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jennykadry: True though, even nurses here earn more than some doctors in Nigeria. A called in surgeon here could earn 8000-10,000 dollars per day after operating on 2-3 patients, but the ones in naija are there wasting away.

The 2-3k doctors earn here per day is for those that work in A &E work only, if you get more complicated issues that requires theatre, your pay automatically doubles. A gynae that just relocated here was almost in tears when he told us how much his friend who has more experience than him earns in naija. So sad....

You must be talking about Australia

jennykadry: Lol. Medical doctors in this generation and in westernized countries earn heaps. Money aside, you have to love the profession first and not the money. Loving medicine will take you to places in life.

Now to the money issue, there is money for doctors here and in other westernized countries. All you need do is, take your family for a week's vacation to some other town and earn $2000 per day(if they are desperate they make it 3000) in your locum work. When you are done working for 5- 6 days you will be smiling with a little over $15k that week. Accommodation, flight/transport, feeding etc all paid for, all you need do is just show up.

Study medicine cos it's from your heart and not cos you want the money and name it "would" bring to you. Your passion for medicine will open the right channel.

Pardon my errors, I'm mobile

Pardon my ignorance, $2,000 per day doing what?

heed101: She loves you and she is only helping the guy. Don't discourage her from helping. I can sense she has a strong feeling for u. Don't lose her because if you do, you may not see someone like her again

If you follow this advise then you will remain a fool for life! For start, you set up yourself for heart break by playing second fiddle to a girl with a bf. She's not bad, just a confused girl that's in love with a loser. Better start toasting others girls before you hurt yourself further. Ain't you tired already of the torture she's putting you through?

Bro she's testing you, try not to fail the test

Move on pretty!...If it will make you feel better, tell to join 'NASA' to experience space he sorts.

Sweetlemon: Ladies please don't mind all these guys here saying good character. Tomorrow, these same guys will complain about going out of their minds with boredom when they marry a Mother Theresa who cannot even turn him on!
Truth is that they are EQUALLY important. The only thing that can be compromised is good cooking cos you can always get a cook. However that depends on your hubby cos some men would prefer eating their wives' food even if they don't say it.
So you had BETTER learn a good portion of all three

You're one fine mama...you married?

A song can make you like an otherwise average artiste.

I highlighted "I like girls", Dammy Krane killed that sound with some support. It's witty, funny with good beat.

Wizkid is gold, you should know that.

Wacks: Vic O, Darlington something , D Prince, K-switch, Konga, Shina Rambo etc

Favourites: Dammy Krane especially "I like girls", Wande Cole, Wizkid, Psquare, Duncan Mighty, Terry G (oops! )

Iniesta should be the best player in the world right now. He's ridiculously good.

^^ You're quite right Ogugua he's very business savvy, and unbelievable work ethic too. When he talks business
you can clearly see he's in his zone.

BTW, do you like the guy your mum found for you?

Opinions here make me laugh...seem her damage control strategic worked.Play the victim to get public sympathy.
I don't see Chris Okotie as a true pastor but he was married for 14 years the first time and that says a lot.
Whereas I can't say same for his second wife whose older sister is also not officially married. I see a pattern.

So we should not be quick to judge or conclude who was at fault as women can be very unpredictable.

He's an office man and got an high position so weather is no issue.

Op I would have advised you to ignore her but the situation is to your advantage. Why? She has learned
albeit the hard way that the grass is not always greener at the other side. I will advised same if you were
my brother. She's more mature and will adore you. Cheers.

@Acidosis is correct http://www.sudantribune.com/Sudan-s-capital-gripped-in,41358

Good point kodewrita

@Op

Source please?

I'm usually an apostle of not going back to exes but this case is different. A year is a long time for him to change.
If it were earlier, I would have advised you to be weary. However, I still think you guys are different and this may come
back to bite you in future. Try pray over it.

It's still your decision to make as women are not wired logically.

Godspeed!!!

@La Parisienne

You seem well put together to me. And since you got other things going for you and the fact that you are still quite young I don't think should
bother too much about finding 'the one'. In due time he will come. Good luck.

BTW, What's your take on older men?

It seem you have read a lot of occultic and spiritual books. So can you give me your take on Islam as a religion?

BTW, stop telling people here to kneel down sounds so funny

Covered by the blood of Jesus.

Can you tell the country I live?

cicero:
Friend, it could be the best thing you ever did for your family, but just as you have to work smartly to achieve results in your present job, you need to do same and more to take this step.
If you are lazy and don't want to kick it, then don't.
If the indiscipline in Nigeria has become so 'concretized' in your person that you won't try to change, then don't.
If you are typical about women's role and status both in the family and society, then don't.
If you are and impulsive spender and you are not ready to change, then don't.
If you intend to be so occupied chasing money and other achievement while the tv raise your children, then don't
If sleeping with white women and African American ladies is your life-long dream and you must realize it, then don't
If you must not accept the fact that moving to America requires some fundamental changes that will test your endurance and intelligence, then don't.
Friend if you are willing to and you are sure destiny is beckoning you there, don't listen to anybody, just go. American is better than Nigeria in 1,000,001 ways.

Spot on brother!. . . You're surely a thinker. Stay bless.

This guy is obviously lying, that was a registry not naming ceremony

oyb:
all these women getting their knickers in a twist

where were they when alicia keys stole swizz beats from his wife?

You are quite current and liberal with what you read for a Muslim. A married Muslim for that matter. . . really impress.

I admire Mercy Johnson for her talent and her person too. . . humble girl. However, I think she got this wrong.

The bible frowns against marrying someone whose spouse is still alive except she's not a Christian then is understood.

I'm not judging her but this marriage won't be favored by the Almighty.

Never knew there is a thread for MFM members. I remember my time there. It was intense and found it strange initially but thoroughly enjoyed it later.
I became house fellowship leader in just 6 months of membership. Oh I was fervent, lots of fasting and prayers without food for 3-7 days. My spiritual life was perfect, got the gift of dreams and interpretation which is almost gone now. Though I slacked a bit now but sometimes get into that zone.

My God continuing to guide us.

tlop you really went this far to get my attention? Anyways you got it congrats!

Toba good to know you are equally level headed but guy here don't have money like the OP.

Toba yes you are a good looking chick and like what I see  
However, I also value character. . . alot.

Toba is the you on your profile?

I admire your gut as I wouldn't or rather can't upload my pic here. You know facebook is for friends unlike a blog like NL.

BTW, You need too eat less.

We are saying same thing. . . google it and see for yourself. Haba! Help yourself, this is a driller's thread and besides Okeyz made it known that he worked as a Asst. drilling supervisor.

^ Man you have been told your relevance why not do the research on the pains and gains.
Most youth these days just like to be spoon fed sha. This question is unfair to Okeyz.