We are not quarelling.i told him if that is what he thinks of me,it's okay.i try my best not to quarell with him even when there should be one,i avoid it by keeping quiet.

Thanks kulyie,slimyem and ileobatojo.@jellitah,my hubby will neva hit a woman.like slimyem said,i believe its a misunderstanding.maybe cos he had a tough time with some relatives when he came to make his intention of marrying me known to them.but all that is past now and they always come to visit us  help out when i need somewhere to drop my baby. they have even forgotten abt that but he keeps bringing it up and hates d thought of me going to see them and forgets it was same house he saw me b4 he married me.he is from a wealthy family.

i had a brief argument with my husband about him always wanting me to associate with his family members and not associate with my family members.the argument heated up to a point that i told him that a woman's family is always there to assist when help is needed more than a man's family but to my shock a man i have been married to for a year plus now, told me that i wish for his downfall so he can come running to my family.this is a man i pray with every morning and night for God to bless his career and us as a family,so how can i possibly wish his downfall?this is weird.

i will try to post more recent pix.he's so cute.

Ileke-IdI:


Half Chinese?

we r both nigerians nd he was given birth to here in naija.pple keep asking if he was born in america,amerika ko china ni.

My beautiful son at 8days.my boy looks like half-caste bt his oda pix refused to upload.

Eze Promoe: My conditions for dating a workmate:

1. She must come from a rich family. So that I don't spend my salary buying Japanese Brazilian hair

2. You must be beautiful. So that when I begin to see you in my dreams I will not be shouting, 'Blood of Jesus'

3. You must not be admired by the boss not to talk of having an affair with him. So that my days will not be numbered in that office.

LOL.dat means u can't be with smone like me cos u may commit suicide.i admire my hubby's courage nd pray dat wen i start working soon,he will be able to handle d challenges ahead.i mean attention from men most especially d boss.Note:i tell him everytin.

He promised to see me wen he comes bck 2 naija by march.i dnt tink i will feel anytin cos i really love my husband so so much.

saint22: Is nairaland for only lagosians?which forum is for portharcourt residence.

bros,tnx o.i wanted to ask same question.pls those residing in ph,post some jobs too.we r equally job hunting.plsssS....

All these men are claiming kingdom husbands.my husband is kinda an autocratic husband and partly a kingdom husband.though i pray&believe God that he will fully become a kingdom husband cos i love him. All these men are claiming kingdom husbands.my husband is kinda an autocratic husband and partly a kingdom husband.though i pray&believe God that he will fully become a kingdom husband cos i love him.

My favorite movies then was Like Mike and seven lucky kids.hmmn,good old days!

slimyem: He's my friend's fiance,and the only child to his mum,who will do anything for him.
He doesn't have a job but his mum wants him to get married.

His Mum loves my friend,gives her pocket money, buys her stuff,call her and do all other assumed responsibilities of the fiance asides intimacy.

When she sensed my friend wasn't comfortable coming to visit the guy in her house,she rented a 3-bedroom apartment for him and equipped it.She's responsible for EVERYTHING in the house, and even gives my girlfriend money to cook food for her son if she isn't able to send food stuff and ingredients down.

Whenever the guy is broke,he calls mummy and she responds.Though he says he's trying to make money but his avenues are not clear-cut.trying to land contracts and hanging around political god-fathers.

A date has being fixed for introductions and an assumed wedding date already.

What kind of a husband would he be because technically he's nothing without his mum?
My friend is worried and so am i for her.

hmmmn..wat a world.i wud hv been a victim of same circumstance bt i ran as fast as my legs cud carry me wen i had d chance.today,m haPpily married.in my own case,i advised myself cos no one knew wat i was passing thru.make ΰя friend understand dis is a lifetime issue.marriage is nt smtin u enter wt a shallow mind.u hv to b fully prepared for d consequences of ΰя action.d guy will not change except he decides within himself to.mummy will always b relied upon to foot all bills.she just has to make up her mind.

I met a girl bck then at d uni.we became good friends nd l8r discoverd we were born on same day.during exams period,i lost her phone nd she insisted i pay for it.that kinda created a rift btw us bt its been 6yrs nd we stil keep in touch.

Good work girl.

9jasexy,Thank God u r back.More grease to ur elbow.

lashontae: ^
Please, help me say it again. HE IS ON A BREAK FROM MY FORMER ROOMMATE!

I'm not worried about him cheating with me. I'm only worried about playing with the enemy's toy. Especially since she grovelled and begged (like the sorry slut she is) for him not to leave her. He said he got tired of her possesiveness.
Anyways, haven't seen him yet. I'm fattening him up for the slaughter.
Men abound everywhere but right now, I got appetite for that dude alone. You would too if you were to set eyes on him.
Lol!

Since u r not bothered abt him cheating on u,no problem.but i want u to have at d back of ur mind dat all those stories d guy has been telling u abt ur former roommate&himself cud be all fabricated lies just to get inbtw ur legs bt if u dnt mind,go ahead nd knw dat "God is watching u on 3D".lol

Sagamite:

Stop chatting shyt!

If you are being fooled or oppressed by someone that is telling you fibs about how much he gets, that does not mean you should come online to demonstrate your gullibility and idiocy.

Your hearsay is not a reliable source!

Fucktards like amosy007 can believe you if you claim they are paid N75m per month but you have to realise that online, you will meet Nigerians with better brains and education that will not tolerate beer parlour facts. You think everyone is a person like amosy007?

Sagamite or whateva u r called,i can tell that u r actually d person and crazy one here.Even if they r being paid 60k as we were told on news,hw many graduates working 4 private companies r paid upto that amt?how much is d Nysc allowance of graduates?U just sit there and spill rubbish from ur mouth.i wish i will be given an opportunity to address d government of this country.i will tell them things that will mk them weep for their generations unborn.

Anoda wet story.keep it coming sexylady!

llullipup: Good Morning

Is it right for me to employ my ex-girlfriend to work for me in my company? I dated her for five years but we never made love , we just kissed.

I want to employ her and i have no feelings for her again because i am in love with my beauty angel

Is this a good decision?

pls,dnt employ her but help her get another job OR one day u will find urslef being tempted to touch.i as a girl will nt work wt smone dat had feelings for me or smone i hv feelings for.if my boss even starts developing feelings for me,i run wit my life.u can give d job to me instead.‎​​​​​​‎​‎​​​​ ‎​‎​‎​​​​​​=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))...

SANCTO: My fellow Nlanders, God is the ultimate in terms of getting a good Job. I got my own Job exactly 9 months after my POP. Initially I was worried because among my friends, I was the only one left without Job some months after my POP. It was when I realized that my future is in God's hand and that idleness is sin that I ran back to God while doing a teaching job at one private school at Port Harcourt. With wage bill of 10k per month,out of which i pay monthly rent of 3k and I survived with the rest.

To cut the long story short, the miracle happened on the 23rd of December 2008. When my name appeared on the dailies. This was the beginning of my divine turn around.

Am earning a fat salary, bought a car and bought a land at the choicest part of the town.

I want to use this medium to advise job seekers not to depend on uncles' promises because this nearly ruined my life.

After my NYSC, I decided not to go back to the village. I rented an apartment at PH. stay in the city because there are more opports there dan villa.

Also challenge God by sowing seed (if you believe) and blessing the poor so that you come out of poverty.

i believe so much in sowing seeds nd d trauma of being jobless smtimes make u withdraw into urself.i was also a victim of promises from pple nd i relied so much on it such dat wen it failed,i was really hurt.i believe God will do it very soon.

femi4: It took me 11 months, and when the job finally came, I was in a dilemma of choosing between two offers. Even in your job search, always remember that "The race is not always to the swift"

i key into ΰя testimony o.i pray everytin turns double double for me too.

He has d right to be worried joor.m still searching too nd its 2yrs now.

mcnepow:
Davo u try, tho I had sent to frankik n flaxo.
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Wish una success oo. Wonder what company the recruitment is for. . . Anyone got an idea?

pls send d material to pweetymama@gmail.com

i don't know what to say but u r really gifted.try this out as novel.it will surely make headway!thanks for d story.

naijasexy: Okay before I post the next one, I wanna make sure I am carrying everyone along.

Was/is anyone else shocked/lost like freecocoa?

m not just lost but speechless!dis is an abomination!kAI!

WoW!m loving this.So its Odessa nd cindy's father.but wat did cindy write in her diary dat is so important?