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FuckThaMod:
After many other guys have enjoy their pussy finish during their fresh young days they now expect me to take their remnant. God forbid

Funny thing is that it's the kind of guys they rejected then that they will go and be attaching to when they are 30+

It will shock you that a 22 years old have more body count and sexual experience than a 30 year old Lady

The ones that almost kill themselves after break up will start forming hard girl and hard boy

Happy sexual purity day to us all

I have a question for the celibates in the house do you indulge in a relationship?
Because sex seems to be the top reason for relationships these days

A or C

With a budget of #5000 what can a girl get her boyfriend as val gift?

Every suggestions will be appreciated With a budget of #5000 what can a girl get her boyfriend as val gift?

Every suggestions will be appreciated

If she cheats on you cheat on her back

Virginity is a personal decision. and if a person is a virgin or not shouldn't be your damn business
Op learn how to mind your business

Cos people are getting married
To have sex

TheSuperNerd:
Uhmmmm.... I do hope you have found your answers now Ma'am.

A relationship will only be as good as what you invest in it and what you and your partner decide is more important and more beneficial by your actions and orientation with each other.


Money and Sex isn't everything... if a relationship is built on physical chemistry/Sexual attraction and Money alone... then that relationship will sink a whole lot faster and deeper than the titanic did. I perceive you are doing your best to project a life that is honorable and an example to others even though the world around us is messed up and full of sh*t...

My advice to you... keep walking down that path of honor ma'am and don't be ever swayed by how different you look to others. It is okay to be different.


And yeah... I recognise the moniker from that brideprice thread. Have a lovely day.

Yeah

thanks dear for this

How do a girl know if a guy truly loves her?

TheSuperNerd:
The real answer: I believe paying bride price is a form of traditional/cultural formality to show that the lady being given away by her family in marriage is now "owned" by the man marrying her. It is also to show courtesy to the family of the lady as a small way of saying, "Take this as a token for all your efforts exerted and for all you invested in your daughter to become the woman she is now"

Note that, this bride price thing goes way back to the days of our fore fathers and uhmmm... Well... Traditional courtesy is the just what this bride price is all about. In some parts of Asia like in India, women pay brideprice for men... Loolll... What will y'all say about that?

Anyway shaa, in a final nutshelp on this point, Brideprice is just a traditional way of showing courtesy to the family and appreciating them in a special little way for the efforts they exerted in bringing up a lady ripe for marriage. Note that the amount paid is NEVER the true worth of the woman... It is only a token to symbolise that the lady is indeed worthy and priceless.... And a token of appreciation for all the parents and family did and contributed to making her bloom into the lady shevis now.






The sad reality: To mundane men and men with a warped sense of what marriage actually is....this is what brideprice is (to them)...

Brideprice is a way of buying a woman off her family so that she will have no say in his own house. I bought her dammit! So she should worship at my feet naa.... You think say e easy to pay One or two milla for woman head... Omo pack well ooo... I don buy am so make she behave. I can do whatever I want now

Brideprice is a what some men pay to use in arguments later with his wife to intimidate her into submission. Such a man will say, "Listen up woman! You have no right to tell me that what I did is wrong! You have no right to question how I run this family... I dont even need your advice sef. Have you forgotten how much I paid on your head? So swerve and know your place woman! You are a property! My property! and you have no say here"

Brideprice is also what is paid by these bunch of baby-men for EGO's sake also to be used in arguments again so that it will be said to the woman... For instance..., "Bia!! I dont owe a dime on your head okay! So you will give me sex whenever I want it, whether you are tired or not inugo?"


Lastly, and this is possibly the most cynical.... Some men actually do this and will use it as a way of measuring the woman's worth.
"Listen up Nneka! I paid Three million on your head alone minus expenses incurred for the wedding and all... Three million is what you are worth so biko, don't be running your mouth to me when I have more than 50 million for my akant inugo? I can buy and bring in 20 of pyu onto this house and nothing will happen! So sit down and mind your place woman!"




Conclusion: It is tradition where I come from to pay a bride price for the ladies. But let us try respect and honor the true reason for doing so and neevr use that as the yardstick to judge our wife's worth. I know of some people happily married today who never had to drag the matter of brideprice or even paid sef. Some didn't have to even pay brideprice, yet they are are quite okay in their marriage

Brideprice Or NOT..... Marriage is sacred and it works best when the man treats his woman like the Queen she us to him and when the Woman honors her man as her King. Finito.

You just nailed it

I think I am falling in love.
Let's fix a date that I will come and see your parents to pay groom's price

remsonik:
Hmm mm
Tosin and his writeups, I can't abuse/insult any lady for getting married late or not having a guy when she's overriped. Everyone to his own reason. I have a sister job didn't make her marry till 34,she's married now and was surprised her hubby came back with his people to appreciating the family for their decent girl. There's another lady a friend in school then . She's still single cos she's epileptic, immediately she tells a guy that she's epileptic they all run. Epilepsy has been with her since when she was born and she has drugs she's on that puts her in control of it.

God will help ladies ko easy rara , it's God's grace and mercy.

God bless you sis

Some people just find fun in things that shouldn't be joke with

raphafire:
It is always about ladies...woman wrapper....is it ur singleness and frustration

Lol

Don't mind that dude I am sure his life is just base on female existence

vuc1:
Not easy to be a woman though.From the monthly thing to carrying one ball for 9 months to leaving your family home where you have been spending your life since you were born into living with someone with a different family tradition.Then the nigga will be ordering you around telling you where to go and where not to go.Before you visit your family you take permission from him even your own family wouldn't want you to overstay since you're now married.You change your surname and a whole lot of other things.Chai I salute every good woman it's not easy.
God knows I can't cope.But some ladies get wahala shaa.

Exactly

That's why everygirl should do a thorough screening on a man before getting married cos there is nothing worst than a control freak

KhaleesiAdaz:
Guy when will you ever post something productive? Always women/girls this and that.
No be your mates dey create technological inventions daily?
It will never be well with whoever did this to you.
Manage get small shame please for the sake of your mother.

I am old and frustrated,? lmao yes. still get a life

They won't admit it but it's cos their top priority in life is base on women

That's why you see many nl boys attacking the female gender

The husband ought to be in jail
He killed his wife

16

tosyne2much:
This is very impressive but then, I no fit gree make these ones fly plane wey I wan enter ooo

Cos they are female?

This old man is 23? Infact my grandma is 30

I don't like hugging
Only hug those I am very close to

I wonder the kind of virgins we have these days

The ones that gives and receive mouth gigs and still refer to themselves as V

The world is really changing

Nellychinma20:
Yesterday a friend of mine (Chioma) discussed how her fiancé took her to see his family .
When she arrived ,the mum just sat outside like nothing new was happening. while his sister (uche) was watching TV .
After sometimes the Guy's sister who she's obviously older than walked up to her and this ensured
Uche: mama asked u to help her wash her cloths ,its at the backyard.
Chioma:No problem, let's go and wash it together
Uche: no!!!,mama said u should wash it alone .

Mind you,this is the first time she's visiting the family .
Her guy didn't utter a single word
She jejely carried her handbag, stepped out ,greeted His mum and walked out .
Later in the day the guy called and was saying all manner of things .
Kai!!!! Na correct slap me for give that guy .

Your friend did well as she walked out. What you can't end don't start it

Like she didn't leave they could have turn her into a slave all in the name of wife material

Village people
Why are thou this wicked?

Money don go

Bad girlfriend

I blame the mumu girl instead of her to auction her virginity, by now she could have been a millionaire she gave it to a Bleep boy all in the name of love

All virgins in the house if you know you don't want to keep your V status till marriage. Girl sell it, that hymen can make you a millionaire

Falling in love without my senses
A cheating partner

That's not her age but her date of birth

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braine:
Love does exist.

Ok
Good night

braine:
Love does exist.

Ok
Good night

DaddyKross:
1) Don't call me bro unless you are a man/boy
2) I don't expect you to believe me
3) Why would i lie to someone ion even know (yet)
4) Bye bye

. Good bye bro

DaddyKross:
Na me be op wey write am ?
Moreover, i don't have babe

I believe you bro
All guys are single and all ladies dating
Babes been dating ghosts since 550BC