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Samantha125:
What does it even mean to have a satisfied love life?

It means content. Content MUST be created one way or another!

Counterigbolies:
see the same people who are talking about fairness and justice

If your brother is at fault n it's obvious u will defend him but same u keep shouting fairness and justice

U are just an hypocrite

How did you become so tribalistically twisted? Everything is about "your brother" and "you people". You have no idea where I'm from. I made a universal statement about how supply is usually induced by demand and all of a sudden you're full of "your brother" and "you people". Tribalism is indeed a disease!

ChukwuObe:
Really, So you mean it is justified that someone has an urge for sex badly and he needs to have sex and he pounces on your sister by raping her, to you such is justified just because there is a need? Hahahahaha

This is one of the most stww analogies I've ever seen on Nairaland. Where do you see that he was forcing anybody to take drugs?

Yemmysworld91:
Not again!!!
The desperation for quick wealth ehn
Na wa ooo

It is well with us as a people

It is not desperation per se. There is a need and he presented himself to fill it. He did not create the need. People desperately need something and he's just trying to help them by filling that need

Jayhome24:
Story!
Story!!
Story!!!

She is in pain she didn’t passed the APC screening.

And by the way nothing like obi-kwakwanso again it's dead already since NDC foolishly zone president ticket to South your damn shamed kwakwanso will announce his total retirement from.politics in the next few weeks cus he can never Vice for obi just take that to bank.

You're a real genius. Has anybody ever told you that?

Kanwulia:
Yep! By proxy.
Shine ya eyes well o.😆😆😆😆
Same FUBARA family sending an EARLY massage.👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

Isa different Fubara

Kanwulia:
Minus 1 APC governor! More to come.😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

You sure it is the governor?

Smithwilliams826:
if she is a parasite, she can't leave. If she is not, she will leave.

OP says she MUST leave and if she doesn't, spiritual, spiritual!

PrimadonnaO:
Yes. She has a right to demand fidelity except they swore/signed otherwise.

So it counts for nothing that she lured you into marriage by promising not to be like a typical wife - that it'll basically be a one-sided open marriage?

PrimadonnaO:
He should have also edited his vows.

A marriage isn't a joke. Fidelity is an EXPLICIT covenant both parties agree to in entering marriage.

pocohantas:
Jealousy is a natural feeling and every woman who eventually got to her break point, once thought she wouldn't mind. Annie Idibia knew who Tuface was, but went ahead to marry him. Only to start fighting him everyday. Same with Natasha his new wife. So it is not about them having a RIGHT to be jealous, it is that jealousy is inevitable and natural.

I don't have a problem with a man cheating. He is an adult with will, just as I am. What I have a problem with, is him expecting me not to express my will by kicking him out of my life.

Understand, not that you've done anything o.
The question is, shouldn't she be more relaxed than other wives in view of her unsolicited pre-marital promises? Does she have a right to be just as possessive and jealous??

Which one of them is the federal lawmaker?

pocohantas:
Your expanded post captured my stand on it. Interestingly they hate when you are unruffled by their cheating. They enjoy being the one in charge of the narrative, while the woman crashes out. I don't joke with my peace of mind and I cannot lose it because I married a man. He has to go work out his salvation away from me.

They keep recycling this topic with hope of convincing us to accept it as normal. We no gree, and they are angry. 😂😂😂

PrimadonnaO:
So much talk about "a man cheats without emotions" to psyche women into accepting a dysfunction as a norm.

I really want your take on this:
Suppose the lady so wants to get married she promises u she wouldn't care what you do as long as she's your wife? And not that you asked her to make this promise o. After marriage does she have a right to get jealous if u as much as say hi to another lady??

Mrexcell:
Come here in delta state and see for yourself this is no joke men from isoko and some parts of uhrobo do die in reality till today u don't joke with ancestral covenants.

But that's a STEWW covenant. The most steww covenant on earth. How on earth is it your fault your wife opens it for another man?? If anything u should be compensated, instead you DIE!!! (And nothing happens to her!). Whoever came up with that ought have been hung up by his balls!

So if your rich husband you depend on 100% go get one unserious side girl so, divorce him immediately? Okay o, me I no understand this "spirituality"

SadiqBabaSani:
😄😄😄😄😄😄 You guys are wicked, what I'm thinking right now

I no understand. How e be wicked when u just dey talk obvious fact?

Sheuns:
What did they say about birds of a feather?

They tend to flock together, especially when the feathers' sameness is mainly due to their corruption

DuttyChuks:
western media propagandas

Western media like BBC below or CNN? Most Western media are liberal and woke and hate Trump, and actually act as propaganda arm of IRGC

Merry100:
Biblically, virginity could be proven, and traditionally the old methods of detection were widely accepted and considered valid in Nigeria and many other societies.

The published studies people often rely on today are not absolute conclusions that are superior or cannot be questioned. Many are based largely on self-reports and populations from foreign countries rather than direct medical evaluation. At the same time, traditional practices such as laying a white cloth to observe first blood after intercourse were also forms of observational conclusions developed from repeated experiences, even if they were not universally accurate. No single narrative can be treated as the absolute and unquestionable standard over every other perspective.

The issue is simply that physical signs are not universal enough to serve as definitive proof in every case because some foreign studies suggest that some women are born without a hymen, some hymens may already be stretched before intercourse, and some naturally appear different.

However, there are still women whose hymen remains intact before intercourse and who experience noticeable physical changes during first-time sex. Therefore, the reality is that there are noticeable signs in some women, while there are no noticeable signs in others.

So whether you personally dislike the term or not, the word "virgin" remains a valid and established concept in language, culture, religion, and human society.

I don't know why you keep using the word "foreign", as if human anatomy is different in Nigeria!
I'm surprised you can't already see that your obsession with "virgin" is irrational. Ancients got many things wrong and female virginity is one of them. The ridiculous thing is that they acted as if a girl who had sex had the sex by herself. No concern whatsoever as to who it was that induced her to have sex or wether she was raped.
Once again, it is impossible to disprove a childless woman who says she's never had sex.
You go with what u can verify. U can verify a woman doesn't sleep around and what sort of family she's from and that ought be enough. If you're obsessed with wether anything happened long ago durring choldhood plays then you're the one who has a psychological issue!

CaptainFM1:
MJ himself copied Manu Dibango of Cameroon.

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/3Zkn-8IDdIg

EXACTLY!!! I WAS JUST ABOUT TO POINT OUT IT WAS FROM RIGHT HERE IN AFRICA!
It was first copied in 1982 by MJ, then in 2007 Rihanna copied it also.
Dibango sued them both, MJ in 1983, Rihanna in 2009. He settled with MJ in 1986, and Rihanna in 2009!

Mattswaggz:
Hahaha.....what triggered the war?.... Zelensky has been there long before this war so tell me again exactly what triggered the war.

Triggered ko, Patricia ni. Putin's objectives were clear and he wasn't hiding them. A certain Nigerian Pastor was among those to be arrested.
"Denazification" and "blitzkrieg" were Putin's language!

Merry100:
If that is how you feel, your feelings are valid. But, I won't avoid using the actual term, which is "virgin," just to make it sound softer. Virginity is a valid word. "Virgin" is not an invalid or meaningless term; it is a standard word used in language, law, Scripture and other religious texts.

Other terms like "chaste" or "abstinent" describe behaviour, while "virgin" traditionally refers to someone who has not engaged in sexual intercourse. They may overlap in some contexts, but they are not identical in meaning.

You go with what u can verify. U can't verify if a woman is a virgin, but you can verify she doesn't have a "reputation"!

Nnamdipapa:
They will be super powers at the end of this conflict thanks to the idio.t Trump.

I that case ANY country can be superpower. Nigeria can become superpower by going to Hormuz or any other passagrway and harassing any ship that trys to get through till Insurance companies refuse to insure.
ANY country can do what Iran is doing. Cable doesn't pass only through Hormuz. Any country can start kidnapping leaders and scientists and threatening to kill them, holding the world at ransom.
Does that make them superpower or TERRORISTS??

Mattswaggz:
Lol....lies.

His main aim was to stop Ukraine from joining NATO and to liberate the donbas region which has been achieved so far......the rest are to solidify the primary aims...for instance if Zelensky is removed a pro Russian or neutral govt will immediately end the war.

This is not something that happened decades ago na. So u can't fool anybody
Do you recall that Putin amassed unbelievable amount of troops at Ukraine border and they started marching towards Kyiv with the aim to arrive within a week, with a list of those to be arrested. It was not meant to be a war or even a months-long conflict.
It was NOT about Donbass. That was 2014
The commenter below replies u well.

mayor1814:
But if u hear IRGC of Iran killed netanyahu, u go believe or netanyahu has grown 38 fingers u go believe


https://x./AJENews/status/2052905368385200331?s=20

Seun, Nlfpmod front page material

Merry100:
"Significant" simply means large enough to be meaningful. It could even be 10 out of 100.

The concept of virginity itself cannot simply be "nullified."

Personally, I believe every woman deserves equal human dignity and should not be reduced to her sexual history. That does not mean people cannot personally choose to remain virgins, identify themselves as virgins, or share their experiences.

If you have an issue with it, deal with it. It did not only appear in dictionaries; it also appears in Scripture. Whether you agree with the concept or not, the term will not cease to exist.

A virgin simply refers to a person who has not engaged in sexual intercourse, regardless of hymen status.

Many men and women will continue to choose abstinence and set themselves apart from sexual intercourse. So the term "virgin" can never be cancelled.

Point is that "virgin" is virtually meaningless in any practical, verifiable, provable sense! Any woman who tells you she's a virgin IS a virgin, unless she has a child or you've seen her with a d*ck inside her.
Better terms are "virtuous", "chaste" "celibate" "abstinent", "continent", etc.
None of these terms is dependent on whether you've ever had sex or not

Mattswaggz:
He has achieve most of his aims(especially the primary ones) and still has the upper hand on the others.

Do you know the meaning of "primary". US primary aim in Iran is have them give up enriching uranium. Putin aim was overthrow of Zelinski and bringing Ukraine into Russia's influence. Instead the opposite happened. Ukraine is even more aligned with the West

HacheNoire:
Call it delusion, the reality you cannot call delusion!

Now countries are optimizing military budget and what is the cause? Kuwait or Qatar!

Did you see the statement of your US defense secretary with regards to optimizing military budgets?

Only you is drowned in emotions. Nations have learnt and moved on. They now ONE $2 million dollar missile is not just worth it!

Floating military platforms now old generation! Just readily available floating targets.

No matter the side you take, always appreciate Iran for redefining warfare! Not that you support them, but appreciating their innovations.

Major delusion indeed. Just compare to Ukraine, Iran is practically finished. US can blockade them and they CAN'T even fire anything that'd hit US ship or their airplanes. Harassing ships trying to cross Hormuz and dumping oil in the Gulf are mere criminal acts that any country can perform

HacheNoire:
Iran taught the world one thing!

At your lowest keep those brains working!

Totally deluded fellow, this guy

HacheNoire:
What weird way?

If the word ended today and status quo maintained, who won?

Putin already captured strategic points he wanted. They only holding on and being defensive to protect those areas, and not seeking more! Ukraine is the one trying to reclaim!

If the war ends today, the map of Ukraine will never remain the same!

You really do have a WEIRD way of reasoning. Read below what Putin's initial objectives were according to BBC and Brookings Institution

HacheNoire:
You think people like Putin care about how many soldiers die? He has captured what he wanted months ago and just holding grounds.

If the war ends today and status quo maintained, who lost and who won?

Trump strangled Ukraine and EU tried but could not match up.

You have a weird way of reasoning

Opportuneke:
Hmmmm
Russia won the war eventually.

DuttyChuks:
Putin my man any day! The other news, iran is dealing with US; they must learn not to fight everybody next time.

tiswell:
Man just needed to taught zelensky a bitter lesson

Get yourselves some education below, from BBC and Brookings institution

kingthreat:
It's okay to act matured and shake hands. But for someone that has constantly vilified your personality online, it would be understandable to refuse his handshake. That's why I like Donald Trump, don't think of even coming close if you mock him.

😅
Trump will say "you're a total disgrace as a human being", and likely try to punch him in the mouth but restrained by aides!🤣

PeterObash:
Dangote buys unrefined fuel then sells refined fuel

Stwwd statement. US also buys unrefined from Nigeria and sells SAME unrefined to Dangote.
What we're asking is why/how?