Another reason I am not passionate about football is why will 22 grown men with good salaries and weekly allowances, who live in the best mansions and eat the best food, come together on a certain day to play for 90 minutes and end up playing 1-0 or 0-0
rtdCivilservant: Which 'normal wooing and all love talks'? So op u think the girl is a normal girl? Even for the fact that u knew she was lying to u? She is just a stupid girl, u fuccked her not because she loves u, but because she is stupid and loose, same way she is fuccking other guys too, so would u say she develops any love feelings for all of them too?
Pls don't misunderstand me! I was trying to point out the game I used in getting the babe to him.. he was sounding as if I paid for the sex.
I didn't say she got feelings for me.. I just wanted the sex. Personally I don't have feelings for her either.
Those plenty lies are enough reasons for me not to take her serious
Reminderz: it's not a new thing, you fucking just 3 days means there's a price involved...
first, both of you are cheap... yeah!
second, there's what you did or said or showed her that made her agree to fvck you within that period of space.
third, she's a hook-up girl who is saving a simp for a serious relationship, don't be surprised that she's withholding sex from the guy while still running her business low-key... and hook-ups don't care.. they can have sex with anytime and even with a guy with leprosy... just name the price and what's at stake, and they will concur...
in as much as I totally agree with what you wrote up there! But I want to point out that it was never a transactional sëx.. It was normal wooing and all love talks that lead to it..
I'm using a Samsung phone and the screen got bad recently. And I couldn't get the screen in the area I'm reciding, So I opted to get a second hand phone to complete a project I'm doing online. I contacted a random guy who was willing to sell his phone on Facebook and we met and transact the business. The guy didn't format the phone, he only removed his Gmail, Bank apps and his social media apps.
To the main gist; as I was accessing the phone, I opened his message box and discovered a number he was always exchanging messages with. Which I believe was his girlfriend, infact I envied their conversation because it seemed like two people who are deeply in love.
Well, I said let me try the loyalty of this girl to her boyfriend. I chatted the girl on WhatsApp and we got along immediately. And the banny fine like 20 people lol. Long story short..
WE FVCKED JUST THREE DAYS OF CONVERSATION.
this was the same person that was assuring her bf that she will never cheat on him no matter what. Secondly, the banny was blowing their normal lies to me, saying that I'm her first boyfriend, that she got disvirgined through r@pe blablabla. That since then, I'm the first person she's having sex with.. she even claimed she's not currently in any relationship. lol
You know that feeling when you know the truth and someone is trying to tell lies to you. I was just smiling when she was saying all this. Lol who she wan impress?
Senudi96: In a podcast video that has gone viral, a young lady commented that she broke a 4yr relationship with a "faultless" man for no reason. The story flips as she concludes that she's better than the woman her ex later married. Watch full the video here- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2hppHc_wFU
brightmorningst: I find hard to believe a lady can genuine love a guy if he has nothing, especially with all I've read in the past and still reading on this platform about women.
I met a lady in the university,my university is multi campus, we are in different campus,we have bonded so well for over a month plus,there are times I've told her to stay away from me that she deserves someone better,I can't even buy ordinary airtime for her,she replies me "I'm I complaining", despite every format I've been using to push her out,I just realised she genuinely loves, or I'm I just deceiving myself ni guys.
I'm 25, she's 22.
The correct thing is; "AM I" not "I'M I"
I saw you made that error twice
About what you asked.. she gonna love you but she not gonna be faithful.. she'll be getting those things you can't offer her from another dude and be staying in the relationship with you out of pity..
Persephone1: Forgive her , fight for your home, fast and pray for her. That she played away match outside doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Wear sexy underwear for her, attract your wife again. Don't forget to fast and pray again.
Fira09: Mail the mods through the Homepage to report the issue, you weren't the only victim whose account was hacked, many Nairalanders account were hacked.
Did you respond to any mail before it occurred?
Not actually.. it was after it was hacked that I got a mail.
aisha1314: I don't think you should have sex with her because like you said, that would be like taking advantage of her situation. Besides you said you already have a girlfriend.
As others have said, you shouldn't have even allowed her to stay with you in the first place. Because of the temptation not just for you but also for her. You may be able to resist but she may not and might try to seduce you. Having an opposite sex roommate is never a good idea.
But since you decided to let her stay, just try your best to keep things platonic. Don't complicate things by unnecessarily adding sex. If she makes any advances just tell her you're not interested. If she persists then you may have to tell her that she can't stay with you anymore and she's got to find another place to stay.
Obnoxious2001: This is where trouble sleep yanga go wake am .
Bro you have already offered a helping hand, to keep things in check, specifically inform her without any remorse or compromise that she will take charge for all the bills in the house (nepa, security etc) the reason for this is to assign a responsibility to her and not make her feel too relax.
As for the lie you told your girlfriend, tame your third leg well and do well to set boundaries (na you know yourself) ya babe will find out if she's very smart and ask questions a lot( look for a way to inform her she can be a Savior)
Have in mind that women are their own worst enemy, do not perform actions on hearsay.
Cheers e go dey alright at the end you would be glad you helped.
Mercury12: I bet that your girlfriend is not a Nigerian girl. I know what most Nigerian girls can do when they hear their boyfriend keeps a female roommate I have seen many of their dramas
Well, I didn't tell my girlfriend the truth.
I lied to her that the girl living with me is my cousin
general111: If she is beautiful and well behaved, then you have yourself a girlfriend.. When a woman cooks constantly for a man, the man begins to find her very attractive. This is why many house girls are sleeping eith their oga.. And when a man begins to give a woman money to cook for them both, she begins to see him as a provider and as a husband material.. Maybe you didnt want this to happen, but it will happen anyway. Good luck with your new babe, i hope it ends in marriage and a happily ever after story.
hahaha.. u cracked me! I can't say amen to this prayer. Lol..
general111: see ba, i am not saying you will rape her oh, but its barely one week and you are already struggling with urges. Very soon she will become too attractive for you to resist. Look for a female friend, colleague or coursemate that she can live with, dont let her stay with you beyond one week oh.
Alright thanks! I will see what I can do by next week.
general111: Oboy you are in a mess already. She wont leave by january i assure you. The reason why whe is staying in your house is because she doesnt have a boyfriend. Very soon you will be her boyfriend. Lemme tell you this for free. She wants to sleep with you too. And she wants you to sleep with her so she can cement her place in your house. Has she started cooking for you, because once you start eating her food, you are a goner.
This are all the unforseen circumstances I'm trying to avoid.. as for her food, u don't expect me to decline what she cooks na.. I give her money to cook what we all eat.
What nonsense man are you becoming? Potential rapist ?
Helping her just so you could get under her skirt
If you like yourself you better don't have sex eith her if not just know you now have a permanent roommate abi wife sef
Five days he is already saying is a man after having numerous sex with the girl in his mad
Inshort waka there...
A man can never help you without hoping to get anything in return
I know you are a kid and I will let this slide!
I have got girlfriend.. NB; sex don't freak me anymore.. and next time when you are addressing me, pls remove that word "Rape". personally, I have been leading a campaign against rape..
I don't know how you lots concludes stuffs abt people you have never met
A friend of mine who's a student reach out to me and asked me to help her find a roommate because she won't be able to rent an apartment alone.
I was scrolling down my Facebook wall the other day and I saw a post from a girl who was looking for a roommate. I saw this as an opportunity to connect that my friend to her, so I quickly chatted her up and let her know I have got someone for her. She was excited and thanked me.. but when I reached out to this my friend to let her know I have gotten a roommate for her too, lo and behold she told she has seen someone already so she's no longer interested.
I reached out to this random girl I met on Facebook to let her know it's not gonna be possible again, she was so disappointed. She had to beg me to help her find someone. I put it to her that there was virtually nothing I could do for her again. I let her know I stay alone but we have gender differences so I can't let her come to my place of which she understood.
She chatted me up the following day that she doesn't have where to stay and that she's been sleeping in a classroom for the past three days. I forgot to say; she's a newly admitted student, she told the money she have is for her school fee and registration so she can't afford a house now but she will be buoyant enough to secure a house by January.
Well, I let her moved to my place with an agreement that she's gonna stay and move out by January.
Now I have been having mixed thoughts,
The bad boy aspect of me is telling me to start having sex with her but the good and rational aspect of me is telling me NO.. reason being that; (1) If I have sex with her she might be too comfortable to move out. (2) I don't want her to feel I wanna take advantage of her because I gave her a shelter.
It's not easy to live with a woman that is not blood related to you. She has spent 5 days with me already and I been able to decipline myself from touching her. I Sha like the man I'm becoming