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Why not , I prefer a lady like that provided they are of good character and very pretty. She will do distance education or open university , having kids while having education at the same time . They are far better than girls that have gone through our corrupt institution and NYsc , all God knows how many have gone thru that pus*sy and how many kind of corrupt friends they have interacted with during their university days that may have corrupted their ways. I know very descent and good lady whose mind have been severely corrupted in school though still look descent . Finally it all depends on the love I have the girl , a university education does not enhance a woman value in my eyes but her beauty n character does .

I do believe no primarital sex however I wasn't able to keep my believe. Here is my experience , I'm 31 and have had only two gf that I intend to marry both weren't virgin( I was a virgin when I met the first). Thinking I was goin to marry the first we had sex and behold the whole room was smelling because she had an offensive virginal odor , how could I have coped with this ? Because of my conscience I couldn't breakup with her because of that even though I thought about it rather I decide to seek medical advice but we later path ways due to other reasons. My present gf who is now my fiancée , I slept with her once and she's very clean in there now I'm in for no surprise and we are getting married soon. I won't conclude anything but I will allow you to judge based on my post.

How to survive ASUU strike, I've perfected this skills and can survive a century of ASUU strike.

what do you expect from an igbo woman? To all the single bachelor marry an igbo woman at your risk

QueenR.A.W:
I did not recieve a Pm.I'm in SoCal, yet originally from NorCal.What city, or region of NorCal are you in?

I live in San Jose CA

zika1: The game was really annoying. It was very boring. They palyed us like children. Our formation was terrible. Is dis the kinda attitude we want 2 take 2 d world cup? Keshi shld really do something. I ws only seeing green and yellow on that field they were every wia. We were just lucky 2 dai nd lucks dnt come all d time we need 2 up our game. They played us bt we won and that's wat really counts sha. Congrats super eagles.

Na wa o, when did naija ladies start watching football and even analyzing it

QueenR.A.W:
Yes, why do you ask?

cos i'm also in cali, north cali to be precise and love making new friends.I sent u a pm

QueenR.A.W:
I have no idea!!!!!! This has happened to me, with an Ibo man, whose my first relationship with someone from another nationality (I'm American).I initially was weary of him, and although I had strong feelings that felt premature, I knew that he cared for me, not by his words, but by his actions.

At the end of it all, only time will show his true intentions and wether what he says is in accordance with how he trully feels.

Hi African queen, are u still in cali?

i called the line with another number still went on voice mail

i was in a friends house party where I met a pretty babe and it seems we were both attracted to each other.Everything was just going smoothly, before this event i've stoped asking ladies for their number on the first day, from my experience either they say no or give me the number but always get the cold response when I try to follow up.However with this babe everything was just going smoothly , she was even the one that asked we exchange number.I called her line in her presence and she save my number on phone even I went further with a memorable romantic hug I've called the number twice today and it went to voice mail at different time and finally sent an sms but am yet to get a response.Does it mean she was just playing with me all along ?

i was in a friends house party where I met a pretty babe and it seems we were both attracted to each other.Everything was just going smoothly, before this event i've stoped asking ladies for their number on the first day, from my experience either they say no or give me the number but always get the cold response when I try to follow up.However with this babe everything was just going smoothly , she was even the one that asked we exchange number.I called her line in her presence and she save my number on phone even I went further with a memorable romantic hug I've called the number twice today and it went to voice mail at different time and finally sent an sms but am yet to get a response.Does it mean she was just playing with me all along ?

@op u just confirm that most women love sex more than men, all you're thinking about in marriage is sex sex sex! chei may God help us.

abishowzonyine: I'm considering accepting him back cos i still love him. I never stopped loving him anyway.

are you ready for marriage now? is he ready ? or you guys want to continue the boyfriend/girlfriend things?purpose my dear, love is not enough.

@op why did you quit the relationship? Its very important we know why? Do you have other suitors or u are just going back because you don't want to be single?

malkia7: I'm in Eastern US. Not too many Nigerians/Africans here, compared to other cities in the US. Most of my female friends are Nigerian but married/engaged to men in Nigeria or in different states. The single Nigerian men here are a little older - grad students, doctors, etc. Not sure why I added that snippet of information but oh, well.

how do you mean the bolded? you are in your late 20's and a graduate student is older? what age do people go to graduate skool there? Well am Nigerian and open to marrying other African as long as she's pretty and of good character.

malkia7: Thank you all. Unfortunately for some of you, I'm not here to seek validation or be reassured that I'm wife material. I appreciate all the responses.

What city are you in? You said there are many nigerians there right? Are there many nigerian ladies too, that could also be a reason.

neena adjei: dont wanna talk about this here thx

I find it hard to believe your story because most pretty girls that are single especially in there 20's are very difficult people so most men don't even send their beauty.My guess is that you are one those pretty girls with very difficult and unpleasant personality and you are covering up your single status with postgraduate work #don't be angry just an observation#

neena adjei: No. I want to get my post graduate course done before i get distracted with relatlionships

Interesting , are you saying you've not had a boyfriend before?

between why are you still single? perhaps you are very difficult person #just saying

neena adjei: Nahhh im UK based. And whats so unbelievable about me being single

you don't live in Nigeria so its possible you may still be single otherwise with your looks I ruled out the possibility of being single if you were living in Nigeria.

neena adjei: why is it so surprising

Ok , do you live in Nigeria? Imagine the number of naija guys stalking you now except you don't live there I can't belive you are single.

neena adjei: sorry but i actually dont have any and im not seeking no attention. Besides i didnt beg or ask him to write that.

I can't belive you dont have any except you are impersonating the lady in that pics.

neena adjei: awwwww thank you sweedie

a girl like you cannot deny the fact that u have a BF, fiance or husband in real life and you are here receiving attention from men.Why do some so called pretty girls like lot of attention? beauty my foot.

most jobless women do not understand how to manage money because they have no idea on how hard it is to make money, they only know how to spend money

This thread was inspired by https://www.nairaland.com/1287948/she-wants-marriage-without-working , let's get response from the male folks what they think about marrying a liability. Personally I think its not a good idea and I won't do it except she has some rare hardworking attribute that I can see.

I think a lot of ladies have a misconception about going out on a date with a guy.Personally I think a date is just what it is and doesn't mean both parties have made up their mind concerning each other.Sometimes we men can't make up our mind except we spend sometime with a lady, I have gone out on date with ladies before and never wish to see them again after the date.So ladies should stop getting so excited when asked for a date from a dude , its just the begining and it doesn't mean anything.

sweet-tease:
So nursing is the criteria, lol
Since its bout the profession then you have to be an engineer
(No negotiations )

guess I won the contest then, I am engineer, a good one at that and am looking for a nurse

sweet-tease:
Thank you, you hav the feeling cos you desperately want to believe i have to be ugly someway but sorry to dissappoint you, its definately not my teeth

Babe you are fine jor. Can you tell us how you are able to keep yourself stainless and single ?

which is better? When a lady becomes my friend I find it very difficult to ask her out, starting as friends has never worked for me, I prefer she knows my intention from the start though I might take it slowly.So is something wrong with my appraoch? There is this very pretty lady that I like but unfortunately I have made her my very good friend so I can no longer ask her out.I need opinion from the house.

is it possible to fall in love with someone you've only spoken with on phone? if it happens is it real or infatuation?