My immediate younger bro had same issue wen we were younger.d smell grew worse dat once he is in a room,u can percieve it.he carried it for years,till it became unbearable.Mum took him to an ENT doctor and insisted on a flush for both d nose n ear.she told us that there was all sorts of rubbish that came out from d flush and they were rotten thereby causing d smell.pls,insist on a flush from an ENT.U neva can tell.

worriedhusband:
Dear Nairalanders,

My heart is very heavy as I write this. I'm a member of this forum but I purposely created this username for this issue as I want to remain anonymous. Im not the type that discuss my problems in the public but what is happening is beyond me and I need your help.

My wife and I got married May 2012 and I was the happiest man on earth on that day. Many prayers were offered concerning our fruitfulness and not in our slightest imagination did we think that we will have problem with having children. As God will have it my wife missed her period the following month and did pregnancy test to confirm and it was positive. Our joy knew no bound. I immediately gave her “holiday” from any form of domestic activities. She immediately registered for ante-natal. She has been attending the ante-natal for about 8 weeks when the doctor decided it was time to do the ultrasound. The ultrasound was done and it was discovered that the fetus was measuring a lesser length than it should measure, 5 weeks or thereabout. Also the heart beat was not seen. The doctor said the pregnancy was not viable.

It was a very sad day for both of us but I managed to console her, we even went to another hospital to confirm but the same result was given. She later went to the hospital for evacuation of the pregnancy.

To cut the story short, we have had four other pregnancies that the fetus did not develop. The fetus will always develop to maximum of 7 weeks and stop developing. She has taken Progesterone injection so many times without any significant result. I’ve researched a little bit and the result I found was recurrent miscarriage. This has been a great concern for us and I'm always afraid whenever wifey is pregnant that the same thing will happen (what should be a thing of joy for us has now become a nightmare).

The pain she goes through at each evacuation is something that brings tears to my eyes and I sometimes wish she is not even pregnant so we will not go through the same cycle.

My fellow Nairalanders, please help us out, any medical advice or other things we can do to overcome this challenge will be appreciated. Please if you have gone through this before or have any information that can help kindly offer it, don’t just read and go on. We belief in our God and we focus on Him as the doer of all things but we need medical or any other advice (nothing fetish) that can help.

We live in the Southwest (Not Lagos).

My wife is now 30 while i'm 34 Years old.

I dnt know if smone has mentioned this before me.pls,wat is ur wife's blood group?if she is a negative,then that's d problem.there is an injection which should be taken after every miscarriage or delivery.She should go for a test if she is nnt sure of her blood group.
I have a friend who had same issue.she had 3 miscarriages before she realised d problem but today she has a beautiful baby girl.I pray God answers u speedily.All d best.

Nicklaus:
Dunce on a sip, this is what history looks like in her school a wasted semen. She probably doesn't know d meaning of LOL, she is hurting and LOLing First Class ELAMI I even overrated u for recommending 2go, a phoneless you ll be more impactful to ur parents, you shud be preparing for common entrance. Anyway this is what ur parents should get for sending u to a mushy pry skul at d back of nowhere . Bleep-ing Ill-bred Strumpet !

E dey pain u?LOL again.M actually enjoying every bit of dis.Even d mushy pri sch better pass ur current situation.Oswor! coming online to vomit rubbish!U want to judge odas,abi?MR KNOW-IT-ALL.Thank God u talked of ur stupidity cos ur existence is actually a wasted effort.See ur life dangling from an electric pole!I know ur mum must have considered abortion wen pregnant with u,SLOWPOKE!Oya,GO HUG TRANSFORMER!

Wow!Good man!God will bless not just ur family but ur generation!

Nicklaus:
hahahahahahahahahahahahaha! See insult For ur mind o. I.diotFucktardZooRetardUseless and what again ooo but you mumu sha,,, so this is ur definition of insult, trust me it's sheer out pour of stupidity on my part, I ll be kind to call you a solecistic twit. U started with the insult tho I happened to enjoy it, trust me I ll give u the benefit of ur stolidity but until then I just want you to realize you how pathetically puerile you are. What are u doing here again Damnit! U shud be on 2go

LOL.See yaba left ESCAPEe!Ehhnn,u just told me ur life history!2go children,go on ur playmates are waiting for u!IMBECI.LE!

Nicklaus:
who gives a shyt whether you are man or not Beautiful women don't make noise. did u say u laughed Who cares u are probably in a comic trance it's a pity your fish brain couldn't process my quote, and who made a comparism of foreign nd home prison Gosh! you are even wrong phones aren't allowed in foreign prison unless smuggled in. The only thing is they are allowed to make monitored calls at a limited time in the prison. So spare me the idealistic foreign land perfection. If the husband of the woman in question was in prison, he stood a chance to say "hello my wife am in prison" and if u missed the part that the op said he sends money, perhaps you can as well come up with another story or a list of available jobs in prison ILLITERATE!. Who cares about ur pix, haven't I seen enough ? SMART wOMAN hahahaha

If u actually go around insulting people,m so so sorry for ur life.A pity I.DIOTS still exist!USELESS FOO.L AND F.UCKTARD!Ur mates are iin d Zoo.U better go n join them.RETA.RD!See d MU.MU looking for every reason to judge odas,wen u r not even sure of d real situation of d man in question.HOLY PASS pple!D man's wife inn question,will neva tell it all cos she is nt a fool.INEXPERIENCED GOATs looking for who to advice. And if U think u can go about insulting people,bring it on,let me finish wats left of ur miserable life.OSWOR!

ekwulex:


Really? U must be single. So what happens when the woman has health issues and cannot have sex for a certain period ( eg. high risk pregnancy or just put to bed and need the body to heal)? So the marriage would come to an end or u'll cheat? What if the man has some health issues that has reduced his ability to perform sexually? The woman should leave or cheat?
I see too many singles having sex too often with their boy/girl friend as though they are married, and I think this is where all these problems stem from, when they get married and face realities of life, they just can't cope.
Is sex an important activity in marriage? O yes! Very very important. Is sex all it needs for a marriage to survive? Hell no!. Even people who have sex with their patners everyday still find time to cheat, so sex on its own can never satisfy. Do you want to know what makes a man/ woman stay faithful? Self discipline and respect for your patner.
Please please please! To all the single men and women out there, don't go into marriage with the wrong notion that sex is what would keep your partner, or without constants sex you woulnt remain in the marriage. I love u all

Excellent response.The kind of response coming from both guys n ladies is actually alarming.they believe marriage is all about sex.if no sex,u die.Seriously,Wahala dey o!

Nicklaus:
Yea you should change your mode of reasoning and understanding bcoz you left out the part that they are in phone contact. Anything else Man pretending to be a woman.

I just looked at ur comment n I laughed.Its such a pity that pple with such negative mentality still exist.Foreign prison is nt like nigerian prison where u can't make calls.And also a pity cos I am not just a woman but a very beautiful n smart one at that.I took off my pix cos smone advised me to,bt if u decide to decieve urself that I am a man,CHEERsss!

Nicklaus:
Even if she could she shouldn't , No decent man ll leave a woman in a place without so much as a visit for 8 years without having sth he depends on for consolation. We are talking about a woman who is married here and not a virgin.

hello!hv u cconsidered d fact dat d man could be in jail or hv some oda serious problem dat might not hv enabled him to come home?Everything is not all about infidelity my friend.let's change our mode of reasoning.

missmalachi:


U sound more as though u dnt work on rig.ur version of rig life is so diff 4rm every rig worker I knw.am nt just married to one,i hv many around me n yet they hv der time off n no one call on them except they decided 2 freelance during der time off.

Not me dear but hubby.I did nt want to mention any company but so u cann verify urself,ask any one whose hubby works with schlumberger as an engineer wat its like.its not like u r not entitled to ur off days,but even wen u r observing it,u can be callled upon at any time.those that operate with specific timing are either expats or international staffs.I know total,agip n some oda oil servicing companies operate on fixed days on n days off bt so many odas dnt.

breakeven:

this is rubbish, sex is the first thing in marriage.remove sex and marriage will collapse.

Bros,i hail o.With dis ur mentality,wahala dey o.sex is not n will neva be d 1st tinn in marriage.With wat u r saying,God forbid u hv an accident n lose ur manhood,marriage don finish be dat o.it is well o.

AgapeCharis:
A zillion likes for you!!

thanks dear

Rayhut:
Nigerians we pretend alot and like to use religious belief to cover up, those who are saying by grace couples can stay apart for long without sex is just story story, no married man or woman fit stay without sex for three months., they be fire wood. Come to alade market here in ikeja and see how women are rushing th intimacy gadget they call rabbit. In nigeria we live in secrecy and self denial. .is either they masturbate or have a service boy., for men they maybe patronizing love pedlars

hello dear,u lie big time.its dis mentality dat will make u cheat.wen u feel life is all about sex.As I talk to u,hubby has been away for a month+.I believe d love I hv for my famiily supercedes sex.I get admiration from guys everyday but to me my hubby is more than enough.Even if its a day I spend with him,I cherish it a lot.So dearie,its not all about sex except u make ur marriage so.

missmalachi:


From ur previous comments, u sounded as though offshore worker spend eternity away.d number of days u ar offshore is d number of days u go on break except for d freelancers or ppl who hv diff plans.

Not true dear.not all companies operate dat way.Ours is not certain.Infact,u can be called upon from ur days off to go to rig.Dats where our source of livelihood comes from,so u dnt hv a choice dear.Dis thread has actually aroused some thoughts in me.Why will a man be out there stressing himself for hiis family,while the woman is sleeping around with d money?sounds really digusting n stupid.

kika23:


It's not easy at all, some women are stronger than some , so also are some men stronger than others but there is a limit to what a certain person can take. OK! The person you know that has stayed out for about 8 years.... She has just one kid. Yea? So for 8 years the husband has been faithful and has stayed without sexual intercourse? Or the wife? Well, impossible is nothing but it's difficult. I doubt it!

one thing u should always understand is that women have stronger will power than men.they can easily resist infidelity except for d wayward ones.Even if d man is away for 20yrs.My hubby is a rig worker n as for me,m used to it.I was not promiscous as a single girl and dnt see any reason why I should be as a married woman.

God will heal ur sis.Pls get daily manna prayer book n meditate daily wt her.Encourage her that she can pull thru this.don't entertain fear at all.We serve a living God.
Let me encourage u wt my own little testimony.Just last month,I nearly lost my daughter but God in his infinite mercy restored her life thru d prayers of people I dnt knw.I knw cancer is a difficult one,bt God can heal all ailments.Just believe

I will send my own little quota tomorrow bt will send more wen hubby returns.Be strong!

Got same bt in ph n think its a scam.

just try it once.moreover,is it only at night people have {s}ex,,, bikonu?

bosun11:



i cant take oats at night nah....kilode...dis red meat wey i see dey vex me ooo

Quaker oats is very good for men.it increases libido and sperm production. Try it and thank me later.

i sent my cv to u now.i stay at woji.if u need me to come in person,let me know.

arimahoseloka: aunty the 700 Na 4 sewing alone. just bring d material and they will sew marvelously 4 u. probably better than Ur aba tailors. am not bragging

ok.I dnt doubt that.jugding by where u mentioned.

arimahoseloka: Lol tailors in kaduna charge as low as 700 per shirt

taa!materials differ.I am equally into supply of shirts from aba to boutiques in ph for both male and female at same #3500.I give guarantee for my materials not something that changes d minute it sees water.ur #700 cloth no follow.

clemz85: Please help, any body know where I can locate samsung mobile centre in PH or a good technician who can fix my galaxy note 2?

go to slot office at waterlines junction.

Elizabeth Arden's red door,rebelle by rihanna and dis forever living product perfume(forgotten d name) but d 3rd bottle broke on me nd got me really pissed cos its damn expensive.

@OP,try to forget she ever existed in ur life.get urself anoda girl and gradually u will forget ds oda girl ever existed in ur life.u r not over her yet but u will get over her if u r determined to.

After going thru d posts on this thread,All i can say is "Lord,pls forgive their ignorance".

fijiano202: OP u are a fool with astericks,Firstly how can we be jealous of mary when we serve the same Jesus,Secondly ur doctrines may tell you that you are not greater than angels but me and my own family are greater than all angels in heaven and on earth cos we are created in Gods image,read ur bible to understand that.Thirdly the way catholics interpret bible is their greatest doom cos Jesus clearly states it in the bible that ''NOBODY GOES TO THE FATHER EXCEPT THRU ME'' so worshipping mary wont take you to anywhere and also the mary u catholics worship is an idol.Fourthly theres no virginity after giving birth and mary has other kids......do you want more,just ask and it shall be given

i read ur post and laughed.if u r as intelligent as u claim to be,u should look up d meaning of worshiping and honouring,which is exactly what d OP explained.Catholics honour mary and not worship.if Jesus listens and honours his mother's request,we believe that if his mother intercedes on our behalf no matter how great our sin is,Jesus will listen to our plea,just like d wedding at cana where she told him d wine was finished.

mimicue:

Andrea decided to have his bath at Lola's house while taking his bath....elevina told her to tell Andrea about the key tiberio sent to her.....so she went to tell him about the key in the bathroom and Andrea told her they should go to the bank to check what is inside the safe for the key...
The next day they went to the bank and found out that itis a rrecording tape that's is there so Andrea decided to call camillo to be there when they played the tape...they went over to lolas house to play the recordings and found out it was the one that Deborah told tiberio to kill Marcelo and put the blame on lola .....Andreas and the rest really got furious and decided to call Roderigo meanwhile Roderigo was at Andreas house to check on him where he met Deborah and her parents behaving furious.....he answered his call that and Deborah was in front of him so she over heard Andrea saying something about a recording and that heshouLD come over to Lola's house and not tell anyone meanwhile Deborah had already heard and grabbd ...as soon as Roderigo left to Lola's house she and her parents had decided to fled the place....
WHen Roderigo got there he listened to it too and they decided to call d police to bring warrant to arrest Deborah .......Deborah had sighted the police vehicle and immediately her and parents passed d back door to run away...
Meanwhile angel is still investigating where tibero is and felix suggests that tiberio will be hiding in one of their abandoned warehouse and angel told him to confirm if tiberio was there.....
He got there and saw tiberio and soledad
When the police got to Deborah's house they didn't meet her there and found out she has escaped ...
Deborah went to meet angel and told him he should help her that if she goes down he will with her that she will tell the police everything and angel told her to go far away and change her identity that she is soon going to be really popular and her pictures will be everywhere in los Angeles.....
His partner came back and told him tiberio and soledad is there and they planned how they will kill them both because soledad is tiberios weakness and she knows them well so they will eliminate her too...
Deborah and her parents went to an hotel far away to stay..
Meanwhile the police has already decided to put their photographs as wanted everywhere in the city ...

Lola is worried about her baby's safety and Andreas since they are Deborah's enemy and she is scared Deborah might want to hurt Andrea so she asked him to sleep over at er house and she was really in tears with Adela winning her that she still loves Andrea and not give up on him

Angel set out to kill tiberio with the body guards and co...so tiberio prepared himself when he saw trouble there was lots of gun shots everywhere as they were shooting each other and tiberio was shot at his hand..by one of angels men

Deborah couldn't sleep at d hotel and was just screaming like she had. Nightmare and stormed out of the hotel saying something like Lola must not win .. Andreas was at his house still pondering on what Deborah did when he heard a sound and brought house his gun......

When tiberio saw that his time will soon be end has they shot his hand he decided to free soledad so they won't kill her.. and told her to go while he was in pains .....

tnx dear.i could picture everything in my mind from ur summary.lol......

Pls can someone give us a brief of today's MHBFL nd BCD,PLS?

Enahi: it was st-pid I wrote O,N/L now changed it to Silly. Anyway I sincerely don't like Men who act or do things a woman should do. If assuming he didn't use his hands,its ok. And its also a sign that his Girlfriend is very Lazy.

its such a pity girlfriend that u hv not found a loving man.well,only few r in existence n m lucky to have one of d few. .my only prob with OP is his eat n tell altitude.its uncalled for to come to a public forum to brag abt washing a gf's undies not even wife.

ogugua88: SHE DEY CRAZE?!?!

I'm sorry, but I do find that ridiculous odd. There's nothing wrong with having a hobby as such. I'm an avid football fan myself. The answer I'd have for her, she may not like. Something like smoking, drinking, staying out late, etc., are habits I wouldn't like in a partner, but watching football? Either she gets on board or leave me be. Sorry.

Na wa for woman wahala. *runs away*

u r saying this cos u r not married.Wait till u get married dear,u will testify abt men n football.