I complain about domestic violence in my marriage sometimes ago on here.got good advice from beautiful people on here but we later work things out and all those beaten finally stopped.apart from the domestic violence in my marriage I trusted my hubby with my life An Bragg to friends that he's never cheated on me he was like a best friend to me never knew I was a complete fool and a slowpoke sometimes ago he started talking with a girl a black American girl I asked him about it and he said she was just a friend and I believe him I notice he sneak out of the bed to make calls at night I confronted him and he lied again but I'm always a fool for believing his lies.this morning a text came from the girl that she was pregnant my world collapse instantly I have been living in lies an deceit this is the man that sweared in Gods name that he has nothing to do with the Girl.my heart is broken I have lived in deceit.he begs for forgivenes I'm not in a position to forgive him he crushed my spirit.when I was single I never Dated any married men despise so many advances.since I got married to him no other man had crossed my leg not because I don't get advances from men but couldn't stood so low to have sex with other men.i have trusted him for so long and I know this is not the first time he's cheating just haven't caught him.a young man sleepy with a woman that is not your wife and didn't use protection this kind of man can get me killed or infect me with STDs.hes gone out of line this time taken so many shit from him.this guy hurt my soul.all the friends have once Bragg to that my husband will never cheat on me I wish I can look them in the eyes and tell them that I have been a fool an find out he's a cheat without brains who cannot buy $4 dollar condom.so ashamed of myself.before this man give me disease pls house make una help me we married in Nigeria and we re both in the US now how do I go about divorce thing? Pls if you have an idea of how I get a divorce from here kindly let me know.i want to be the mother of my two wonderful boys for a very long time.men re not worth fighting for well not all men though but majority of them.i have stayed this far in this marriage cus my mom was a single mom she went through hell to raise us but it's better I be a single mom if God help me it will be easy.its better I leave despise my love for him than for him infecting me with a deadly disease one day.

makes me sad how we Nigeria in diaspora re enemy of ourselfs no love but hate.you meet people from your own country and they treat u like rag.have seen betrayal.nigerias betraying one another.the first day I came into this country a Nigeria woman call me and say if you want to grow in this country stay away from Nigerians I was shocked.but so far everything she said re so true.i don't believe every Nigeria re the same so unfortunate that there are a lot of the bad eggs than the good one.dont get me wrong here I don't need anything from no one cus I and my family re comfortable but it's boring out here without friends.i need a friend if you want to me my friend halla at your girl.ladies if you want good braids halla at me too.kisses y'all

Good day house i need friends cus it's lonely out here if you live in Baltimore Maryland halla at me I need good friends.ladies if you wanna braid you hair pls halla at me too I give a fare price $ God bless you all

After two kids she's this sexy? then she's blessed those who said she's not fine just give her few months I know you will eat your words.God is indeed God.in few weeks back she was busy hustling on the street selling bread and now a model.God I appreciate you in her life.bigger her I pray

Thank you all I will give the domestic violence people a call tommorow I actually tried calling yesterday the number was not going though I rely maybe it's because it weekend that why the numbers re not going I will try and reach them tommorow Monday

Ok I will think about the US thing and look for work here and start gradually from here till I'm back on my feet again thank you all

Well I'm not a lazy wife or looking for someone to take full resoonsibilty of me.im an hustler [color=#990000][/color]

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I have two boys I don't think of adding another one now or in future I'm done with childbearing

If you say I'm unserious thank you I pray you never work in my shoes.

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You have all spoken well

Thank you for your advice may God bless you

Good day nairalanders

@OP my papa sef bleep ur mum cus she sef was once a runs grl.because u cum with one intalo grl wey dey pay ur bills lazy fool doesnt mean u will generalise ur insult to all nija grls asef ur sisters are not prostitutes local blood.u wan us to knw u brought a whity ok we don know oya go kill ursef ashole

@sexyglow u make sense@OP dont worry abt the price i have no use for the product thanks

How much is the injection?

Africans still remain a minority to the rest of the world cus of our brain dead leaders.our land has become a dustbin to the white people they use the african land as their experimental feld for Ebola many years ago.they inject it on monkeys.according to history this is the most dangerous outbreak so far in the history of mankind.Ebola has been tagged as an African disease.two US citizen was expose to Ebola the US govt fly them back home and they where treated with their secret serum called ZMAPP.when Africans heard about the way they where cured we became happy knowing that the serum for the cure will be available shortly but we guess wrong.according to the news our president Goodluck talked to the American govt for d release of the cure but they declined.but when the Spanish prince who got infected in African soil got infected the Spanish govt talked to the America govt and they agreed to treat the soanish prince with ZMAPP.and hes responding to reatment now.according to the news the Spanish prince beg the Spanish govt to help him treat 2black men who where working along side with him who where also infected along the line but is plea was declined cus they don't care about the black people.i thought racism belongs to the uncivilised world but I thought wrong.the western world treat black like crap.and I don't blame them cus all African leaders has failed its people expecially our leaders in Nigeria.our president goodluck recently made billions of naira available to tackle this Ebola epidemic.but don't u think this is medicine after death?if he had release this fund years ago to our medical system and put in place necessary equipment to assist our health care maybe the case would have been different.right now Nigerians don't have d necessarily equipment which other African nation like guinea Liberia and serieleon are using to tackle the epedemic.our disease control centre at yaba nothing is put in place there to tackle this outbreak.no standard laboratory in the whole of Nigeria this is a shame.all they know how to do best is embezzlement of fund.its a pity.our president also offer to Any doctor or nurses that will volunteer their self to work in containing this disease would be offer a life insurance policy.It is sad that it had to take an Ebola outbreak, for government to realise that health workers need life insurance cover.”Also, nurses, at their own news conference, said it was regrettable that the Federal Government had not learnt to act fast during emergency situations like the Ebola virus outbreak.“Serious governments have already put in place precautionary measures to prevent the pandemic on their soil and some even have treatments even though such are still in the clinical trial stage.“Government needs to understand that its business should be doing more than it says and taking actions that surpass mere arrangements.”I still believe in Africans.fine we don't have standard help equipment we don't have access to Zmapp but there's one thing people fail to know we have and it's far more preferable than deir Zmapp.im happy to tell u we have a God.instead of us waiting for d Americans why not call on the one whose supremacy can't be compared to.we are scared that if we ask God it will take time for him to answer ? U are wrong.he will answer with an immediate infect if only we Africans can speak in one voice.they denied us the drugs because we said no to their gay marriage.but we have a God who never fail.lets speak in one voice to God to take this disease away from African soil.my God work wonders than any Zmapp.pass this on of u believe our ancient of days is ready to cleans our land again.pass this on to as many u can pass it to.God wants us to speak in one voice.we say no to Ebola on African IJN

@sinie I thank God for ur life.the report of God superceed every other reports.i have been looking forward to ur post for days now to hear good news.and God has indeed proved himself and u will deliver d Hebrew woman's way.im happy for u.for those of us hoping to get pregnant don't give up 4ck whatever d doctors says concerning u,d best report ever is d report of the Lord....in my first pregnancy I was told baby died inside of me by several dr,with d intervention of God I deliver that baby boy well and healthy,and I got pregnant again with my second child and it was confirmed that it was ectopic pregnancy which I immediate did and emergency CS and my left Fallopian tube was removed I cried for days that I might not been able to conceive again.3weeks after my CS it was discovered that a living baby is still in my womb after d removal of the one outside my womb with operation.what I'm trying to say is that God can move mountain for oursake.dont allow any dr to write u off medical,cry to ur God in whatever situation u are going through cus he is the surest and secured God I ever know...i claim atleast 10min delivery IJN.amen

Whether the bible gave the date of the birth of Jesus or not atleast the world choose a particular day to celebrate him.cus the bible didn't state the date and it's now a sin to pick up a special date to celebrate him?whats our business if that same day was for some Roman gods?wetin concern us with any Roman gods?

@sinnie it is well.i went through such to with my first baby,I was told that my baby enemy was dead inside my womb by 2 different dr and I should carryout and immediate evacuation in order to save my womb.it was a devastating moment and I was told by a God saint Matron not to go for the evacuation,so I take up the risk and also communicate with my father in heaven,lo and behold within 7days the baby which the scan says was dead by 2different professional scanist before was doing great in my womb and was alive,he's doing great he's a year and four month and jumping everywhere here.believe in God he's a wonder working God.the God that did mine is not asleep he will do us just go and re-do d scan in few days.it is well with u and that blessed child in ur womb. Congrat to all the new mommies is the house the lo shall keep protecting the wonderful gift he gave us IJN.

Thank u all for ur replies I most say I'm relaxed now and hoping for the best.God bless y'all

Im 22weeks gone

Did scan today and it shows the baby legs are down why the head is up which are not suppose to be so?is there anything I can do to make the baby turn to its normal position?has anyone gone through this before and the baby later turned?pls any advice on what to do will be appreciated.thank u all. @udoka Congrat to u.the lord shall finish want he started in ur life.and God bless the lil prince charming IJN

Thank u everyone for ur words of encouragement.i will be careful this time around and stay glow to God cus he his the surest.i have been eating food I normally wouldn't eat before.eba and okro.even rice dat use to be my best good at the site of it I vomit.anytime I set my eyes on drugs cus I will tro up.i can't even change my 1st baby diaper I can't just sta
D any smell even a perfume.little things make me cry.i also have an heart burn.headache sometimes Serious stomach pain but I believe dats due to operation I had 2months ago.alwas extremely tired.i can also vomit up to 20times a day infact I can't even explain all.pple say when it gets to 3month it will subside but is 3 already.but in all the pains and discomfort I give God all the glory.

Thank u all for ur prayers.God in infinity mercy will bless u all.

Before this pregnancy I have a 11 months old baby.when I got pregnant with my 1st son I used to have a serious stomach pain and d doc use to give me drugs and injection but still the pains never left then he did a scan and told me that the baby inside of me is dead dat I have to carry out and evacuation.so I was bordered and scared then I called a friend of mine who also has a laboratory and I told him what was happening he then told me to go for another scan ex where and if the result are same then I don't have a choice than to evacuate.so I ask him if he was in his office that I will prefare to have another scan done in his office he then ask me to come over which I immediately did.he carried out his own scan and told me that the 1st scan was right that I have no choice than to evacuate that if I didn't evacuate on time that it might damage my womb.so he then ask me if I have anywhere to go for a the evacuation and I said no,so he refare me to his mom small maternity home.and told me his mom is good in such cases so I went over to his mom and she carried out her own test and she said what happened to me might be due to infection and I told her when she done with the evacuation she should also treat me for any possible infections.so when she was about given me drip and same time trying to take my blood samples do after taking the sample the tining cover dey use to cover where they will later put drip through fell from her before we could say jack my blood was all over her body and on the floor.i was now scared that I came over to a quack.my friend who followed me there was telling me to collect back my money from the hospital and she will take me to another hospital that they are no competent.so I was now scared cus I couldn't approach the matron to refund my money cus she is the mother of my friend who owns a lab.so the matron came to meet me that she is going to admit me and that she cannot carry out d evacuation that day again cus I lost blood already that if she still carry out d evacuation that same day that something might happen to my enemy that I should try and take some fruit that if I do my PCV d following day then she will know if to carry out d evacuation or not.i slept d hospital start beging God see me tru.i called the God of oyedipo and that of adeboye and several pastors name couldn't sleep throught d name was crying and also challenging God and remembering him of the promises he made to me in the book of Jeremiah.all d nurses was heard my cry over d night and was coming in after d other to console me.so when d matron came d following morning she met me crying and was petting me that she's no longer evacuating for me unless I willingly want to her to do d evacuation dat before she slept d previous night that she prayed for me and she had a revelation that there was still life inside of me that she believes in d God dat she serves that I should just be patient with her for 3months then before I go for another scAn I was scared cus I was met to understand by d first doc who did a scan for me that if the d dead foetus stay in my womb for long dat my womb will b damaged and d matron son Said same thing about the danger of living a dead baby for too long.i was scared I want listen to the matron and wait for 3month but I was scared cus of d danger involved also my husband wanted to take me out of d hospital with annoyance but d matron called him and made him understand what was ministered to her in her revelation so my husband then came to meet me and ask me if we should take chances or better still ask her to evacuate.so I told my husband I was ready to take chances.and I was discharged from d hospital after a week.when I got home so many thought was running true my mind and I decided to go for another scan in d matron son's lab without telln the matron cus she will dispute.so when he was done with the scan he just grab me an embrace me and he said there was a baby who was perfectly ok.he then said to me that he has not seen this time of miracle before so I quickly run over to the matron and give her the news thou she ask me to wait for 3month before I could do d scan but I cudnt listen I did the scan a week after she discharge me from d hospital.when d matron heard d news she was so happy and was dancing all over d place that she know her God will never disappoint or mislead her all d nurses was just shouting cus dey knew what I was going through.since den everytin was going to well with d pregnancy.so after 6month of pregnancy my mother went to d mountain at osun state Deborah high mountain to be precised and a pastor who didn't know my mother had a revelation for her that her daughter is pregnant and her life is in danger that she must invite me to d mountain so before I and my hubby could get to d mountain d following day the pastor has left.and dat same day another pastor who also met us at the mountain also deliver same message to me and ask my husband to fast for 3days and give him so bible verse to pray with since I cannot fast cus of my pregnancy.another pastor who just came the following to pray on d mountain called me and told me same thing. I was crying and scared.he told me God has taken control that all we need to do us pray constantly.so I den travelled back to lag.so I went to a Tuesday service a church and decided to see d man of God.when I finally saw him before I could say jack he told me same thing other pastor as been telling me and he was d only one who told me d source of what u was going through he then told me the Marin kingdom was after my life they don't want me to have a child in my life time.he told us that God has fought a good battle for me that I will deliver safely.so after den I start praying for deliverance and prebuking death in my life.so on d day of my delivery d nurses and everyone was tired of me.no blood no water den I ask God to path way for my baby to come out d way he parted d red sea for d Israelite low and behold before I finish uttering dat prayer my water broke and d nurses was happy I was making and improving so with d pain I was going through I didn't relent in praying against d Marin kingdom.spent 13hours labouring but finally God stood every Marin kingdom for my sake and my baby was brought out with no complication and I deliver naturally without operation.now I'm having another miracle prenancy again even with d ectopic God still make another baby healthy in my womb.now I'm scared again cus I'm a human but I know d God who brought out my first baby miracle will bring this one out.this is real it happen to me.i will never stop serving my God cus he's been faithful even in my unfaithfulness I will forever serve u ancient of day.

Didnt know I was pregnant was only having stomach pain and decided on my own to go for scan and the scan reviews I have and ectopic pregnancy and the scanist told me if I love myself that I have to rush to the hospital on emergency.everything sound strange to me cus I didn't know what ectopic pregnancy is.so I adhere to his advice and wait straight to the hospital I use and the doctor have to run his own scan to make sure d result I brought was true.so when he did his own scan he said I have to carry out and immediate surgery(operation)that same day.which I and my hubby agreed to.so after spending 5days in the hospital I asked to be discharged home.then after 3weeks I started vommiting and been extremely tired so I went to get a home pregnancy test tube and test myself for pregnancy which came out stilll positive I wasn't bothered about the positive result cus I thought the pregnancy tissue after d operation was taking to leave my system.so when d vomiting became on bearable I rush down to my doc to see what was wrong then it then carry out a scan which shows their was a baby who is doing very well in my womb.then I then ask how's dat possible and he said no idea.then after too much deliberation on my case then they find out I was having an heterotopic pegnancy which means that the baby outside the womb was ectopic which made me go through the surgery and there was another baby in the womb which was not affected.now I'm so confused cus I don't want to ever deliver my baby with CS.i have been down and it's seems my whole word is falling apart.been through hell and I'm back.just entered my second trimester and nothing has change same strange symtoms everyday.i vomit when I see a sight of any drugs.constant headache.bodypains,tiredness.cant cook,can't eat food I use to eat before.i cry unnessarily.stomach upset at times.some many that I can't even name.i keep praying to God to make this pregnancy easy for me cus have go through a lot.if not that I have a caring and loving husband who still stood by me after all the frustration have but him through don't know what I could have done.im scared about a lot of things but have learn to but my hope and trust in God cus I know that in as much as he still seat on the throne I will come out victorious.

Why are pple insultin did grl?she has bn tuface luver since d days of plantation boiz.she has bn dere evn b4 evry other wman surfaces.tuface has choosen wisely abeg.hw many of u cn endure wit ur partner 4 gud 13yrs?fine tuface has its mistakes n I fink no 1 is above mistakes.let's rmove d dirt in ur eyes 1st b4 attemptin to rmove dat of tuface n pehaps is not asking moni 4 bby food frm anybdy so whts anybdy stress abt it.evn in d bible wen an adultrous wman was brought to christ to condemn her,but christ reply was if u ar free frm sin ursef b d first to cast a stone.keep judging tuface,d truth is dat his judgement lies with no one except God.

@jennykadry Dat gurspana sore in ur mama's pussy ur dad gave to her d nite he violated her,I hrd dats whr ur destiny is buried?hmmmm destiny in mama's pussy,ur case don pass solution o.hey I knw u ar annoyed cos I told u whom ur real dad his,wht are forumite 4,go meet him in d bush mayb he can hp u dig out ur destiny frm ur mother desert.adhere to my advice bfor its too late ode.

Jennykadry aiye e mabaje