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please do not assume that every girl out there will want you to make love to her on a first date simply because the lady in question did. if what you typed up there really happened, then to me; you are a perfect gentle man, and I will appreciate and love you for that. it's quite unfortunate she didn't see it that way. let her go, she doesn't deserve you. you deserve better.



my two cents

doyinisaac:
sometimes I wonder if people do not understand...why will you claim you love someone and there is no respect for the person feelings whether behind the person back or not??why will a guy claim to love a lady and will still want to shag another woman...love is respect,love is understanding,love is more than the word "love" love is not by words,it is by action...love is not selfish,love is truthful,what Is love if I Still lust after someone else??where is the love??what many of us think is love is just pure lust with sweet emotions and attraction...when you truly love a lady trust me any lady you see will be like they are not as good as her...that is the power of love...am not a lover boy but I love to say the truth........

thank you for these words, if only they know.

lolaed:
Are you married to him?

If not, You need to easily move on. Act like it doesn't matter. You'll find a better person than him.

thanks for your kind words.

Seamareggae:
Ur man jilted doesn't mean all men are the same.... Don't use that mindset for your next relationship...

I wish you all the best in your next relationship...

he didn't jilt me, I found out he was cheating and decided to walk away bcz the lies is something I can't cope with.

perhaps you are right. its all good anyway; 'that's life for you'

Mznaett:
Exactly o

In fact,my heart was filled with joy after reading that romantic story hahahahaha.

hahaha me too! in fact the story made my Sunday.

happney65:
A fool you where..Am sure you fell in love with him because he's a Big Boy or something..Whereas the dude knew where he's heart was. He knew the reason you where around him..he played you,fucckked you real good and dumped you when the time was right..So don't sob baby,You need to cry asap .When ur tears don full a bucket you can then stop..Okay?

your opinion and thoughts are entirely yours. BTW am a big girl my self, as a quality control manager I don't think there is anything a man will give me that I can't afford. You are free to judge anyway, who cares?

happney65:
A fool you where..Am sure you fell in love with him because he's a Big Boy or something..Whereas the dude knew where he's heart was. He knew the reason you where around him..he played you,fucckked you real good and dumped you when the time was right..So don't sob baby,You need to cry asap .When ur tears don full a bucket you can then stop..Okay?

well I don't know who you are. whatever your thoughts or opinions are, they are entirely yours, you can keep them to your self thanks.

Mznaett:
I just love smart ladies..and truly she is dear

that's the kind of ladies that men need.

OneManLegion:
You're looking at things the wrong way. I've been messed up by a girl too. What if the guy that screwed you up had also been screwed up by a girl in the past too?
It's a vicious cycle of emotional predation...the problem is, no one knows who started it, ladies or guys.

But you can choose to not perpetuate it. You can choose to not visit your hurt and betrayal on someone else.
Be smart, don't let that ex of yours have the last laugh. Don't make him succeed in making you a bitter person.

Take care.

my dear is sooo painful, I can still feel the pain. it feels as if my heart is falling of my chest. the painful part is the lies and deception and when I think about it, I just thought; what a fool I was.

mrnuur:
How do you expect him to marry a witch?

I don't get you.

BrainnewsNg:
I tell you

Satanic lady i must say

she is not satanic jare, she was smarter.

Mznaett:
Lol


Stella is my friend jare

a tell you oo! my love she is.

I have also been living in fools Paradise, just found out my man has been cheating on me. this was a guy I was willing to walk through hell for, placed him above everyone in my life and was so proud to tell anyone who cares to listen about us. now I feel so happy when I see a girl cheating on her man cz men are the worst cheats; they do not deserve fidelity and loyalty. thumbs up to Stella.

can you deliver to katsina?

lifeisabitch:
your aunt is busy making money, she shouldn't go and marry, menopause will soon catch her. Women are not built to hustle like men, fact.

your comments forced me to take a look at your profile pic and am not disappointed.

lifeisabitch:
you nailed it, all the other guys are yarning rubbish

can you please stop this; what is awkward about not asking your man for money? ladies that have self worth and earn a decent living find it hard and embarrassing to ask a man for money. if you work for your money you need no man to give unless he wishes to. stop making it look as everything about a woman's life revolves around men. if a man is decent and caring enough he will do things for his woman without her asking.

temipet:
If she is not Getn it from u den she's Getn it from another person nd telln u indirectly dat ur money is not gud enough 4 her.

it means she is financially independent, whatever little she has is enough for her and she is contented with. if you give her fine and if you don't still fine she will be with you with or without your money.

Selena06:
It is horrifying at times to state the length guys in relationships go to make their girlfriends do some things because they are dating.


There are relationships (not married) where the guy expects the lady to visit him every weekend, wash his clothes, cook for him and store in the refrigerator, clean the house and entertain his friends that may visit during her stay.


Sure, it is good helping your guy out but whereby he makes them compulsory and queries you when you fail to do them is not so cool although as they would say, different strokes for different folks.


NLanders, what's your take on this, is it right?
Meanwhile, I am new here. Show me some love

it doesn't have to be compulsory, whatever you do for your man should be out of your own volition.

Love Machine:
Most relationship will not be stable if the guy doesn't give her gf money for upkeep.I have come across girls who complained that they didn't need to ask their bf for upkeep before he did the needful.

yes, you don't have to wait for your woman to ask before you give just give the little you can when you are able and if she is not the greedy type am sure she will appreciate your effort.

Synzu:
HOEdogwu!

whatever, its even the type of you that will be asking his lady for money without shame claiming that girls are now the ones taking care of guys yet you will be the first to be shouting that girls are depending on guys shior we know your type.

op that's why she is a woman

op you guys should stop all this your fallacy about ladies cz its not all ladies that depend on guys for money if I complain that am broke it is my right to do so and you are under no obligation to give me money if you don't want to. I don't request money from guys not even my boo what ever he does for me is out of his own will and I equally return the favour when I can that's why its called a relationship. so please stop all this nonsense about girls depending on guy Cz not every lady has time for that rubbish.

they are both beautiful with their colours but the dark lady is actually prettier but for me I don't like guys that are extremely fair I prefer dark or chocolate guys but that doesn't mean I can't be with a fair guy if I luv him because love goes beyond skin colour

buhari is busy partying while his citizens are dying. OK continue God will judge you all for this acts of hypocrisy. those that criticised GEJ are busy cheering buhari for for the same act. Allah ba azalimin kowa ba what you sow you shall reap.

efilefun:
To show how clueless you are, you had to quote me twice and post the same thing lmao!!!

yea I knew you are going to insult typical of your kind. BTW I don't owe you an explanation as to why I quoted you twice.

efilefun:
why didn't you warn Nigerians when don Fortunato and his fellow ineffectual buffoons were looting blindly
One thing most of you fail to understand is if don Fortunato the drunkard had perfected things as he claimed how come they all crumbling just months after he left power That's a question you need to ask urself "mr Warner"

that is because the person that took over is more clueless than him.

efilefun:
why didn't you warn Nigerians when don Fortunato and his fellow ineffectual buffoons were looting blindly
One thing most of you fail to understand is if don Fortunato the drunkard had perfected things as he claimed how come they all crumbling just months after he left power That's a question you need to ask urself "mr Warner"

that is simply because the person who took over from him is more clueless than him.

irunooboo:
May God punish GEJ for giving this useless man the privilege to steal our money all in the name of electioneering. No wonder he showered his over bleached IpoB girl friend with a range rover painted in red color (blood of Nigerians and soldiers). That baby will not be a source of joy to the both of u. Thieves


Quote me and run mad

you sound too bitter for a lady, why curse the innocent baby?

wajaja:
U dnt need transcript if it is the same school u did ur ND. There are so many coys who employ only HND, dnt think that what u are doing is not good enough..I just got a job in. Multinational company with gud salary and I am an HND holder.

exactly my friend am a HND graduate with upper credit I finished my nysc four months ago and I got a job as a quality control manager in a food processing company four days after my pop there were lots of university graduates yet I was chosen. so if God is by your side he is by your side whether HND or Bsc. I wasted three years of my life waiting for university where as if I had gone to poly by now I would have become an MSC holder all the same sha nothing spoil

Airforce1:
take your complaint to God.

says the one that insults ladies that are not light skinned, best you take your own advice.

JVgal:
She can't go a day without working, even wkends wen she doesn't go to work, she is always complaining of idleness. She still wake up early even when she has no Whr to go.

hmmm! just exactly like my Mum.