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Hand over these type of Ladies to fvckboys, and you will be doing them a great disservice

Funny I did not see "a God fearing guy" which is the national anthem for ladies on social media

Nikita1:

I will use gun for you o

I'm telling you...they don't know what they want.
A lady will kill herself trying to satisfy them..better be yourself and enjoy life as it comes

Matured men know what they want, more often than not, they don't find it in immature drama queens.

Nairalandsss:
Young men are immature, wild, crazy and sometimes difficult to handle. Also, young men are dirty and disorganised. But take a look at any handsome mature man and you will find him charming, organised and in control.The best thing about mature men is that dealing with them is easier. They seldom waste your time. They are open about what they want.Generally, mature men would love a bit of intelligence, wisdom, maturity, practicality and the ability to handle emotions gracefully.Most of the mature men have dated the most beautiful women during their early years and they have realised that looks are not the only things that matter in relationships.Here are some things that mature men like in women.

Things that mature men like in women are:

1.Don’t Prolong The Chase: Mature men hate to run after women. Of course, they do love the chase that exists in the initial stages of any relationship. But if you prolong it, he may lose interest and may move on. He might have hundreds of other things in his life to deal with apart from love.

2[b].Allow Him To Take Charge:[/b] Mature men would love to take charge of things and be in control. Of course, this doesn’t mean that he will dominate. He will let you be if you let him be himself. So, don’t tell him what to do even if it is tempting.

3.Never Create Drama: The reason he is still single at this age is because he hated the drama that his ex-girlfriends have created. So, he moved on. If you do the same, he will again move on. So, keep things simple instead of creating a fuss.

4.Be Straight Forward: He hates wasting time. Of course, he still values all your emotions. But being open about them instead of being mysterious is advisable. Young men like the mysterious side of women. They sit and try to figure out the intentions of women and find it thrilling. But mature men have gone past that stage. They would like to keep things simple. So be open with him.

5.Stimulate His Intellect: Do you know what a man wants in bed? Well, for young men, it is all about the body. But mature men find it more stimulating when they sleep with an intelligent woman. Maybe men’s taste evolves and gets finer with age. So, try to stimulate him with a nice conversation before taking him to bed.

These are the things that mature men like in women.



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Op, I don't like it when you expose me like this.

biafran1stson:
THE LOUD MINORITY VS THE SILENT MAJORITY IN SOUTH-SOUTH: A CRITICAL EXAMINATION OF THE BIAFRA AGITATION

For some of us, the nay sayers in the South-South are more, since they are the ones that gambol like lambs whenever issues bordering on the restoration of Biafra pop up for confabulation. Well, I think you are wrong. My objective today is to do justice to the actual constituents of this noisy and self-acclaimed lot that paint the lugubrious picture that the Ijaw, Itsekiri, Urrhobo, Ibibio, Efik, Ikwerre, Orashi, Ogoni etc are not part of Biafra. I will tell you who these specious claimants are presently. Hold my hand and let us walk together as I do justice to the subject matter.

Let me blaze the trail by reminding you all that I am an Ijaw man from Bonny and Nkoro in Rivers State. I am tribally Ijaw, but nationally BIAFRA. Now, take note that I work with several Ijaw, Ikwerre and other tribes who share my national consciousness. I am sure you have noticed that some people call themselves names in their bid to dampen the spirit of our brothers and sisters in the East. Some bear the toga of Niger Delta Elders, same elders are become ghosts when our youths go on rampage. There are those that say they are IYC (Ijaw Youth Council), the same Ijaw association that has become a political group. Some groups spring up in Calabar and Akwa Ibom to distance the entire state from Biafra. Some of our brothers in the East, on seeing these, begin to fear that our unity will be herculean. Well, I write to correct it all. Self-determinism is what individuals, not political groups, do for themselves.

Back to these ersatz groups that claim they speak for the people. My dear brothers and sisters, these groups do not speak for anybody. Some of these associations have been balkanized by politics, making them the quiet extended arm of governments that become active whenever the people try to bring the activities of government to a halt. The rise of the agitation for restoration of Biafra is sufficient and necessary reason why these self-styled hitherto moribund associations have resumed action. None of them speak for the generality of their people. Besides, self-determination does not require REPRESENTATION, since each person in a clan, village, or community will be required to vote to STAY or LEAVE Nigeria in the referendum. The plebiscite does not even require voter's card, for even voice vote is acceptable.

So, my beloved Biafrans, don't be unsettled by the rantings of the NOISY MINORITY in South-South because there is a very quiet and enlightened MAJORITY praying fervently for the demise of Nigeria. We, the South-South IPOB, know what to do to reach them. The SILENT MAJORITY know, like we do, that politics cannot solve our problem. Do you even know that those that evince apathy over every Biafra issue do not have followers? None of them controls our region like Mujahid Dokubo-Asari, yet he is a very proud Biafran. I write as someone who dumped retrogressive politics for revolution, since I noticed to my dismay that the real problem bedeviling GROWTH and DEVELOPMENT in Biafra land is the kind of politics we play. Ours is a politics of recycled bad eggs; a politics OF the few corrupt BY the few corrupt, but FOR the majority. It has to die a quick death! I am tired of being ruled by people I should be teaching.

The Niger Delta Elders are the same people that whine and dine with the misgoverning government. The so-called regional associations are the unseen arm of government. The elders and members of these associations are politicians in the hood. Let me make it very clear that our associations in Niger Delta are funded by the government. Do you also know that our so-called elders do dramatised activism to gain government attention? It is the reason why most of them are inconsistent. Don't be dissuaded or dispirited by some of these things you hear from them. Nobody, no group/association speaks for us. Niger Deltans will decide when the time comes. The staccato of discordant reactions from the South-South confirms that our unity is what the North is scared of. We shall unite. The SILENT MAJORITY is waiting for us. Let us go at once.

It is not true that Niger Deltans hate their Igbo brothers and sisters. If it were, we would not be intermarrying and cohabiting in peace. Furthermore, unlike other regions, our sister regions have natural resources and share the same culture and religion. Is someone still finding it hard to believe that Niger Delta is Igbo writ large? We are ONE! I call on the National and State Coordinators of IPOB to work with me and intensify the reaching out programmes. The time is now.

All hail Biafra!
Forward ever, backward never.
Revolution without violence is our right.

Russell Idatoru Russell Bluejack is a thinker, revolutionary writer, university tutor, and socio-economic and political analyst that writes from Port Harcourt

Try to speak for your self next time. Don't say what you don't know.

AltarBoy1:
Can you prove me wrong.

Op like I have always pointed out, there are non so blind like the ones that refuse to see.

I have read all the replies from the IPOBs, non were able to engage you with meaningful conversation or a roadmap or even {facts} that BIAFRA will succeed.

This goes to show how Kanu is using the inherent psychology of the Ibo man of "dominating" to get their support.

Am from the South South, I don't give a flying fvck about Biafra, my only concern is if they fail we will have to be the ones to bail them out. I don't like the fact that ppl will be dragged into result of their stupidity.

History is about to repeat it's self.

delishpot:
Think of it this way, would a man be offended if his wife insists on looking into and having access to his phone if the info in his phone can not be deleted after reading or sending messages? Answer is YES he will. Even though he may be innocent of her suspicions.He would be sad that she doesnt trust him right? So yes, I believe women would be offended and sad that their husbands suspects them of infidelity. Although the innocent ones would be vindicated. Only that I do not know how that marriage would work after that o. Cos the woman esp the innocent ones would feel really insulted by that act and even though they may continue in the marriage but a deep hole of resentment has been dug in her heart. It is a big deal for most women when their husbands believe they might have brought in another mans baby.
If you must do it, dont tell her. And be sure you are ready to handle the matter properly because innocent kids are involved here.

Well in my case I will happily give my phone to my girlfriend cos I have nothing to hide, and more so there will be this exhilarating feeling that comes when you make your girl know she can trust you (well am speaking for myself).

I feel those that have nothing to hide all will only feel more self worth.

But I want to ask will you blame him? Take a look at the world we live in today

NobleAngell:
Highly offended.

Why? But there have been a lot of news lately about kids not belonging to their fathers after DNA test.
Take the Ghanaian player that found out non of his 3kids were his

In a society where trust is diminishing, and ties are not so strong, will you ladies feel offended if your husband was to confirm the partinity of your kids thru a DNA test? Will you be mad at him for taking such steps?

Op, are you sure this is not as a result of listening to too many Westlife?

beautebeats:
Atleast she's being honest. She's a big girl, people need to stop being hypocrites

Yep, Nigerians.
We are one of the best when it comes to hypocrisy on this planet.

WEST BROM

professorfal:
This will only work on fuck_ boys.

Actually a girl with all these qualities will figure out a fuckboy from a distance

I don't see anything Admirable here. The lady is going to loose her job for being nice?
Now if that lady resorts to be rude to men after this, it's the men that will complain woman are rude.

There are better ways to turn down advances from woman.

Sack her ke.

The man has issues. There is more to this.

Add me 07067026772

Ofcos OP you will be forgiven

As long as your nuts are dangling 2 meters over a shark infested pound.


But I think the best way you will be forgive is if you soak your nuts and diick in Sulfuric Acid for 10mins.

Do all this and you will have forgiveness unending


Fool

MissRaine69:
No most are quite prude most talk about hair , Mary Kay,what they can get what they did not get, celebrities Most girls are alarmingly very one dimensional when it comes to sex. Very few will discuss intimacy, positions what works for them what does not etc
And about the talk at the salon most of that is all talk I know because most want to ask me questions in private.

Are you trying to be sarcastic?

Epic stuff Op,

1000 likes.

I went online last year looking for episodes Tom had the better of Jerry

That little sleaze

Poor Tom

MissRaine69:
She did not know he smoked during courtship or did she not have a sense of smell then?

Lol, at that time, I guess love was not only blind, but odor blind too.

tossie101:
Omg sorry its a typo... now add "t" to the can (t)
It would give u another meaning.
Thats actually wat i was trying to say..

It's OK, no hard feelings.
We good.

tossie101:
yes i would tell her cut the guy off.. beacause u can be that wicked too ur girlfriend

tossie101 post=58320379:
accused u?... when and how

@ the bolded.

tossie101:
i didnt say that, what i mean is,, no good guy who has good intention for his gal would be that wicked to her.

Well you just accused me of doing same to my gf, that's why I asked.

tossie101:
yes i would tell her cut the guy off.. beacause u can be that wicked too ur girlfriend

Do you classify all men as animals?

balash:
1. Always leave money in your pocket�����for her to take not steal oh. The higher the denomination the higher the respect. If you leave N10, you get N10 respect. But for the highest of highest respect, leave hard currency. This is necessary. When she wakes up in the morning, you 'll see how happy she's because she has succeeded�����

2. Never ever argue with her on the price of anything. If she tells you a bag of rice is 30k, don't argue. Just give her the money. No need calling papa John to ask how much is it. It brings about see finish. If she tells you no milk give her the money, don't go checking the closet to ensure it's actually finished.

3. Always admire and praise her. Even if she looks like monkey licking lime, tell her you're the most beautiful woman you 've ever seen. Praise her k-leg, flat nose, olipi etc.

4. Give her money even if she's working. Women loves men's money. I don't know why �����. Give her without her asking you. It increases respect. Give her money to perm her hair, to buy chewing gum or to buy N100 recharge card.

5. Always bring paper bag home for her. Even if it's groundnut that's inside. Don't ever return home without anything for madam. Am so used to it that hubs bought me worm medicine once.

6. Treat her like a queen. Pet her like an egg. Listen to her. Don't shout her down for any reason. Even if she's not making sense, laugh holding your head and belle.

7. For the other room biz, it shouldn't be all about you. Don't come home and say "mama John go wait me for room" or you come home smiling and tell her "conji de do me" without asking how is she.

8. Go out with her whether you 've car or not. I know a lady the only time she entered her hubs car was when their 13 year old son suddenly collapsed and died in the house. It's not good, brother.

9. Don't steal her money but she can take yours �����. Wives dont steal but take�����. Any man that 'thiefs' his wife money loses respect without applying for it.

10. Always be impressed with her food. Even if the egusi is just water and leaves in one side while melon on the other side, lick your hands. Afterall if you had wanted a good cook, you for marry caterer.�����.

11. When you come home in the evening always have your bath especially before the other room biz. This is very important if you are a truck pusher or a breaker of logs. No woman wants to lick your sweat.

12. Never ever press toothpaste from the middle. Press from the bottom. Also don't wear sandy shoes into the house or you use your shoe to climb the bed. It brings about see finish.

13. When she travels for only one week with the children, don't use all the plates, pots, cups and spoons in the house and pile them up for her to come wash. She's not your housegirl oh. Try and wash them brother. Don't also soak your clothes for her to come wash. She's not a washing machine.

14. Don't come home at 1am and expect her to come open the gate for you. She's not your aboki. If you know you are a bat get an aboki to be opening gate for you.

15. Summer holiday is coming����� take her on a vacation. Don't be too selfish. Take her to the beach even if it's effurun river ����

Epic stuff.
A 10000 likes

ZeliaLauren:
Hi Guys,
So am writing a script for my next video and i need your opinion .
All men in the house, what do you think about a girl asking you out?
Yea or Nay?

Thanks for your answer.

Let's leave the script talk,
Are you asking a guy out?