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Benita27:
Obviously you misunderstood me. Just because a girl is good doesn't mean she's either a virgin or a saint. Every girl was once a good girl but when you get dealt with, the very good part of you people easily spot get hidden. Good girls are in relationships, getting bleeped every now an then but what makes them seem different from the other girls is that they don't know when to say "Yes or No", hardly speak their minds, and most die in silence...you cheat on her but because she's in love with you, she's the one begging you to make the relationship with her work out. You don't call often but she's always calling. This is the good girl I was referring to as docile, and indeed they're overly docile just to be on your side.

Then these are the docile ones NOT the good ones. Any girl that can't dump a useless buffon is docile.

Benita27:
Keep religion aside, they involve in sexual relationships but get easily controlled. They're nothing near headstrong.

Trust me I don't talk about what I don't know. It's not easy to choose a path and stay on it, most of these girls have a very strong character to remain the way they are when most of their peers can live a wayward life and still end up getting married in the end.

The kind of girls you talked about in your comment are the docile ones, a girl that chooses to remain good in today's society is never docile.

Ever wonder why Beauty and Brains hardly makes the front page?

fart:
I fell deeply in love with this married man in 2001. He has 8 kids but He has money which is what attracted me to him in the first place. We go out to eat in very expensive places, we travel alot together. I think he tells his wife that he is on business trips but that is not my concern. The truth is im not actually the side chick. It is the woman that is the side chick even though she is married to by boyfriend because I met him before he met her for some reason he chose to marry her but I stuck with him for his money. I like that there is no attachment. Im not lacking anything so what is the need for marriage? In fact if I want a child I can still have it with him, he will care for the child. The only thing the woman has that I dont have is the wedding ring but I dont care I can have him buy all the rings I want. Girls I hope you are taking note. Just use the mans cucumber and money that is the key to happiness.

UPDATE: for those of you bashing me I dont care. So what if I am just a hole to him? he is just a cucumber and money to me. in fact he put my name in is will. what does that tell you? I am an important part of his life. so good bye haters

From the name on your moniker it's obvious you have lost your self worth

Benita27:
Op, you're so wrong. Good girls don't possess those aforementioned points. The thing with good girls is that they tend to be overly docile in relationships which makes men walk all over them. I call them the doormats 'cause they know what to do but are mostly blinded by love that's one sided.

I don't agree on the part that they are docile, most of them don't condone sex in a relationship especially the very religious ones, they are head strong on their stance about this, and you can't bend them which is they very opposite of being docile. in today's world marrying someone you have never had sex with is like a Russian Roulette.

And second nothing scares guys off like an over zealous religious woman.

Wonder why most men like women that are acts like sluts in the other room?

smartty68:
Forum owner is fortunate to have us here, if we leave this place would be history. Gerrit

I don't think so, if you really believe what you are saying then wouldn't be here patronizing and Afonja.

smartty68:
You sound as if forum owner is paying for our internet subscriptions. This forum can't survive without us. Gerrit

True, why don't you create your own forum that really needs you, or forum that will support your cause.

We don't need ppl that are useless to us. Other than your hate speeches you have nothing to offer.
Gerrit?

smartty68:
Of course they do, all the seek is peaceful exit or power be shared evenly amongst all

The ones they call the illiterate Almajaris have shown them a detailed plan how to go about it "peacefully" they even made the Bafria secession look like it could be archieved without disrupting the country.
So why all the hate speeches from KANU, why all the riots, why all the stay at homes? Do they think the battle for secession is fought on the streets with hate speeches?

ZombieTAMER:
You should make up your mind
Are you sane or insane

Your time is ticking, it's a shame you won't be on the receiving end when the fire works start.

Life can be so cruel.

You Ibos should make your mind, are you in or out?

harmonydoris:
nice question... Or better still have u impregnated all of them only for "all" of them to abort the pregnancy?

The problem with this kind of ppl is they see nothing wrong with their assessment.
If you try to call them to order, the name calling starts.

Op stop wasting your time on Nairaland politics section, it has been taken over by IPOBs,
It's a shame that the IPOB leader that insulted the Yorubas and the Fulani is revered as a God to the Ibos, yet the Same IPOBs flood Nairaland, a site created by a so-called Zoogerian, I thought they said they funny need the Zoo. They are shameless.

I use to think the Ibos are very smart ppl, but now I know the Ibos are very greedy ppl.

I feel sorry for the Ibos, there is a threat to lives and property of their fellow Ibos up North, what do they do about it? You guess is as good as mine.

They don't love them selves instead thinking of a way to secure the lives of their fellow Ibos be it to broker for peace or to begin evacuation, they are acting like a bunch of illiterates.

What do you expect when you worship a radio broadcaster as your leader, a person that came to stardom from sitting in a chair inciting hate. Someone that has never done anything in his own local government.

When the blood starts flowing because of their own actions who will they blame.

However, there are genuine good Ibos too, these are the ones am really really worry about.

Have you dated all the single moms to come to this conclusion?

Hollow

Yeah,
Am really missing the younger Me.

chronique:
Go out to car lots around Lagos or wherever you stay. Check for a car you like, get the vin and do a carfax report. If it shows it's a clean title, do a test drive and close the deal with them. It's that simple.

Thanks alot

chronique:
If you are ready to pay the price, you'd get one. People still import clean title cars. Their prices are usually higher though.

OK, pls can you give some names of reputable car dealers that are honest?

chronique:
Not exactly. For example, a car with a faulty kick starter, can be listed with the tag "salvaged" and when they want to state the type of damage, you would see "mechanical damage". You can't know exactly what the fault is until you buy it and start working on it here or over there as the case may be.

Wow, so how do one get a clean accident free tokunbo car? at a good price

chronique:
Nice post but let's get some things straight.

1. Not every accidented car is bad. Some have just minor impacts. So long as the impact doesn't affect the chasis, you are good to go.

2. Rolled back mileages aren't only done here. They are also done overseas. The major reason why mileages are being rolled back in naija, is the greed and unrealistic expectations of most clients. The average yearly drive of a car in the US should give you around 15,000 miles. A Nigerian would be asking for a 2003 toyota corolla with 80,000 miles. Dealers who are desperate to sell, would have it rolled back to suit the clients. That a mileage is high, doesn't necessarily mean the engine is gone. I have gotten cars from Canada that the owners replaced engine at around 180k or 200k miles. So when such a car comes with a mileage of 300k, you hear people saying the mileage is too high, not knowing it's not the same engine that ran the entire 300k miles.

3. No Car Dealer can make 700k on a 2006 corolla as at today. It's almost impossible. Even if you calculate with the lowest of estimate. Let's assume shipping cost just $1000,clearing cost 500k, auction fees and trucking costs, $800. That would give you a total of 1,166,000. Let's assume the car was bought at $2,500(925,000) using 370 as exchange rate. Add it up to previous figure and it gives a total of 2,091,000. How much is the average selling price of a corolla in the market? 2.4-2.5m. There are some other charges not even added.

4. I like the fact that this topic is right here. Clients would appreciate it when they see clean title cars for good prices. Most times, when you try to tell them your price is higher cos it's accident free, they'd tell you how they got one for way cheaper (using price of seriously accidented cars to negotiate).


5. No matter how we look at it, the truth is if some people weren't importing accident and flooded cars, most Nigerians won't be able to afford cars. I once saw a 99 Camry with 42k original miles in the US, for $7500. Imagine buying that type of car and trying to sell it on Nairaland? All the miscreants on this site would start calling you all manner of names and telling you how much the car is worth.

Do auction sites give accurate info about cars on auction?, if yes which are the best auction sites?
Thanks.

Imbali:
Pryme ... How do u delete a topic

Honestly I don't know

Imbali:
I hope to find such love...

Maybe it doesn't exist

Sometimes you will find it where you don't expect

Imbali:
Lol it was a joke

Guys what are we doing waisting our time here...

What we should learn from boy is that money is more important than anything

Well money is not everything, but it's also important, in the other of my list

1. Love
2. Money

But a guy that really loves his babe, will be even be more motivated to make more money, cos they want to give them the best life has to offer cos they believe they deserve this.
Most guys that truly truly love a girl that don't have money, always have this hidden sense of insecurity, yes, even if the girl love them. Some are not happy having other ppl do for their girlfriends do what they can't do for them.
I know most of you girls say it's not about the money, but that's not the case for most guys. Their ego is bruised if they feel they can't give the girl what she deserves.

Note: all the above stated disease only occurs when genuine love exist.

But then, what's always more important in life is being with the one that makes you happy, you can't leave such ppl for money.

Imbali:
U are so right .... Ok answer this

What's the difference between a softwerk and a hardtwerk

Honestly, I have no idea what Softwerk is, I had to run to Google for help, all I can see is IT solutions and a moniker on Nairaland ,

Sorry am lost here

Imbali:
Only way I can think of that is to go to another country n start over...

Lol, don't worry you will remember this day.
Just be strong, with time you will be fine, trust me.

You just have to find a way to keep your self occupied, going out, working out, reading books, getting a job, chasing chickens, setting rat traps, sneaking up on ppl, researching why cats hates mice...
List goes on..

Just get up your ass up and get those active brains of yours busy

Imbali:
I don't want to... It's so hard living in reality

That's why we are all here

I just miss him sha

You can't escape it reality, not for long. Yes dreams do become reality, but you have to find a way to change your reality to your dream.

Imbali:
I have a life... Boy was my mental escape from that life

But I need to refocus too... N get back to living in reality... I literally lived online during the time we chat

Yep, it was a nice dream while it lasted.

You heart will be heavy for a while, but with time you will be OK.

When ppl leave, it's the vacuum they create pisses ppl off. You need to get busy filling that vacuum up.

Imbali:
I expected such comments... Not the response I was looking for...

Girl is not happy

This world is cold, sometimes it's like ppl play mindless games, but what do you do. Yes your heart is missing, that doesn't mean you will also loose your mind, those 2 can't be missing at the same time, it will cause a compete shut down your life.

Getting a life will help you get one if not both of them back.

Trying to repair a distance relationship is a herculean task.

Girl gets a life, it's not the end of the world.

I don't like that Nairaland has to edit what I type, it's like listening to a Buster Rhymes track without the curse words.

It's no fun

Op, the likes of you will end marrying something that will make your life a living hell. Am sure you will prefer the sassy and arrogant ones that will treat you like shït.

Op tell us the truth.. She is ugly no?


Oh what do I know some men prefer shït

praise1705:
seems you ve forgotten down down Y abi?

lol, i give up. Make I escape with the small pride I have left, before one innocent looking Babe give me PIT FATALITY