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Like a carrot with earrings

It's obvious your friend is not sexualy compatible with her bf, the obvious thing to do is for them to go their separate ways.

Cos next time "am sorry" won't cut it.

Op what caused the COUNTER COUP?

WHO SENT YOU IBOS TO KILL THE Sarduna? so you think you can stir up the Honest nest without getting stung?

Tell this to your children not grown Nigerians that knows their history.

pocohantas:
This wouldn't be bad, at least we would stop seeing people wishing karma falls on the lady

Men don't get used? What's your definition of used in this context, Kenny?


I'm not surprised you can't make sense of it
Please suggest a name for the thread.

i will leave the name of the thread to you. As for your question, ofcos guys also get used and dumped, be it sexually, financially, emotionally.

Sexually: imagine a girl stopped picking your calls after you guys had sex the previous day. Her reason? she thought you can fvck but you did not live up to expectations. Ofcos most ladies will never say this to the man, but rather serve him the silent treatment. And there is a case where the sex drive of the guy deteriorates, the girls dumps his ass for better service somewhere else. This kind of dumping, most times remains a mystery to the guy, and he NEVER finds out .

Financially: Most ladies can endure dating an ugly or a dumb guy during their university days cos the guy is sponsoring her future. once the ladies graduates she drops the guy like a hot potatoe. In some case this type of dumping are made know, the lady comes out and tell the guy she just cant continue with the guy cos they are not "compatible" or they are not of the same standards.

Emotionally: this is when the lady dumps the guy because she cant date a perfect gentleman, even when she knows the guy will die for her. This type of dumping are always made known to the guy, the lady will tell the guy "you are too good for me" and bla bla bla... you know how the rest goes.


damn ..
this is too long.

pocohantas:
There was a thread advising ladies not to claim they were used and dumped. The OP gave just one scenario and I was surprised that all our resident intelligent men couldn't figure out the other side of the coin...but that's normal. The men advised such women to count their losses and move on, with emphasis being on how they both enjoyed the sex. Why they feel it's all about the sex is story for another day.

still trying to make sense of all these, i think the name of the thread is not in order.

sexybbstar:
What if you wanna widen it.

It's not all ladies that need tightening. Some need widening because of their bf preek.

You cant, just like some men have diicks, some women have big V-jays.

[quote author=MissRaine69 post=57361288][/quote]That's mean you will get sick if you go on a long vacation alone.

barallanee:
Ah wuldnt resist giving my contact bkos ah Dnt even want issues(disturbance) ...BT it's wen ur a wackjob and dumbass. .u Dnt need to hav Money to get my attention... Jux Dnt be dumb enof to think u will ever get a positive ansa from me....love matured minds...

Now this is what I hear a lot,
how do matured minds act?
What do you expect from them?

millhouse:
funny u... Do u know how many goals morata scored in juventus just on loan there.. Abi Na kindergarten babes be defenders for seria A? Morata is an all rounder and reads the game better than Lukaku. Morealso all this talk about epl experience, Abeg Costa came to epl and first season hit the 20goal mark.. We didn't Hear any cry on experience. Once u a goal poacher u are a goal poacher anywhere. Kpere!

Lol, Morata can't be a point man in Chelsea na, and Conte does not play 2 strikers like Allegri, it's just like you trying to play Kelechi Ihenacho as point man, it won't work.

If you ask me Dzeko, Icardi, Benteke will do a better job in holding up play.

And you are back here seeking for advice from the same source that gave you advice that landed you in prison, you have a brain use it.

viewingcentres:
At last I have people who share my view on this. Morata is better

I disagree Morata is more of a finisher, he doesn't have the premier league experience yet. And he is light weight, the EPL defenders will really bully him. Conte's formation needs a strong man up front to hold up play and bring Harzard and Pedro into play.

mgbadike81:
only if you know how ignorant you're sounding right now.

Lol, I wish you luck.

Perspectives:
Look at you What's your point?

By the way, Bill Gates mother was an influential person

Let's put it this way, you get to a social gathering, and it was time for refreshments, and the food was served like a banquet, then you spot some ppl using fork and knife to cut their stakes and eat their rice, then in the same hall you spot some ppl using only spoons to eat the same meal.
Now in terms of standards (according to you) which set of ppl do you think have high standards? My bet will be the ones displaying their cutlery skills no?

But liitle did you know that among them are a some poor kids that had scholarships to school in one of the best high schools where they were taught how to use these cutleries.
On the other hand not every rich family is concerned about eating rice with fork and knives.

The ones from a high social class can display low standards, the one from a low social class can display high standards

Lol Op who send you to talk sense to your fellow ret@rded IPOBs, them go finish you now

Perspectives:
Doesn't social class translate to standard

No Sir, Bill Gates was the Son of a wood cutter

Perspectives:
That's not standards, that's moral justification.

Standard is: i can't marry her because her parents are paupers while am from a wealthy background.

That is social class, being from a poor home doesnt mean your standards are limited.

There is nothing attractive about this, this is some kind of a disorder.

Will you prefer men looking like Johnny Bravo in real life?
Ofcos not.

Standards? This is one wide subject here.

Like an armed robber with good sense of fashion?
Or a fvckboy with good sense of personal hygiene?
Or a nagging lady with perfect vocabary?
Or a hot sexy lady with village mentality?

Standards? In this case I think it's just a word.

0079jaBond:
I'll call this '007 action style' which I like and ur point is another reason why I like understanding differing views so that I won't rush anything.

But now, how do I go about it so I won't fall again? ''once beaten twice shy, and if I'm beaten a second time, then kuku kee me", you catch?

There are times you have to be ruthless so as not to compromise your happiness. You have to tell her you will be mad to carry on in relationship with someone like her, let her know you don't find happiness with her.

Tell her there are men that will put up with her shiit, but you not among them.

Heck tell her what is actually happening, or do I need to tell you what's eating you?

Or are you telling me you can't look her in the eye and tell her even if you are mad you can't be in relationship with someone like her?

The most honorable thing for a guy to do during break ups is to tell the girl "why" you broke up and why it won't work. that way your will leave with a free conscience.

She might promise change and all that, just tell her you are not expecting her to change so you won't take her seriously. This is when you friendzone her.

Keeps your emotions in check, grow a pair of iron nuts. And stand by your decision.
You are a man, act like one.

akandi4u:
I have read of several threads here on nairaland mentioning the Six south south oil producing state as part of Biafra, yet these state have come out openly to say that the are not part of Biafra and shouldnt be included in the Biafra map.

Is it that the biafra(n) is really interested in the oil from South South that the dont want to have biafra without the Six South South state?

If there are not interested in our oil and hope to use the resources from their domain to develop their land, they should just go ahead and leave SS states alone. We the SS state dont want to be part of biafra, I dont want to be a biafran, We dont want to be part of biafra....go and leave us alone out of this. We the SS will have our own republic when its time.

You are even talking about SS, a lot of successful Ibos are not even for this Biafra, observe this IPOBS closely, you will find they are nothing but (sorry to say this) miscreants and touts, you won't see wealthy successful Ibo man running around with this IPOBS, how many influential Ibos have you seen running around with this miscreants, to even think most of these self made Ibo millionaires will even be wasting their time with this comedy relief miscreants is a long even Steph Curry can't achieve.

The sole sponsors of IPOBS are nothing but businessmen.

The touts and miscreants are turning their frustration on Nigeria, when they can't even achieve anything in their SE, as if Nigeria is the one holding them back.

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ocelot2006:
Yup, they're still keen on dragging the SS into their proposed 2nd misadventure via forceful attachment. Newsflash to them though: We are NOT keen on bailing you clowns out for the second time, same way Gen. Phillip Effiong saved you be ending that clusterfvck called a civil war while your heroes ran away to Ivory Coast and co. You want your secession? Then go focus on your 5 land locked SE states. We have absolutely no prob with that and wish you luck.

If Nnamdi kan(worms) can disagree with Wike that Rivers state is not part of Biafra you can begin to imagine the level of hallucinations that these IPOBS are suffering from. For their mind now na them get the Niger Delta.
I pity them, by the time Nigeria is thru with them na Niger Delta go finish their coffin.

Clowns.

NtoAkwaIbom:
But Igbo people mumu oo sha(Respect to all the sensible Igbos who allowed the touts bring them insult)
In 2011... that Albino Kanu, bin dey do solidarity protest for GEJ... but as GEJ no fit win election, na him dem call the bleaached he goat.. give am new script.

na so the whole East just folow like Sheep dey play along... while people wey dey hold remote dey control dem.. dey laf dia Delusion... I just pity my Igbo friends.. Kanu dong show us say plenty of Igbos no get sense.

If you want to look at this thing carefully you will see that it's just pure selfishness, they complained that they are marginalized, how? Na presidency be their problem? Yes na presidency, cos you won't tell me the ibos are restricted to be millionaires in this country.
Go to all the nooks and crannies of this country ibos are landlords.

That useless documentary for BBC say the southeast is badly developed I don't blame the presenter, can you compare the development in Uyo the capital of Akwa Ibom (the highest oil producing state as at now) to Jos? Or can you compare Calabar to Kaduna, go to the oil producing states and see if you can compare their development to the major cities in the north, yet they don't want secession.

Na the ppl wey no get shi shi they come dey make noise now, even if them restructure wetin them get? If na so them get why them no remain for their land.

All this ppl wey dey disgrace my ibo friends are not different from a winch wey wan chop her children.

Op you had better change the topic of your thread to "why do Nigerian "FOOLS" call girls how's"

Don't tell me in you area that's the only word you know to call girls.

Most times ppls tend to think others think and act like them.

NtoAkwaIbom:
brodaly
I just weakk, we never hear about the clown even for once for Aks politics... na so dat bleached he goat go brainwash am, as Ojukwu been brainwash him papa..

na him him mumu folo

pryme anytime u see party like dis, mbok Eyen Eka, folo invite me... I neva turn down an opportunity to whip some sense into these brainwashed Igbos.

Lol, just dey watch how them dey play fantasy football with Biafra

quid:

Another clownish act, what's relevance of this post from, what her name? It doesn't matter what's her name, she is not the one pulling the strings in this country.

It's been nice engaging your developing brain, I have better things to attend to.

onila:
when it came to me, they all gave me 0%

life is not easy
after all my hard-work

Oh sorry dear, try understand you don't need ppls rating to feel special,

Get off your self relevance ass and do something meaningful with your time

Ratings are by products for those striving for greater things.

etebefia:
seems I have been interacting with a kid

Yep, am too much for your inefficient brain to comprehend.

I will be here to remind you how deluded you guys are.

You will be the laughing stock of the Afonjas, you better succeed or else commit suicide.

Clowns.

etebefia:
you seem to have comprehension problem, read through my statement again, who cares if the so called Niger Delta joins biafra or not (let everybody answer his father's name), however for you to equate the opinion of a politician to that of the masses is pitiable on your side. Note that most south east governors also proclaimed their support to this your so called"one Nigeria" just for their selfish purpose.
Did I just read that the Niger Delta militants are enjoying their amnesty program? What a slap to Niger Deltans, so amnesty program is what they get for feeding Nigeria? While the north controls the oil blocks and the west houses the head offices of the oil companies thus high revenue.

The very thing you are ranting about was done by the politicians.
Don't tell you will carry a knife to a gun fight

The Drama keeps getting exciting, this comedy will keep entertained till the EPL starts

jaychubi:
Lol calling u a goat will be insult to goats

Na, you don't waste your energy trying to do that, cos you are just another hologram to me