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atheistandproud:
I had a crush on a girl that we attended the same church. She was two years you younger than I was.

Turns out she had a mad crush on me as well. It was fire and brimstone. The highs were mad and lows were soulcrushing.

Funnily enough, we were together 3 years and didn't have sex. No urgent 2k. No nothing. Sometimes we hung out and said nothing for hours hand in hand, and yet it felt like all the emotions were expressed. We gave each other peace.

Well someone in church found out and there was a huge row. We were separated.

This was ten years ago. Just before my admission into university.

oh young love

Been trying to replicate that ever since but life is bleeped up now.

No love anywhere.

Just sex and urgent 2k.

Barman two bottles please.

Gentle0wavez:
Lol.
I can't lie. I gained NOTHING from my last relationship.

emkz:
I regretted mine, not necessarily for what she did but for my inability to follow my instincts about her which could have prevented the calamity. We were not married but things had been done towards that like introduction and trad before kasala burst. I was happy kasala burst before we went farther.

For anyone who wants to get married, by all means do so...but marry for the right reasons. You first need to understand yourself and your own limitations. If your aim is to have children, perhaps a contractual arrangement suffices. Unfortunately, many marriages today are not different from service contracts: I will provide shelter, food and security while you provide pussy when I want it and how I want it, and you must not provide it to someone else. Or I am marrying you because society expects and would respect me to be married as it shows I am responsible.

The Dutch Prime Minister is single.

Or I'd marry you only because I love you. These are wrong reasons to be married. For a potential spouse, look at compatibility, companionship, communication, character and charisma. Exude these qualities yourself and you shall find it in your potential partner. Love will fade, the butterflies in your stomach shall die, your partner shall irritate you, what then would hold your marriage?

The stories of wayward men and women are told everyday on this forum. Don't let them deter you. There are very good men and women from very good homes who are responsible to be wifed or husbanded. I know this because all my sisters have been married for years and no one has come to report that they have issues with them.

Don't go looking for a wife. Develop yourself and have the values of someone husbandable, creation will link you to your spouse.

In closing, my question to you is:

Why exactly do you want to get married? Are you truly convinced of the answer you give yourself?

Corroro:
Personally I'll say bread and tea , cos every thing has literally added money, imagine small onions going for 100 naira, onions o

writetopoker2:
The magnitude of any marriage ceremony does not determine it success.

Its success is in the hand of God

moscobabs:
Aburo, don't allow any motivational speaker to decieve you, just try your best to be ok bfre 30. Everybody has his/her own time,when ur time reach everything will work for you perfectly.

I built my house at 28,Married at 30 and buy my first car at 31, everything was good till I clock 35. Today things are not working well for me, no friend or family member to help,I'm just thanking God for life and the type of wife he gave me.

Tommorow is not promising, just try ur best and enjoy ur life as it come, but pls never depend on Education,get a vocational skill.God is your strength bro

JesusJesus:
Not properly Arranged

thesicilian:
The only name I've been seeing all over the place is Hon Tokunbo Abiru of the APC. It's almost as if he's unopposed.

Sixstee:
Anything *BU* is goatish and sheepish so my bros' and sis', abegiiii

xrayj:
U like him right
He is a very fine man

internationalman:
That's how rotten the system has gotten.
And it's mainly because relationships nowadays set of on a foundation of sex..

When you are dating the right girl you hardly get tired of her let alone marriage..

You see that my babe I never get tired of her...

In fact the more I see her the stronger my hunger for her gets..

donbachi:
Ordinary keke fare..guys dey even pay ph to lagos for babes without asking for number.u're asking how they do feel.ok,they always feel like cooking a pot of soup for the guys.

techmo:



She used our money to get fat, still used our money to remove the fat

Politics is sweet die!!




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