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Amelian: my dear, i may sound off like abit brutal 2 yur intending fiance.. but the truth is this... there are some ladies out there, who wishes to be satisfied well, sexually. we are not saying the guy shud go 10 rounds or 4 rounds in a day.. what the op, is saying is dis----shes not feeling any connection, when having sex with shola... its not that shola is not good in bed, but theres NO connection there, and trust me op, as a Nija man wey get Pride, he wont change his styles, u have to deal with it... Only few Nija men who truly wants to please their women go the extra length to adjust and learn more on pleasing their women on bed...
And your Shola wont change, cos he feels amongst all the ladies he has bedded only you dey complain..
Av bn in your shoes before, and i had to take d bulls by the horn and sadly call it off...
why? Cos i know, if we get married, i will cheat on him and even find him repulsive as the years go by.. and we might end up divorced or separated.. cos i hate cheating on my partner..
But thank God, it took me some years down the lane to finally be with my partner, whom am very pleased with... ..although hes still starting life, financially but am at peace with him, and wud Never cheat on him.
so, op forget sentiments o.... Marriage is a lifetime commitment of being happy with your partner, husband , father of your kids, Not managing, suffering in silence.
You cant be longing for Ay, or another man, when uv crossed the threshold of marriage...
if your man cant change his ways of pleasing you after making him aware... my dear, pls postpone the engagement, orelse u will become bored..and thats Fact#

are you by anyway encouraging premarital sex? should anyone be proud of premarital sex? Agreed we all fall into temptation but for someone to encourage premarital sex Jeeze where is our morality ?

our people shall not die but live to declare the works of the lord.

abes: Typical.. they've started the muslim this muslim that rantings.

By the way, that was from some students demonstration last year in Egypt and not Gaza. See the complete video here

Really, why would they need to fake dead people in Gaza? is it that there are no deaths from the constant Israel bombings that they need to fake the dead?

No wonder we governed by morons.

one question for you , the Egyptian brotherhood are they Muslims?

I see dead people moving Terrorism is not their only specialty lol


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdYa-lnSgaE

the church of Satan is spreading in some part of the world, it actually started in USA but I think Nigeria is too hot for them. One christian is Nigeria can send them parking in no time lol. But seriously I don't think they can ever open a branch in Nigeria.

Annais: Thanks but that was when I was in school. Not that I am now having BFs all over o...lol.

haha, but at least now you're dating with marriage in mind

Annais: Yes, I did and it never bothered me because I wasn't looking and I felt that any guy I might fancy might not be in it for the long term.

keep it up , at the right time the right man will show up and you will look back and be proud of yourself.

Praisegirl: Am close to entering my 3rd year in school,not dating anyone over there so its possible.

you are part of the very few, I think you made a wise choice. Absolutely nothing to gain just adding more troubles and baggage to your live.

Xcapist: "Death, therefore, the most awful of evils is nothing to us, seeing that when we are, death is not come, and when death is come, we are not." ~ Epicurus, one of the greats of ancient Greece.

I can certainly tell you that my deconversion has made me less afraid of death and dying too, as a matter of fact, it made me less afraid of anything else. Hell was my greatest FEAR and since it "(in the words of the holy book: ) lost it's grip on me" I feel freer and more ready for death when it comes. Steve Jobs in his 2005 commemorative speech at Stanford (great speech btw) articulates it very well for me: "Remembering that you're going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already nakéd. There is no reason not to follow your heart."
But, frankly, its a poignant feeling to think that it all ends here, like we just snuff out and that's it. But I don't bother myself with that sha, I'm too busy living the ONE life I have now...

Even without religion , I still don't believe everything ends here. I believe there is going to be a judgement after death because of the great evil I'm seeing the world. Also the world justice system is corrupt and many are escaping judgement , there is going to be a perfect judgement and a perfect judge who will reward every soul for all their deeds both good and evil.

Another question, do you guys believe in judgement? what will happen to Boko Haram, ISIS , Al-Qaeda and every evil people that die while escaping the world justice system? They love to shed innocent blood and many will escape the world justice system, so who will make them pay for the many lives that were cut short ?

I just read in Washington post that Nigerian government is offering that amount and yet only few people showed up. Nigerians can be so afraid of death o . You wont get infected if you follow the precautions.Below is the link. Its far better than many job in Nigeria o. You save lives and get paid handsomely while protecting yourself.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/08/16/science/with-ebola-cases-still-few-populous-nigeria-has-chance-to-halt-its-outbreak.html

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would like to know . Thanks

I know so many guys who went through university focusing on their education alone knowing fully well that when the graduate they can get any woman they want for marriage.However I've notice a disturbing trend among young ladies, they tend to involve in a relationship so early, even the cute one who don't really need to worry themselves about men. I mean you can easily get a man if wait till graduation or when you are ready to settle down but why involve in a relationship so early in your life when your education should be the main priority?

apunku: u simply dnt understand and and i guess u never will coz ur not in ma shoes, my husband wen i marryd him was nt rich it was in d bid 2 b rich dat he went to the cult..... so dnt tink its d money am after k? the problem wit we Nigerians is tha weneva its anoda person s corpse its nt as painful as if it wer urs.... its so easy 4 u 2 met out advise bt if it wer u in my shoes wat wil u do? answer the question logically witout a biased mind and stop throwing insults k?

I hope you are aware that you can't marry another man without properly divorcing your husband? I advice you take one step at time, dont worry about tomorrow for tomorrow will take care of itself. Think positively, you can fully take care of your kids more than any man can do. Just believe in yourself , things might not be alright now but they will be fine with time. My mum does not have formal education, she hardly read or write yet I can't count how many people she's feeding and has trained in school up to university level with her petty business.

@op some women dont care about the ring thing, I propose to my fiancee without ring and she was so happy. Later I got her a cheap ring of 80,000 naira , she even sleeps with the ring on her finger lol. so its love that matters. my 2kobo.

duni04: she probably used the same equipment she used in treating Patrick sawyer to treat the pregnant woman. The nurse wasn't showing any symptoms so she couldn't have given the pregnant lady directly

make sense, I just hope we are all correct about the mode of transmission.

EbolaParasite: As far as we know, you can only get Ebola from a victim that has started showing symptoms, hence, the quarantine procedures being enacted by the govt. The people the Nurse travelled in a bus with probably have nothing to fear. If the nurse was already sick, they would have mentioned it. She had contact with Sawyer does not mean she actually has Ebola. Even if she has it, she can't transmit it until she starts showing symptoms (incubation period)

so how did a pregnant woman who had contact with one of the nurse just a day or two after Sawyer got the disease ?

mcino: Shaking my head for some ignorant posts here. There is no Ebola in Enugu. The woman is just on observation facility for having primary contact with the evil sawyer. It is not said anywhere that she has tested positive to it. Besides, it is only when the person has tested positive and is already down with it that he can infect others. Even if TNG woman later tests positive, she might likely not have given it to anybody.

so how did the nurse that had primary contact with sawyer gave it to that pregnant woman? remember the difference in time between both contacts is less than 3 days.

ammyluv2002: Exactly! Not even "can" but "should" be both!

Proverbs 31: 16-18 " She cinsiders a field and buys it oit of her earnings she plants a vineyard
17 She sets about her work vigorously, her arms are strong for her tasks
18 She sees that her trading is profitable

No wise woman will choose to be a housewife even if her hubby pay her salary for staying at home

There is a difference between handwork and office work. I think that passage applies to skills/handwork , a woman with various skills, she has control of her time and make a lot of money from home. That's different from working in an office dear.

Washington (AFP) - A US company that makes an experimental drug for treating the often deadly Ebola virus said Monday it has sent all its available supplies to West Africa.

Some 961 people have died from the hemorrhagic fever in Sierra Leone, Liberia, Guinea and Nigeria since March during the largest Ebola outbreak in history.

"In responding to the request received this weekend from a West African nation, the available supply of ZMapp is exhausted," said a statement on the Mapp Bio website.

"Any decision to use ZMapp must be made by the patients' medical team," it said, adding that the drug was "provided at no cost in all cases."

The biomedical collaboration between US and Canadian researchers involves a drug that is manufactured in tobacco leaves and is hard to produce on a large scale.

The company did not reveal which nation received the doses, or how many were sent.

CNN reported that Liberia was to receive the sample doses.

The two American missionary workers who fell ill with Ebola while working in Monrovia last month were given doses of the drug.

Both have been transported to an isolation unit at Emory University Hospital in Atlanta, Georgia, where they are receiving continuous care.

A Spanish priest who was sickened with Ebola has also been given a dose.

The ethics of distributing experimental medications to some people but not others was the focus of a special meeting of the World Health Organization on Monday.

The US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has repeatedly stressed that the drug's effects are unknown, since it has not been through a process of rigorous clinical trials.

There is no medicine or vaccine for Ebola on the world market.

http://news.yahoo.com/doses-experimental-ebola-drug-sent-wafrica-233046073.html

Kanwulia: Who is this attention-seeker?
Who is joking here?

IJIIIIIIOT!!!!
Make mouth like 'GOD'S TIME THIS. . .YOU HAVE MADE A MISTAKE IN THE CHOICE OF PARTNER. . . yen-yen-yen-yen-yen!
LOCAL TOUT!
Can you please make your contributions, no matter how daft!
You don't have to quote me.
Thanks!

honestly you need help, I want to assume that your post does not describe who you are in real life else i could only imagine how empty you are inside.

Kanwulia: Please, go and work for your own stuff!
I don't dig 'dependent' women.
This is 2014, not 1850!
Thanks!

please can you stop commenting nonesense everywhere, you are so insensitive and you will give accounts of every word you are speaking here someday. Not every everything should be joke about .smh
@op it well with you, you will be fine . You've made mistake in the choice of a partner but thank God you are alive and have the opportunity to make it right the next time.Take good care of your kid and due time God will surely visit you.

Weah96: Another confusing comment Sir. If the cure for Ebola is a solid faith in God, what makes you think that the faithless believers who die from it are Conquerors? Can you become a conqueror in the kingdom of God by having little or no faith?

Romans 8:37 " we are more than a conquerors through him that loved us "
We became conquerors not because of what we have done but because if what Christ has done for us . The victory of Jesus Christ are imparted to the believers . I repeat may God give u understanding .

Dragonking: The guy is just confused..religion hinders the mind from critical reasoning and since most nigerians are over religious set of people, their brain is as good as being dormant.

though I'm Nigerian but I live in d USA . And I know several believers in Christ here from all over the world. We all have one faith it's not about being a Nigerian . Ok

Weah96: What are you saying? First, you say that the believers who die from Ebola are conquerors. Towards the end, you then say that God will save the believers.

Bro it depends on your faith , if you have faith in God that Ebola cannot reach you or you will be healed from d disease in case infected then according to your faith so it will happen to you . However a believer that dies is still more than a conqueror because Christ came to give us eternal life and whether a believer dies or not he still lives . May God give you understanding .

Dragonking: Hahaaaahhaa...The same way the muslims too believe that when they die they go to heaven..if god cant protect you from ebola and other dangers on earth what makes you think he can protect you in heaven?

The fact is that you don't understand the ways of God . If we have faith and declare his word over our lives surely Ebola cannot near us , it is written ".. No evil shall befall you neither shall any plague come near your dwelling " . Now what happen if a believer panics and refuse to have faith in God in this circumstances ?? His/her lack of faith might endanger him/her and can lead to death however his soul will be save . There were several accounts in the bible where God could not help his people because of their lack of faith in him . Our God has not change and those that still know their God shall still do exploit in this times .

Dragonking: Since you have experienced the power of god, please use this power to heal the ebola victims in the country as america has refuse to give nigeria the cure...

It's like you are not getting me , even in death a believer in Christ is more than conqueror . Each and every believer has the word of God , it's the word of God that heals , it is written " he sent his word and heals them of their infirmities " psalm 107:20 . If you as a believer cannot have faith in God to protect you then no amount of prayer can help. Hold on to Gods if you are a believer and you will be save because Gods word never fails .

Dragonking: Fairy tale stories you were told when you were small...similar story the followers of Allah will say..bunch of clowns you all are and your pastors are proving us right..

I hope you have covered yourself with the blood of jesus against ebola virus? i have a free bottle here courtesy of one of your men of god.

"For the preaching of the word is foolishness to them that perish but to us that are saved it is the power of God " . It is foolishness to you but to me it's the power of God . I have seen the glory of God and experience the power , I know for sure what I'm talking about . Believe and repent otherwise you will also perish .

biggerboyc: Thank very much. Its not my which to cry but was just an emotional palarva. But the cry I'm talking about was not that noisy one ooo.


Its like
Its called sobbing. Just when tear roll on someone's chick

bro i was once in your shoe in my 200L until I got a revelation from God that a man that seek God should never beg any woman for marriage I also maintain a 4+ GPA throughout despite all the stress trying to date them fine girls then. But trust me if you make it , graduate , get a good job , a time will come any girl( good , bad, christian, born again etc) you see and you like can be yours in a jiffy without any drama.

Dragonking: You are suffering from mental slavery and delusions..the american government doesnt need to wait for god to give them a cure..their scientific effort gave them that cure thats why the american doctor is alive..god didnt heal him and everyone knows that..the nigerian doctor might even be a better christian than the american doctor but yet she is still infected and will definitely die..why? because instead of us to invest in research we spend all day praying to one being that doesnt exist and begging our pastor to give us anointing water to drink..useless slave..definitely you are suffering from the god dot factor below.

I don't have time to engage in unnecessary argument with you. For your info, we Christians believe in salvation of ours soul through Jesus christ, its is this faith we have in God that makes us right in his eyes.Its about eternal life, its not about this world. If our hope in christ is in this world then we are the most miserable of all men. You need to seek more knowledge about Christianity and stop displaying your ignorance in public. In summary Jesus Christ died for the scientist, engineer , literate, illiterate , fools etc to give everyone eternal life. He did not die to make you a scientist those are natural gift of nature. May God give you understanding.

Kachisbarbie: Right now, my husband is my partner....
If he has the virus, we may have to die together.
Or be cured together better still.

A virtuos woman. Why are people so Afraid of death ? There is so much to gain to die for someone you love , only things done for love last forever . Hope , faith and love are eternal every other thing shall perish .