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Fashion › Re: How Good Is Ailin Loose Face Powder For Oil Control by queenfav(op): 2:33pm On Jan 05, 2016

Halleluyah somebody!I bought the ailin powder in the shade 'bronze'.Lemme give it to you in john legend's words..'I lovedddddd it....,loved it even more than i know'.Damn,the powder is 100 shades of amazing....Also,very cheap too,got it for 800 naira.The product in it will last me for like 3 years.Very little goes a long way.I used it over my black opal stick foundation this morning and I couldn't stop staring at myself in d mirror.It set my foundation and under eye concealer perfectly.It gave me Full coverage with a glowy matte finish.Its past 2 now and my t zone isn't oily.Like wow!I like like like!!!Thanks to duchessxino and others who commented on this thread.

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Family › Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by queenfav(f): 2:13pm On Jan 05, 2016

zemaye:
queenfav

your mama is a heroine, yes na me talk!!!
see the beautiful person she brought up
more grease to your elbow
and happy married life to you and the one you love

awww,now I am smiling for the first time this afternoon.Thanks a lot for the compliment,wishing u a fulfilling year ahead.

Family › Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by queenfav(f): 8:35am On Jan 05, 2016

dmcdad:
#Respect.

thanks bro

Family › Re: If You're Happily Married, Please Share Your Story by queenfav(f): 7:02am On Jan 05, 2016*

@realberry pls try to change your impression of marriage.You can have a wonderful marriage despite your all you have seen in your family.My parents are separated,I was raised by a single mum.My dad till date doesn't even have my number,cos he was never there for me.I owe my success today as a lawyer to my mother.I am sure you have not seen the worst of marriages.

As someone who was mediating on at least 3 divorce cases a day,I should not even be getting married with all. I have heard a lot of sad/negative stories to the point that nothing surprises me anymore.From a man who woke his wife up in d middle of the night,bathed her with acid simply because she bought a land.Abi is it a woman who was sleeping with her husband's younger cousin that was living with them?Yet,I still believe that marriage is a beautiful thing if you are well prepared and do it when its right for you.With God,financial and emotional maturity,there's nothing you can't survive.My mother always taught me never to judge a man based on my father,or what I see as a divorce attorney.

Today I am engaged to an amazing man that cares for me more than he cares for himself.Trust me when I say I am more than willing to spend the rest of my life with him.In the pastI, didn't want to ever get married,but my mum would tell me to reject it for myself!That I will have a happy marriage,and I started making a conscious effort to work at my relationship.There is no perfect relationship/marriage.The key is to apologize and laugh it off.understanding is very important too.Many get married,without trying to understand themselves to a point where they can cohabit peacefully.I have a very hot temper but he has figured out a way to calm me down,me too I have to bend in most cases and swallow my pride to apologize to him when we have issues.

Never for once has he raised his hand to hit me,or disrespect me.Not all men are physically abusive,there are still men who would never hit a woman!He doesn't have so much money,so I am not even with him for what he can do for me.I am with him because I love the way he loves me,and I have come to love him more than he loves me with each passing day.I see in him the accomplished man he would become in future.With me by his side,there's nothing he can't achieve because I am willing to support and encourage him in his dreams.Marriage based on deep love will always find a way to overcome challenges.Hold on and I am sure you will meet the one that will make you come and modify this post in a few months time.

As for those saying those who have been. married for less than 10 years should not talk about being happily married.I pity you!More than 50 percent of the divorce cases I handle happens between couples married for less than 5 years.Newly married couples have a lot of issues ranging from family interference,adjustments to the quirky habits and values of their partner.He may want the light on at night,while she doesn't sleep with lights on.Probably they were just seeing on weekends during courtship so one had to succumb to the will of the other.Things like that are the issues they face,for the immature ones it can lead to their divorce.That's where he/or she says their partner doesn't respect his/her opinion,simply because they couldn't find a way to resolve little issues.

The grudge of those small things head on to affect the big things.Before you know it they have drifted apart and calling up a lawyer to file for divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences.So,for someone to have crossed that. 5 year mark means they are done with the adjustment stage in marriage,therefore more compatible and mature to handle challenges.

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Romance › Re: Shocking!!Olamide And Don Jazzy Beef Terminates 8 Year Old Relationship! by queenfav(op): 8:18pm On Jan 04, 2016

zenar:
haha is dis story 4 real

Its for real,it was sent to stella's blog.

Romance › Shocking!!Olamide And Don Jazzy Beef Terminates 8 Year Old Relationship! by queenfav(op): 8:12pm On Jan 04, 2016

Olamide’s beef with Don Jazzy over the Headies Next Rated awards has come and gone, but for one couple the damage done may be everlasting.

According to an unnamed 33 year old lady, a. discussion via Skype with her boyfriend over the whole saga has led to a termination of the relationship that began when she was 25.

She disclosed the details in an email she sent to popular online blog Stella Dimoko Korkus.

She wrote:

Dear Stella, I have been following ur blog since 2012. Call me a monitoring spirit cos I know everything happening over there but I have never commented. No, I commented once but it wasn’t posted. Lol. So here goes my chronicle.

I’m 33, by the way. I’ve been dating this guy. since 2008. We served together but started dating after service. He left the country in 2008 but we have been dating since then. I’ve had a couple of “serious relationships” but somehow they keep getting messed up and I keep going back to him. He has been awesome and treats me well. He loves and respects me and sometimes I get irritated because he doesn’t have a mind of his own.

We do anything I want to do, and I’d prefer someone who would make major decisions sometimes. I have visited him a couple of times in the UK.

So day before yesterday we were skyping and inside the gist he asked me what I think about the Olamide/Donjazzy ish. And I said I think they were both wrong, Olamide shouldn’t have thrown a tantrum and Don J should have just ignored. Boyfriend starts saying Donjazzy is a pretender, etc etc and as far as Olamide has apologized it’s ok.

I told him not to judge as he doesn’t know what goes on in the life of these people but My crime was to say that saying sorry does not wipe away your f-up as you might say sorry and the person says it’s ok but it doesn’t change what you have done or the pain you have caused. Gbam.

My guy starts shouting that I am mean and unforgiving. At first I thought it was a joke because we were having a healthy argument till‎ I realised he wasn’t joking. Like joke he ended the relationship saying he’s not sure he can be with someone who can make a comment like that (saying sorry doesn’t right your wrongs) and went off the line. I’m still confused.

I can categorically state that I never disrespected him or raised my voice. A part of me is finding it funny cos if someone asks why we are not together am I supposed to say we broke up on top of Donjazzy and Olamide argument?

I called yesterday and all he said was that it wouldn’t work. I can’t apologize for having an opinion but I’m scared. Will I meet someone else? Or am I supposed to remove my heart from a 7 year relationship because of this? I know it sounds unbelievable because people have posted chronicles and I have rolled my eyes and asked myself “who dis one wan lie to”, but it is true. Please post this, Stella, under chronicles or in house gists I don’t even know. I shouldn’t be finding it funny because we were supposed to do our traditional wedding in April.

Someone Please help me make sense. Am I supposed to beg?

Source:HeraldNG

Nairalanders,how una see am?For me I feel the guy had checked out emotionally from the relationship ages ago.He just needed her to say something that he would use against her to end it.What she narrated is not even enough to start a fight over,let alone breakup after 8 years.

Romance › Re: silly Questions Ladies Ask When A Man Is About To Have S*x With Them by queenfav(f): 6:52pm On Jan 02, 2016

petkruz:
No need for all these questions! Once your eyes start changing and u are licking your lips and I see a bulge down your trousers, I dive u and tear your shirt and boxers. Fast forward 2 months later,after an intense love making session with hands wrapped around me he simply asks "babe do u like me enough to date me? I'v fallen for u,this has never happened to me.

Only babies asks such unrealistic questions! If he wants to shag, shag his brains out and forget about it.

GBAM!One chilled orijin for u.

Romance › Re: silly Questions Ladies Ask When A Man Is About To Have S*x With Them by queenfav(f): 6:47pm On Jan 02, 2016

Laveda:
I'm way smarter than that I don't ask such questions.. Before I enter the room with you..then I know its about to go down no time for questions

correct babe!I love real people.

Romance › Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by queenfav(f): 6:37pm On Jan 02, 2016

misspicy:
aya weldone
it will end well abeg no use aboniki,just use Rub

thanks dear...I just need a good sleep.

Romance › Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by queenfav(f): 6:10pm On Jan 02, 2016

misspicy:
hehehehehe, sweetim how do you know that's my best meal?
just give me your house address,I will be on my way to do justice

dearie,oga friends don chop am finish o..I even had to cook stew and rice *wipes sweat* e no easy at all.Abeg who get aboniki?

Romance › Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by queenfav(f): 9:47am On Jan 02, 2016

misspicy:
Please answer this few questions

1)are you related to this man?

2)what type of circumstances did you meet with him

3)what is your relationship with him

see lady it is high time y'all realise that manna does not fall from heaven,how can you in this present day and age think that a full blooded man will just carry his hard earned money and pour it on you,when
1)he is not your boyfriend

2)he is not your sugar daddy

3)he is not a mugu

4)he is not stupid

5)he is not even related to you

don't you know that greedy girls have made it hard for a man to help other girls that really needs help?who wants to be seen as a mugu?
E be like say you be learner

I know you are expecting supernatural help from above,then you must be sensitive to the things of the spirit not just expect every man out there to drop their hard earned money on you like its your birth right
imagine asking a man for money just one month after meeting him? and you posted this on nairaland? lmao

gbam!my love,for this analysis come and eat cowleg egusi soup and poundo yam at my place.You asked all the right questions.The op is just very funny,she needs a healthy dose of reality!@op did the guy tell you he runs an NGO that specializes in paying for student's accomodation?Why are you now shocked that he wants se.x.?

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Romance › Re: If He Doesn’t Have These 20 Qualities, He’s Not Your Soul Mate by queenfav(f): 6:57am On Jan 02, 2016

Nice one here @op.

Food › Re: Food Recipes For Baritone Voice by queenfav(f): 6:46am On Jan 02, 2016

There's no topic one won't see on nairaland..Hian!

Phones › Re: Advice On How Spend less On Data as we enter This new Year 2016 by queenfav(f): 6:34am On Jan 02, 2016

Get an MTK phone eg infinix,gionee and tecno. tweak it to use glo bis (3gb for 1k).

Phones › Re: My Best 30 Offline Android And IOS Games So Far by queenfav(f): 7:45pm On Jan 01, 2016

Donpre:
Temple run is pure water game huh?... I guess those your games re dangote cement games

BTW, I ate the best and worst of meals today... Buh nothing is more disgusting than your list of games... Seriously consider the resolution, you could just save the world

leave me alone pls,I am more of a book lover.

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by queenfav(f): 6:05pm On Jan 01, 2016

Happy new year nairalanders..Fried rice and chicken wings by moi.Na una share be this o.@kilokeys,ur gf or wifey should be jealous of your cooking skills.Very impressive...Unlike my boo that was bragging abt cooking the fried rice,only to chicken out cos he knows if he doesn't cook it well,I'll taunt him for months.

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Phones › Re: My Best 30 Offline Android And IOS Games So Far by queenfav(f): 1:31pm On Jan 01, 2016

Donpre:
@bolded... Them send you to ruin my new year, I'm all green here.... you no see temple run, candy crush, subway surfers play

please stop, ah beg you.. stop playing games as a new year resolution

#HappyNewYear by the way

lol..I ready for u..who doesn't play temple run and the rest.Those are pure water games.guy!chop abeg,u be like say food neva done for una house.

Literature › Re: How Often Do You Read by queenfav(f): 1:00am On Jan 01, 2016

sapiosexual1:
hahaha see my goat head friend oooooo!
I read every blessed day, at least 3hrs. Readers are Leaders...... especially for you my dear friend in your career pursuit, you've gotta read lotsa books from a wide range of authors. Would help you in dealing with cases that would be brought before you. Issorai, thank me later

yam head,u haff try..I will visit ur issue later.You know how we roll.happy new year jare.

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Phones › Re: My Best 30 Offline Android And IOS Games So Far by queenfav(f): 8:57pm On Dec 31, 2015

Donpre:
My God! you call those games.... i think am gonna be sick

#Warrisdis

go away,I don't play action games.I love dressup,cooking and word puzzle games.No be everybody must play car racing and fifa games.

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Literature › Re: How Often Do You Read by queenfav(f): 2:10pm On Dec 31, 2015

Uhhm..now I feel very remorseful.I have been slacking seriously.I don't read as much as I used to (esp when I am around le boo).2016 is going to be better,I'll try to sneak a few pages no matter how busy my schedule gets.
Dearpreye
Sapiosexual1..I dunno if this onion head friend of mine reads sha.

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Phones › Re: My Best 30 Offline Android And IOS Games So Far by queenfav(f): 1:59pm On Dec 31, 2015

Those games are so not girly..Anyways,mine is 2048 puzzle,cooking fever,wordathon and spelltower.Fashion icon was cool until gameloft decided to withdraw the app.

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Family › Re: Please What Isthe Easiest Way To Commit Suicide by queenfav(f): 10:12am On Dec 31, 2015

SAMBARRY:
you want to join him? the world is over populated enough but before you join him please be kind enough to hand over your house documents cars and account details to me including your atm password then you can go

wetin go make me wan join am,I only say u wicked based on the combo of jik,harpic and acid u prescribed o.

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Family › Re: Please What Isthe Easiest Way To Commit Suicide by queenfav(f): 8:24am On Dec 31, 2015

SAMBARRY:
Buy jik , acid and harpic. mix every thing together and then drink.

Say hi to angel Michael and angel for me.

when you get there tell them shewa will join them in the next 80 years. I'm still having a great time here

bye dear

you are wickeeeeed.lol.@op if u hv decided to be stupid and waste ur life,feel free.

Fashion › Re: How Good Is Ailin Loose Face Powder For Oil Control by queenfav(op): 7:36pm On Dec 30, 2015

duchessxino:
the maroon will be nice on u

ok..thanks a lot dear..will check it out and tell u how it goes.

Fashion › Re: How Good Is Ailin Loose Face Powder For Oil Control by queenfav(op): 6:32pm On Dec 30, 2015

duchessxino:
the maroon will be nice on u

eeh..pls is the maroon darker than the bronze?

Fashion › Re: How Good Is Ailin Loose Face Powder For Oil Control by queenfav(op): 11:07am On Dec 30, 2015

duchessxino:
Hv been using ailin loose powder since 2011,.... trust me it rocks....i used flesh cos am fair....ailin rocks

babe whc do u think I can use?pls help me confirm,my pic is on my profile.

Family › Re: Love Is Not A Requirement For Marriage by queenfav(f): 8:41pm On Dec 29, 2015

MRBrownJ:
as there are many different type of marriages, i certainly agree... there are:
- marriage of convenience (marry someone because he can help you achieve something you desire)
- marriage for money (marry someone simply because they are rich)
- marriage for status (marry someone powerful like judge/dpo/minister/thief in robe)
- marriage for peer pressure (marry some donkey because you want to be married at all cost like everyone around you)
- marriage for foolishness (marry because everyone will think you are happy)
- marriage for trophy (aka trophy wife/star actor or singer)
- marriage for family (marry the e-goat your family forced you to marry)

then there is the marriage for LOVE, because you simply want to spend the rest of your natural life waking up next to that person that you cherish with all your might, for no plausible reason; that person that puts a smile on your face just by being themselves; that person that makes you become the best HD version of yourself. BTW that marriage is the only one that can possibly last the test of time.

GBAM..you nailed it,in fact thread closed!

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Romance › Re: Ever Had Emotional Experience From Your Past Relationship? by queenfav(f): 6:21pm On Dec 29, 2015

misspicy:
my sister I am humbled

thanks for this ...lol

uwc dear,make I rush make dinner.

Romance › Re: Ever Had Emotional Experience From Your Past Relationship? by queenfav(f): 6:04pm On Dec 29, 2015

misspicy:
I do wonder what it feels like to be in fiancée stage....men ehn,don't just waste your emotions on them.

lol..don't wonder much o..Me I don't even know how I got here.Its not funny at all.I have to keep in touch with his parents and sister,else they would say I don't call.I haff tire already..lol.Even my friend getting married february 2016 was gisting me abt some stuffs her man did,that's she wants out. I was just laughing at her..Because shii gets real when you get married.It takes patience my dear.Men are very annoying(yes I said it).Sometimes,I wud just ask myself if this is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with.My secret is seeing my man as a big baby,that's how I get to forgive his f.ups.It helps me overlook his occasional rubbish.Else we go dey get am hot daily.They are the same jare,na to find one when no too dey craze marry,so your mother can come for omugwo.lol..

Romance › Re: Ever Had Emotional Experience From Your Past Relationship? by queenfav(f): 5:31pm On Dec 29, 2015

Steesaadiq:
Thanks so much. I'll message u

uwc

Romance › Re: Ever Had Emotional Experience From Your Past Relationship? by queenfav(f): 5:25pm On Dec 29, 2015

Steesaadiq:
I wouldn't want to go into details under my moniker because she's an active member here. She might just spot me. I would appreciate the opportunity to discuss this issue with u privately. If u wouldn't mind.

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