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dawnomike:
Reach out to me... I reside in one of the estates in ajah

Boss I sent you a mail on Nairaland.

I recently got a job which I’m scheduled to resume for tomarrow.

Only issue is the requirement is a suit and tie.

Guys in the spirit of 2025 if you have a used suit in good condition for sale or DASH, dm me

My WhatsApp is below.

O9O5 288 5778

My location is at Lagos.. Ajah.

Kindly help a young man.

Pls add me 0905 288 5778

I saw this on Agba aka John Doe’s page and decided to post it here.

The man in this story got a lot of bashing on twitter but to me this man played his game right. And if he is one this thread I give you regards bro🙌🏽


Noticed how he didn’t place his eggs in one basket.
When he discovered that the Naija babe is hesitant on his marriage proposal he quickly dropped her and BROUGHT a foreign woman to Naija to get married under our legal system before sending her back.

I bet the reason he revealed his secret to her is because he wants to keep smashing her here until he goes to meet his woman.

I rep the dude because he is leading with his head and not his heart
(regarding the marriage matter and the statement of her punishing him when they get there. He get waiting he don see for her character)

and to complete the story he probably go don vet them well before marriage.

Very soon she go begin they insult you for public or disrespect you in front of your friends and family.

And when una don get children na then your life go tumble.. she likely fit slap you in front of your kids and neighbors out of anger and nothing go happen.

There is a old Japanese saying that goes “you cannot take back the stroke of the sword nor can you take back the word of mouth”


One day you will unleash all this passive aggression on her and on that day the whole world will call you a woman beater or an abusive man.


And from your story you claim that your business hasn’t been going well so you usually borrow from here.

Make I tell you today, listen carefully

Women are not biological designed to be providers. Don’t get me wrong they will provide for their kids and occasionally for their man but when you turn her to branch then she self go money branch.

50/50 equality no day amongst genders.

Best you send her back to her parent and tell them that you’re begin to consider divorce to save your mental health.

If everybody see say you serious and you’ve had enough then they will begin to amend their ways but first let her go chill for her parent house for two weeks.

You self use that opportunity to build your business.

Just so you know..
Game is the physical application of Redpill

Learning all there is to know about women/society/religion/marketing without actually practicing it still makes you beta.

I am writing this because my cousin told me that whenever he gets with a girl he becomes speechless ( he doesn’t know what to talk about).
This is a guy that’s tall, physically attractive and makes a good living.
Yet he suffers.

The funny thing is that he has a lot of female friends who he engages with casually but not physical.

Guys the best way to avoid playing yourself with anybody is to be upfront with your intentions in your first approach. Same as you presenting your business plan

(I know most people will get timid on this but if you remember Ubunja he says that a girl will know if she likes you on the first 10 - 20 seconds that she see you.)

So basically In your first or second conversation (phone call) Be bold enough to tell her that you like her and you want you guys to get to know each other in a relationship.

Not get to know each other before the relationship but in the relationship.

Say your intention and pause for her reaction.
It’s normal for her to get shocked and if she continues to talk with you in good manners then proceed but she if she declines, get angry reject or whatever then kindly leaver her alone.

Don’t force desire don’t explain connection just walk way. Simple

This was the same way I got my first job, I looked at my lady boss dead in the eyes and I declared my intentions and qualifications without breaking eye contact.
The interview didn’t last up to 8 minutes before she asked me to resume the following Monday.
She was extremely nice to me throughout my stay with them.

Be Attractive (fitness) and communicate no body go beat you infact them go they respect you.

My cousin now has girlfriends thanks to his new form of communication.

Make una Enjoy una weekend.

Redpill movie of the day.

Check out the movie if you want to see Alpha and beta male action towards romance.

Redpill movie of the day.

The screenshot below is from a very good redpill book tittled “THE MANOSPHERE”

The page is for Alpha men who desires marriage and want to raise healthy kids.




You can download the copy online and have a good read.
The book covers the Feminist evolution (1950) from the men perspective and it’s effect on young men, sexual dynamics, sexual liberty, divorce and why western man all mostly discarding the idea of marriage.

Pukkalolo:
When you act desperate for a woman's sexual companionship she immediately started thinking she's superior to you.

Masculine confidence is naturally conveyed when you act like her pussy is NOT important to you.

Hello Nairalanders

So I read Pukkalolo book Tittled below and I am here to recommend this book for every Nigga out there that is having trouble starting a conversation with a lady or not know what to say during the conversation.

This short book gives detailed and relatable scenarios of how to execute and handle the authors “shameless approach “

My favorite part of this book is in the introduction where he said and I quote “ I assume that most guys who are reading this have their "basics" handle. or at least are working towards geting handled. When I say basics,I mean your physical appearance, having a good personality, having ambition regarding your career and finances, etc.”

This shows that the author is big on self development before anything else.


Kindly contact the author to get a copy and trust me you’ll find this short book very helpful.

I’m emphasizing on short because I know that most of you don’t have time to read lotta text.

ubunja:
don't worry bro, its never late cause the whole of June is my birthday month ♥️ thank you for the good wishes. And yes from time to time we all get too busy for this thread, but it's always nice to know we can get back and still find things popping. Stay safe man these are rough times.

Happy birthday Ubunja.. so sorry it’s coming late.
My wish is that you continue to bless us with your miseducations.


God bless

This is likely for those people (incels and men that have opted out of leading women) and also for some that have refused to get married for whatever reasons that they may have.

As much as I respect your decision to stay off marriage because you don’t want to be manipulated and exploited by society

Also make sure that the Modern way of life won’t exploit you as well.


Feminism is helping women become independent.. to stay off taking care of their husbands and families. To be alone and wealthy in the age like Linda ikeji etc etc

On the other hand we have Black pill, MGTOW and some redpill folks that have decided to also stay wealthy and unmarried.


Last last na 70years and above go determine if our decision good or not.

Dexter08:
Dear Men,

If you go through the good book that is the Bible, you will find in the creation story the lady Eve was the only person deceived by the serpent.

Yes, Adam was very much aware when he ate the fruit. Knowing the repercussions, knowing that he will surely die the day he eats the fruit, Adam would defied God, take God on when the lady Eve offered him the fruit.

Some christian commentators believe Adam ate the fruit so as not to allow Eve bear the wrath of the creator alone. Man loved her too much that he lost everything that day in the garden of Eden.

Adam was the first guy to play the knight in shining armour. Ha!!!

Dear men, playing the knight in shining armour will not take you anywhere. It might indeed give you some coition in the sack, but it doesn't guarantee commitment and happily ever after.

She is not your responsibility dear men.

All playing the knight in shining armour has ever done is bring heartaches, depression and if you don't recover from the stated consequences then a free ride to the after life.

Dear men, focus on yourself, focus on your family, focus on the work of thy hand, leave her with her responsibilities.

Maintain Frame at all times!!!

Your post really cracked me up. Just like Pook it claim that Adam was the first feminist because he didn’t have the balls to tell Eve “NO”

Remember boys always learn to say No especially if it doesn’t benefit you or it it doesn’t align with your principles.

My guy told me of a guy who started dating a girl that smokes ice.. as the story goes he started taking it as well
Even more than the babe.

The guy is now bleeped up needing rehab and stuff but his girl is still taking it even though they aren’t together no more.

Learn to say No

So many guys suffer from their inability to say NO.

I hope this helps
There has been records of men making great achievements due to the influence of love, sex and romance of a woman. The image below describes the authors view on why many men seldom succeed before the age of forty.
I hope the image below also shed a little light on why you should get your hands off your penis

Johnchrix:
That's why it's good to ask her about her past, her virginity status and body count, it doesn't make you weak or simp

And how do you see that playing out??

In the heat of the moment or dry heat

John: Hey babe, before we met how many guys were you with?

Joy: ooh thanks for asking me such a bright question. I have loved 18 men before you and 3 women.

John: Not bad.. what’s your total body count?

Joy: I have been with atleast 142 men all my life.
I did fall in love with some 17 people and I indulged in a little bit of hook ups and casual sex back in uni to maintain my lifestyle and to get some Favours from my department professors.

But all that’s in the past now.. I’m glad you asked I can finally get it off my chest

Mr redpill, Were you expecting her to tell you the truth?
We live in a world where women expose their dirty secrets only when they fight or hate on each other and you expect them to tell you how it is…
Just day play.

Happy new month Guys.

I have some movies which I want you guys to see.
The first is “When Nietzsche wept”
The movie should shed more light on the life of the philosopher.
The movie shows the perspective of a philosopher who has chosen to live life on his terms and another who got married.

The second is the “Audacity to be free” by Salome Lou.
This movie is about one of the first woman that dared to go against the conventional norm of society.
Her story paved path for feminism today.
She is known as one of the first feminist.

Keep an open mind when you watch both movies because their plots became intertwined at some point.

Note: you won’t find this movie on downloadable platform.

“When nietzsche wept”. Can be found on you tube

The Audacity to be free: you will have to stream this one on google.
They have removed her works.

You guys should see this.

Nyascobar1414:
Most western guys are celibate, no fornication to commit... Apart from Masturbation to ease their sexual tension..

Its only the most attractive genes that get sex..

As a Nigerian guy, if you a sex freak and you relocate,omo just sign into the monastery bro..

I can see why it was said that men are getting lonely..

In Nigeria, if 90% of the women are empowered, earning close to their bf's or husband's range of Income, then you will know that women will no longer submit or take a whole lotta sh!t from their husbands or bf's.. Maybe our forefathers knew about the nature of women,thats why they denied them the podium of attaining wealth or fame..

But here comes the New World Order, empower the women,set them up,give them financial assistance.. With women not being able to handle power, they'll look down on their men,easily divorce etc.. The family system is broken,the children will now be vulnerable to what the society gives them..

Let these kinda system(Women right and empowerment)in a full blown scale as it is done in the west(Uk,Canada or USA)come to Nigeria, then these mantra of "Na money be fine Bobo" will stop...

Men really have to take these realities.

MGTOW!
Lol.

Bro I agree with this. In fact you just explained part of why the west is like that.

They are already facing is population decline amongst others, thanks to their laws.

That’s why they are always thirsty for Immigrants to work.

Na this MTGOW I won ask about

This is Nigeria bro a patriarchal society MTGOW in Nigeria why?

As long as you get money, and they very comfortable.
If your woman misbehave, you send am go back. If she do anyhow you marry another untop her head.

I respect you guys decisions but I am simply curious.
I hear that there is this loneliness that befalls a man from the age of 50’s if he doesn’t have a child or a family.

Kenneth10110:
Lol i am skinny as well your experience with mine is similar very very. I eat a lot but will add no weight. I dress well but not having muscles or fit body is a turn off. In other way i get green lights because of my baby face but am not even a bit persuasive to women. It seems been skinny is a crime to most women.

Too most women na crime ooo
And no be their fault.

We call it skinny men but what she see is a weak lean man
Imagine going to pool but not too confident expressing yourself outdoors without clothes.

Nyascobar1414:
@Princekami, I thought you guys are the price, then why do a whole lotta sh!t so you can get vvomen?

In the early 2000's it was all about what a man wants,women were all about Impressing their spouse so they can sustain their relationships.Nowadays, guys like you are putting too much effort to be liked by a woman... Making money so a woman will see them fit, going to gym(not for their health benefit,but to be noticed by women folk).. Truly, Men have been emasculated...

Emasculated men everywhere..

It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.

Socrates.

As a man you are not the prize until you become the prize.
Until your fellow men look at you and want to become like you then you are the prize. not just because you say so.

Women are born with value.. their beauty and sex so everything is freely giving to them for existing. But men have to work hard and become the value.

And as for money, you need money for your basic life needs. Your money should be used on you.
Don’t you want to be comfortable?
Don’t you want to explore the world and have real life adventures?
Don’t you have big dreams?
Don’t you want want to contribute your own quota to humanity?
Well all of these require money to pursue.
Or have you given up?

Money should be used to pursue your dreams, used for the well being of your family and for easy access to get what you want or need. Not because you want to give it to women.
Why should you make money from hard toil and give it to a woman that has not deserved it?

And lastly I said women not woman. As you begin to build your value women will be attracted to you, attracted to your body, attracted to your value.

Do you know Peacocks?

Peacocks are very beautiful birds but only the male peacock open it’s tail to attract mate.
He doesn’t chase, he displays himself in front of his mate and if she like it she goes around him.

Now imagine plenty women like you on sight not one woman. Imagine your options.

I hope all this examples are good for you.

According to Rollo Tomasi

“Redpill is theory while gaming women is the practical aspect of the redpill”.

Or how else do you think all the redpill notes you’ve been reading were compiled?

This does not mean you should leave your goals and womanize it simply mean you should get to know people alteast learn one or two things from them.

And lastly those of you that are skinny I mean very fu**ing skinny you, yes you.

I have a little advice for you from my experience.

When I was young I used to be skinny till now I am still skinny but Ripped good (not huge).
As a kid they use to call me skeleton 001 no kidding even my mom would tease me with it but I didn’t see anything wrong or no I was good at hiding it, thinking na so God create me.
being skinny is shit men as a man

So many girls told me back then that I was too skinny, like it’s not cool I should eat more and brrooo
If na to chop ehn,
If you like roast full goat today if I no chop am finish na small go remain.
I ate a lot but he no show
I use blood tonic tire (Orazin, heamogolin) until blood tonic way I take carry me chop watin give me food poisoning and I land for hospital straight.
The doc advised me that being skinny is better than fat because in my old age I go happy say I skinny so at that point I gave up.

Fast forward to November 2021
I came to chill at my childhood padi place for a while, when I got there he was big, very muscular in his words “A gladiator” which he is. Even his friends self they follow go gym and they looked good.
My guy started to intimidate me without even doing anything ooo
Probably because na person way we day gather fight ourself from small, but now as I look at him, I better not even try it.

So instead I met him, told him that I wanted to train with him and he agreed.
When he goes to the gym, I stay home with push ups atleast 10x3 and back press it wasn’t easy rara.

Fast forward to January 2022
I went home. I haven’t really been home in 7 years except phone calls or quick visits. But to my surprise I saw my kid bro
Ahhhh Omo 17
He was looking good.
His chest
His back
His arm all fit. So i asked what he has been doing to his body and he showed me all this fitness apps. And seriously na fitness app he day use till today. Omo na so I go register for gym oo

Make last born no come beat me for future.

I created a balance, I get back from work early, eat and rest at six I head to the gym atleast 1 hour or 1:30 minutes. I go to the gym atleast 4 times in a week and 60 push ups every morning before work so my body go pump.

At my spare time I read this thread Ubunja miseducations, Cave’s daily nuggets, Jeshal and so many contributors on here amongst other Books.
No Tv that box kills your imagination
Reduced social media to keep focus
More outdoor activities
I watch only recommended movies “Casino”. God bless the person wey recommend that “casino” for here.

Couple of months into my fitness, me I no see any changes but I no stop. the gym is therapeutic as a man you gaz push your limits

Then I noticed something amongst my rabbits that changed my life and how I view attraction.
I have a female rabbit fully mature in her cage, and a male rabbit not too big but old enough to reproduce.
Whenever I put them together to mate Nothing
First they chase themselves in the cage… the man will eventually climb but can’t penetrate until the female will rush out from under him.

He wasn’t strong enough to subdue her when I come back to check them I go see say the female rabbit don day pet the male rabbit but she no they get belle.
She don friend zone the werey because he no stong.

I looked back at my experience with women all of them skinny like me or get body small meaning I also couldn’t handle a big woman so I go for smaller ones.

Fast forward to Present day.

I still look skinny, tall but muscular and you know we skinny guys have hungry tummy meaning it’s very flat.
Now I have muscles, chest, back, abs and a skinny stomach
The V shape.

Now it’s easier to spot green lights
The same wey we look at curvy beautiful women when they pass our street is the same way I catch some women looking at my chest or my body then look away when we make eye contact. Or she is playing with her hair when we talk in person, or she is dancing or she is trying to show me her bum bum so many crazy shit like that.

No body tell me I’m skinny anymore
Infact I intimidate small people

Ooh before I forget someone mentioned on here something about men sexualizing themselves. No be say you go naked, but you go wear tight clothes whey go reveal your muscles or you do non. Most times I go to the supermarket I wear trouser, spray peff wear only singlet go do my shopping.
Same trick, people like what look good and smell good.

A good body gives you immense confidence boost.
Now I do more of public speaking
No I’m no longer shy to hold the stage.
Women want to help when I need help
And now bigger women look attractive.


In conclusion Work on your mind, work on your body. I will say this anywhere anytime.

”The one thing money can’t buy on a man is a good body”.

Even if you have all the money in the world you still have to put in the work.

Most time I go to a nice location I see a loaded guy maybe yahoo he get big motor, he wear big shoe, he carry patek gold for wrist and I go still observe him girl they look my skinny sweets body for singlet as I day waka pass



So please don’t learn the redpill and stay away from woman, don’t hate them as nature (hypergamy) designed them to survive and Greed, social media + the current poverty in Nigeria has made them evolve into what we see today .
You self gaz evolve.
But still look deep some they way their father guard them big time.
This is why you need to vet.
Ask unsuspecting secret questions inside conversations. From the moment you meet. Women like to talk give them chance make they talk.
As long as she likes you.

Guard your ATTENTION ruthlessly spend it more on you and your self development. Play the game if you can. Some women carry connections and some know people that you might need when chasing your dreams.
Always protect your self (condom) Always use condom na
Na disease and pikin with the wrong woman fit spoil OR reset man life when he never ready.
AGAIN away use COndom even with your gf.

Girls they go Bleep dogs for Lekki and we don’t know who.


I modified this.

Imagine everything men are going through in the west and women never be president oo. When they finally have a woman president ehn bye bye to Masculinity.

#thefutureisfemale
#masculinitylost

Red pill song of the day

Fela Lady

Fela talked about the difference between African women and Modern women back in 1972 in his song titled lady.
The instrumental is long so you’ll have to enjoy it till he starts singing.
Here are a few lyrics from the song.

I want tell you about lady
I want tell you about lady
I want tell you about lady

She go say him equal to man
She go say him get power like man
She go say anything man do himself fit do

I never tell you finish
I never tell you finish
I never tell you finish
I never tell you finish
I never tell you

She go want take cigar before anybody
She go want make you open door for am
She go want make man wash plate
For am, for kitchen
She want salute man
She go, sit down for chair
She want salute man
She go, sit down for chair
She want sit down
For table before anybody
She want sit down
For table before anybody
She want a piece of meat
Before anybody
She want a piece of meat
Before anybody

Always use your head guys.
When a woman wants you she will tell you how her husband doesn’t satisfy her, how he is incompetent, how he can’t last long in bed.
She will tell you that she is sexually depressed and frustrated in her marriage.
She only needs a friend to confide in.

And also you should remember that most men strongly believe that their wives are angels, they see their wives as their most prized possession. They believe their woman can do no evil therefore you have invaded his home and have gotten his Angel to do what she wouldn’t normally do.

Don’t sweat it your girl is probably different.

For no reason should you sit a woman down and tell her your insecurities, your weakness and the secret to your power (wealth).

The day you guys fight, those secrets that you shared with her during sweet times, those weakness that you shared in your attempt of being in touch with your emotions are the first to be exposed in her attempt to bring you down.

Don’t be a foolish man to think she would protect the secret of your wealth when you aren’t together.
I knew a lady who shared her fiancé secrets of success with some new guy she fell in love with in her attempt to help him get on his feet.
By doing that she empowered another man to become a strong competitor and threat to her fiancé even after they all broke up the new man is still a threat to the ex business.

At that moment I understood why the villain always go through the wife to get to the actor

Modern women are always clamoring that men aren’t emotional enough and yet emotional manipulation is their greatest weapon.

Guys make una ear early momo Amebo.

I came to check on my family today, I met my dad and his Neighbor discussing outside so I signaled my pops and went inside.
Few minutes later my dad joined me inside
Omo people ya werey goon oo.

It’s seems my neighbor 30 year old son has been dating and killing himself for a girl in front of their house today Sunday the girl don sneak enter compound to Bleep another neighbor that has a car and a kid.
It seems the man’s wife saw the girl enter and they probably heard her moaning from the sex afterwards.

What an embarrassment. His mom took the gist to his dad and out of PARA his dad is reporting his son to my dad.
Funny thing is that the father na big flirt, the Apple fell far from the tree no wonder he day vex as the pikin they simp.

Moral of this story if you day stay with your parents abeg make una no shit for house.
You don’t want your doing’s to be everybody’s business.

No matter how attractive that girl day for work make una No shit for working place self. If you no behave normal your Oga go take her story pursue you commot.

Use your head boys. Women know that high body count devalues them and most especially high body count disgust men except beta cockolds who enjoys other men fucking his woman while he watch and jerks off.

Never allow a woman cuck you.
Never fall for western polluted ideologies.

Always be careful when trying to fix a broken woman you might end up broken as well.

You can never fix a woman that doesn’t want to be fixed. The more you trying, the more you invest deep in her and once you have over invested in her you become the sheep.
#saveyourself.

Sad truth

Eric247:
Ubunja
CaveAdullam
Martinez
Skepticus
Dabronze
Emmaodet
Sozinn
Zabiboy
Pansophist
JESHAL
Capslocked
MJBOLT

Help me, I'm addicted to sex, I love masturbating, watching porn and fucking prostitutes, it's costing me money, time and my self esteem, I'm still young, and I know many here are hypocritically following this thread and have the same issues as me but can't express themselves because it's very shameful, this my second time I'm laying this complaint but I didn't get any response the first time, the addiction is killing me, it's making me feel hopelessly chained to lust, again the spinning plates doctrine here from Ubunja pushes me to crave sex, it's becoming unhealthy and an obsession for me, I want Bleep anything attractive in skirt, I fantasize even about sleeping with people's wife, I need help, it is becoming embarrassing, I tried prayers and other spiritual routes but to no avail, I'm ashamed to seek therapy and counsel

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There is nothing anybody will tell you or no amount of prayer will make you change if you don’t decide to work on yourself and make the necessary changes happen.
What you lack is self control and discipline if you don’t find a way to control yourself you are signing yourself up for destruction. Trust me you don’t build self control overnight but overtime.

First unfollow and block all those dancing girls in your Instagram and tik tok or those people posting sexual explicit content for you to consume.
The truth is every time you masturbate and spill your seed the feeling is never sufficient until you do another one and another one and another.. so the best thing to do when the urge hits is to find somewhere productive to channel that massive sexual (creative) energy to.
My advice is to do atleast 30 push up and some other workout every time the urges come.

Cast your mind and your hands away from your dick.

Ubunja’s miseducation is not the cause of your misfortune and in everything we do we must apply sense and do so moderately.

Be wary of those girls that don’t like condoms or are allergic to condoms especially those ones that want you to cum inside them because they are on pills.

Learn to protect your seed so they won’t force pikin or marriage for your head.