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Aunty Zaynie and Lovinam,thanks for the input, it is just that I have this mentality that ones a man is married whatever properties he buys should be in Mr & Mrs.

God evening mamas. Abeg make una no vex. I know this is not the right place to post this but I will be glad if the issue can be looked into.

My question is,what is the fate of a wife whose husband buys properties in his name only but uses the wife's name as next of kin.

Congrats lizzy22.

heartbrokenwife:
Just to give an update. MY HPV was positive. It would now be sent for more tests to be sure it hasn't gone to cancerous stage. He has also impregnated about 2 women, one sells shoes in market and the other is a hair dresser. This is a man who makes almost 2million naira monthly.

I have decided i have to leave, He has told me he has been doing this since he was a teenager, so thinking he will change now is futile. He is not sexually attracted to me, but rather to extremely fat women. His women were prostitutes, fat pregnant women, even importing fat girls from the village for sex....and many other things. My family is still not in support but i have to look out for myself and my only child.

Oyi na-atu mu ooooooo. This matter is strong oo. May Almighty God see you through.

I really enjoyed myself today. Thank God I didnt miss upon say I came late.
I pray healthy growth and long life upon these cuties. May they always be a source of joy to their parents and generation to come.
To their parents,Lord pls grant them the wisdom and grace to train these cuties in the way they should grow so that when they are old they wont depart from it. Also,may their pockets never run dry in these cuties upbringing in Jesus Name,Amen.

To our FRUITFULL MAMAS,rejoice in the Lord cos your babies is with you already. He that keepeth Isreal neither sleeps nor slumber. He did it for our mothers,ours wont be different in Jesus Name,Amen!

To all teamies,we shall all carry to term and birth our babies peacefully in Jesus Name,Amen. To our mamas that have given birth and yet to recover fully,we prophesy outright healing upon that body. Be healed in Jesus Name,Amen and Amen.

Acidosis:
You don't marry someone because you LOVE them.


Married couples fall in "love" after wedding oo. Falling in 'love' is a never ending process.

You marry because you are compatible. My advice: get closer to the girl you claim you don't love. Love grows with TIME. There is no such thing as falling in love at FIRST SIGHT. Just spend more time with her, as in quality time and watch that love grow

But sir,the truth remains that there are some people you never get to love or develop feelings for no matter how hard you try or how good they are.

donpata:
I think u should create a thread with this heading:" Married Ladies, were u financialy independent b4 getting married? Share your story. "
abeg create am cos.the way marriage is painted here, e tire me ohh.

My dear,I tire too

mrstheo:
I wish to give my husband the good news we've been waiting for this christmas and I also wish they re set of twins. God pls don't put me to shame.

He is 'God over do'. Your prayers are answered in Jesus name,amen.

I want to know ooo.
Does it mean that a lady cant get married because she has no source of income? All the married folks here,were you all independent before getting married?
Some comments here are so very funny.


I understand that op is 21 and just got into school after her NCE. She already said,the marriage will take place late next year and that the fiance has some plans in place. All she needs is to think it through and if she is convinced she can handle academics,family and probably pregnancy when it comes,she should follow her heart and convince her parents as well.

And to those saying she should wait after school and get a job,I hail una oooo. As if getting a job or starting a biz is that easy.

GHoJes:
Haaauum!!
...and you made my day, to God be all the glory.
Awaiting my ...

hahahaha. Tx alot.

Santa,I really need a phone. Any type of android phone will be appreciated.

GHoJes:
People have and will successfully marry at the age you plan to marry.


You can finish school and still not be ready for marriage, yes there are many late 20's and 30's that are not ready for marriage. What makes the difference is maturity. Maturity comes from knowledge gathered from personal and general life experiences. Some successfully young married girls armed themselves with maturity knowledge before marriage or in marriage. The truth is girls your age mingle with each other and as such know only things you said earlier but since you want to grow faster than your peers, mingle with women not girls, vorariously gather marriage knowledge from book and life from now till next year because your immaturity can frustrate him even if he is good. Then be very sure he is the right one. The success is up to you.

Sweet sis,good am. It has been long I updated you cos things got somehow and my email is not opening.
But now,I can confidently tell you that it will soon end in praize.
Thanks for all the support,love and encouragement.

Droyal,chiefwedslolo and classicQueen,thanks for the contribution. I really do appreciate.

anumide:
is it possible to have a wedding that costs less than 200k?
all I want is a registry wedding and a traditional wedding.

I think it depends dear.
If all the bride price and traditional list has been paid before now. I think you will now be bothered about the food,drinks,registry fee etc.
Hope all kinds of clothings to be wore that day are excluded too.
With this,you can manage below that amount. Thanks.

Droyal:
I also feel its outdated and the reason some people do not like using satin is because they feel after the event they may not be able to wear it for other occasions since it will be obvious its a bridesmaid dress hence people go for other materials like chiffon etc.

Personally I do not like satin even when it was in vogue but I think I even saw a bride wearing satin recently it depends on what you want but you should also ask your bridesmaid's opinion since they will be wearing and paying for the dress.

Thanks for taking out time to answer me dear.
I dont really know which one is which.lol A friend suggested 'net' material. Besides the bride is paying for the material.

Brides to be pls help me out here. A friend said satin is now outdated for bridesmaids. How true is this?
Last wedding I attended was satin they used ooo

cc chiefwedslolo,classicqueen and others

olowoba:
No I did not. I was initially attracted to her because of beauty but couldn't let go of her because of her character. There were times in which we broke up but I always find a way of bringing her back because she meets my specs character-wise and socially. She has been there for me even when I shout at her, even when i don't give her money. She was there for me when I had chicken pox. And I am grateful to her. Aside that, I do not romantically have feelings for her. I like her but I'm not in love with her. I can spend days without thinking about her at all. I have never really loved her.
However, I'm falling in love with the other girl.

First,I will say you are wicked,very very wicked.
You knew from day one that you dont love her and no plans of marriage yet you kept her. I believe you must have tried so many times to love her but you couldnt,why didnt you let her go then?
What will be this lady's fate after this three wasteful years? YOU DIDNT TRY AT ALL AND GOD IS WATCHING YOU!
My concern is about the lady,pls let her go asap.

pinkkyb:
for now, somewhere in GRA;a former neighbour teaches me once in a while but i want start the real class when i get a machine

Thanks for taking out time to reply. I was looking for a place to learn it but couldnt see. Thats why I asked.

I have so many wishes.
But above all,I pray and wish to have an inner peace and happiness before this year runs out. Cos i want a brand new 2016.
I wouldnt mind if santa can give me new phone. It is really long overdue.

Wishing all a happy new month and a blissful Xmas in advance.

pinkkyb:
i am based in enugu but have family members in lagos(mandellas).ify thanks for asking

Happy new month dear. Pls where are you having your sewing classes in Enugu?

A big congrats to Chiwendym,cherrymum and besocial on the birth of their babies. May they be a source of continual joy to your households.

Wishing the remaining Nov mamas safest delivery.

Lightedpath and dessy4me may God comfort you and give u double for lost. Congrats to erei and other mamas that have put to bed. Safest delivery to mamas yet to put to bed.

ozycy:
No idea if it will. But shea butter is a natural pdt, I doubt if it will

Ok. Thanks.

Laugh wan finish me here. See as this daddy dey para left and right. E go better,u hear? Na wetin u put there dey react.

ozycy:
I just started using the Palmer cocoa butter massage cream for strechmark so it's too early to say if it works or not. I ve been using Shea Butter too. If you are a first tym mum and don't have the stretch marks yet, I will advise you to start applying Shea Butter on ur tummy daily, I heard it helps to stop strechmark or reduce the rate in which it will appear if it must appear. I ve been applying Shea Butter since 7 months preggy and I noticed I didn't Hv fresh stretch marks, just d old ones. If you see a better and faster remedy abeg holla me.
Does anyone know any remedy to stretch marks, I need my body back

Good pm ma. Pls,I want to ask. Dont these cream have side effects on pregnant women who may have CS during delivery.
Thanks ma.

Obodo mara mma, milk and honey juru,
Obodo oma nke Nigeria,
Anambra state eeee,ezi ala anyi oooo.


Obodo mara mma,milk and honey juru,
Obodo oma nke Nigeria,
Anambra state eeeee,LIGHT OF THE NATION!


I am so proud of my state.

This one get as e be oooo. I don dey fear already. Congrats to you guys sha.

I was shocked when a lady from Ebonyi and a man from Abia states told me tales like this of recent.
The lady's story happened to her aunt. So she was sure of what she was telling me. I was all ears ooo.
She said the man is free to sleep with a single lady but not with a married woman.

For months now,I ve not used cocoyam for my bitter leaf and oha soup;its quaker oats all the way!!

ahnie:
Pls what z double boiler?

hello ma'am,dont be offended pls. I didnt read when you added cmc. Or is it not necessary?

abolade4uall:
TECNO L6 22K

I like that phone ooo. D camera dey trip me.

What of tecno L6. Seen the phone. Looks nice and sharp. The camera dey correct too. I will prefer it to gionee m2 and m3.