Many people have forgotten that even if the DNA confirm you to be the biological father of those children, that does not mean your wife is not cheating on you but just reasonable enough not to allow you to father another man children.

So many married women cheating on their husbands with protection and abortions.

This our generation has nearly gotten everything wrong totally!

I hope we are not coursed?

Well done Mr DNA business marketer

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

[quote author=hustla post=98833052][/quote]

That girl u quoted forget her sense for department of sense in heaven.

Dont quote her again, e no dey hard to knkw someone raised by a single mother

Divinehealer:


But women cant decide to do away with all the restrictions placed on them? You think you own the world and can decide what a woman can and should do? Cant you see that even that your chi or god that deceived you that the earth is only mens is desrting you already?
Baby men, las las una go feel fine. Yall will only find the peace you seek in heaven.

Areva christan, Muslim, traditionalist any of these religion you belong to support men to have concubines, mistress, girlfriends

And are even rated as riches to men,


If you want to make heaven in those religion above then accept their religious principles


Men dont cheat women do,

Me waiting for the bad news like

Emperorx:
I really don't know why people go for this DNA test when u have married ur wife legitimatly also paid her dowry every child she give birth is urs it doesn't matter who got her pregnant

Truth, but the wokeness is avoiding a mix of blood in the line of a generation.

You will see a family of good character, until a lady indulges in paternity fraud. Boom! One of the kids will start misbehaving.

Again, their is pain in training a kid u thought is urs, only for a stranger to surface one day with a DNA test...

Pikin na pikin,what's the need for the Dna

UncleKoboko:

Wetin concern you if na him last kobo?
Nothing is more cherishable than knowing the truth.

kno d truth nd drink garri

Juliearth:






Its better you let her go, rather than keep the relationship and then distrust her.

Jeez ur comments are crap.

simple250:




Forget about trust Women are evil ,so men that have experienced it do not trust their wifes . Na wah o see talk

Yes oooo!
Women are book of psalms.
Nothing you no go fit see in their calendar

I hope this isn't a guise to send your wife packing so as to marry your "goodluck girlfriend' ?

Just asking o

I dont k ow if this story is true but those people saying that once she is your wife it doesnt matter who impregnated her dont have any sense at all.

Imagine the nonsense you guys are vomiting. Just imagine.

gregyboy:

[s]
Men dont cheat,

Men were originally made to have many wives and concubines


Adultery was only referred in the Bible to women


So you feeling a woman has some form of self entitlement makes me wonder if women still knows their place in the society anymore


Again, men dont cheat we only decided to stay with one spouse all our lives because we choose to not because is the right thing[/s]

Wtf, just cheat with your chest and stop lying to justify your BS, sheesh

Proverbs 6:32 But a man who commits adultery has no sense, whoever does so destroys himself.

@OP
I am unable to feel pity for Nigerian men as a collective who get tricked into fathering other people's babies, sorry not sorry

Onelove508:


What about the perpetually cheating wife?

You divorce her if she refuse to repent and take custody of the children. Let her be free to do her olosho business.

OlawaleBammie:

No be everybody get brain bro, some are using akpu as brain too cost

ah swear .... Am shocked.

Eaglesence:


You will be a happy man if you know how to forgive and make your mind up to be happy no matter what and incase it turns out unfavorably. The end of age is too close to start allowing pain, hatred, bitterness trample on your relationship with God. If you divorce her, remember that you cant remarry. Scripturally speaking. My 10kobo thought though.

Reason why we men should do away with this whiye culture inculcated into religiosity.

As a man if u have the means, marry wives as much as possible, bible do not forbid it, dont let the white cajole u.

Even Jacob in the bible married two sisters so what are we sayin here??

Asirigbakute!!!

Kingstanding:
[b]Honestly speaking how on Earth do people get married to a woman they don't trust? [/b]A sane man will know a woman that cheat but it's the love that blind some men. The day I have it in mind to go and do the DNA for my children that is the end between me and the woman. How can a reliable married woman opened her two legs for another man? Very disgusting Anyway majorities of married women cheat on their husbands. Women is death.

@Bolded was exactly my response when he created the first thread about this and said the wife threatened to leave him if he goes ahead with the test.

I can never marry a man I don't trust. Never! If you like, claim to be a GO. The moment I have my doubts about you, thats it.

I feel for the op though.

You said you've been restless, but you still find time to make this write up. Why not wait till your result is out before making this post so we can learn from you. God forbade, peradventure, you discovered that the babies are not yours, hope you would still update us?

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

.



Tell us which LAB are you working for ?

Munzy14:

Lol, but how do guys end up marrying someone u can't trust?

bro, women can be very secretive and most times they change once they get married.

imagine a single lady telling you she can never put on wrapper when she is married only for you to see her do that same thing some years after marriage.

dontjuststop:
Hello Nairalanders,

I have been having some doubts about my children which I stated in my earlier post but I couldn't summon the courage to do it.

My wife kept giving me reasons to suspect her so I had to man up and take the test secretly. I took the test and samples were submitted few days ago but the doctor said it will take 7 to 10 working days for the results to come back.

Ever since I took the test, I haven't been myself. Am so restless and anxiety is killing me while I keep praying the results comes out favourable as I know it could mark the end of my marriage if there is a bastard among the children.

Men in the house: Can you share your experiences conducting DNA on your children and what was the out come. My hear beat is so loud right no. This is the moment of truth. So help me God.

Update:
While I was at the DNA clinic waiting for my samples to be taken. I saw a couple who came for a different type of DNA test. The lady is two months pregnant while the guy wants to know if the pregnancy is his before assuming responsibility of the baby.

He was charged a million naira for the test and was told to come back for results in two weeks time. I wish I knew this was possible as it would save me from what am currently passing through. Aside the cost implication, I will advise every man to take their pregnant partner for test before assuming responsibility for any pregnancy. I just learnt something new!

Note:
I will update this thread once the result comes in the next few days. I hope I'll be a happy man afterwards.

Hospital self don they scam

There is no way dna test shd cost 1million

You can even buy a home kit and do it at home urself

merieam16:
My own is, hope it's nt all his life saving dat he used for DNA because na letter to poverty be dat o and he later he will tell his wife dat he was defrauded nd dez no money with him

Poverty don encircled your brain completely! How much is the total cost that will lead to poverty?

luminouz:


Your last line is a lie. If it wasn't, you won't be very uneasy right now. There won't even be a need to Dona DNA test .

That shouldn't prevent you from knowing the truth. In fact, I don't see the connection between forming the bond with the kids and knowing the truth about their conceptions. If he says it won't affect the bonds he has with the kids, that's his decision, you've got no business saying it's a lie

baralatie:



#1 000 000

abasi

This topic leaves me speechless because I see what others don't.

I see a situation where fake or faulty DNA tests are wreaking homes.

Does Naija have such expertise and equipments.

Many labs will start rendering such services soon.

is it not my country people again?

Anywhere money dey, they die dia.

yanabasee1:
What is important isn't your marriage at this moment, but knowing what you have and what you don't have ..


You can still father any bastard child that will come out from the results...But your wife will be so humbled around you if you decide to keep the marriage as she wouldn't want to have you bring back her cheating stories before her....


I wish you the very best in the outcome of all of this....


You're a man to me and not a simp.....


I give you my respect....The boldness and the courage!

Humble ke! or she'll do more.

.

excel101:
You said you've been restless, but you still find time to make this write up. Why not wait till you result is out before making this post so we can learn from you. Hod forbade, peradventure, you discovered that the babies are not yours, hope you would still come back and tell?

sometimes getting it out little by little saves nine

yanabasee1:
What is important isn't your marriage at this moment, but knowing what you have and what you don't have ..

You can still father any bastard child that will come out from the results...But your wife will be so humbled around you if you decide to keep the marriage as she wouldn't want to have you bring back her cheating stories before her....

I wish you the very best in the outcome of all of this....

You're a man to me and not a simp.....

I give you my respect....The boldness and the courage!

If he finds out and wants to keep his marriage, he should pretend that he doesn't know.
If he tells his wife and remains in same house, his life would be in danger.

A woman can kill to finally Bury and seriously shameful and humiliating secret. Especially if the kid fathered by another man is not the first kid. Or if they got married and took a while before getting pregnant. So no excuses.

Odingo1:

You divorce her if she refuse to repent and take custody of the children. Let her be free to do her olosho business.

You are not being realistic.
Divorce a wife and keep her children, same children that aren't biologically yours? She will allow you keep the children abi?

How would you know if she has repented?

gregyboy:


Men dont cheat,

Men were originally made to have many wives and concubines


Adultery was only referred in the Bible to women


So you feeling a woman has some form of self entitlement makes me wonder if women still knows their place in the society anymore


Again, men dont cheat we only decided to stay with one spouse all our lives because we choose to not because is the right thing

The 10 comandments from God had nothing to discus in Adultery for women. It said Men should not covert brothers aka neighbour's wives. There was no law or rule telling specifically women anything. The other laws about stonning,etc were added to control the masses.
Jesus said God made 1 eve for Adam. That if God did not want it so, he would have made many Eves for 1 Adam. In Jesus days a man can not marry more women unless he put the present one aside. Which Abraham allowed them to do for flimsy reasons because of their stubborn head...he permited them to just write the woman a divorce note as with that note she is legally allowed to remarry. It shows she is no more another mans wife and can be coverted now. So she can go and marry someone else and they the men marry their new wife.
Jesus now said its not the way God wanted it. That anyone who does that has made the woman to sin and even the man that marries her is sinning too? (see how he blamed the husband for making the woman sin?) He even said that the man himself marying another is commuting Adultery too. That on no account should a man put away his first wife for another unless he caught her cheating. Those men now said wow.... , if we cant flex women the way we want, if we must die with our first wives unless they commit adultery, befire we can bring in new women, then its better we remain single. Go back and read that bible very well.

[b]Mathew 19 : When Jesus had finished saying these things,(B) he left Galilee and went into the region of Judea to the other side of the Jordan. 2 Large crowds followed him, and he healed them(C) there.

3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife(D) for any and every reason?”

4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’
5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh
6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”(G)

8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”(H)

10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given.(I) 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it[/b]

dachisom:


bro, women can be very secretive and most times they change once they get married.

imagine a single lady telling you she can never put on wrapper when she is married only for you to see her do that same thing some years after marriage.

Lol, u know change is constant...
But it's of two types, a positive or negative change.


For sure, a woman can hide a secret to grave.

But, no one is perfect.

About the guy and his pregnant girlfriend, I don't buy the idea of going to do a DNA test with a woman, cos she may go behind and offered more money hence the result will tempered.

Only if my oga knows how many times i've cheated on him.