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This is an unbiased interview which points to all the problem affecting Nigeria at the moment . Nigeria has gone to the dogs believe me, we are 50 years behind. Can we compare Nigeria with countries that had independence within the same period Nigeria had ? The only problem with this country was fighting for independence when we were not ready for it. God will hep us.

SuperBold:
“In some states of Nigeria today, where we have highly intelligent people, highly educated people, very enterprising people, like Abia, they are governed by drunkards. The governor of Abia is a champagne drinking man.- Senator Smart Adeyemi


''Abia people are impoverished more than ever before. Abia people are unfortunate.” - Senator Smart Adeyemi

Ikeapzu should stop playing with the lives of Abian! He is giving out billions meant for abians to his prostitute girlfriend!

read what you wrote slowly then you realised that sense is far from you. You are happy to be a slave to one man, what if he fails APC nomination will he still pay you to defend him ??

This is good... Godbless you Mr Udom but we need more good works.

kenzysmith:
my brother

bruh wetin man dey see

These bandits are exposing Nigerian's weaknesses, I pray a small country like chad won't come to attack Us one day. What we are all using as a play thing is a very serious matter that will spill over to other States, all our senators and house of Rep's does is to share money without having interest of the populace at heart.

Had great respect for this man prior to when he wasn't elected as a governor.I saw him as a Messiah but he proved what people have been saying that you truly know a man when he has power. Baba you messed up big time.

He located there without him been wired to aid the authority locate the exact point of this terrorist. Sha its a north affairs

Hahhaah....match rehearsal. Goodluck to both of them, let the best team win

Logan23:
Give me instances wen igbos have lorded over u and then tell me why u are not agitating for freedom right now that hausa-fulani and yoruba own all the oil wells in ur state.

Akwaibom has nothing to offer to IGBOS OR BIAFRA.

Bro am for restructuring, by then dividend of democracy will be visible. Marginalization is everywhere. Once we control our state just like what's happening in the USA then our problem's will be reduced

All we are saying give us restructuring. Leave this separation, let everyone control their God given resources. I love Igbo but lording over people is in their DNA so for them falling in love with Akwa Ibom is questionable.

OlawaleBammie:
No be everybody get brain bro, some are using akpu as brain too cost

ah swear .... Am shocked.

I love my life once I see my friend's serious gf messing up anywhere I will signal my friend immediately its left for him to decide or not... After all what have achieved in this life no close friends has done it for me rather its strangers or arms length friend . so if the gf wants to turn him against me then its their fucking business.

sisisioge:
It is not easy but can be done. If he had initially told him that, "guy your babe no sick o. She just dey look for attention. In fact, I no like as she dey do around me" and moved on. We wont be where we are now. Rape is a serious allegation and aunty had demonstrated over time that shes not friends with integrity. See them nursing affordable headaches because he was too shy to speak up. He who must dine with the devil must bear a long spoon!

Rape is out of this context , this babe is a love peddler and the guy failed to signal the friend . This life I fear women including my mom no offence here.... As a player I know what women are capable of doing. This has saved this guy future DNA test and he is not Happy. My then ex started a fresh relationship 30mins after our breakup.

merieam16:
My own is, hope it's nt all his life saving dat he used for DNA because na letter to poverty be dat o and he later he will tell his wife dat he was defrauded nd dez no money with him

so in your opinion he shouldn't do it to save money for the wife. And continuing feeding children that ain't his

sisisioge:
Whew! Sometimes, it amazes me how edits enjoy being edits. Just telling your friend who he was dealing with at the beginning would have helped saved a lot...wasted time, attempted murder, wasted money, displaced affection, ruined friendship, etc. Unfortunately, you still dont sound like someone who has gotten any clarity yet.

Speak up azzzhole!!

come on man do you think its that easy to convince a friend madly in love about things like this. Put yourself in this guys shoe, don't fan the embers.

If this information of rape didn't come out immediately after she left Lagos then you need to thread carefully. My best advice is let go of your friend and your girlfriend and give yourself some to time to recover from the mess. Your best friend mess up no thought but that your girlfriend who planned all of this from the initial needs to be very far away from you. This story should be an eye opener to all we guys , never be close to your friend's or family girlfriends or wives. Don't escalate this more than this am ashamed this here in the first place.

The present situation of things in Nigeria has made it difficult to know the truth and the lie, a government that takes lying as a hobby. COVAX or whatever should supervise the distribution of this vaccine to the populace and not Nigerian government. And I pray a substandard covid-19 vaccine shouldn't be shipped for us.


Make we manage the country the way it is ,no hope for now.

This man is good with words, osinbajo not talking about this is saddening too I pray a solution to this menace come forth.

Kudos man for coming out openly, many celebrities and politicians are gays. It has really eaten deep in the entertainment sector.

For I and my family we can't leave pussy for once neither are we going to be bisexual.

TimeManager:
You're an ibo guy but cloned a northern moniker to abuse SW. Ironically, it is your fellow ibos accusing northerners of dividing the south.

kiss the truth!

this guy is mocking yoruba and Fulani... This guy is just been sarcastic

It's a pity that Abia state have not had a governor since 1999 what we have here is allocation eaters, have served and worked in abia state I can tell you a lot about them. This man and is son has pocket Abia state. Its just a pity.

Midas01:
What is the problem with you NL men on this forum? A woman makes a mistake and you're blaming women for this. Let me just stop here.

you calling this a mistake, a well planned agenda Will you say the same if he was the one that did it ? Won't you feel shy and threatened

RedPanthar:
Yeyenairaland man

Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.


You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.

There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.

Only God will deliver you from your wicked character evil man. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act stvpid.


7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.


Be Christ-like and pray God works on your dark heart so you can be more loving.


Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money


I serve hypocrites hot. You're a wicked soul. Your hypocrisy is exposed you wicked thing.


Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment, wicked man


You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.

Guy why are you talking like this, no one will be comfortable seeing his/her in-laws at home without their knowledge. This is trash, in the era of easy communication the father nor mother in-law didn't call him in respect of this. Is this how you will handle your home Mr. To the op gather any small amount you have and give to the eldest for their transport and Christmas package, 9 o'clock shouldn't meet them in your house. This absurd, how do women reason

Mars16:
Those people in that house called representative aka honourables they know nothing; all they know is drive round in SUVs with security and talk nonsense in the house .

am telling you, we have a long way to go in this country. Ah swear

His colleagues just sold him out without thinking twice, see the problem of Nigeria is not the presidency but the legislative arm of government, set of crooks that should help in check and balancing thus improving governance are shying away from it . Forget restructuring it will never happen , with the set of Reps we have in the upper and lower chambers no hope for us in this country.

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

bruh what you did was wrong and also right, I don't know what you have passed through ladies hands to act up like her. My brother once arranged a girl here in Nigeria for his friend in Texas for marriage it wasn't up to two month when she scandalized my brother to the guy this she did so that she will be in charge, those gender called women are very Sly. Anyways the three bedroom flat he got for her expired, the guy placed someone to monitored her closely only discovered she changes guys like pants, anyways she is back to square one, no monthly stipend of 150k again. Fear women

theenchanter:
Big scam.....The script wasn't played well at all.

Abike dabiri let d cat out of the bag when the timing was wrong.... She denied it saying her account was hacked.

Only brainless ones will fall for this.

you are making a whole lot of sense here, has this government become this petty

Zzor:
Is he marrying her for gains, why have are you men becoming leeches smh

leeches with his own money, omo last last marriage na scam this days. God bless you mom for shouldering a lot of families responsibilities back then when life set in which is normal.

mooojy:
Bro. That's why I still come back to this thread. You remember the encouragement and the money you sent to me. That month(September) changed my life entirely. From October till now,I have made more than 5m and I don't play often and I rarely stake high.
Trying to build my offline biz. couple with my work.

bruh answer my mail, am not in there to ask for money , but to get one or two ideas from you. Thanks in anticipation.

It didn't get to this point yet Jonathan was crucified and blackmailed now its happening under their watch there is no occupy Nigeria or long epistles and permutation on national dailies. Anyone that still believe in this sham called Nigeria needs his/her head to be checked on. In a normal clime restructuring is the best thing to do in a multi ethnic/ diverse culture like Nigeria, where is state policing and other machinery that will make governance closer and visible to the growing population. Am just tired and depressed about Nigeria the only country that is almost blessed with worldwide natural resources yet we are still backward, I have no reasonable doubt than believing that we are cursed.

To be a politician you have to learn how play dirty ie muddy play.

mrblessed:
It is not normal. Such practice is anti-Igbo culture and shouldn't be condoned. Traditional marriage should rightly take place at the village of the girl, because it has huge relevance to the family, kindred, village, and community/town. Do you mean that the Ancestors won't be informed that their daughter is tying the knot? Their participation in the process is very necessary.

Most people today seem confused because religion/Christianity has displaced culture from its prime position in marital issues. Part of the problem is that we are trying to become Europeans, a wild goose chase we can never achieve. If marriage is cultural, and yes, it is, why celebrate traditional marriage in a place that has zero cultural relevance and significance?

Have not yet married or have any sister yo give out for marriage, but what I will advice you is give what belong to Caesar to Caesar, you see those village people if by chance your dad has attended the giving out of any female for marriage there they can use it against her. Some of this barrenness, chaos in marriages etc are caused by this archaic village people. Apply wisdom