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olusegunadex:
Greet 2face mama for me o...
#Otuoke on point

hahahahaha. No p.

chidexSmokey:
Good morning e-fam. I know not everybody is happy abt our state of deployment but pls, don't feel bad. Just av a positive mindset. Myself that got my preferred state but wit all d "rubb*sh" I've been hearing abt d camp,I wldnt let it disturb me atall...
I love you all and I'm glad to av come this far wit the e-fam.

Just to mention few monikers;
Sleekyonyx
Electronzeez
Luchiana1
Gracyel
Doublezero7
Dparagon
Owliver
Erisegun
Kingphilip
Rusa
Rmfunky
Leemah4u
Ahmed4002
Sofdoc
SparkleRed
Pinkiepetitee
Prissyluv
Zenopee
Goldpeas
Walexsammy
Femolala001
DamiEsan
Tunbebes
Phemolala07
Mzjaney
Noordean
Tolustx
Misspetit
Sheyman4phy
Estellar
Mayorsweet
Joyjoomla

Pls forgive me if ur moniker isn't included.

Babes,thanks. But why benue? I tire oo.

Why benue?
Why benue?
Why benue?
Why benue?
Why benue?
Why benue?












Why benue?
Why benue?
Why benue?
Why benue?
Why why why why why why benue?

What could be my crime? Why benue? Just yesterday in Vanguard newspaper,some fulani guys killed some people...
I will redeploy oooooo.
Btw,is there anyone coming from onitsha?

chidexSmokey:
Yes oh,thanks dear. Where are you posted to?

I will check mine tomoro.

dammyllare:
Luchiana n co....drop ur details let me help u check it n download for u for free...ita goin on my fone

What details are needed pls?

Gracyel:
Oh yea?? Actually, am not happy

hahahahahaha. Where were you hoping for? Why not take it as blessing in disguise dear.

Gracyel:
Are u serious??
Mine is Edo too

ChidexSmokey,so you finally got the Edo. I am happy for you. Congrats to you and Gracyel.

leemah4u:
no, my call up number is 072....

Nawa oooo

Pls those in stream 2,is your call up number more than 90,000? I am yet to see mine.

elijahdre:
17500

I read that the home key lights of M2 dont work. Can you explain this for me sir,and at what disadvantage will it be if i buy it.

Samsung ace 4 lite,gionee m2 and m3,which will you recommend one should buy. I believe they are at the same price rate. Thanks.

Pls amongst these phones-samsung ace 4 lite,gionee m2 and gionee m3 which one do I buy? And how much are they sold for? Thanks.

Josephine and Glory. E get as the names dey sound me.
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Goodluck to you. Time no dey sha.

striktlymi:
I wonder why some adults would swallow, 'hook, line and sinker', what some smart kids would find impossible to believe.

The superstitious belief doesn't even make any sense.

What the silly belief is saying in effect is that any man married to an Edo lady, should hold her responsible for any death that occurs in his family.

Does that make sense?

It is hard to believe but I think this belief/tradition is real.
In Nsukka,once the wife cheats she goes mad. Dont you believe this too?

Op,I asked my man and he said that that was the belief and traditon before and he thinks it is still in existence. He further said that when the wife brings in money from such act and cooks with it that it will kill the man even if it does kill him it will bring badluck to him and their children.



In my own thoughts now. The assertion why there are more landladies in benin than landlord...hmmmmm

Once I had a discussion with my man and he said if he founds out that i cheat on him when married that it's over ooo,even if he forgives me becos of the children,we wont live in the same house and he wont eat whatever I cook before I kill him.


OMG,this should be the reason why his parents were emphasing more on faithfulness.

All these are summing up now
I am not from Edo,but my man said if I am married to an edo man and cheats,the same thing happens.

GoldenDr:
you will see someone better than her. You just have to move on.

hahahahaha. Okwu kasiobi!

Wendy80:
There u are

Good job dear. Let me see how he will continue. Chai! Umu nwoke dikwanu egwu oooo. Egwu ha na-atum oooo.

Wendy80:
My Dear, I saw him this morning, it wasn't planned though and wanted to give me that you look familiar kind of look. I greeted them and hurriedly walk away. From a distance, when I saw my colleague going into the office I quickly walked back to him
Let me clear my desk jare. Long gist.

I have been waiting...

What of making yourself visible when next the man visits your office? That should send a signal to him you know...

You are not making the right decision at all.

What good is left in this man that will give you an inch of happiness?

My dear,you dont force people to love you,the more you love such people,the more they resent you. He is not seeing you at all,I doubt if he knows you exist. If he does only as a roadblock ooo.

He doesnt love you means he doesnt love you,there is no translation for it.

Pls nne,I know it will be hard for you but you have to leave this man asap.

May God grant you the strength and grace to do so.

I had this mindset of forgiving or giving a second chance to any partner that cheats on me but the story changed even since my man told me that the day he caught me cheating,that is the end of us.

So knowing my partner wont forgive me,why should I?

bebe2:
can u imagine?

six years for husband house i don born 3, nai person go frd

man six yrs con realise say dem no fit marry becos of tribe.

Op, jus go marry her for court, then give her belle.

once she born carry baby go surprise ur mama she go jus dey dance forget all the inter tribal wahala.

Nne eeh,I tire ooo
But there are some kind of things parents will say with the necssary pressure that will reset someone's brain.lol

kingjooo:
tnx @prisyluv,i wil never say never until its over.Even though it wil take me housing her without paying her bride price then so be it.

You are welcome. But if you think of housing her till things are settled,I suggest you do statutory marriage first pending when your parents agrees,then the customary marriage.

This kind of post dey vex me seriously because I know what I have been battling with my parents over similiar issue.
I have heard enough of what an elder sees lying down,we cant see even if we climb iroko tree. Being an elder doesnt make all their decisions right. Cases abound where parents have ruined their children's marital life all in the name of knowing better and deciding for them.

Op,like others said,talk to them and know about their fears and convince them to support you. Never lose hope.

Uniquexty:
Parental consent is very necessary. Just like you, i had a six years inter-tribal/religious relationship. We finally woke up to reality last month.

Sometimes, Love is not just enough. You have to listen to the wisdom from your heart. One day, you'll wake up and ask yourself how you got to this point, and by that time, you've lost your family.

I suggest you hang on and try to comvince your parents. Make them understand that you need their support in this next phase in your life. And be fervent in prayers. Remember what God did for Mary when Joseph decided to put her away. God can still speak to your parents the way he spoke to Joseph. The heart of the king is in his hands.

I wish you all the best. And pray she stays strong throughout the fight. I wish mine had

You woke up to reality after six years? You realize the fight is not worth it? Hmmmm.
What parents are doing to their children all in the name of love,protection and knowing better dikwa egwu ooo

Wendy80:
Hey Babe, hope ur Dad has given his consent?

Dearie,thanks for checking up on me. I appreciate.
Dad has not oooo. He told me I should endure it,that before my service year runs out that i will see someone.
Mum at a point was crying self. I tire my sis.

Poshe7:
My dear, the truth is you can never finish knowing a person, you might think you do,

only to be disappointed later in life.

I understand you sha. Wish you the best!

From your post,you said the man CLAIMS to love you. In my understanding you are not sure of his love and promises.

Well,I wouldnt say you made the wrong decision but search your heart and know if this man's love is genuine and that he means well for you.
With that you can know if he will be able to open a pharmacy shop for you as promised. Honestly,no man will like to stay apart from his family esp in a young marriage.

Another thing is,if you quit this job now,can he in the interim help out in catering for your family till when he opens the pharmacy shop.

Ask yourself some salient questions and know if they justify with your decision.

Nice piece. I knew right from time that I cant bed-share with my baby.lol

qbd2:
Tqs 4 d interpretation and tqs 4 d advice, but I don't think there's anything I can do bout it. Ull all have to manage dat for some time. I'm not used to this phone with tiny keypads dat makes it so diffclt for me to type. Its hefty work for me doing d editing as well. At least it adds fun to every one of my post.
*i took my time to type dis one dats y its readable.

Alright dear. Cheers.

5minsmadness:
I dare anybody to interprete what this poster said

[quote author=qbd2 post=32535112]Hmm,usually I lock the door of the bathroom.
But it depends,if it is a male child,of course the mum must not barge in. If it's the latter(she means the female) its overlookable/understandable but should not be a habit.
Similarly d father shouldn't ever barge into the bathroom while the daughter is there. Olewu. Naija of nowadays ehn!

qbd2,you too much!