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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Accept This Job Offer Or Continue Job Hunting??? by qrymz(m): 2:48pm On Oct 02, 2019
Search for a real job bro, don't be desperate to be called a working class just to become a slave. I'm sure you won't do more than a month if you take the offer

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Entertainment / Re: Meet Yusuf Arewa, Magician From Kano, Amazed Nigerians With His Magic by qrymz(m): 10:10pm On Sep 22, 2019
The 19 yrs old boy is a magician, this one is a jujucian ���

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by qrymz(m): 1:22am On Sep 18, 2019
suprememoney:


Hello. Will you accept 55k for the TV? Serious buyer

My free advice, I'm not calling him a scam but be careful dealing with
him. He's entising ppl with the pay on delivery but imagine getting way bill money from 50 different people.

Plus I can't help but notice that his account was registered the same time he posted the ads.

Regards

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Travel / Re: AIB Report To Address Controversy Over Max Air ‘serious Incident’ by qrymz(m): 10:16am On Sep 11, 2019
My first time on a MAX air flight was on a trip to Lagos from Abuja few months ago. I was jejely complaining about the air hostess who ain't as beautiful as the air hostesses on the other airlines I was used to. Then the pilot's very bad landing made me decide that would be my last flight with them.

I wanna believe this landing was the pilot's error especially if it is the same pilot that flew the plane I was in
Politics / Re: Lai Mohammed: Attack On South African Businesses Will Hurt Nigerians More by qrymz(m): 10:15pm On Sep 03, 2019
The man speaks the truth for the first time. Most Shoprite malls are actually owned by these thief covering up with the Shoprite franchise so it will do more harm to their pockets

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Family / Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by qrymz(m): 12:24pm On Aug 04, 2019
Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.

The circumstance surrounding your marriage and birth of the child calls for a DNA. Secondly, she's gonna leave you when she gets to the US

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Travel / Re: Passengers Stranded At Abuja International Airport by qrymz(m): 12:40am On Jul 13, 2019
calculator123:
Reason why I rate Airpeace as the best airline in Nigeria.
Dana shouldn't tow this part else they will loose flyers

Airpeace provides a good service no doubt but they've delayed my flights countless times so they ain't better in that aspect. You're only assured of timely flight if your flight is either the first or the last for the day

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Travel / Re: Passengers Stranded At Abuja International Airport by qrymz(m): 12:38am On Jul 13, 2019
This is no news, I can't count how many times I've been delayed and this is because no one is suing their ass
Education / Re: All My Certificates From Primary School To Masters (Msc) Stolen From Me by qrymz(m): 11:17am On Feb 23, 2019
Somebody will see handsome reward now not knowing it means taking the blame and receiving jail term. I wish you good luck retrieving it sha
Crime / Re: Man Arrested After Buying N150K Worth Of Stolen Laptop For N5K. Photo by qrymz(m): 9:40pm On Jan 10, 2019
Acer Aspire D250 for 150k? I laugh is Japanese
Politics / Re: Police Parade The Killers Of Alex Badeh (video) by qrymz(m): 8:08pm On Dec 27, 2018
I'm sure the guy is like "If confessing to what I know nothing about will reduce this torture, then I admit I killed him".....
Is it not our Nigerian Police?
Romance / Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by qrymz(m): 6:19pm On Nov 12, 2018
ramselly:
My Relationship Is Tearing Me Apart

Hello Nairalanders!

Please i need mature advice only.


I and my girlfriend have been dating since 2015, she has always been supportive in everything and every business i do, thou we dont stay in same part of the country.

I have always told her i cannot settle for less and i cannot get married to a lady who cannot manage her resources and make do with what was available as i want the best for us. In 2016 we talked about setting up something for her to do so as to keep her busy and so i had to enrol her to catering school where she learnt baking n so many more. Fast farward to 2017 january, we planned in opening a shop for her, in july 2017 she got the quotation of roughly 700k for the shop opening the shop and buying Goods for the shop, In september 2017 i sent her 500k for her to commense with the opening of the shop but to my greatest suprise she never used the money for the purpose rather she used it in settling family issues. Its been a year now and i intend quitting the relationship because its not what i planned 4. Please i need matured advice. Sorry if my points re not clear enough.

I actually had to quote your post so you can hopefully see this.....
I was already insulting her cos I assumed she was just like must girls until I saw what she used the money for. It is almost like a thing for most good ladies that I know of, they always find it hard to neglect family issues hence why she probably spent the money on that. I ain't tryna justify her action but you haven't said she's not a good lady except for the fact that she used the 500k for a different purpose. Don't leave her for this cos you have no idea the kinda lady you're gonna meet next. If you'd noticed she might not channel the money into what she ought to, you just woulda taken time to go set up the business for her in person. She would only be a bad wife material if she crashed the business
Programming / Re: An Abuja Based Firm Is In Need Of A Developer by qrymz(m): 9:28pm On Oct 30, 2018
This must be a joke. I guess the company don't know what they are looking for
Politics / Re: 2000 Delegates Storm Lagos For African Action Congress (AAC) National Convention by qrymz(m): 10:46am On Oct 06, 2018
2000 delegates for a national conference and you call that storm.... waste of time and money

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Travel / Re: Lady Jumps Out Of A Moving Car In Abuja, Gets Injured (Photos) by qrymz(m): 3:54pm On Sep 23, 2018
id4sho:
Nawa oooo, TAXIFY again. seems like no innovation is cool and safe in this country.




#BACKTODAURA

I think this Taxify don't really screen like Uber hence the touts they have as drivers. Yesterday, I am my colleagues ordered a taxify here in Abuja and the guy on purpose followed dumb routes just to extend the journey meaning his pay is gonna be larger. Before this taxify, we've been using Uber daily for the past one week and they are all responsible folks. He won't get away with it anyways if truly he's drivers for Taxify cos they got record of every drivers
Health / Re: 1.8m Abortions Committed By Nigerian Women In 2017 — PMA2020 by qrymz(m): 7:54pm On Sep 21, 2018
My question is who's keeping the record when we all know abortion is illegal? Onto the next lie
Car Talk / Re: HONDA End Of Discussion For Sale! by qrymz(m): 11:19am On Sep 04, 2018
This guy must have posted this advert from the bar last night after several bottles. To start with EOD 2007??!!

Plus how can an EOD have the interior of a Mercedes SUV?
Politics / Re: Governor Ben Ayade: My Wife Cautions Me Against Seeking Re-Election by qrymz(m): 10:32am On Aug 25, 2018
dlaw70:
Donald Duke belt cross river and brought it international limelight.Liyel Imoke didn't add a thing to Duke's footprint but he didn't destroy a thing.Ayade,a professor with a professor deputy has return cross river to stone age.Ayade shame on u for disappointing us,northern crossriverians are ashamed of u.after 2019 just fine ur way to China and continue ur 419 business there .hidiot

I lived in cross river (Ikom) for almost a year and I can say the business that made several ppl there (Cocao) is the hardwork of individuals. My one year plus there didn't witness the movement of a tractor talk less of development of any type, yet the idiot Ayade doesn't have a problem using multimillion of naira to host beauty pageants weekly. Just as you've said, he's a total failure who has turned Cross River as a whole to the stone age days considering what Donald Duke left

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Politics / Re: Between Baguda's Rice Pyramid And Fayose's Stomach Infrastructure by qrymz(m): 3:42pm On Aug 04, 2018
manikspears:


Please can you explain what you mean by forces?

Obasanjo, Yaradua, Johnathan, Buhari and most of the politicians we have around might have had good intentions (just saying) to do well but we all know good comes with bad so where there is good intentions, there are some people somewhere frustrating the good and hence what we have today.
Family / Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by qrymz(m): 2:01pm On Aug 04, 2018
It is obvious, any church that will make a home break is not a church
Politics / Re: Between Baguda's Rice Pyramid And Fayose's Stomach Infrastructure by qrymz(m): 1:57pm On Aug 04, 2018
manikspears:


But let's face it,is infrastructure and roads what ekiti state needs? What is the use of all these things to a fresh graduate in ekiti state? Don't just get me wrong ,construction is not bad but you are suppose to have a solid foundation before you start all these things.Lagos is Lagos because they had companies who pay heavy taxes before they started roads and yet they are feeling the wind of how expensive it is so a wise manager should think well before embarking on a mission.

I guess we had issues with maintaining projects in Nigeria and that's our biggest problem, I know of several projects that started in Ekiti but not sure what's happening to dem anymore. Fadama project for farmers is one very strong example but I left Ekiti for years now and don't know how big it is anymore. The point is we shouldn't praise any govt for doing what they were elected for yet not blame them at the same time for we don't know the forces responsible for their inability
Politics / Re: Between Baguda's Rice Pyramid And Fayose's Stomach Infrastructure by qrymz(m): 1:25pm On Aug 04, 2018
I hope this OP lives in Ekiti before saying this stuffs about Ekiti State? I hope you know Fayose met a debt of over 30billion naira which Fayemi inquired in his first time and still didn't rant like APC always do (some of the money he spent on building a new state house). If you know Fajuyi (the location of the bridge) so we'll then you'll know the bridge is the best thing that can ever happen in that location. I'm not a fan of Fayose for his thuggery but I choose not to be a mediocre like you

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Politics / Re: More Photos Of Soldiers Killed In Yobe After Boko Haram Overran Military Base by qrymz(m): 8:46pm On Jul 17, 2018
Those days of Ecomog and all those peacekeeping mission, you'll see pictures of men being proud to be military, but these days, you see boys who should just be starting life being deployed to fight Boko Haram. Army short service is now something so easy to get enrolled into since they know it is their way of eliminating the so-called lazy Nigerian youths.... May all these evil people loose their entire generation to horrible deaths for these destruction

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Politics / Re: 2019 General Elections Will Cost N242.4bn - Buhari Tells National Assembly by qrymz(m): 8:41pm On Jul 17, 2018
Is this Mathematics well calculated? 5k per voter will cost a lil bit more than this o! Maybe they plan to buy votes with life cow sha..... This is Nigeria!

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Politics / Re: 2019 General Elections Will Cost N242.4bn - Buhari Tells National Assembly by qrymz(m): 8:39pm On Jul 17, 2018
Bluezy13:
N228,854,008,215



...215.




Is that two hundred and fifteen naira Wonder what they'd do with N15.
Every pregnant woman will receive N15 for her unborn child. This is Nigeria!
Celebrities / Re: Simi Vs Tiwa Savage, Who Has The Best Vocal Skills? by qrymz(m): 7:57am On Jul 17, 2018
sarahade:
Simi is a better.

God bless you jare. The question is who has a better vocal and everyone is shouting Tiwa is an international start. Abeg wetin concern international and vocal quality....
I guess they've not heard Tiwa sing on stage, she sounds like a screeching tire

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Family / Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by qrymz(m): 3:09am On Jul 15, 2018
HEseesall:



I am not a blogger who wants traffic, you can choose not to believe if you want, i just need advice and other options,

I know a lot of people are advising you to respect your husband but think about this.......
......don't you think he's gonna throw you out anytime there's a disagreement? Where are you gonna move to then. And he's probably gonna put another woman in the house you built with you money. I'm sorry to say but this sounds like you got a husband who's tired of you. I'm married and when I'm pissed at my wife, I don't talk to her or stop eating her food but never want her away from me cos seeing her alone makes my day. I'll only send her packing when she disgusts me. I'm not saying authoritatively that he's leaving you but always think about the possibility so no toothpick leg lady is gonna come eat what you labored for. Tryna resolve this any other way but not by changing back to his name. It was totally your money afterall

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Politics / Re: Ekiti Guber: Okada Riders Get Free Fuel From Fayemi, To Convey Passengers Free by qrymz(m): 8:39pm On Jul 09, 2018
This same Fayemi that almost scrapped bikes from Ekiti during his last tenure if not that he lost to Fayose? Nigerians won't ever learn sha....
Crime / Re: Man Commits Suicide After He Was Scammed Of 6 Months Visa By An Agent by qrymz(m): 9:35pm On Jul 08, 2018
Priscy01:

A Nigerian man identified Idoko Joephat Esomchi also know as Potus has chosen to end his own life by drinking poison after a visa agent scammed him with a 6 months visa.

According to reports gathered by ToriMill, Mr Potus promised Mr Potus had an agreement of 6 months visa with a 3 years permanent permit with an agent for $2000. It was learnt that the said agent betray their agreement and later gave Mr Potus a 2 weeks visa.

ToriMill reached out to the family and friends of the deceased and we learnt that when Potus first got to Kazakhstan, the first job he got was a car wash job and the pay was too low so he decided to apply for a teaching job. He managed to get a teaching job with free apartment and other stuff but when the school discovered he didn’t have visa they refused to do resident permit for him ( don’t we mentioned that he went on a 2weeks visa) so he was used by the school without any payment.

We gathered that a friend assisted him by providing accommodation for him because he was homeless with no job after sometime his friend decided to travel back to Nigeria and told Potus to stay back in Kazakhstan but Potus refused because he felt there is nothing left for him in Kazakhstan since he couldn’t extend his stay. So he booked flight back to Nigeria and called his friend that left Kazakhstan and told him he can’t go back to Lagos with the shame of coming back home with nothing and he borrowed money from different people.

His friend, who assisted him when he (Potus) was homeless in Kazakhstan help arranged a place for him to stay in Abuja with another person. ToriMill get to know that, 5days ago Potus drank poison and died in the apartment of the person he was squatting with in Abuja.

The luck that the guy Potus was living with had was that someone saw Potus drinking poison so neighbors didn’t accused the innocent guy that was accommodating him.

Reaching out to Potus sister and in law, it was also disclosed that whenever Mr Potus is angry he always say he is going to kill himself that it’s been a long time since he had that taught of suicide. May his Soul Rest in Perfect peace.

Friends and family of the deceased took to the deceased timeline to write him a tribute;

https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/man-commits-suicide-after-he-was-scammed-by-an-agent-who-promised-him-a-6-months-visa.html






Me and the guy serve for Ikom, Cross River State together o! I just received a call from my guy saying Joe commit suicide o! And I just didn't think about it being him, Naso I dey reason which person my guy dey talk about
Crime / Re: 80 Nigerians Commit Suicide In 13 Months by qrymz(m): 3:40pm On Jun 11, 2018
I hope all these useless politicians record this too as an achievement under buhari's tenure abi na regime make I call am

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