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qbd2:
Hmm, usually. I lockd doorto the bathroom.
But it depends, if its a male child of course dmum muusn bargein.ifits d ather its overlookable but shudnt be. A habit.
Similarly d father shouldn't everbarge into his daugther in d bathrroom. Olewu. Naija of nowadays ehn!

It wont really cost you anything if you proofread your write -up before you submit. Thanks.

Step by step the journey goes on,little by little it may seem so long. Forget about your past,u cant change it,forget about your future,u cant predict it. Just think about your present,u can handle it,enjoy every moment and be happy.

Today,you mark the beginning of a new year in life,start with Christ and finish with Him. May He fulfill all your good heart desires in Jesus Name.

Wishing you SLEEKYONYX a wonderful birthday celebration. Cheers!

Walexsammy:
And here, is to all my goons and goonesses
Cc
Mzjaney (the mother of my unborn e-children)
Mayorsweet
Electronzeez
Doublezero7
Pinkiepetite
Sleekyonyx
Richybanky
Owliver
Sheyman4phy
Gracyel
Tolustx
Kingphilip
Harry
Judith
Rmfunky
Erisegun
Dexcira
Noordean
Babatawa
ChidexSmokey
Prissyluv
Dammyllare
Sojiboy
......my head don full jare....love u all

Love you too dear.

erisegun:
he followed GEJ to otueke

Yes,he's goin wit dis batch*

lol. Ok. Thanks.
How are you doing?

Where did Owliver go? Hope he is going with this batch.

This is serious. Lol

SAMBARRY:
what are you calling me for prissy hate?

hahahahahahahaha. I will let you pass for today. Not sure of next time.

Sambarry,Sambarry,Sambarry.
How many times did I call you?

xlency:
How do we then go about it?d duration of each of dos courses are?then what are the prices?cos it myt be affordable for some,and den one would know which one to be prepared for b4 going to camp,cos dey said many would come.
Thanks

Dear,it depends on the one you want to go for or your area of specialization. I believe they will present the manuals for us that will aid in our choice.

muyiwaadekunle1:
CIPM is better and more recognised but it's not cheap.

Not cheap at all. I have been thinking how to go about it.

ijustdey:
okay...... so, how can I have mine then?

Tell me where to waybill it dear?

ijustdey:
you welcome.....

hope my cake is still kept safe

very very.

ijustdey:
happy birthday @prissyluv

Thanks sweet.

Xone3:
@
I really appreciate your words of advice, it was timely and well spoken. Your words kept me thinking on what I really appreciate in him. Also, Considering the fact that there are still other things left unsaid I have to think about why am with him. Make adjustments and take Evina's advice to strive to get something tangible doing. Thanks a lot

All the best dear!

jnrbayano:
prissyluv my dear friend,

.....a very happy birthday to you.

Many happy returns.

Thanks dearie. I appreciate.

pickabeau1:


I'm only looking out for you

I'm sure even when You lording it, you yearned for an authority figure.
That's the way it should be.


But heck.. Do what makes you happy

If you want to be the patience to his goodluck by all means go Ahead

hahahahaha. I am yet to know what you are driving at.

Xone3:
I have tried talking to him but he just dismisses it as no issue. He doesn't drink more than two bottles but it's too frequent. Almost everyday after work as long as he closes early. He doesn't act matured and rarely calls expect I call, ping or flash. lives life carefree and moneybag to friends.

You are seeing so many wrongs/faults in this man,what is now the good left?
You alone knows what you want. Make your decision now before it is late.

pickabeau1:
Happy birthday

You mean this guy does not allow you to express yourself

I wonder why ,even though u wore the pants in your prior relationships , you did not end up with any of the two...

Can u tell us why

If this guy does not know how to treat a woman break up with him so you can find a man to lord over and he finds a woman who will respect him as a man n head of the household genuinely

Pickabeau1,Pickabeau1,Pickabeau1 !!!.

Thanks for the birthday wish.

If you can,read jnrbayano post on this thread,he perfectly understood my message.

Canme4u:
@prissyluv
@prissyluv
Happy Birthday to you dear, may this year brings you joy and a lot of happiness.
Wishes from www.facebook.com/just2ok

Wow! Thanks so much for the wishes.

Napoleone:
The evidence of a customary marriage is the payment of BRIDE PRICE by the family of the husband to the family of the wife. Therefore, failure to lead evidence to the effect that the bride price was paid leaves the court with the conclusion that it's mere cohabitation.
The court can also make pronouncement on property and children under maintenance and custody of children respectively. It must, however, be noted the rules governing these two subject-matters differ from those of the statutory marriage. Although the husband is obliged to maintain the wife under customary marriage but she's not automatically entitled to the husband's property like the statutory marriage.(The more important reason not to take statutory marriage with levity). Also, as regards custody of children, the man has exclusive custodial right i.e he is the owner of the children unlike under customary marriage where the child is given to the best person that can take care of the child, even if a third party.
As regard foregoing customary marriage, it may not be advisable. The reason being that each have a role to place and this has led to a high incidence of double deck marriage. For example, it is customary law that gives the society the impression that you're married. It also helps family harmony most times because, apart from the fact that no family member will disturb the marriage having given consent to your union, the family can also help resolve dispute and protect the sacrosanct institution of marriage. Quote me! Marriages where the family of the wife loves the husband so much and vice versa lasts more.
I don't mind the questions. It's my joy when people walk on this path without missing it. You're welcome.

Thanks so much dear. I am more than grateful.

Napoleone:
Note that if there is not marriage in existence before, there is nothing to dissolve because mere cohabitation does not constitute a marriage. However, the phrase "without having the Marriage Act Certificate" may mean that they were not married under the statute but under customary law. To dissolve a customary law marriage, there must have been all attempts by members of the family to reconcile the parties. If this fail, the divorce can be initiated by either the husband or the wife. The husband can initiate it by sending the wife packing while the wife can do so by leaving the man's house and informing him that she is through with the marriage.
However, it is pertinent to note that a customary marriage only comes to an end when the husband has been refunded the bride price/dowry paid to the wife's family in respect of the wife. As a result of this, it has also been submitted that a wife can bring a customary law marriage to and end by going through the preliminary steps of a marriage with another man, with a view to reforming the estranged husband the bride price from the one the new husband will pay.
It is noteworthy that the parties sometimes resort to court for a divorce order because there are circumstances where the husband or the wife may refuse to recognise the divorce and this may affect the either's subsequent remarriage (especially when the want to undergo statutory marriage).
As regards the question of which is superior between statutory and customary law marriage, there has been several argument in an attempt to find a definite answer to this question. However, where parties undergo both statutory and customary law marriage, also known as double deck marriage, authors appear to favour the view that the statutory marriage supersedes.

Wow,quite insightful. Thanks a lot.
So if a partner who wedded under the customary law goes to a court of law to dissolve his/her marriage,what evidence will he/she present to the court as being married to the said person? Will the terms of property sharing and who takes responsiblity of the children(if any) be decided by the court too?

So,is it possible to have a statutory marriage forgoing the customary without aftermath consequences?

Hope you dont mind my too much questions. Thanks

Napoleone:
Wow! This is very nice...in fact, I'm falling in love with you right away!
It is noteworthy that the term "court marriage" is informal. It is called "statutory marriage" or "marriage under the Act". In essence, it is not the venue of the marriage that matters or determines but whether the procedures stated in the Marriage Act have been strictly followed. For instance, apart from going to the registry, a statutory marriage can also be conducted in a licenced place of worship-this requires the certificate to be returned to the registry. This goes to show that church blessing is not tantamount to statutory marriage.
However, it is not uncommon for woman to leave the wedding arrangement in the charge of the man. If the man fraudulently pretends to have done 'court wedding' and starts using that to maltreat the woman or threaten to divorce her by any means, the woman can seek legal redress and succeed.
I must also address the fact that "if you're not ready to share what you have with your partner, then why tell her you love her talkless of marrying her?". Research has shown that most males shy away from statutory marriage for a number of reasons which includes, but not limited to, the desire to enjoy the potential to marry as many wives as possible(which the customary marriage guarantee), the reluctance to share both movable and immovable property with the woman, the mischievous intention to divorce her in any manner and at any time etc
The disadvantages of a lady undergoing only a customary marriage with a man are countless but I will mention a few.
1. Polygamy: The man has the right to marry as many wives as possible. In fact, it has been submitted that he has a right to commit adultery.
2. Divorce: The man can divorce the woman in an unscrupulous manner. For example, he can just wake up one morning and send the woman packing. That's the end of the marriage.
3. Custody: The man will have exclusive custody of the children. In other words, the man is the owner of the children unlike statutory marriage where they are jointly owned. The implication of this is that if the man has been nowhere to be found since the birth of the child and the woman has been taking care of the children, he can even come when the they are less than 18years to take them away. Etc
My submission is that any man that refuses to marry you under the Act i.e 'court wedding' is not worth marrying you at all because he is subjecting you to grave insecurity. You should be suspicious of such man.
LADIES!!! YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!!!

I want to ask,if couples have issues and want to divorce without having the marriage act certificate,where can they settle their issues?
I know that customary marriage is recognize by the law but can it be try in court too?
Between customary and statutory marriage,which one supersedes the other?

jnrbayano:
Have been in and out dear.

What did I miss?

Nothing much really. Just missed you here. Hope you are good.

sodiqyinka:
Baba mi. God deserve all the praise for impossible is nothing without him. I trust you are feeling good now.

Been a while on here. I blame it on work n the fact that the people at the HQ are slowing down a bit. Peeps going with stream 1 will start seeing where they are posted from next week( Likely Sunday/Monday). Some stream 2 will see theirs as well. Relax if you are still having issues. You will likely not make stream 1 but, if the issue is resolved, you will go with stream 2. God bless everyone that has pushed the thread forward one way or the other. I pray the service year is a good one for each and everyone. Enjoy the rest of the day. Lest i forget, happy new month to you all. Cheers!

My oga,may God in His goodness bless you accordingly. You really did well for 'us'.
The patient and selfless help was WOW. I pray to be touched with a pinch of your patient sha.
Thanks for the prayer. Have a nice day and happy new month sir!

jnrbayano:
She will rub pepper in your woman's eyes in place of mascara and otanjele.

Ex should be Ex in everything.

My hand no deyoo!

Hahahaha. I no fit shout ooo. People never learn!
Btw,where have you been?

parrotibaba:
A piece of advice;


Don't buy TV series dat r still showing on TV because de r never complete ,it's either u don't buy at all or u download



They stopped at episode 17 ,currently on another annoying break

Nawa oooo.
Thanks sha.

Wait ooo. The season 6 I bought stopped at episode 13 where bonnie found the map book and said 'Damon is a genius'

erisegun:
lolzzzz!!! Yes o*

Ok. Continue oooo.op u are having a great time.

erisegun:
*am speechless baby*tnks 4 dis wonderful write up*love u so much*

Is that real?

sleekyonyx:
I'm fine dear, how's ur day? It's 36 days to go

I am fine as well. Thanks dear. The more i know it is near,the happier I become.lol

Sleekyonyx my darling,how many days remaining pls? Hope your day is moving fine.

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