

Oh sheet meeen, just saw you are based in the US. Us peeps talk frankly.

Damn it, she wasn't pretty and who gives a hoot meeen. It is what it is meeen. The shawty is a down arse but aint gat no face to it, meeen.

You kid her not meeen. She is just a drama queen meeen. Her girlfriends cute but she ain't meeen, but she could be som's baby mama. No shame in your game meeen, u just spit from your heart dawg.