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RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 8:26pm On Apr 15, 2015
shumuel:
i meant if you are feeling like having some ''Mental exercise'' and he is not around, just connect with him online.
Oh, gotcha!

You should get into relationship counselling, I see you have a passion for it. Are you married or in a relationship? Hope I'm not being intrusive, btw.
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 8:11pm On Apr 15, 2015
shumuel:
He is Aries now, they don't stay put always on the move, something you'd like very much only just that he wont be around much to play ''Mental exercise'' with you. You should do that online with him to help keep more closeness.
I'm not quite understanding the last line, What do you mean?
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 7:57pm On Apr 15, 2015
shumuel:
Yeah, very.
I guess you just wished you could be free as Wind for awhile.
Sometimes, yes. Marriage definitely isn't for everyone. It can be very suffocating at times. But fortunately for me, my husband is not up my ass 24/7. He has a life of his own, which I appreciate very much. Wouldn't be able to tolerate a man that acts like I've adopted him otherwise lol.
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 7:34pm On Apr 15, 2015
shumuel:
hmm... Can't ignore your Mentions, Please if i may ask Whats your Man's Star Sign
Hahaha. He's an Aries so we're compatible lol
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 4:22pm On Apr 15, 2015
Tashaamania:
I get your point. Not withstanding, I love it when I see young dads and mums you know, with their kids and people be like - wow, is this your kid or sibling?
I love the whole scenerio. embarassed

I was in church lastweek and couldnt help but admire a cute young dad and his two sons. If not for the ring he was putting on and the young lady I later got to notice was his wife, I could have sworn the kids were his cousins or something
Looks can be VERY deceiving. It's like a peacock, pretty to look at but I heard underneath all of that there's fleas, lice or whatever.

A friend of mine got married at 19 & she's now 28 I believe. Anyway, she's been carrying on this 5 year affair with another man she believes is her soul mate because he embodies the qualities that are important to her NOW. People change hence I'm stressing that young ladies out there should wait or they'll find themselves, years down the line, stuck in a nightmare. You will drift apart eventually I promise you. Waiting, wait, wait until you're 100 if that works for you.
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 4:03pm On Apr 15, 2015
Justfollowit:
I am sorry but I beg to disagree with on your basis for increase in divorce.

I doubt if early marriage contributes to one quarter of divorces

I will see if I can get a reference online
Not early marriage but marriage in general. You can't deny that marriages are breaking up daily because IMO, people get into it for the wrong reasons.
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 3:58pm On Apr 15, 2015
MzNelly:
Wow!

Thanks. smiley
smiley
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 3:57pm On Apr 15, 2015
Truckpusher:
Is it true that married women are all professional whiners? grin grin


I have a friend that goes home late and when I asked him he confided in me that his wife is a big pain in the assss and he has a bad temperament and the only way he can stay in the marriage is to hang out and avoid confrontation at all cost.How is he gonna be free from this psycho of a woman?

I told him to pay her off and leave the house for her but the cultural stigma attached to such scenario that a man left his house is what he is thinking about - I think he's losing it.
LMFAO. It's because men don't listen well. If you make a request now, they don't usually do it AS IN NOW. IMO, men are procrastinators & it's annoying, hence the nagging.
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 3:47pm On Apr 15, 2015
Truckpusher:
Gbam! tell them oh.

In my church if you see the way these girls that are in their late 20s and early 30s pray, you sef go think say God dey owe dem. grin grin
Hence the divorce rate is sky high. People just aren't ready for it mentally & emotionally. Marriage is for mature people who have found themselves & know exactly what they're looking for in a partner. In your 20s the reasons are most often superficial & dumb. Later on I think that's when you're able to look beyond certain things & make better choices because you've grown. Less shallow & deeper.
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 3:35pm On Apr 15, 2015
MzNelly:
So you regret it?

I think it's enviable too embarassed
Not totally but I'd advise anyone to wait. If I can do a do-over, I'd wait until I'm 100% percent certain that this is what I want. Believe me, how you reason at 21 is very different from how you reason at let's say 30. You change. It's inevitable. Your choices change too lol.
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 3:21pm On Apr 15, 2015
Tashaamania:
At 21?? shocked shocked. I'm jealous angry I always loved early marriages


Truckpusher, come and propose now!!!!! angry
Or are you waiting for me to hit menopause before you do? angry
It's nothing to be jealous about to be honest, because as a person you change a lot. You start to think that if maybe I should have waited a little longer, because marriage is not a stroll in the park & at a young age, most often, you're not equipped with the right tools emotionally to deal with the stress that comes with it so you may have regrets here & there. Plus let's not forget about "suspended childhood", because you decided to grow up too fast lol. It makes you feel like you've LIVED but not really lived if that makes sense lol.
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 12:53pm On Apr 15, 2015
cherryice:
Nice smiley
Thanks, love smiley
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 12:52pm On Apr 15, 2015
ronald4lif:
shocked and I was here hoping I've gotten myself an SA beauty. angry
Hehe.

The good ones get taken off the shelf fast wink 10+ years & counting. Married at 21 lol.
RomanceRe: What's Your Relationship Status? by PunkyOh(f): 12:42pm On Apr 15, 2015
Married.
RomanceRe: Things That Make Men Attractive To Women by PunkyOh(f): 5:34pm On Apr 14, 2015
WTF @ scars? Who wants to be with Chucky?
RomanceRe: hi by PunkyOh(f): 1:55pm On Apr 14, 2015
Nokiae5:
give me punkyho
No. Now bye.
RomanceRe: hi by PunkyOh(f): 1:54pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:
Lol
Hahaha.
RomanceRe: hi by PunkyOh(f): 1:52pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:
Wrong or sick
Both.
RomanceRe: hi by PunkyOh(f): 1:49pm On Apr 14, 2015
Nokiae5:
could you do that to me?? No be fight o
Do what?
RomanceRe: hi by PunkyOh(f): 1:45pm On Apr 14, 2015
Somehow it looks so wrong lol
RomanceRe: When Your Bf/gf Farts Beside You by PunkyOh(f): 1:04pm On Apr 14, 2015
kevinberry:
Are you trying to tell me that you did not see his message alert
I saw the message but I don't read them before I dismiss them. My prerogative.
RomanceRe: When Your Bf/gf Farts Beside You by PunkyOh(f): 12:58pm On Apr 14, 2015
kevinberry:
I ain't condemning him for sending you PM

What I don't understand is why he have to still quote you to tell you he sent you a PM..

Damn it girl,you ain't blind na...

You say it,it was right above you...

Damn it

“Self worth before anything”
Maybe he's the impatient type & needed to know what he was asking urgently. Who knows? Btw, this has nothing to do with self worth because it's relating to something general. Please free the poor guy lol.
RomanceRe: When Your Bf/gf Farts Beside You by PunkyOh(f): 12:49pm On Apr 14, 2015
kevinberry:
And here we go again

Same thing we guys keep complaining about...

Nigga you fvk up

*spits*
In his defense, it was nothing like what you're thinking. He simply asked me a question.
TV/MoviesRe: Who Are Your Best Romantic Couples From A Movie by PunkyOh(f): 12:45pm On Apr 14, 2015
Beauty (Belle) & The Beast.

Love that they argue but still respect, care & love each other.
RomanceRe: When Your Bf/gf Farts Beside You by PunkyOh(f): 10:58am On Apr 14, 2015
Tallesty1:
Easy nah, no be fight.

My point is, when people are really comfortable with you, they do weird things.

When a new gf wants to poo, she will say "I want to use the toilet".

But when she is really comfortable with you, she will say "I want to sh1t".

Your partner farting before you is nothing as long as it doesn't become a habit.

You that is saying this will also fart before him, don't tell me you will walk out or hold it, some farts cannot be held and there are ones I call surprise fart.

They come when they want and sometimes you may even wonder if you are the one that actually released it.
LOL, I'm not even fighting though. I'm just a passionate speaker. Anyway, "surprise farts" I can understand but intentional farting is a no no. To me it's all about manners, being a gentleman or lady & that shouldn't stop just because we're official aka in a relationship. It's like saying please or thank you. Basic courtesy. You wanna fart, go fart somewhere! Too much comfort & no mystery is one of the relationship/passion killers imo. Keep some things private. That's all I'm saying.

Btw, I do say I'm going to shìt too, only when I'm asked though, I don't just blurt it out like I have Aspergers Syndrome. He'll NEVER see me take an actual shìt though because that's private lol.
RomanceRe: When Your Bf/gf Farts Beside You by PunkyOh(f): 10:35am On Apr 14, 2015
Tallesty1:
You watch too much romantic movies and it is obviously doing you no good. If a woman I am dating farts in front of me, or feels free to do something else potentially embarrassing then it means I have made it to that comfortable point where it just doesn't make sense to hide things any more, and that feels pretty sweet.

Those guys you see in movies ain't that gentle and careful in real life.

They scratch their balls before their partners, they pick their nose, they fart and do anything else you deem embarrassing and passion killer. That is reality for you

If my gf farts before me then ama buy her a nice gift.

Farting b4 your partner is cool but make sure your farts ain't rat killers.
What does this have to do with watching romance movies? Didn't I just say *I* (ME) find it disrespectful & disgusting? Why would I want to smell somebody's fart anyway? We all have different comfort zones & *I* am NOT comfortable with someone tearing a fart around me. It's a turn off FOR ME. If that's cool with you then to each their own. It's that simple.
RomanceRe: When Your Bf/gf Farts Beside You by PunkyOh(f): 10:27am On Apr 14, 2015
Franzeez:
Hmmm. Why not check pls
Read it. No.

You're hot if that's you on the pic, btw tongue
RomanceRe: When Your Bf/gf Farts Beside You by PunkyOh(f): 10:23am On Apr 14, 2015
Franzeez:
Hmmm. Why not check pls
Ok.
RomanceRe: When Your Bf/gf Farts Beside You by PunkyOh(f): 10:17am On Apr 14, 2015
Franzeez:
Hey I sent you a Pm
Ok. Not trying to be rude but what is it about?
RomanceRe: When Your Bf/gf Farts Beside You by PunkyOh(f): 10:13am On Apr 14, 2015
These kind of things are passion killers for me. I find it disrespectful & disgusting. Just because we're in a relationship doesn't mean you must lack manners & turn into a gross pig. No nose picking or farting in my presence, please. Privacy is sexy.
RomanceRe: Does Love REALLY Conquers All? by PunkyOh(f): 9:51am On Apr 14, 2015
It'd would depend on WHEN the pregnancy happened. Was it when we were together or before we got together, because there's NO WAY I'm trusting him again if he got somebody else pregnant while in a relationship with me. End of.

It's not even about love but health reasons. What sane guy goes around sleeping with different people without using protection, in this day & age? Love can go to hell, I'd rather be healthy. Meaning he has to go because he poses a risk to my health. I can't stand stùpid people like that.
SportsRe: Tee Morgan, Reaches The North Pole (The First Nigerian To Ever Reach There) by PunkyOh(f): 7:39pm On Apr 13, 2015
all4naija:
Bwahaha... Who is Mr Ibu?
I don't know.

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