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I've been heartbroken so many times that I am starting to believe that I am possessed, pls I need some care, love and advice because I am losing it.
This is not the first, second, third, or fourth time I've been heartbroken or taken advantage of. I am 23, very hardworking, very beautiful, smart, kind, with a heart of gold, I get all these compliments often. I am also cool, calm and collected. I don't understand how someone would decide to take advantage of me.
It usually starts when I demand to be treated right.
This last heartbreak, I was dating a Nigerian guy in another continent, b4 we officially started dating, he pestered me to date him, I was so scared, told him about the heartbreaks I've suffered, how fragile and soft I am, how people has returned back my good with evil, how I am so scared of giving love another trial, and how i don't think long distance relationship is worth it. He told me how he has gotten a fair share of heartbreaks from ladies, and how he'll never do shit to me, he swore, promised, every every and I believed him.
And one thing with me is that when I love, I love wholeheartedly, I won't withhold anything, my spirit, soul, body, everything, you'll just know that I love, and that is when the other party usually starts misbehaves, when they've seen how deep I've gotten into them, how I create time from my very busy work schedule just to speak/chat them all the time, how I try my best to please them. The most painful thing is that this guy made me so committed to the relationship, when he saw that I really have less believe in long distance relationship, he did everything possible to win my trust and commitment, he assured me ours would be different. When he'd won my heart he started replying late, stopped video calling and started pretending he missed my video calls, and all. We had an argument after I complained about how cold he has become, and I told him I wanted to be left alone at that moment. And that was it, up till now, no call or chat from him. Its been almost 2 weeks, I tried reaching out to him to know if he's owk, but he ignored my chat.
I feel so bad even though we're yet to meet in person, but because I really opened my heart and soul to him, after he made me believe he'll not hurt me. I feel so bad that my only wrong was demanding to be treated right, that's the only thing I've ever demanded from him, I feel so bad that I've been heartbroken yet another time simply for loving with all my heart.
I feel sad that I've not had any relationship that didn't end in tears, any relationship that was worth it, I'm yet to experience it. I am now having a feeling that I have offended somebody I don't even know. Even aside relationship, love matter, I've often been taken advantage of by other people, colleagues, so called friends in such a way that I became a loner, lost some self esteem. Pls help me with advises or books to read, else I'll give up on love and humanity

I am leaving this forumn, honestly. How do I delete my account? I just wana be a newsreader here, that'll all

So when I met him, I was in a toxic relationship. I was entangled with my ex and was in love with this guy at same time. This guy tried to make me leave my abusive boyfriend for him, tried to prove to me he was gona be a better man, infact he was like my dream guy and we were fucking even when I was still with my ex, when it seemed like he had gotten me and we were now dating, i eventually went back to my ex and it kinda disappointed the guy. Now av moved on from my ex, I am now very single and lonely, although av been fucking this guy ever since.
It's more like the both of us are just using each other to quench konji, the show of affection he used to give me then, the attention, the calls, the care, is no longer there, he just calls me when he's Hot and I also notify him when am Hot coz he's the only one am fucking, like am very picky, but deep down within me, I wish he can ask me out again, so I'll say yes and the love and affection would come back. Nobody has shown me much love like this and I guess the fact that I went back to my ex scattered the whole thing. He knows av moved on, and I've since been giving him green light for us to start dating aside just fucking but it seem like he's ignoring it, and my ego won't allow me to ask him. I feel like blocking him or sth bcoz it hurts me when he doesn't reply my messages fast or ignores it, but becomes very active and desperate when he's Hot

oloriT:
I feel your pain and understand you. She has her reasons for doing that though body shaming is wrong. You can always redeploy 3 months after nysc camp to another state which is free of charge and if it's more than 3 months already, just endure and try to get a job in another state immediately after NYSC. With time, Al these will be stories. Much love

awwn, you are so encouraging and sweet. thanks alot

am a Corper of 22yrs old, serving from my family house. I Neva wanted it that way but unfortunately I was posted to same state I live, believe me I didn't work it out. twas wen I got posted to the state that I worked it out to be coming from home. now am regretting not redeploying to another state, coz I avnt been comfortable @ home. my mum wants me to be giving out 80% of my allawee to her for home expenses, I objected coz initially I give out some, but she wasn't satisfied with it and it brought problems between us. I am small in stature and thin, its sth she doesn't like and she uses that to abuse me @ the slightest misunderstanding. recently I was pounding in the kitchen and she started calling me names, belittling my stature and my person, all because I told her I was tired of pounding. I was replying her that I love myself the way I am, I am beautiful and smart. I don't av to be tall, to be confident, she got annoyed and start hitting me, the third time she wanted to hit me, I held her and overpowered her b4 my bro came in and blocked her from me. now the only wrong I know I did was to tell her I was tired of cooking, while the both of us were cooking, also to defend my personality and stop her from hitting me. this is the first time she is hitting me as an adult and the first time I ever replied her ridicules yet I feel so guilty and bad, I wish I can leave this house right now. wah do u think?

my mum wants me to date and marry older men... I mean, there's a man on my matter now, he's 44 while am 22, he is based in Australia, he is actually a good man, looks younger than his age. am single, no boyfriend, but wen I was in a relationship with a younger man of 27, my mum wasn't just comfortable with the guy, I didn't just know y... now we Brocken up and I guess she's happy, since she hasn't heard me talk to him on the phone... now I and my mum were discussing this evening, about how nice the older Australian man is/seem to be, then I was like he's good but I wouldn't think of marrying him coz of his age, I wouldn't marry someone that older, coz I wouldn't want to be a widow so early... then she flares up and got really mad @ me for telling her my point of view, and am like y wah exactly is her point...
all the relationship av had were with younger guys, de eldest 27, I hid them all from my mum except from de last one, else she'll just frustrate the relationship, intrude my privacy, get angry easily with me coz am dating a young person... I know She'll do all these tinz coz of wah she has done in the past. like referring to my NYSC male friends (am a Corper) as stupid boys... pls if you understand her point of view let me know, coz I don't. and she is annoyingly religious and controlling

hi everyone. I lived in abuja and nassarawa state all my life, although I did my university education in Enugu state and am Igbo, I speak Igbo too. I haven't been to much state. now in my nysc registration, I had to choose anambra, kano, nassarawa and delta state... seriously I don't want to go to the north and I just can't wait for call up later to come out so I'll know wah state am gona be posted to... experienced people in the house, where do u think I'll be to

it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

vingeophysicist:
For a guy to muster courage and request sex from a lady it means she must have display her crave for materialism. If you check it is not the first time he took her out.

hello, this is de second time I saw the guy, after he met me in my place of work... coz he was a customer and I was required to call customers

my boo tells me everything that happens to him, so do I... he tells me abt girls tripping on him and doing crazy things to get his attention... I tell him each time I make a new male friend and our conversations, he seem cool with it. we live in different States (long distance relationship). recently I went for a training, after de training I was hungry, so I decided to see a guy that av been bulging me to see since last year, since I wasn't far from his office, this is the second time am seeing him and we haven't really conversed. he took me to a nice restaurant and we got food... we were eating and discussing abt politics and stuffs, only for him to start telling that he's Hot, that let's go to a lodge, I was so embarrassed but I didn't say a word to him, he got frustrated and left me in the place after paying for the food. I had to find my way home from that place since we came with a car so I didn't know de road. I told my boo this, and he got really angry @ me, and am surprised coz he called me names like cheap flirt and said he was gona show me... like he was literary threatening me, said our relationship is on de verge of break up coz of this. I didn't see this coming and I don't know y he is reacting this way, maybe coz he feels intimidated by this guy's profile, unlike de other guys I tell him about. I guess I should stop telling him anything, wah do u think?

there's this guy av been having feelings for... right from my first year in sch. he also av been crushing on me, but i was doing shakara for him, coz I felt I can't date my classmate. along de line, he started dating someone in my class, and they became an item, ... the girl he is dating is so nice and she helped me by accommodating me for a while wen I had no accommodation. but I and de guy been talking all these while... he'd deny dating her severally, just to get closer to me, we've been so close in many instances and almost made out, but I do stop it, coz I wouldn't want to pay his gf with evil... @ a point, he got tired of chasing me secretly and we became like strangers, not talking again.
now we're graduates, we just did our convocation and now waiting for NYSC... we started chatting again, falling deeper in love than b4, now he'd assured me he has Brocken up with her, but I ain't sure, even though its obvious they won't last. but we are getting crazier each day, going out together and we can't wait to go under the sheets, since its been a while I last did... we ain't even talking about dating... but am still feeling like am gona be ungrateful to her if I go further with him... what do u think

my mum is against me and been giving me attitude, I and her hasn't been in this kinda disagreement b4, and am getting worried and tryna compromise...
I just finished university, will serve next year and haven't gotten my result yet... my convocation is this month...
I did a petty work, just to keep myself busy for a month, took all the insults from my boss, all the sexual harassment from clients and all the sleeping late and waking up early just For 15k salary, I quitted de job... I told myself afterwards... Neva again will I stoop this low, am worth more... meanwhile I did that just to proudly say that "I was working" plus I wanted to be independent... and its my first work experience. so na, momsy was like, let's all av a feel of ur first salary na, I agreed wholeheartedly by sponsoring her and my sis hair making and buying stuffs for family use in our house... money remaining 10k, I have personal needs as a girl, plus I wanted to save too, so that was my intention for de rest of de money...
2 days later, my mum cunningly took my ATM and spent de 10k in there, I didn't know... till she told me moments later that she just used my money to do business that will benefit us as a family...
I got angry like wtf, coz coupled with the fact that she did that without my permission, that ain't right... instead she got angry too, she said all manner of things to me, that upon all the money she spent for my education, that i was stingy and reminded me that she pays the bills in de house and stuffs... I Neva said anything offensive that could av made her say many things that were uncalled for, @ that point I was silent, she counted de money from nowhere and gave to me, I collected it and went away. mind you, am from an average family so that money is nothing to my parents.
she has been giving me serious attitude since then and I consulted my uncle to talk to her, but instead he said I should go and apologise and give her back the money, I'll apologise, but I don't think I'll give de money... plss what is wrong with African parents.

good day blessed people... i want to do a small survey. am starting a business of bags, shoes and accessories, but am in a dilemma now on whether I should order the stuffs from the wholesalers based on what I perceive people will like, which will reach 3weeks b4 I get it, so wen I post it online, I get to sell it to people that order for it that same day... or if I should post pictures of nice items available in the wholesale store, stating the price and make people solicit for orders and wait for 3 weeks for the items, after which they'll pay on delivery... plss o as a customer which will u prefer?

help? am hurt and troubled from breakup, I just sent him a break up message of which he hasn't replied, probably he hasn't seen. but am really hurting inside, I feel cheated and used, I feel like dying. this is not the first time sth like this av happened to me, I mean heart break. I was actually the one that initiated the break up, coz I couldn't take it any more

been dating this guy for 4 months now, and we've already start planning a future 2geda. but I just realised that the foundation of the relationship is faulty... as in, I tolerated a lot of shit am not meant to... he's a good person quite alright, but he has so much Ego, he has the tendency of raising his hands on me, could get really angry too, can be really difficult to persuade. some of the things I notice he does, that ain't right like reading my chats are because I let him to, like I tolerated it, and I feel he's now taking me for granted bcoz I showed him how I love him. he wasn't like this initially. I don't know why if I love somebody, I tend to show it so much to a fault, that's sth I need to work on, I know I need to stop it, cuz it leads to being taken for granted.
he complains so much and doesn't appreciate anything I do, he complains I don't cook for him, do this, do that, or he doesn't like the cloth am putting on or the hair or the makeup or I should be wearing better cloths meanwhile he hasn't for once been touched to give me money, seeing that I don't have a source of income yet, a fresh graduate and learning a handwork.
I thought of all these things and I said to myself that I can't continue keeping quite, it's either he changes or I walk away.
I started by telling him what I didn't like, and it resulted to a quarrel between us. his Ego was just too much and that's not what I want in my life. I want a scenario whereby, my man listens to me, pets me, talk to me like a damsel (that I am), corrects me with love, stuffs like that. I know within me am not a difficult person, I don't have wahala, but I don't like it when people try to use it to take advantage of me.
so after the quarrel between us. ill words weren't exchanged tho. but I expected him to call me afterwards, but its been 3 days now and he hasn't, which is unlike him. I've said earlier within me that I won't call, I'll wait for him to call and if he doesn't that's how I'll break up with him, Bleep love! .But he hasn't and am now disturbed and on the verge of calling him, should I?

I and my boyfriend play a lot... even with things that doesn't sound funny... I used to think it was just a joke till recently. he says things like he's crushing on my friend and he's gona Bleep her, in a joking way and I'll be thinking its a joke. he has said other annoying things jokingly and I just took it @ such... in a bid to trust me, I tell him everything abt me, who is chyking me, stuffs, he insist on reading my chats I allowed him to, coz I ain't hiding anything. but he never for once allows me to do same... he's so restrictive too... knows everyone that calls me and asks too. recently, I was just gisting him of how my girlfriend (the one he jokingly told me he's crushing on) been requesting to see him of a health issue, coz he's a doctor, but I don't trust her, so I can't do such arrangement. so he jokingly told me that he was going to collect her number and Bleep her. yesterday evening, wen I came visiting, we were just playing and I called him "ashawo man" he got angry and told me that he's gona show me that he's "ashawo" in my presence he called that my girlfriend, I don't even know when he collected her number o. she picked and was asking who is that, he just laughed and cut the call, grinning @ me. I got angry and was leaving around 10:30 pm, he didn't even call me back to apologise. he's been calling me since today, but am so furious and am thinking of moving on... what do you guys think

I have been dating this young doctor for a month now... it just dawn on us that it'll be a long distant something for a while or more. I just finished university and I'll av to go back to where my parents are based, my parents are so strict that I can't even lie that am going to stay with an aunt in a weekend, they won't agree. because of the love the both of us av for ourselves we're planning that he's gona get a work in abuja or if it doesn't work out, I am gonna serve close to his city. so I told him that if he's sex starved in the period I won't be around, that he should go ahead to have sex with somebody that he doesn't have feelings for, but he should let me know and that if he thinks he can't continue with the long distance sth, he should let me know, its all good. that sounds weird right? yes, coz I think its the best thing to do, we don't need to pretend, its just to know how much he loves me and if we're meant for each other. he kept assuring me that he wont leave me and that he will try not to cheat. what do you think about our discussion.

OK, guys cheats, girls cheats, everyone cheats. coming from the angle of guys cheating now, some people will advice that when you find out your boy friend cheats, you should move on. while some will advice you to forgive bla bla. but from the way I understand these things, I think guys are likely to cheat more than we know, girls in relationship should not try to kill theirselves tryna find out if he does or not. now, where it will go wrong is when the cheating becomes so obvious that she finds out without much effort. now that'll be disrespect and I'll advice the ladies to move on at this point.
even in Marriage, husbands will cheat. I won't advice wives to divorce or move on as long as the husband showers her and her children with all the care, attention, money, shows her off, makes her the madam @ the top among his side chicks, doesn't make the cheating obvious as I said earlier; if not, she has all the right to divorce.
I also feel marriage is not for everyone and its not an achievement. I feel ladies should get a life, aside getting married. ladies, even after marriage should still dream, pursue their goals and their careers, get more educated, meet more people, develop yourself and learn more. marriage doesn't mean that your years of adventure has ended and therefore it'll now revolve on making babies and pleasing your husbands.
now some people will say that people with this kind of point of view like mine now has low self esteem. while some will say its too high self esteem

purem:
@OP That lady is the best friend you ever have

She just told you the truth and nothing more

If I where you I had laugh it off immediately at the spot

I think you're somehow jealous

You couldhave confronted her in a jovial manner

you guys don't understand the story. the thing is that she wasn't asked to compare the two of us. she just said it out of... its just like, imagine now you drew sth and people admired it and commented that it was fine, now weeks passed and another person drew and the same thing happened. now there was no necessacity for comparism whatsoever, but someone said to the face of the first drawer that the arts of the second was better than his... put yourself in the shoe of the guy, how would you feel. seeing that that comparism in ur presence wasn't necessary.

happy Sunday people!! am this kinda person that I don't like taken advantage of, I like airing my mind and I don't like people doing to me what I won't do to them or say to them. last Sunday was my fellowship send forth I.e I was sent forth as per final year, we wore the same ankara uniform of which everyone admired our various styles. now this Sunday was my bestie send forth also, coz we are in different fellowship. she was looking fabulous as well and everyone was admiring her as well, I was present and I also made a remark that she was looking nice. now my room mate now made a statement that my bestie was looking better than I was last Sunday. there was a sudden silence in the room after this statement.
now, I didn't feel jealous or anything like that, I just felt that wasn't right. I mean, she making that kinda statement in my presence, if it were in my absence and maybe she was asked to compare it in my presence, it would av been fine. now me feeling bad about it and feeling like correcting her instead of keeping grudges against her or sth. I drew her attention to it, tryna make her understand where she was wrong but this almost brought an unpleasant verbal exchange between us. she kept insisting that she like saying her mind and if I don't like it I should forget it, was so rude. now, we don't av issues before but she's this kind of person that feels she should be outspoken, and this caused her not to know how to talk. the issue is that, after the whole thing, I felt I shouldn't av confronted her, I felt the whole thing turned childish coz she didn't understand it from my point of view, she felt I was jealous. what do you guys think?

hello guys, I have a friend who was hooked up to a guy, they've been going well for more than a month now... they figured out that the relationship won't work coz of the distance but agreed to travel and see each other, spend some days 2gether and have fun (just as the spirit leads). now just 5 days ago this my friend met a guy and they both fell in love and they're already about going into a relationship. now they both talked about their past, stuffs but my friend failed to tell him about her arrangement with the first guy, being that it wasn't necessary and it won't last. so this recent guy went through her whatsap chat without her consent yesterday and found out about the first guy... he got pissed, he's actually a very jealous person and protective... my friend didn't know whether to be angry that her privacy was invaded or to apologise for not letting him know. now my friend is meant to travel to a nearby state to see the first guy as planned, but this new guy who seem to love her much and want sth that'll last with her told her to terminate her meeting with the first guy or forget about their love. my friend loves this second boy so much, but it's somehow for her to terminate sth that was agreed upon even long b4 the recent guy met her. and the first guy isn't even aware of this. the two guys seem to love her so much

imaging a guy is on a girls matter, they've been close for a while now and he's asking her out. initially, he was told stuffs about her, as at the first discussion they had, getting to know their selves. they talked about their state of origin, their age, hobbies, stuffs like that. but recently sth came up and he mistook her state for another state, when she corrected him that that's not her state, he now started asking her of her state of origin. and am like really? like if you're really interested in somebody, you won't easily forget this kinda simple information about them, especially as you guys are from same tribe... is this an indication that he's fake or it doesn't matter. what do you think

Goldmaxx:
do you school in unn

nope, ESUT

pafo:
Beautiful and intelligent ladies don't think about marriage at 21. They think about careers! Or at least the ones I know.

doesn't mean that the ones that do are less intelligent... it all depend on individual, destiny, time zone... I can marry early and yet be successful, the other way round too, go ask omotola or joke silver. so my dear, let's not narrow it that way

BabbanBura:
Why put herself in this situation in the first place? - seemed like she is after something more than just love - especially as a student who can't find her type of man on campus!

I am in my final year, I want serious sth. I have dated students b4 and it wasn't a tale I'll like to share. they were so childish and had nothing to offer but sex... I'll advice anybody entering university not to date fellow student but face your studies. if you must date, go for sth bigger, someone more matured and has experienced life more than you

pafo:
No man who respects you would want to bleep you on a first date. u are in school and you are already longing for medical doctors. How do you think he sees you?

Am in my final year and am 21, I wana get married early so I ain't playing, I don't want childish stuffs.

I have been single for a while now, although am very beautiful and intelligent, probably coz I live in campus where I don't see my kind of guys and I am always indoors. now my bestie is going out with a guy, who is a doctor, he asked my bestie to get a nice lady for his friend who is also a doctor. that was how I was hooked up with this young, handsome, cool doctor. he was the kind of person I like, as per book worm, exposed, quiet lifestyle, we were just good to go.
he is too blunt, even on the first date, he talked about how he loves sex and haven't done that for a while coz he has been single. same with me, but I didn't disclose my sex life to him
he pestered me to come to his house for a while. I came today. at his house, we talked, we fell in love the more, he offered me snacks to eat, it was cool, till he started making sex advances. now I had it in mind that I won't have sex with him.
we made out, to the point that we were almost unclad, I was carried away but wen he left to get a CD from his drawer, my eyes cleared. my mind started asking me questions like, what do you think you're doing? what if after this the guy dumps you, how will your bestie feel if she hears this, how will your bestie's new boyfriend see her, if he hears this?
I was turned off, and I told him we should dress up, he thought I was joking, he then wanted to continue playfully but I pushed him away and yelled at him that I wanted to go. his mood changed immediately and he agreed, he dropped me in front of my hostel without saying a word to me. now I feel I bleeped up from the beginning.
Now I might be smart at other things, but not at dealing with guys or maybe I am just being too smart not to be played or simply havent met genuine guys as this is the second time I am loosing someone that would av added value to me.
the first was last year December, I met a very rich guy, bastardly rich young man of 29. we just met @ that time, he didn't spend a dime on me, except for the good food I ate on our dates, probably coz I didn't ask for anything, but he promised me the world and stuffs. he never asked me to be his girlfriend tho.
now this guy invited me to an exotic hotel, simply to swim with him. when I got there, I saw a different thing, his friends where there, they were obviously looking rich, and one thing that was making me uncomfortable was that he never disclose a justifiable source of income of himself or his friends. be4 I knew it, he said I should follow him to his room, I didn't want to embarrass him in front of his friends so I did. he now wanted to make love to me, but I hesitated. he wanted to force me but I struggled my way out, embarrassing him among his friends sitting at the parlour of the hotel room. he refused to pick my call since then, but I felt it wasn't my fault...
plss judge this two situations for me, especially the first one and tell me where you think was wrong.

my aunt will say "one of the ways to know a guy that loves you is when he spends on you" that's right, especially when it appears that he has. but I have been wondering how. av been in just 2 serious relationship b4, of which I never expected monetary advantages from them, I feel shy asking, not becoz I am janded tho. but here is my aunt, tryna open my eyes to sth am tryna understand from you guys. Am single now, but lemme imagine I got a new guy. now should I ask him for money to know if he loves me or should I just relax and watch them assume I need the money and send it to me, to know if they love me or not. mind you? I didn't expect from my 2 ex's and they never thought I'll need it. so people, how do they do this... wen I hear about girls that their bf spends on, even b4 sleeping with them, I begin to wonder how they do it. so people what do you think

Been wondering this. left for me I can't, but some people seem to do and I wonder how. same with sex, but the issue with sex is that, its pleasure that's why you can manage it with someone you don't love... so lemme hear your views on this topic.

greiboy:
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greiboy:
A problem statement is not suppose to include a possible answer because that will mean there's no reason to carry out a research


Yours included an answer

Packaging and branding are part of value added attributes of a product meant to differentiate a product from other products in the same product category.

it works exceptionally well in product categories where there are no noticeable difference in the products offered . I.e. in service industry like the telecommunications industry


Now your problem statement isn't specific in any way to begin with, it is very vague

You raised two contrasting views in your problem statement, without actually identify any problem area

I will advise you try to frame this problem statement into research questions first to make sense of it


An example of a research question could be

What is the perception of consumers or general population of aqua packaging?

Thus a problem statement could be "some people are of the view that branding and packaging will constitute problems in the society while some don't. This contrasting views have created a need for further research to be carried out to understand consumer perception of aqua packaging

This is the information that is not available and a problem area worth researching

This aforementioned question is also appropriate because you have managed to raise contrasting views on packaging and branding in your previous statement.


Note

This is only an example because I don't know your research aims and objectives yet or the background to your study..

Cheers

Hello dear, I didn't see your mail... I forgot that I ain't using it again. plss can u help me with ur contact or should I drop mine

greiboy:
A problem statement is not suppose to include a possible answer because that will mean there's no reason to carry out a research


Yours included an answer

Packaging and branding are part of value added attributes of a product meant to differentiate a product from other products in the same product category.

it works exceptionally well in product categories where there are no noticeable difference in the products offered . I.e. in service industry like the telecommunications industry


Now your problem statement isn't specific in any way to begin with, it is very vague

You raised two contrasting views in your problem statement, without actually identify any problem area

I will advise you try to frame this problem statement into research questions first to make sense of it


An example of a research question could be

What is the perception of consumers or general population of aqua packaging?

Thus a problem statement could be "some people are of the view that branding and packaging will constitute problems in the society while some don't. This contrasting views have created a need for further research to be carried out to understand consumer perception of aqua packaging

This is the information that is not available and a problem area worth researching

This aforementioned question is also appropriate because you have managed to raise contrasting views on packaging and branding in your previous statement.


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This is only an example because I don't know your research aims and objectives yet or the background to your study..

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