₦airaland Forum

See Wahala..
Then what is your own?

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

SS3 and you are pregnant? What if you enter university?

Tripitaka:

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

They did nothing wrong for having sex ahbi? So Fornication is no longer a sin and a taboo?

Ebonyi..!!
Let me not say anything.

sexylassie2:
Many of you are walking corpses but you don't know.

Lagos is the new Wuhan.

In my office, We are all working from home till the virus is contained.

It's not your fault sha. I blame MTN for allowing freebasics.

Asiwaju is indeed a Leader. Much Respect.

dominique:
So she should abandon her child because of her husband abi what is this one saying?

How would you feel if your mother had dumped you with relatives to suffer because of a man? Her child is her primary responsibility, marriage is secondary.

She have two choices.
Either she quit the marriage and take care of her 3 children + the unborn, or she trace the relatives of that child and send him to them while staying happily in her new matrimonial home.

CeterisXVII:
Why don't you people read the story and go through all the different pages, before commenting? The boy's father abandoned her and left for Italy. She doesn't know where his relatives are now located....

Does that make sense to you?
She don't know where his relatives are ahbi?

Vyvyanvyvy:
It took me almost 3 weeks because I was trying to compromise with my husband but he made up his mind that he doesn’t want to see him here so I also made up my mind to go and bring him this Sunday. Sunday it’s the best day because I don’t go to work and my brother and his family will also be at home and I want to thank and appreciate both of them for everything they did for him and leave with my son in peace

Be rest assured that bringing that child to your husband house will bring you no good.

Madam unless your son is a bastard or illegitimate child, then you should trace his father where ever he is and send the child to him.
The child deserve a better life.
But if u insist on bringing the child to your new matrimonial home after your husband CLEARLY told you he doesn't want the child in his household, then believe me you'll ruin your marriage.

Many of you will foolishly blame Ganduje on this. Whatever happened to Sanusi, he brought it upon himself. As a traditional ruler, he should have not engage himself in partisan politics.

Many of you will foolishly blame Ganduje on this. Whatever happened to Sanusi, he brought it upon himself. As a traditional ruler, he should have not engage yourself in partisan politics.

GeneralPula:
She’s got a pretty smile..

God dey sha!

My brother u no well.

OP what are u saying?
I de craze ni?!

Girlwhocares:
I get irritated at everything, I hardly show appreciation towards him even if it means he has done his best, which later i will find myself guilty and try to make up but the spark and connection isn't just there.

Most times, I have a non-challant attitude towards him and everything he does to make me happy.

I feel lonely, bored and incomplete even when I'm 90% sure my husband loves me and always ready to make me happy.

I feel awkward communicating my feelings and thoughts to him because I know I might flare up with anger even when he hasn't done or said anything to warrant it.

Sounds like you dont have an iota of feelings towards him, why do you agree to marry him in the first place?

Firestarrr:
As shared by a Facebook user, building where Lord Lugard signed Nigeria's amalgamation in Zungeru is in ruins.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10217730714513832&id=1059721649&refid=17&_ft_=mf_story_key.10217730714513832%3Atop_level_post_id.10217730714513832%3Atl_objid.10217730714513832%3Acontent_owner_id_new.1059721649%3Aoriginal_content_id.10220726116933797%3Aoriginal_content_owner_id.1563043771%3Athrowback_story_fbid.10217730714513832%3Aphoto_id.10220726116733792%3Astory_location.4%3Aattached_story_attachment_style.photo%3Athid.1059721649%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1583049599%3A-9035945265241658434&__tn__=%2AW-R&_rdr



https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/125291-zungeru-town-of-amalgamation-in-shambles.html

I dont even know what to say about this.
Two different region of different people, with different beliefs, culture and tradition, mores and values. There is completely no point of being together.

dre11:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/cruel-betrayal/

This so called wife have really bleeped up big time. This is the worst betrayal that a human can do to his fellow human.

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What you need to know about the hausa fulani girls is that there is this culture among their society which gives them special care from their family members not only from their parent. Women are treated like queens. When an average hausa-fulani girl is born, it is the duty of her family to provide her with all that she needs until the time she is married. When she is married, it comes the duty of her husband and at old age the duty is transfered to her children. Through out their lives, care upon care from the day they are born to the time they died. Moreover, Hausa Fulani girls are nomally questioned when ever they are seen with money or any material stuff that they aquar from a source that is outside their family members. To an average hausa fulani family, it is a shameful thing to let their daughter to take care of her needs, let alone taking care of the family. Anyway this culture of theirs, originates from the Religion (Islam) which they mostly follow.

You gaht it right. And that makes our women to be unique and modest.

Trulydude:
https://punchng.com/domestic-accident-keeping-me-away-from-taraba-ishaku/

What is this one saying?
They don't have any FMC or Teaching Hospital or a good private hospital that can take care of the Governor?

Racoon:
https://dailypost.ng/2020/02/20/abba-kyari-vs-monguno-buhari-recognises-his-chief-of-staff-as-deputy-president-ex-emir-of-gwandu/

It's so sad to see that both the NSA and Abba Kyari are from same state. Why the noise? I think it will look much matured if they settle the issues between them without attracting public attention.