Wow!m wet already.waiting for more......

Lexoria: Men should grow up,there is nothing like an african marriage and responsibilities.The BIBLE also talked about loving your wife and if you love her,your thought should be with calming her anger not with her dishing ur food.Meanwhile,why can't most nigerian be domestic?My hubby dishes his food when he wants to eat and doesn't want to disturb me.I can even ask him to help me boil rice or cook something when I have to rush to somewhere or He gets home before I do and I might take some time to get back and he doesn't complain,he sees it as division of labour since we are both adults and he didn't employ a househelp instead he married a helpmate,a partner.He would even shower one kid while I dress the other.Someone would say its because he's been living abroad for a while but truth is African men need to change their mentality of thinking their wife is their housegirl and assume some responsibility in their home,its also his home.I cant punish my hubby by not dishing food for him cos I know he'll do it himself.Anyway,to his their own.

God bless u my sister.its just nigerian mentality.we really need to grow up.if u do that to my hubby,he won't see it as a punishment though i can't do it bt we really need to grow up.

betrani: the account given by the police inspector or who eva it was, is not convincing at allllllllll it doesnt hold water, someone at waec and the police connived to kill this guy and are tryin to fool us here, i neva hear say elavator d stop midway btw floors. choi c bigger lie which elevator is so constructed to leave gaps around it na bridge themd take climb enter the floors of d buildin abi?

most of these elevators are old nd need replacement nd it is also very possible for anelevator to stop midway wen its faulty.it has happened to me once at state secretariat building in ph.its just non-challancy of our leaders dat is bringing dis problem upon us.i dnt knw if anytin has been done abt dat elevator till date nd everyday pple mk use of it and their lives are endangered.dis is just not fair.d blood of dat man shud cry for justice. i just hate d thought of dis bt may his soul rest in peace.

freecocoa: Are you saying its not good as well? Cos i wonder how one can make love when angry .

@freecocoa,u really need to try out sex wen u r angry,hmmm its really fun.


Did i just say dat?never mind

amirize: Hey do not tell ur uncle or your relatives, family members, they cant help u ok.
Rather tell God, pray and seek HIM, HE will heal ur disease, HE has done it to others, HE can heal u too. Confide in people, pastors connected to God with gifted healing anointing so they pray wit u ok. Be positive and continue with the job processing, u never cant tell, not a big deal for God to do supernatural things ok. Make up your mind for healing from God and pursue it till you get it... Dont take any negative words or advise from nairaland posters...

@op that's right.telling ΰя family nd d world at large means dat u hv accepted d illness.where is ΰя faith?Refuse dis illness nd be positive.pray like neva b4 nd i believe that d almighty God will avenge u speedily.Miracles happen unless u dnt believe in them.

rokiatu:

My dad is dead. My husband can if he wants to.

d truth is most fathers will nt want to live in their children's houses.its always mothers that seek such comfort.i will welcome my parents nd parents-inlaw anyday for visitation for any period of time but won't buy d idea of staying permanently bt will take care nd cater for them wherever they are.

saska1122: I wish Nigerian girls are realistic.
More than 50% will go back and say YES once there is a change in economic status.
Upto 30% of the ladies will even find a way of making the guy interested if the guy was no more interested even sometimes offer apologies for turning down the initial offer.

It is only in Nigeria that a NO does not mean a NO in relationship.

u all r only condemning nd criticising d gurls,forgetting that some dated guys wen they had nothing nd were dumped wen they became rich.its a 2-way tin here bt all d same @op is right,u cnt ear ΰя cake nd have it bck after its gone.if am d guy,i will mess u up so badly.

hbabe: ^^ lol
Stringent measures!

@OP
Just let her know that her 'daily' weight gain bothers you and help her plan a diet/exercise programme.
All she needs is to reduce her food intake and exercise more. Boredom can make some people eat more than normal.

Please don't run away, marriage na 'for better for worse'; instead of running away stay back and help make her a better person.

On point.

Na waa o.For NL again?

If free rides was that dangerous,then alm$ost all corpers shud be dead cos dats wat they depend  most times.free rides is nt limited to gurls ,guys r also involved.

dapo338: It is not advisable to jump into un known guy's car because it might be sometimes dangerous, but depending on ur mood, u might try it if u like the guy or sometime, there is an adage which says if we close our eyes to allow bad guys to pass, gud onces will pass too un detected. Wish u luck.... I lifted a lady back in the days which she is now my wife with children.

. U see wat i mean?its nt always harmful bt u hv to be careful too.

Wen my spirit accepts d offer i enter bt if it doesn't i dnt enter.i hv accepted such offer b4 nd found out dat d man stays on d same street with me and that made us friends.so its harmful nd equally harmless.

He came visiting with a family friend nd wat was said as a joke transformed to reality.

Good for u>next time dnt get drunk