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Floki737:
I finally won…

I can’t believe this, I’m finally the first to comment on a front page post..

I’ve been on nairaland since 2018..

Congrats. I wish Seun kicks out something for FTC. But him too stingy

Mattswaggz:
So it's now an achievement abi?....or do they give awards for it?.

Na achievement o. Ah
Not only that, it brings Goodluck.
If you get FTC go play Bet9ja, you go see

Beloved4heart:
Marriage is not a yardstick for anything ooooo,if I talk my own eeehhhh,5 years now I've not set my eyes on my son, this girl don move on, I still dey emotionless,abegi eee nothing feels good,I believe in love but men looses more ooooooo

I REPEAT MEN LOOSES MORE

You are NOT telling the whole story. Here in Nigeria the child belongs to the man. It is not like abroad where they'll give custody to the mother

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ogolemati:
am not the reason for your frustrations na. Am not the one that made your unfaithful wife na.am not the one that divorced you .focus all the energy on him

Like I said, incapable of articulating a coherent thought

Hezmatosky210:
The problem here is that you try to quantify everything. There are some chilling and quality moments women gives to their men that are not quantifiable. I mean that are priceless. Even nine hundred billion dollars can't buy them. Only that we too dey forget things

Read this several times

Stephen0mozzy, DMCA, cr7lomo, egcymoor, occfx, ogascomax, ogolemati,Kingzjayzee, Goo0dHardDick, nowealth, ultanYoung, tunize, Stephen, 0mozzy

ogolemati:
this is what AI dumped into your skull

This one can't articulate a coherent thought if his life depended on it. All he knows is shinning teeth

Ofekongsk:
Gerraout of here mehn

Neither can this one. All he knows is insult

cr7lomo:
When will u understand that men and women abide by 2 different set of rules...

Men create their status by looking for money...women dont have to....

A broke woman can still get married ...a broken man cant... women can open their legs and make money from randy men...a man cant ... all bills are expected to be handled by the husband , not the wife... of landlord comes for his rent, he doesn't bother the wife , its the husband that carries it... when it comes to food its the husband that carries the burden of providing for it... if the children are chased out of school for school fees , its the man that will receive insult from society... and its very hard for these men to make money... a man without money is like a person without blood ... men cant function without providing... society made it so ... if he cant provide, hes just another statistics... but u see broke women in fine restaurants eating on the mans bill ... as is ur advantage...but u also want men to overlook women that cheat... but women cant overlook broke men... u wanna eat ur cake and have it... it cant work

See this one. All you said is voluntary for a man. He can simply disappear after sex. End of story. A woman can't.
Beyond that, ALL a man has to do is MAKE MONEY! He can be ugly, old, bad character, side chicks, etc.
While a woman that works very hard and makes money will still not get a man unless she's a certain way - young, pretty, submissive, etc AND nobody can go through her periods for her, or get pregnant for her, or go through child birth for her, or nurse, no matter how rich she is. Even Alakija has to go through all that!

DMCA:
u think say na point i wan make relating to wetin una d talk?
na werin come my heads as i see dat part of ur reply na im make me drop wetin come my head out of my own experience

Oh okay. Also see my mass reply to all those guys above

Stephen0mozzy:
Wetin be this na 😂😂

For one, I must commend you for being very mature in your response to the guys who are trying to drag you. Lol.

But you're setting yourself up for more drags with these new responses, abi you dey like the attention ni?

Secondly, that man is polygamous in nature doesn't mean that the civilization he now lives in allows him to have sex with all women randomly without consequence. OP's point was that if a man desires to have sex, he usually has to get it in exchange for what he toiled for - his resources - while the woman only gives her consent, for both of them to have their reproductive organs touch each other.

Mind you, both of them enjoy this session.

You earlier compared Humans to animals in the wild, that world ended with the Neanderthal.

Lastly, men want to do DNA, because most women can't even give fidelity to one partner, and the man do not want to be responsible for an offspring thay they did not father. It only says something about the irresponsibility of women, not the man.

tunize:
I like to respect people's opinion but still you're not making sense and these is not a topic opened for discussion, the moment I see anyone already tagging sex as a benefit I see low level thinkers

SultanYoung:
Is this your only defense and is that all you have to offer.
Sister you better be productive.
And if sex and this things you stated are all you get to offer then a man can get this same value from a sex worker without having to go through all the emotional stress and and high spending.

zinowealth:
Yet women won’t choose to spend themselves just on one person. They’d rather tarnish their reputation more cos of greed

Goo0dHardDick:
Exactly my point. Sex is the only thing a woman has to offer? Meaning there's absolutely nothing a woman is giving to the man in relationship. She's only there for what she's benefiting which includes sex too.

ogolemati:

Kingzjayzee:
you well at all?

ogascomax:
Of all things you could think your cost the weakest argument. How is dating you improve any man's status? At my age if a woman had not gotten married nor have a serious man she will be ashamed in a social gathering. Men are wired differently. I don't think you can contribute any meaningful thing in a man's life.
What do you think you can contribute to a man's life that you think he is struggling to do for himself. That is the difference between a smart and an intelligent woman from an ordinary woman.

occfx:
Una too dey selfish... You no benefit the same sex, companionship, status (see my man) etc? Without spending shishi?

segcymoor:
But single father dey na . Some woman left their children and husband go marry for money oo

Thanks.
My point is, all the holes are about the same why must a man be polygamous?
And why not just raise a child, why must it be HIS child?
The answer is that man is an ANIMAL and subject to the same drives as animals. He can't use his bigger brain to override these drives. He can't reason that all the holes are same and therefore no need to be polygamous. He can't reason that raising a child is raising a child wether the sperm was his or not.

ALSO:
A man can have sex and simply walk away and go brag to his friends, and go find another woman. End of story. A woman CAN'T. We have to deal with possible pregnancy, childbirth, nursing the baby, damage to our reputation, etc.
ALSO:
A man that has a girlfriend or two is seen as a player; it is an achievement.
A woman that has a boyfriend or two is seen as a whọre not a player, much worse than a chaste woman saving herself.
ALSO
"He who finds a wife finds a treasure and obtains favor from the Lord" Proverbs 18:22
ALSO
Whatever you give a woman she will make greater:
If you give her sperm she'll give you a baby
If you give her a house she'll give you a home
If you give her groceries she'll give you a meal
If you give her a smile she'll give.you her heart
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her
~ William Golding

cr7lomo:
In the same animal kingdom...do u see lions hunt for food to give the lioness to feed b4 she allows him to mate... or do u see any female animal fight the male animal for mating with another female ....

Yes, the female chooses who to mate with based on something he brings or potentially will bring for her. She doesn't choose based on nothing.

Also:
A man can have sex and simply walk away and go brag to his friends, and go find another woman. End of story. A woman CAN'T. We have to deal with possible pregnancy, childbirth, nursing the baby, damage to our reputation, etc.
ALSO:
A man that has a girlfriend or two is seen as a player; it is an achievement.
A woman that has a boyfriend or two is seen as a whọre not a player, much worse than a chaste woman saving herself.
ALSO
"He who finds a wife finds a treasure and obtains favor from the Lord" Proverbs 18:22
ALSO
Whatever you give a woman she will make greater:
If you give her sperm she'll give you a baby
If you give her a house she'll give you a home
If you give her groceries she'll give you a meal
If you give her a smile she'll give.you her heart
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her
~ William Golding

SmartPolician:
I'm ashamed of the person who dropped this comment. This is exactly why men say that women have fi-sh brains.

And what kind of brain do you have, genius?
You didn't make a single point, only insult.

A man can have sex and simply walk away and go brag to his friends, and go find another woman. End of story. A woman CAN'T. We have to deal with possible pregnancy, childbirth, nursing the baby, damage to our reputation, etc.
ALSO:
A man that has a girlfriend or two is seen as a player; it is an achievement.
A woman that has a boyfriend or two is seen as a whọre not a player, much worse than a chaste woman saving herself.
ALSO
"He who finds a wife finds a treasure and obtains favor from the Lord" Proverbs 18:22
ALSO
Whatever you give a woman she will make greater:
If you give her sperm she'll give you a baby
If you give her a house she'll give you a home
If you give her groceries she'll give you a meal
If you give her a smile she'll give.you her heart
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her
~ William Golding

banku:
I think you made one of the best points any intelligent lady could give.

The problem for women is that time has changed. Children are no longer important in men's life as they become selfish, ingrates just waiting to inherit and if their father live too long, find ways to dispose of him.

The days women remain loyal friends and compassion are long gone. Women used to serve, flatter and care for men after the birth of children so that men can serve and care for them forever. This was why they said women were smarter!

Today, it is dumb women who claim they are smarter and opened men's EYES. Men discover that women are users. This generation call dutiful men SIMP! Got it?

Thanks.
Also this below:
A man can have sex and simply walk away and go brag to his friends, and go find another woman. End of story. A woman CAN'T. We have to deal with possible pregnancy, childbirth, nursing the baby, damage to our reputation, etc.
ALSO:
A man that has a girlfriend or two is seen as a player; it is an achievement.
A woman that has a boyfriend or two is seen as a whọre not a player, much worse than a chaste woman saving herself
ALSO
"He who finds a wife finds a treasure and obtains favor from the Lord" Proverbs 18:22
ALSO
Whatever you give a woman she will make greater:
If you give her sperm she'll give you a baby
If you give her a house she'll give you a home
If you give her groceries she'll give you a meal
If you give her a smile she'll give.you her heart
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her
~ William Golding

VoiceHenshaw27:
All you listed so far are not expenses. "Period pains" is a normal health experience that almost if not every women go through. If you are talking about companionship, Pet provide genuine companionship and emotional comfort. Moreover, if you mean romantic or intimate companionship, then a woman isn't necessarily the only possibility either.

Talking about sex, sexual pleasure is not exclusive to men. Both man and woman can enjoy sex. Even the cosmetic💄is still provided by man, woman is just a wearing makeup. Lastly, i don't understand what you mean by "tarnish our image".

A man can have sex and simply walk away and go brag to his friends, and go find another woman. End of story. A woman CAN'T. We have to deal with possible pregnancy, childbirth, nursing the baby, damage tonour reputation etc.
ALSO:
A man that has a girlfriend or two is seen as a player; it is an achievement.
A woman that has a boyfriend or two is seen as a whọre not a player, much worse than a chaste woman saving herself
ALSO
"He who finds a wife finds a treasure and obtains favor from the Lord" Proverbs 18:22
ALSO
Whatever you give a woman she will make greater:
If you give her sperm she'll give you a baby
If you give her a house she'll give you a home
If you give her groceries she'll give you a meal
If you give her a smile she'll give.you her heart
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her
~ William Golding

ZeekrX9:
Women brings status? This is NEW.

A man that has a girlfriend or two is seen as a player; it is an achievement.
A woman that has a boyfriend or two is seen as a whọre not a player, much worse than a chaste woman saving herself
ALSO
"He who finds a wife finds a treasure and obtains favor from the Lord" Proverbs 18:22
ALSO
Whatever you give a woman she will make greater:
If you give her sperm she'll give you a baby
If you give her a house she'll give you a home
If you give her groceries she'll give you a meal
If you give her a smile she'll give.you her heart
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her
~ William Golding

profmallor:
Ironically, the animals that stay away from fighting over territory and females live much longer and more peaceful lives. While it may be genetically encoded for most male species to seek females, those who make the conscious choice not to are at no disadvantage what so ever, infact they live better lives.

How? The idea is to have your genes survive you, meaning part of you never died.
Give example of animals that don't fight for females and live longer

ufotunang:
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Women enjoy the sex the more....

Man has freewill and can simply walk away from any responsibility after sex. We woman CAN'T!

DMCA:
if woman no get sense to a certain degree, i no fit dive inside d hormuz waters at all
because, after post-nut clarity knack me chai... regret fit gum me for like 2 weeks wey i fit qualify to go real Yaba because of depression.

You miss the point dear Yaba. Why are men saying they want DNA test to be sure the child is there's?
Why are men polygamous? Are all the holes not about the same?

Belurved1:
Oga, remove sex cos it's not free, even the married men are paying in kind..

Madam they said they're benefiting NOTHING!
Said they're spending and benefiting nothing

JimD:
Skewed logic. Man has free will. There's nothing like the woman takes care of the child. The woman carries the child for nine months, breastfeeds for a year. But the man is largely responsible for the child's upkeep for 18 years at least.

Exactly, man has freewill and can simply walk away from any responsibility after sex. We woman CAN'T!

eagleonearth:
very unintelligent answer.

Ok, give an intelligent one genius.
Also to this below

QuinQ:
Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!

ayusco85:
Your own candidate is not a confirmed thief abi

At least he does not have 8 wives and 78 children, PLUS he has already finished his own stealing while Atiku is still hungry

LouisdeFrance:
My forefathers were kings as I am a de France. If you are truly laughing then its at yourself because you've already admitted your father was a poor man. If your father's lineage goes back to poor forefathers then more than likely they were slaves in West Africa. Igbos have royalty, nobility and chieftain titles but also peasants and slaves. A slave becomes a member of the tribe after several generations in some West African cultures to the status of a peasant which is the second lowest member. Many Creole families came from nobility even the Cajun were from well to do families in France. Christ was the big man of Creole culture which we inherited from our French ancestors. Our beloved ancestors who followed Christ and put God first.

We freed your women and made wives out of them, precious children and a distinct community. The image you have in your mind of a pale skinned King Louis is a lie. But if we were to speak on this as truth then it wouldn't bother me if my great grandfather King Louis was a pale skinned man. There is no God but God whom has no form, no shape, no color and we call God a He out of order. The masculine energy sets up order, discipline and fatherly love.

Honor thy father and mother no matter what they look like. There's gifts in every group, talent in every group, beauty in every group and warriors in every group. There's nobility in every group and de France is royal nobility.

😅🤣😂
Ok, where did offsprings of all these rapes below go? Or were the placagers, slavers, and rapists using comdoms?

DMCA:
More reason why u suppose epp am preserve their secret bloodline from him own branch
long live louisde9th via secret decendants

I fit epp am small if he stop being pompous

GenFunction:
We do o
You think say na everybody we Dey follow these days because of sex?
That’s why I said man na higher specie

OK, why is it said men are polygamous by nature?
Why do you do DNA tests

GenFunction:
Man is a higher specie my dear.

That's not the question you were asked dear.
How come when it comes to eating and sex you don't do higher specie?

Goo0dHardDick:
WTF is they benefit sex? The woman benefitted graphic design and firewood I guess? A man doesn't benefit sex! The woman does!!

What is you spend yourselves?

U make your hair, nail and face for yourself and yourself alone. How's that the man's business? Imagine a man telling you he is cutting his hair, brushing his teeth and cutting his fingernails as a way of making it seem like he's doing that for you? How logical does that sound to you? Those are what is expected of any sane human to do!

Period pain and pregnancy are both natural and expected for every woman to undergo. How's that what a man benefit from?

How's your period pain a man's business? What does pregnancy has to do with the question on the post? Even animal do give birth because it is natural.

tunize:
like this you just made sense? '' silence is golden''

cr7lomo:
We also do goals to hair salon for our hair , period is human nature for women... sex, u can use condoms or preventive pills ... all u mentioned...u have them already...
For men, we have to make the money to be able to relate with a woman ...and making money is very very very hard... some die while trying to make it

2special:
You see how human being dey think.

JimD:
You literally made his point: Sex. Sex is the only thing women offer. And in fact, men do all the work. Companionship is abstract. Dog can be man's companion. Status has to do with money. There are so many married men with zero status because their pockets are empty.

Mattswaggz:
Meaning relationship in just some form of Ashawo business to you or what?.

Thewrath:
At bolded,but that is all women want/need from a man,that also explains why a woman can meet a man today and marry tomorrow!

Women also enjoy sex,even more….they just like to pretend because research has shown that they masturbate more….besides,sex is the only thing they can offer to the man.

Woman marry who they can or whoever is ready.
Men when who Dey love.

GenFunction:
because they call it ‘menstruation’ you think na men Dey cause the cramps?
Omo

Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!

LouisdeFrance:
You're still trying to make me an Igbo and absolutely nothing is wrong with being an Igbo. I won't get pulled into tribal comparisons just point out your delusional behavior thinking you're a Hebrew. No Creole is claiming to be a Hebrew because Creole is a distinct culture. Sure Creole has African mix but its French rooted. Go online to social media sites and find Creole groups and see for yourself. No Creole claims to Igbo or Hebrew only Creole. Healthy self esteem in one's ancestry is what should be developed in every child.

But slavers and enslaved are your ancestry, or am I missing something? Where did your African and European blood come from? Your original European ancestors in Louisiana were either slavers or condoning and benefiting from slavery, and your original African ancestors in Louisiana were enslaved or formerly enslaved.
What am I missing? What does "French rooted" mean? Do you speak French? Have you ever been to France? Does France recognize you in any way? Besides, I thought we were going by DNA??

DMCA:
una go do contract.
na donate him go donate that microscopic thing wey resemble tadpole make u extend him bloodline.
den u go go find ur side piston wey go dey carry out reciprocating motion for ur engine make u d dey alright.
quality piston made in Africa.

Nah, he's too old for all that. He's about 100 years old

Badb0y4lyf:
Hahaha if you call Atiku a confirm thief what will you call Bobo Chicago tge 1st class account at Deloitte

At least Bobo doesn't have 8 wives and 73 children, plus, he has already presidentially stolen - he's no longer as hungry as Atiku who is yet to presidentially steal!