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You must get to that point where your self-worth and importance are defined by God's word alone and what He is saying about you. Treat nice compliments with uttermost wisdom, particularly when coming from people you are not 100 percent sure have your best interests at heart. For your own good, learn always to turn your back on exaggerated compliments. Never allow any compliments of any kind to make you start seeing yourself beyond what and who you are.

By God, ensure you have a healthy self-esteem that is not determined or influenced by external factors. In other words, whether or not people are saying lovely things about you, it doesn't change much about you - you always regard yourself as who God sees you as, and that's what truly matters.

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Amerengues2:
After Bsc. is the best time to leave. I would have said before Bsc. but after Bsc. is fine because most jobs abroad don't ask for your degree. Work experience is what is mostly needed.

What I meant by 'good problem' is that, some colleagues with PhD. didn't have much moral to leave after everything. Very small percentage would want to leave because they've been mentally tied with one seemingly lucrative position which is a pure waste of time and resources. At that stage, the cost of relocation for some family increases especially with children.

Out of 9 jobs I applied to here, none required a degree but just experience which you can start as entry role.

Even those who japa via MSC studies, they still finish only to look for care jobs though one can get other professional job.

With all my might, I strongly advise anyone leave Nigeria provided you aren't doing that well.

I can't even believe I am giving this advice. The only regret is not learning handwork. It's a very profitable skill here- any handwork could be better in some instances.

Thanks so much for taking your time to respond, even far beyond my inquiry. Thanks for that bro.

Amerengues2:
Sir/ma,

Finish it and leave the country! If my university colleagues and friends see me typing this, they would be utterly surprised. Albeit, its the honest truth. I carried Nigeria for head even at the face of sheer hapless and hopelessness in the country.

I left after my spouse got everything sponsored abroad due to her job.

There is a thin line between passion and reality. Lecturers would transfer their aggressions and frustrations on students.

One of the biggest 'good problem' is leaving the country after completing PhD. The best time to leave is now. It's not worth, I must say. I have been part of the system for 8 years deceiving myself with false hope.

weldone brother. Wishing you all the best. I don't understand the part where you said 'good problem' is leaving the country after completing PhD. Are you saying it is late to wait to have PhD before leaving? In short, when is the best time to leave in your own view, after BSc, MSc or PhD?

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Value and fear of elders should be instilled in our primary and especially secondary school students. We need it. We need it.

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EreluRoz:
She may be saying the truth. A girl may be wild but fears intercourse.

Baby has spoken

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Love is in the air.

4, 6, 7 I like those facts.

So harmful

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I don't care who wins, but I'm tired of the stupid masses. Their intelligence continued to be played by these rogues.

May God bless me with a virgin wife.

Dignity of labour.

God will provide

seunoladele:
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You have spoken well.

If guys put them for house dey hustle to dey provide for them, na so so cheating dem go dey cheat.

If your husband is good, never cheat on him.

sunnx:
It is possible if it is of high quality phone with sharp camera phone but sincerely, I won't encourage you because while writing the test/exam, you can't stand up and any attempt to stand you will get warning or you may be log out and number two your system shouldn't shake any attempt while writing the exam or the test your web cam is shake like penis head they will log or time you out so my strong advice is stick to batter high quality laptop with inbuilt front camera or better computer you can attach webcam that won't be shaking when picking answers. I guess I have clear you. All what Unilag system monitoring want to see is your full face eye open not looking left or right.

quote author=professore post=131879328]Thanks for the response.

1. If I got you right, after you were rescheduled, you used another laptop better than the previous laptop?

2. Another question, is it possible to use a phone for the test?

Thanks so much.

Thank you for the prompt response. I appreciate it.

See una life outside.

Wow

sunnx:
I wrote them and submit directly to them in the Postgraduate office in Unilag and I was rescheduled and later changed computer with high quality to rewrite my test.

Thanks for the response.

1. If I got you right, after you were rescheduled, you used another laptop better than the previous laptop?

2. Another question, is it possible to use a phone for the test?

Thanks so much.

Ok

Here to learn.

CaveAdullam:
The good thing about such people as the OP/author is that you don't see them in real life to counter them squarely and rub their faces with their ridiculous ideologies.

Despite his useless take, he did make some reasonable and good points: savings and living within your means. However, we must be careful not to swallow the gibberish because of this.

The return on investment in marriage is nothing. Especially for the man. Reproduction as a result of human biological imperative and quality parental investment in raising kids is the point marriage has good leverage. Aside from that, it is nothing but a useless burden.

The OP failed to factor in inflation and poor economic turnout in his post, which affects purchasing power gravely.

The OP said living in a 60k annual rent residence. 5k/month.
However, he failed to consider the utter state of such residences and the poor neighborhoods that define such places of inhabitation. He wants to live by faith.

What should fear you mostly as an individual is your inability to achieve something tangible and meaningful with your life as you become older. Not marriage.

You should be thinking of not accomplishing your purpose in life rather than the thoughts of marriage because you want a steady supply of sex - for the men or security - for the women.

You all just believe that marriage is a blissful union that comes with a special kind of treasure box that will fill the whole house once you say "I do". Rubbish!

Before you get married, make sure your tentacles are large and strong.

Make sure you are closer to your goals in life.

Make sure you have the ways and means to feed yourself and 5 other persons as a single man in the next 20 years without flinching.

Make sure you are fully rooted in your skill and career pursuit.

The world is tougher for you because your parents never cared about their children. Just reproduce like rabbits and inshallah. Jehovah will take the wheel.

Make sure you are emotionally, psychologically, and financially buoyant.

Don't pick marriage in January and start complaining about how the economy is unfavorable to you, your wife, and 4½ kids.

The same applies to women.

Be career-oriented + endeavor to protect your feminity. The economy is performing poorly, and a whole lot is happening concurrently. It is not an easy thing but you must carry your cross too.

Marriage will not give you any blessings. No blessings. It will be enjoyable when you have set the path to follow for yourself.

Don't allow your kids to suffer the same fate you are suffering as a result of your parent's faults and mistakes.

How do you even want to help a child achieve his dreams when you, as the father or mother, aren't able to do so for yourself?

This last part though!

EreluRoz:
I did mine immediately after service. God knows I've tried my best let my future husband do the rest. Aside certification and others I'm not going to school again.

Since you are a man please go for your masters and even further sef. Bsc is not enough for a man

I like your current picture ma'am.